No One is Ready for This Coming War - Navy SEAL Andy Stumpf

I'm going to play a little trick for the I'm going to play a little trick for the first time ever in this studio to make first time ever in this studio to make first time ever in this studio to make you feel a little bit more at home. So, you feel a little bit more at home. So, you feel a little bit more at home. So, you're a man who operated largely in the you're a man who operated largely in the you're a man who operated largely in the dark. dark. dark. When you are doing raids, when you would When you are doing raids, when you would When you are doing raids, when you would have been operating, I imagine some have been operating, I imagine some have been operating, I imagine some stuff would have been by day, but other stuff would have been by day, but other stuff would have been by day, but other stuff would have been by night. Unless stuff would have been by night. Unless stuff would have been by night. Unless there was an extremely compelling reason there was an extremely compelling reason there was an extremely compelling reason to do so exclusively at night. Mhm. to do so exclusively at night. Mhm. to do so exclusively at night. Mhm. Oh, nice. Here we go, transitioning Oh, nice. Here we go, transitioning Oh, nice. Here we go, transitioning evening. evening. evening. And now we're in a blood moon. You said And now we're in a blood moon. You said And now we're in a blood moon. You said you didn't go out at full moon. you didn't go out at full moon. you didn't go out at full moon. Oh, okay. Cuz there's too much Oh, okay. Cuz there's too much Oh, okay. Cuz there's too much visibility. visibility. visibility. >> So, you know, even though you can see at >> So, you know, even though you can see at >> So, you know, even though you can see at night night night with night vision goggles, we constantly with night vision goggles, we constantly with night vision goggles, we constantly we're looking at the illumination, the we're looking at the illumination, the we're looking at the illumination, the external illumination, because at some external illumination, because at some external illumination, because at some point people can almost see you as well point people can almost see you as well point people can almost see you as well as you can see them with the as you can see them with the as you can see them with the technological advantage. technological advantage. technological advantage. So, we would avoid the high illumination So, we would avoid the high illumination So, we would avoid the high illumination nights, and obviously aviators and nights, and obviously aviators and nights, and obviously aviators and things that fly that could be backlit things that fly that could be backlit things that fly that could be backlit against those, they try to avoid it as against those, they try to avoid it as against those, they try to avoid it as well. What well. What well. What are you surprised by with are you surprised by with are you surprised by with what's happening with warfare over the what's happening with warfare over the what's happening with warfare over the last few years? Like, I can't work out last few years? Like, I can't work out last few years? Like, I can't work out whether technology is making things more whether technology is making things more whether technology is making things more humane or more dangerous. I think an humane or more dangerous. I think an humane or more dangerous. I think an equal measure of both. I've had a lot of equal measure of both. I've had a lot of equal measure of both. I've had a lot of conversations about this with guys conversations about this with guys conversations about this with guys during the time period that I served. during the time period that I served. during the time period that I served. I'd never for a single second I'd never for a single second I'd never for a single second thought about the danger drone warfare. thought about the danger drone warfare. thought about the danger drone warfare. And I don't mean drones to us was And I don't mean drones to us was And I don't mean drones to us was predators or reapers or overhead predators or reapers or overhead predators or reapers or overhead surveillance platforms that had great, surveillance platforms that had great, surveillance platforms that had great, you know, sensor pods and you know, sensor pods and you know, sensor pods and they could pipe stuff down and you could they could pipe stuff down and you could they could pipe stuff down and you could have the ability to look at what they have the ability to look at what they have the ability to look at what they can see. It was great for situational can see. It was great for situational can see. It was great for situational awareness. awareness. awareness. I never once was concerned about I never once was concerned about I never once was concerned about somebody somebody somebody essentially ordering a drone on the essentially ordering a drone on the essentially ordering a drone on the internet. Not that that's how it's being internet. Not that that's how it's being internet. Not that that's how it's being built in or made in Ukraine specifically built in or made in Ukraine specifically built in or made in Ukraine specifically and Iran has some smaller ones as well. and Iran has some smaller ones as well. and Iran has some smaller ones as well. But having that be a kinetic option on But having that be a kinetic option on But having that be a kinetic option on the battlefield, didn't think about it a the battlefield, didn't think about it a the battlefield, didn't think about it a single time. And I am glad that I am not single time. And I am glad that I am not single time. And I am glad that I am not a part of that because a part of that because a part of that because I mean, I have an internet connection I mean, I have an internet connection I mean, I have an internet connection just like anybody else. And I I don't go just like anybody else. And I I don't go just like anybody else. And I I don't go searching for those videos, but searching for those videos, but searching for those videos, but sometimes they find you and people sometimes they find you and people sometimes they find you and people running away from a basically a DJI running away from a basically a DJI running away from a basically a DJI drone drone drone that detonates. Mhm. that detonates. Mhm. that detonates. Mhm. >> [clears throat] >> [clears throat] >> [clears throat] >> Uh >> Uh >> Uh a hard pass, the hardest of passes being a hard pass, the hardest of passes being a hard pass, the hardest of passes being involved in that. I had read that field involved in that. I had read that field involved in that. I had read that field medics medics medics are not getting the same sort of trauma are not getting the same sort of trauma are not getting the same sort of trauma training that they used to because the training that they used to because the training that they used to because the kind of injuries that soldiers are kind of injuries that soldiers are kind of injuries that soldiers are getting on the battlefield are totally getting on the battlefield are totally getting on the battlefield are totally different now. different now. different now. Well, Well, Well, towards the tail end towards the tail end towards the tail end of Afghanistan and Iraq, it was very IED of Afghanistan and Iraq, it was very IED of Afghanistan and Iraq, it was very IED heavy. So, it would be explosive wounds heavy. So, it would be explosive wounds heavy. So, it would be explosive wounds which are really gnarly. Um not that any which are really gnarly. Um not that any which are really gnarly. Um not that any kind of wound is particularly great. Um kind of wound is particularly great. Um kind of wound is particularly great. Um but it just it just tears things to but it just it just tears things to but it just it just tears things to pieces. And most of the stuff I'm seeing pieces. And most of the stuff I'm seeing pieces. And most of the stuff I'm seeing with the drone warfare is kind of the with the drone warfare is kind of the with the drone warfare is kind of the same. It's explosive base. So, maybe same. It's explosive base. So, maybe same. It's explosive base. So, maybe I don't know. I'm not sure. It might be I don't know. I'm not sure. It might be I don't know. I'm not sure. It might be more aggressive. It might be might be more aggressive. It might be might be more aggressive. It might be might be able to be more powerful. I don't know. able to be more powerful. I don't know. able to be more powerful. I don't know. But, uh But, uh But, uh Yeah. Uh well, what have you been Yeah. Uh well, what have you been Yeah. Uh well, what have you been surprised by? What have you been able to surprised by? What have you been able to surprised by? What have you been able to predict the direction that warfare was predict the direction that warfare was predict the direction that warfare was going to go in? No, because at the same going to go in? No, because at the same going to go in? No, because at the same time with like let's take Ukraine as an time with like let's take Ukraine as an time with like let's take Ukraine as an example. At the same time that they're example. At the same time that they're example. At the same time that they're at the cutting edge of what's going on at the cutting edge of what's going on at the cutting edge of what's going on with electronics with electronics with electronics there are videos of guys running through there are videos of guys running through there are videos of guys running through trenches trenches trenches fighting at distances between you and I. fighting at distances between you and I. fighting at distances between you and I. Like just putting AKs around a corner Like just putting AKs around a corner Like just putting AKs around a corner which, by the way which, by the way which, by the way kind of a fan of clearing a corner that kind of a fan of clearing a corner that kind of a fan of clearing a corner that way. Like Hello, is anybody here? God, I way. Like Hello, is anybody here? God, I way. Like Hello, is anybody here? God, I Not advisable, honestly. I mean, maybe Not advisable, honestly. I mean, maybe Not advisable, honestly. I mean, maybe like peek No. It's a high-risk strategy. like peek No. It's a high-risk strategy. like peek No. It's a high-risk strategy. It is controversial. I'm not here to It is controversial. I'm not here to It is controversial. I'm not here to tell anybody how to party, so you do tell anybody how to party, so you do tell anybody how to party, so you do you. you. you. But, I mean, so we're talking back to But, I mean, so we're talking back to But, I mean, so we're talking back to World War I and World War II, but at the World War I and World War II, but at the World War I and World War II, but at the same time at the leading edge of same time at the leading edge of same time at the leading edge of electronics electronics electronics in the same battle space. in the same battle space. in the same battle space. What? What? What? So, it's this blend of innovation and So, it's this blend of innovation and So, it's this blend of innovation and evolution and then humans getting it on evolution and then humans getting it on evolution and then humans getting it on like eye to eye. like eye to eye. like eye to eye. Do you think we're over-hyping AI in Do you think we're over-hyping AI in Do you think we're over-hyping AI in warfare? Cuz each technological warfare? Cuz each technological warfare? Cuz each technological development is basically touted as the development is basically touted as the development is basically touted as the end of one era and the beginning of end of one era and the beginning of end of one era and the beginning of something different. something different. something different. I don't know. The way it's been I don't know. The way it's been I don't know. The way it's been described to me is that there's phases described to me is that there's phases described to me is that there's phases that AI is coming in. that AI is coming in. that AI is coming in. >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> Um right now there's a human in the >> Um right now there's a human in the >> Um right now there's a human in the loop, meaning a human making the final loop, meaning a human making the final loop, meaning a human making the final decision maybe assisted by AI. decision maybe assisted by AI. decision maybe assisted by AI. Then there's human on the loop, Then there's human on the loop, Then there's human on the loop, meaning meaning meaning kind of just over watching the AI. And kind of just over watching the AI. And kind of just over watching the AI. And then the phase that I think terrifies then the phase that I think terrifies then the phase that I think terrifies everybody is human out of the loop. everybody is human out of the loop. everybody is human out of the loop. And I think that's where a lot of the And I think that's where a lot of the And I think that's where a lot of the stuff when it came to Mix Claude is at stuff when it came to Mix Claude is at stuff when it came to Mix Claude is at Anthropic. I think that Anthropic. I think that Anthropic. I think that I want to believe that they stood their I want to believe that they stood their I want to believe that they stood their ground. Um, and again, I only have ground. Um, and again, I only have ground. Um, and again, I only have information based off what I could information based off what I could information based off what I could consume on the internet, which, you consume on the internet, which, you consume on the internet, which, you know, take all that with a grain of know, take all that with a grain of know, take all that with a grain of salt. But it seems like they stood their salt. But it seems like they stood their salt. But it seems like they stood their ground morally from a ground morally from a ground morally from a intelligence perspective or the ability intelligence perspective or the ability intelligence perspective or the ability for mass surveillance and then getting for mass surveillance and then getting for mass surveillance and then getting to that point where humans being off the to that point where humans being off the to that point where humans being off the loop. Cuz if we take humans off the loop. Cuz if we take humans off the loop. Cuz if we take humans off the loop, I don't know how you combat that loop, I don't know how you combat that loop, I don't know how you combat that as an adversary as an adversary as an adversary without doing exactly the same thing. without doing exactly the same thing. without doing exactly the same thing. Cuz if it can think and make decisions Cuz if it can think and make decisions Cuz if it can think and make decisions faster than any human that's any of faster than any human that's any of faster than any human that's any of those earlier phases, those earlier phases, those earlier phases, then you're already at a tactical then you're already at a tactical then you're already at a tactical disadvantage. disadvantage. disadvantage. And then we end up working for robots And then we end up working for robots And then we end up working for robots for our daily water ration, and I don't for our daily water ration, and I don't for our daily water ration, and I don't think that's great. I don't want think that's great. I don't want think that's great. I don't want Terminator to become a documentary. Terminator to become a documentary. Terminator to become a documentary. Which we might be on that trajectory. Which we might be on that trajectory. Which we might be on that trajectory. Yeah, I uh Yeah, I uh Yeah, I uh Coming from a SEAL background, how do Coming from a SEAL background, how do Coming from a SEAL background, how do you feel about AI basically being you feel about AI basically being you feel about AI basically being involved in involved in involved in life and death decisions for operators? life and death decisions for operators? life and death decisions for operators? I don't know how it would be at the I don't know how it would be at the I don't know how it would be at the level that we operated at. I mean, level that we operated at. I mean, level that we operated at. I mean, broadly, to speak broadly. And again, I broadly, to speak broadly. And again, I broadly, to speak broadly. And again, I am dated, so I don't know exactly how am dated, so I don't know exactly how am dated, so I don't know exactly how they are interfacing AI right now. they are interfacing AI right now. they are interfacing AI right now. The job was to, at some point, The job was to, at some point, The job was to, at some point, a lot of other entities would find, fix, a lot of other entities would find, fix, a lot of other entities would find, fix, locate an individual, fix them in a locate an individual, fix them in a locate an individual, fix them in a location, and our job was to get to that location, and our job was to get to that location, and our job was to get to that location and then location and then location and then finish. And that doesn't mean kill. finish. And that doesn't mean kill. finish. And that doesn't mean kill. Sometimes it does. It largely depends on Sometimes it does. It largely depends on Sometimes it does. It largely depends on the actions that the individual would the actions that the individual would the actions that the individual would take, but solve the problem, which means take, but solve the problem, which means take, but solve the problem, which means cross the threshold of a door somewhere. cross the threshold of a door somewhere. cross the threshold of a door somewhere. I don't know how AI does that for you. I I don't know how AI does that for you. I I don't know how AI does that for you. I think AI can do a lot of stuff, think AI can do a lot of stuff, think AI can do a lot of stuff, especially in the electronic spectrum. especially in the electronic spectrum. especially in the electronic spectrum. Um Um Um I mean, I don't know. I mean, I guess I mean, I don't know. I mean, I guess I mean, I don't know. I mean, I guess you could in you know, those you could in you know, those you could in you know, those Raytheon dogs or whatever they are, the Raytheon dogs or whatever they are, the Raytheon dogs or whatever they are, the robotic type stuff. I mean, maybe it robotic type stuff. I mean, maybe it robotic type stuff. I mean, maybe it gets to that level and maybe that gets to that level and maybe that gets to that level and maybe that removes the operator from that or removes the operator from that or removes the operator from that or they're controlling him like the they're controlling him like the they're controlling him like the the drone operators are now, but I don't the drone operators are now, but I don't the drone operators are now, but I don't think it's at that level yet. So, I think it's at that level yet. So, I think it's at that level yet. So, I think it helps more in the planning and think it helps more in the planning and think it helps more in the planning and analysis process than anything. But, as analysis process than anything. But, as analysis process than anything. But, as long as there are people still crossing long as there are people still crossing long as there are people still crossing thresholds of doors, thresholds of doors, thresholds of doors, I don't know how much impact AI is going I don't know how much impact AI is going I don't know how much impact AI is going to have. Could choosing to cross the to have. Could choosing to cross the to have. Could choosing to cross the threshold of that door or not or the threshold of that door or not or the threshold of that door or not or the time to do it or not and targeting and time to do it or not and targeting and time to do it or not and targeting and planning planning planning >> Yeah. the fact that that's done by AI >> Yeah. the fact that that's done by AI >> Yeah. the fact that that's done by AI now puts operators at the mercy of the now puts operators at the mercy of the now puts operators at the mercy of the decisions that maybe humans weren't decisions that maybe humans weren't decisions that maybe humans weren't involved in. It'll never make the involved in. It'll never make the involved in. It'll never make the decision as the go no go criteria. It decision as the go no go criteria. It decision as the go no go criteria. It will spit like intelligence will spit like intelligence will spit like intelligence the intelligence community can present the intelligence community can present the intelligence community can present packages packages packages and you can, you know, in your mission and you can, you know, in your mission and you can, you know, in your mission planning process, you are looking at planning process, you are looking at planning process, you are looking at every phase of the operation. You're every phase of the operation. You're every phase of the operation. You're planning planning planning mostly on contingencies, but you're mostly on contingencies, but you're mostly on contingencies, but you're looking at all of those things. The go looking at all of those things. The go looking at all of those things. The go no go is not based on no go is not based on no go is not based on an intelligence package. It's based on an intelligence package. It's based on an intelligence package. It's based on essentially the ground force commander essentially the ground force commander essentially the ground force commander saying this meets the criteria. Now, saying this meets the criteria. Now, saying this meets the criteria. Now, there are exceptions to that, I would there are exceptions to that, I would there are exceptions to that, I would say. Let's say if you are looking for say. Let's say if you are looking for say. Let's say if you are looking for somebody and there's a trigger, somebody and there's a trigger, somebody and there's a trigger, a cell phone pops up on a network and a cell phone pops up on a network and a cell phone pops up on a network and you've been looking for that thing like you've been looking for that thing like you've been looking for that thing like that's like, "Hey, we might need to go that's like, "Hey, we might need to go that's like, "Hey, we might need to go like right now." But, other than that, like right now." But, other than that, like right now." But, other than that, the decision is going to be based off the decision is going to be based off the decision is going to be based off when you think it is best suited for you when you think it is best suited for you when you think it is best suited for you and least suited for the person that and least suited for the person that and least suited for the person that you're going after. Mhm. you're going after. Mhm. you're going after. Mhm. Tell me you saw this ghost mammal thing. Tell me you saw this ghost mammal thing. Tell me you saw this ghost mammal thing. Oh, you mean how we can find heartbeats Oh, you mean how we can find heartbeats Oh, you mean how we can find heartbeats from space? Yes. Yeah, I'm sure missing from space? Yes. Yeah, I'm sure missing from space? Yes. Yeah, I'm sure missing hikers would have appreciated if that hikers would have appreciated if that hikers would have appreciated if that got used for them as well, too. got used for them as well, too. got used for them as well, too. You know, like I don't You know, like I don't You know, like I don't >> This is the wildest [ __ ] Yeah, but >> This is the wildest [ __ ] Yeah, but >> This is the wildest [ __ ] Yeah, but that's because it you found it on the that's because it you found it on the that's because it you found it on the internet. internet. internet. I saw Bigfoot on the internet one time, I saw Bigfoot on the internet one time, I saw Bigfoot on the internet one time, too, and that doesn't mean it's real. too, and that doesn't mean it's real. too, and that doesn't mean it's real. You don't think that this is what they You don't think that this is what they You don't think that this is what they did? No. Wow. Okay, no. Um does it sound did? No. Wow. Okay, no. Um does it sound did? No. Wow. Okay, no. Um does it sound awesome? Yes. awesome? Yes. awesome? Yes. Would it do I want that tech to exist Would it do I want that tech to exist Would it do I want that tech to exist Well, now was it from space or was it Well, now was it from space or was it Well, now was it from space or was it supposedly from an aircraft? supposedly from an aircraft? supposedly from an aircraft? >> Supposedly from an aircraft. Um, I do >> Supposedly from an aircraft. Um, I do >> Supposedly from an aircraft. Um, I do not want to tip my hand. Again, I'm very not want to tip my hand. Again, I'm very not want to tip my hand. Again, I'm very dated, but I don't want to tip my hand dated, but I don't want to tip my hand dated, but I don't want to tip my hand on any of the Like to me, it is on any of the Like to me, it is on any of the Like to me, it is essential to maintain the TTPs, tactics, essential to maintain the TTPs, tactics, essential to maintain the TTPs, tactics, techniques, and procedures. techniques, and procedures. techniques, and procedures. There are There are There are >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> ways and means >> ways and means >> ways and means that I think aviators have that I think aviators have that I think aviators have to identify their location that would be to identify their location that would be to identify their location that would be picked up by aircraft and probably the picked up by aircraft and probably the picked up by aircraft and probably the higher you are, the better you would higher you are, the better you would higher you are, the better you would have for line of sight and things like have for line of sight and things like have for line of sight and things like that. that. that. Do I think it's capable of doing it in a Do I think it's capable of doing it in a Do I think it's capable of doing it in a heartbeat? Maybe, but I don't think heartbeat? Maybe, but I don't think heartbeat? Maybe, but I don't think we're there yet. I really don't. we're there yet. I really don't. we're there yet. I really don't. There are other less complex ways to do There are other less complex ways to do There are other less complex ways to do that. that. that. >> You mean instead of quantum >> You mean instead of quantum >> You mean instead of quantum electrodynamics fixed to the front of an electrodynamics fixed to the front of an electrodynamics fixed to the front of an Apache helicopter detecting a heartbeat Apache helicopter detecting a heartbeat Apache helicopter detecting a heartbeat and getting rid of all of the gerbils and getting rid of all of the gerbils and getting rid of all of the gerbils and dogs and enemies that are out there and dogs and enemies that are out there and dogs and enemies that are out there zeroing in on this one guy from 40 miles zeroing in on this one guy from 40 miles zeroing in on this one guy from 40 miles away to pick him up and extract him. So, away to pick him up and extract him. So, away to pick him up and extract him. So, when the episode comes out, can you just when the episode comes out, can you just when the episode comes out, can you just dub me saying what you just said, but I dub me saying what you just said, but I dub me saying what you just said, but I >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Cuz yeah, so it's exactly >> Cuz yeah, so it's exactly >> Cuz yeah, so it's exactly I don't know why you think that this is I don't know why you think that this is I don't know why you think that this is unrealistic. This is just seems fun. unrealistic. This is just seems fun. unrealistic. This is just seems fun. >> the thing. I want stuff like that to be >> the thing. I want stuff like that to be >> the thing. I want stuff like that to be true, but can you The funniest story is true, but can you The funniest story is true, but can you The funniest story is the truest story. That's the way it the truest story. That's the way it the truest story. That's the way it works. works. works. >> how pissed people would be who had lost >> how pissed people would be who had lost >> how pissed people would be who had lost family members in the back in like back family members in the back in like back family members in the back in like back country and technology like this existed country and technology like this existed country and technology like this existed and we didn't use it for our own people and we didn't use it for our own people and we didn't use it for our own people cuz we were trying to protect It's like cuz we were trying to protect It's like cuz we were trying to protect It's like send the send the send the >> You wanted to We wanted to wait for this >> You wanted to We wanted to wait for this >> You wanted to We wanted to wait for this one guy. What's he called? Like Dude 44 one guy. What's he called? Like Dude 44 one guy. What's he called? Like Dude 44 Bravo or something? What was his code Bravo or something? What was his code Bravo or something? What was his code name? name? name? >> I don't know. >> I don't know. >> I don't know. >> Dude 45 Bravo or something. >> Dude 45 Bravo or something. >> Dude 45 Bravo or something. >> too good of a code name, to be honest, >> too good of a code name, to be honest, >> too good of a code name, to be honest, or a a call sign. Most of them you'll or a a call sign. Most of them you'll or a a call sign. Most of them you'll notice they're notice they're notice they're they are from mistakes or things that they are from mistakes or things that they are from mistakes or things that the person who the call sign is the person who the call sign is the person who the call sign is associated with are not proud of, which associated with are not proud of, which associated with are not proud of, which is exactly why they need to be what they is exactly why they need to be what they is exactly why they need to be what they are. Like if you make a galactic mistake are. Like if you make a galactic mistake are. Like if you make a galactic mistake in training and they can associate one in training and they can associate one in training and they can associate one word to that, that's what you're known word to that, that's what you're known word to that, that's what you're known for for the rest of your military for for the rest of your military for for the rest of your military >> What was yours? No, it was only aviator >> What was yours? No, it was only aviator >> What was yours? No, it was only aviator was. was. was. >> Okay, okay, okay. >> Okay, okay, okay. >> Okay, okay, okay. >> I was just Andy. Okay. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Super lame. What is of the most stupid >> Super lame. What is of the most stupid >> Super lame. What is of the most stupid ones that you've heard? Oh god, you hear ones that you've heard? Oh god, you hear ones that you've heard? Oh god, you hear people you know when they're trying to people you know when they're trying to people you know when they're trying to make them up cuz and most of the time make them up cuz and most of the time make them up cuz and most of the time this is involving alcohol to be like oh this is involving alcohol to be like oh this is involving alcohol to be like oh yeah yeah my call sign was bone crusher. yeah yeah my call sign was bone crusher. yeah yeah my call sign was bone crusher. I'm like you're 142 lb soaking wet. Shut I'm like you're 142 lb soaking wet. Shut I'm like you're 142 lb soaking wet. Shut up. up. up. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> It's stuff like that, you know what I >> It's stuff like that, you know what I >> It's stuff like that, you know what I mean? Like you know, reaper just like mean? Like you know, reaper just like mean? Like you know, reaper just like take it easy, dude. Take it easy, you take it easy, dude. Take it easy, you take it easy, dude. Take it easy, you know? know? know? >> So you did you think that this ghost >> So you did you think that this ghost >> So you did you think that this ghost mama thing at least the explanation of mama thing at least the explanation of mama thing at least the explanation of it's [ __ ] in the way that they it's [ __ ] in the way that they it's [ __ ] in the way that they managed to find find this guy in the managed to find find this guy in the managed to find find this guy in the middle of the desert was something a middle of the desert was something a middle of the desert was something a little bit more? I think there are little bit more? I think there are little bit more? I think there are easier ways to do it. Okay. And when easier ways to do it. Okay. And when easier ways to do it. Okay. And when when pilots eject, it's not like they're when pilots eject, it's not like they're when pilots eject, it's not like they're ejecting with no tools. ejecting with no tools. ejecting with no tools. So So So um part you know there's entire um part you know there's entire um part you know there's entire department like the aviators don't department like the aviators don't department like the aviators don't maintenance the aircraft, right? There's maintenance the aircraft, right? There's maintenance the aircraft, right? There's those people making sure that the those people making sure that the those people making sure that the aircraft is good to go. There's people aircraft is good to go. There's people aircraft is good to go. There's people making sure that survival equipment is making sure that survival equipment is making sure that survival equipment is good to go. All of those things. So when good to go. All of those things. So when good to go. All of those things. So when you First off, I've never punched out of you First off, I've never punched out of you First off, I've never punched out of an aircraft. I've talked to some people an aircraft. I've talked to some people an aircraft. I've talked to some people who have. It seems to be who have. It seems to be who have. It seems to be a spicy ride. How so? Um well, I had a a spicy ride. How so? Um well, I had a a spicy ride. How so? Um well, I had a guy on my show who ejected at about guy on my show who ejected at about guy on my show who ejected at about three knots under the speed of sound three knots under the speed of sound three knots under the speed of sound about a about a about a >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> So and I I might be I might be getting >> So and I I might be I might be getting >> So and I I might be I might be getting this uh exact detail incorrect, but he this uh exact detail incorrect, but he this uh exact detail incorrect, but he was doing a maneuver and was nose down was doing a maneuver and was nose down was doing a maneuver and was nose down in a Hornet looking at the Atlantic in a Hornet looking at the Atlantic in a Hornet looking at the Atlantic Ocean rushing up Ocean rushing up Ocean rushing up and punched out and it basically and punched out and it basically and punched out and it basically How did he describe it? Took all of the How did he describe it? Took all of the How did he describe it? Took all of the bones in his body that weren't broken bones in his body that weren't broken bones in his body that weren't broken and did the opposite of that. And the and did the opposite of that. And the and did the opposite of that. And the only reason he's actually alive is only reason he's actually alive is only reason he's actually alive is because the water was so cold. He was in because the water was so cold. He was in because the water was so cold. He was in the hospital for months. Keegan Gill is the hospital for months. Keegan Gill is the hospital for months. Keegan Gill is his name. Why would the cold water help? his name. Why would the cold water help? his name. Why would the cold water help? Because it's uh shuts your blood Because it's uh shuts your blood Because it's uh shuts your blood vessels. He was going to bleed out vessels. He was going to bleed out vessels. He was going to bleed out otherwise. otherwise. otherwise. Hang on. So the force of ejecting a few Hang on. So the force of ejecting a few Hang on. So the force of ejecting a few knots under the speed of sound. Because knots under the speed of sound. Because knots under the speed of sound. Because the ad that was that managed to slam the ad that was that managed to slam the ad that was that managed to slam into Okay, so it wasn't the force of the into Okay, so it wasn't the force of the into Okay, so it wasn't the force of the ejection, it was the I don't think that ejection, it was the I don't think that ejection, it was the I don't think that feels good either. I was going to say feels good either. I was going to say feels good either. I was going to say cuz people people can get concussed I cuz people people can get concussed I cuz people people can get concussed I think just by doing that. Oh, I think if think just by doing that. Oh, I think if think just by doing that. Oh, I think if you do two, you're done. I think they you do two, you're done. I think they you do two, you're done. I think they medically retire you if you get two medically retire you if you get two medically retire you if you get two ejections. ejections. ejections. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Oh, do you know it'll shorten your >> Oh, do you know it'll shorten your >> Oh, do you know it'll shorten your vertebrae. I mean, it's I think you go vertebrae. I mean, it's I think you go vertebrae. I mean, it's I think you go for Dude, I used to be 5'11. What am I for Dude, I used to be 5'11. What am I for Dude, I used to be 5'11. What am I now? now? now? >> think it goes zero to double-digit Gs >> think it goes zero to double-digit Gs >> think it goes zero to double-digit Gs like that. Um and so yeah, he was like that. Um and so yeah, he was like that. Um and so yeah, he was Um and he was flying Um and he was flying Um and he was flying >> was a real one-two punch. Yeah. >> was a real one-two punch. Yeah. >> was a real one-two punch. Yeah. >> That was the the jab was the ejection. >> That was the the jab was the ejection. >> That was the the jab was the ejection. He basically said he almost got He basically said he almost got He basically said he almost got liquefied on liquefied on liquefied on departure from the aircraft. departure from the aircraft. departure from the aircraft. I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, okay. okay. okay. >> [laughter] >> Yeah. And then and his aircraft aircraft >> Yeah. And then and his aircraft aircraft just vaporized when it hit the ground. just vaporized when it hit the ground. just vaporized when it hit the ground. Yep. Well, water. Yeah, with the water. Yep. Well, water. Yeah, with the water. Yep. Well, water. Yeah, with the water. There happened to be I believe it was a There happened to be I believe it was a There happened to be I believe it was a Coast Guard vessel nearby that his he Coast Guard vessel nearby that his he Coast Guard vessel nearby that his he was flying with his boss. was flying with his boss. was flying with his boss. They were doing like some early air They were doing like some early air They were doing like some early air combat maneuvers and he literally he's combat maneuvers and he literally he's combat maneuvers and he literally he's like, I initiated a maneuver outside of like, I initiated a maneuver outside of like, I initiated a maneuver outside of the envelope that I should have, put the the envelope that I should have, put the the envelope that I should have, put the aircraft into a position where it was aircraft into a position where it was aircraft into a position where it was not going to recover. And can you not going to recover. And can you not going to recover. And can you imagine that visual? So he was probably imagine that visual? So he was probably imagine that visual? So he was probably like like like 600 miles an hour. 600 miles an hour. 600 miles an hour. And he said a second and a half from And he said a second and a half from And he said a second and a half from impact. Can you imagine that visual impact. Can you imagine that visual impact. Can you imagine that visual coming up? coming up? coming up? [ __ ] What? Yeah. [ __ ] What? Yeah. [ __ ] What? Yeah. And then if you miss the the little And then if you miss the the little And then if you miss the the little ejection handle ejection handle ejection handle >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> He didn't take the safety out. Yeah. >> He didn't take the safety out. Yeah. >> He didn't take the safety out. Yeah. Yeah. No, thank you. Hard pass. Well, Yeah. No, thank you. Hard pass. Well, Yeah. No, thank you. Hard pass. Well, but when they go out, not in that but when they go out, not in that but when they go out, not in that situation, um you have you have tools situation, um you have you have tools situation, um you have you have tools with you. And it so the ejection seat with you. And it so the ejection seat with you. And it so the ejection seat itself has some stuff that comes with itself has some stuff that comes with itself has some stuff that comes with it. Like a little life raft before it. Like a little life raft before it. Like a little life raft before existing in a For sure. You can you can existing in a For sure. You can you can existing in a For sure. You can you can have a firearm, probably. You're going have a firearm, probably. You're going have a firearm, probably. You're going to have a radio. You might have a beacon to have a radio. You might have a beacon to have a radio. You might have a beacon type system. Um maybe some food. type system. Um maybe some food. type system. Um maybe some food. Probably. Yeah. Um it's not going to be Probably. Yeah. Um it's not going to be Probably. Yeah. Um it's not going to be awesome. awesome. awesome. And people forget that aviators so that And people forget that aviators so that And people forget that aviators so that we go to the same school the basic seal we go to the same school the basic seal we go to the same school the basic seal school that aviators go to. They're school that aviators go to. They're school that aviators go to. They're specialists. That guy was a weapon specialists. That guy was a weapon specialists. That guy was a weapon systems officer. So he was in the back systems officer. So he was in the back systems officer. So he was in the back seat of an F-15, I believe. So he wasn't seat of an F-15, I believe. So he wasn't seat of an F-15, I believe. So he wasn't flying. And I actually don't even know flying. And I actually don't even know flying. And I actually don't even know if they're pilots. My guess would be if they're pilots. My guess would be if they're pilots. My guess would be that they're not. So, the guy up front that they're not. So, the guy up front that they're not. So, the guy up front is completely responsible for is completely responsible for is completely responsible for manipulating the controls. I don't even manipulating the controls. I don't even manipulating the controls. I don't even know if they have controls in the back, know if they have controls in the back, know if they have controls in the back, actually. Never been around an F-15 actually. Never been around an F-15 actually. Never been around an F-15 cockpit. cockpit. cockpit. So, he's doing all the weapon stuff. So, he's doing all the weapon stuff. So, he's doing all the weapon stuff. Their world is very high off the ground. Their world is very high off the ground. Their world is very high off the ground. And so, And so, And so, I've done a backseat ride in an F-18, I've done a backseat ride in an F-18, I've done a backseat ride in an F-18, and it was I'm like, this is and it was I'm like, this is and it was I'm like, this is ridiculously uncomfortable. Like, my ridiculously uncomfortable. Like, my ridiculously uncomfortable. Like, my head was bouncing off the canopy. head was bouncing off the canopy. head was bouncing off the canopy. Um was sick for about 2 days, felt Um was sick for about 2 days, felt Um was sick for about 2 days, felt nauseous because of the Gs we were nauseous because of the Gs we were nauseous because of the Gs we were pulling. pulling. pulling. But then, earlier in my career, I went But then, earlier in my career, I went But then, earlier in my career, I went to SERE school, and I was paired up with to SERE school, and I was paired up with to SERE school, and I was paired up with an F-18 pilot. And you want to talk an F-18 pilot. And you want to talk an F-18 pilot. And you want to talk about a duck out of water. about a duck out of water. about a duck out of water. Like, how do you read this topographical Like, how do you read this topographical Like, how do you read this topographical map? Like, how do you You know, now to map? Like, how do you You know, now to map? Like, how do you You know, now to me, I'm like, oh yeah, but this will me, I'm like, oh yeah, but this will me, I'm like, oh yeah, but this will celestially navigate, or this is east, celestially navigate, or this is east, celestially navigate, or this is east, and we're just going to do that. And and we're just going to do that. And and we're just going to do that. And they're like, they're like, they're like, where's my airplane? where's my airplane? where's my airplane? >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Right? It's It's the complete inverse. >> Right? It's It's the complete inverse. >> Right? It's It's the complete inverse. Like, if you were to throw your average Like, if you were to throw your average Like, if you were to throw your average special operations dude in an F-15, special operations dude in an F-15, special operations dude in an F-15, they'd be like, oh my god. So, just they'd be like, oh my god. So, just they'd be like, oh my god. So, just imagine the reverse of that when these imagine the reverse of that when these imagine the reverse of that when these people punch out. people punch out. people punch out. >> they're on the ground, was supposed to >> they're on the ground, was supposed to >> they're on the ground, was supposed to be in three dimensions, I'm now in two be in three dimensions, I'm now in two be in three dimensions, I'm now in two dimensions. dimensions. dimensions. >> Yeah. And it's it's real, you know? You >> Yeah. And it's it's real, you know? You >> Yeah. And it's it's real, you know? You could maybe see you on your sensors, could maybe see you on your sensors, could maybe see you on your sensors, people looking for you, trying to shoot people looking for you, trying to shoot people looking for you, trying to shoot at you at 25,000 ft, and now you're at at you at 25,000 ft, and now you're at at you at 25,000 ft, and now you're at 250 ft, and those same people are down 250 ft, and those same people are down 250 ft, and those same people are down there, and they're looking for you. I there, and they're looking for you. I there, and they're looking for you. I don't know if anybody got that close to don't know if anybody got that close to don't know if anybody got that close to him, but him, but him, but I I I would like to believe that tech I I I would like to believe that tech I I I would like to believe that tech exists. I think that's a far stretch. exists. I think that's a far stretch. exists. I think that's a far stretch. Probable? I don't Well, uh possible, not Probable? I don't Well, uh possible, not Probable? I don't Well, uh possible, not probable. Mhm. probable. Mhm. probable. Mhm. Yeah, it's crazy to think that Yeah, it's crazy to think that Yeah, it's crazy to think that these guys that have been Well, they these guys that have been Well, they these guys that have been Well, they have training to be able to have training to be able to have training to be able to evade. Limited. So, like I said, we evade. Limited. So, like I said, we evade. Limited. So, like I said, we would we go to the same school. It's would we go to the same school. It's would we go to the same school. It's about a week of in-classroom stuff, and about a week of in-classroom stuff, and about a week of in-classroom stuff, and a lot of it, at least when I went a lot of it, at least when I went a lot of it, at least when I went through, was based off of Vietnam. A lot through, was based off of Vietnam. A lot through, was based off of Vietnam. A lot of studying the Hanoi Hilton. of studying the Hanoi Hilton. of studying the Hanoi Hilton. And the POWs there, and the, you know, And the POWs there, and the, you know, And the POWs there, and the, you know, the tap codes that they they created an the tap codes that they they created an the tap codes that they they created an alphabet system that they would teach alphabet system that they would teach alphabet system that they would teach each other through doing it. Um and it each other through doing it. Um and it each other through doing it. Um and it was a 5x5, um and a lot of it is was a 5x5, um and a lot of it is was a 5x5, um and a lot of it is what to expect if you're captured, how what to expect if you're captured, how what to expect if you're captured, how you're going to questioned. You need to you're going to questioned. You need to you're going to questioned. You need to you know, stay You're supposed to do the you know, stay You're supposed to do the you know, stay You're supposed to do the best that you can to stay inside of the best that you can to stay inside of the best that you can to stay inside of the boundaries of boundaries of boundaries of releasing particular information, but releasing particular information, but releasing particular information, but the reality is with enough pain, people the reality is with enough pain, people the reality is with enough pain, people are they're going to break, you know. are they're going to break, you know. are they're going to break, you know. Um Um Um And then you go out to the one I went to And then you go out to the one I went to And then you go out to the one I went to is in Warner Springs, which is in East is in Warner Springs, which is in East is in Warner Springs, which is in East San Diego by not very far. San Diego by not very far. San Diego by not very far. >> The one you went to? The the SERE >> The one you went to? The the SERE >> The one you went to? The the SERE school. Survival, Escape, Resistance, school. Survival, Escape, Resistance, school. Survival, Escape, Resistance, and Evasion. and Evasion. and Evasion. Um you go out to the And it was this was Um you go out to the And it was this was Um you go out to the And it was this was aviators and aviators and aviators and largely largely largely people who might find themselves on the people who might find themselves on the people who might find themselves on the ground. So, special operations ground. So, special operations ground. So, special operations personnel, anybody that might find personnel, anybody that might find personnel, anybody that might find themselves on the ground in like a themselves on the ground in like a themselves on the ground in like a theater of war. theater of war. theater of war. >> [clears throat] >> [clears throat] >> [clears throat] >> Um I don't think you would need to send >> Um I don't think you would need to send >> Um I don't think you would need to send like traditional Navy people who are like traditional Navy people who are like traditional Navy people who are going to be on a vessel to SERE school, going to be on a vessel to SERE school, going to be on a vessel to SERE school, very unlikely that that would be very unlikely that that would be very unlikely that that would be That'd be a rough day if they ended up That'd be a rough day if they ended up That'd be a rough day if they ended up getting rolled up. I don't know. It's getting rolled up. I don't know. It's getting rolled up. I don't know. It's like, "Wow, they swam out here and took like, "Wow, they swam out here and took like, "Wow, they swam out here and took you out of here, man." you out of here, man." you out of here, man." >> far from home. >> far from home. >> far from home. >> Totally. God, that would suck. And then >> Totally. God, that would suck. And then >> Totally. God, that would suck. And then you would really wish you'd gone to that you would really wish you'd gone to that you would really wish you'd gone to that school, but you know, uh you got to play school, but you know, uh you got to play school, but you know, uh you got to play the odds on that one. So, the odds on that one. So, the odds on that one. So, it was a couple days of group it was a couple days of group it was a couple days of group navigation, and then they they start off navigation, and then they they start off navigation, and then they they start off a simulation where a simulation where a simulation where now you're on E&E, escape and evasion, now you're on E&E, escape and evasion, now you're on E&E, escape and evasion, and you're paired up, and you were and you're paired up, and you were and you're paired up, and you were trying to evade an enemy force that is trying to evade an enemy force that is trying to evade an enemy force that is looking for you, probably very similar looking for you, probably very similar looking for you, probably very similar in concept to Iran, and then everybody in concept to Iran, and then everybody in concept to Iran, and then everybody eventually gets caught because you spend eventually gets caught because you spend eventually gets caught because you spend about 2 and 1/2 days in slappy camp, about 2 and 1/2 days in slappy camp, about 2 and 1/2 days in slappy camp, where they slap you around, and they where they slap you around, and they where they slap you around, and they introduce you to uh being I don't know introduce you to uh being I don't know introduce you to uh being I don't know if they would say interrogated, but it's if they would say interrogated, but it's if they would say interrogated, but it's essentially what it is. And you're in essentially what it is. And you're in essentially what it is. And you're in this little, you know, it's this this little, you know, it's this this little, you know, it's this It looks like dog kennels that human It looks like dog kennels that human It looks like dog kennels that human beings are in, you know, and they're way beings are in, you know, and they're way beings are in, you know, and they're way too small to be in there, so you can't too small to be in there, so you can't too small to be in there, so you can't find a comfortable position. There's find a comfortable position. There's find a comfortable position. There's music playing all the time. It must be music playing all the time. It must be music playing all the time. It must be very hard for you to get comfortable very hard for you to get comfortable very hard for you to get comfortable with the with the erection that you had. with the with the erection that you had. with the with the erection that you had. Uh it's just stay hard, you know what I Uh it's just stay hard, you know what I Uh it's just stay hard, you know what I mean? mean? mean? Just the whole way through. That's Just the whole way through. That's Just the whole way through. That's That's actually a great way to warn the That's actually a great way to warn the That's actually a great way to warn the terrorists off you. Yeah. It's like, "We terrorists off you. Yeah. It's like, "We terrorists off you. Yeah. It's like, "We can't go in Don't go in in kennel number can't go in Don't go in in kennel number can't go in Don't go in in kennel number five. Uh he's just he's permanently five. Uh he's just he's permanently five. Uh he's just he's permanently erect." erect." erect." >> the That's the That's the problem is >> the That's the That's the problem is >> the That's the That's the problem is some people they let it go. The The key some people they let it go. The The key some people they let it go. The The key is go hard, stay alive. is go hard, stay alive. is go hard, stay alive. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> I mean, I have If I put myself on the >> I mean, I have If I put myself on the >> I mean, I have If I put myself on the other side of that coin, I'd be like, other side of that coin, I'd be like, other side of that coin, I'd be like, "Just leave that dude alone." Clearly, "Just leave that dude alone." Clearly, "Just leave that dude alone." Clearly, there's some psychopathy there. I don't there's some psychopathy there. I don't there's some psychopathy there. I don't know what I'm terrified of him. know what I'm terrified of him. know what I'm terrified of him. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> But if it's a couple days, and then >> But if it's a couple days, and then >> But if it's a couple days, and then those people go back to If you're an those people go back to If you're an those people go back to If you're an aviator, your job is to aviate. And so, aviator, your job is to aviate. And so, aviator, your job is to aviate. And so, they're going to go back and master that they're going to go back and master that they're going to go back and master that craft. And I don't think They'll keep on craft. And I don't think They'll keep on craft. And I don't think They'll keep on top of their handguns, their Probably top of their handguns, their Probably top of their handguns, their Probably not. I don't know what like level of not. I don't know what like level of not. I don't know what like level of minimum training that they're required minimum training that they're required minimum training that they're required to do. It's probably currency at best. to do. It's probably currency at best. to do. It's probably currency at best. Competence and currency are not the same Competence and currency are not the same Competence and currency are not the same thing. But again, they have to be thing. But again, they have to be thing. But again, they have to be competent in current and flying in competent in current and flying in competent in current and flying in multi-million-dollar aircraft in multi-million-dollar aircraft in multi-million-dollar aircraft in >> a place where you prioritize your >> a place where you prioritize your >> a place where you prioritize your training appropriately. Totally. training appropriately. Totally. training appropriately. Totally. Yeah, so I can only imagine that that Yeah, so I can only imagine that that Yeah, so I can only imagine that that guy he had a hell of a guy he had a hell of a guy he had a hell of a day and a half or two days, however long day and a half or two days, however long day and a half or two days, however long he was on the ground. he was on the ground. he was on the ground. >> Someone said, "I can't wait for Mark >> Someone said, "I can't wait for Mark >> Someone said, "I can't wait for Mark Wahlberg to play this guy in a movie." Wahlberg to play this guy in a movie." Wahlberg to play this guy in a movie." Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's possible. Yeah, it's possible. Yeah, it's possible. >> That's basically what you're doing. >> That's basically what you're doing. >> That's basically what you're doing. You're like, "I don't want to be I don't You're like, "I don't want to be I don't You're like, "I don't want to be I don't want to be picked up after 12 hours. If want to be picked up after 12 hours. If want to be picked up after 12 hours. If I get picked up after 36, then there's a I get picked up after 36, then there's a I get picked up after 36, then there's a movie. Mark Wahlberg doesn't That's the movie. Mark Wahlberg doesn't That's the movie. Mark Wahlberg doesn't That's the play me. Especially if it's like 48." play me. Especially if it's like 48." play me. Especially if it's like 48." Yeah, then now we're talking. Yeah. Yeah, then now we're talking. Yeah. Yeah, then now we're talking. Yeah. Yeah, don't turn your beacon on. Yeah. Yeah, don't turn your beacon on. Yeah. Yeah, don't turn your beacon on. Yeah. Really Really keep them guessing. Really Really keep them guessing. Really Really keep them guessing. Wouldn't it be cool if you had like a Wouldn't it be cool if you had like a Wouldn't it be cool if you had like a little chart, and on the chart it's the little chart, and on the chart it's the little chart, and on the chart it's the different actor levels, and for the different actor levels, and for the different actor levels, and for the longer that you stick about and go, longer that you stick about and go, longer that you stick about and go, "It's 36 hours, but at 36 hours I only "It's 36 hours, but at 36 hours I only "It's 36 hours, but at 36 hours I only get Marky Mark, but at 48 I get Brad get Marky Mark, but at 48 I get Brad get Marky Mark, but at 48 I get Brad Pitt." How did you get such insight into Pitt." How did you get such insight into Pitt." How did you get such insight into how the US military ops And at 72 it's how the US military ops And at 72 it's how the US military ops And at 72 it's Chris Hemsworth. And I'm like, "God, I'm Chris Hemsworth. And I'm like, "God, I'm Chris Hemsworth. And I'm like, "God, I'm going to make it to 72. I want to going to make it to 72. I want to going to make it to 72. I want to Hemsworth to play me." Hemsworth to play me." Hemsworth to play me." He's a handsome man. He is. Better in He's a handsome man. He is. Better in He's a handsome man. He is. Better in person? person? person? Yeah, unbelievably handsome in person. Yeah, unbelievably handsome in person. Yeah, unbelievably handsome in person. Yeah, that actually was where I got the Yeah, that actually was where I got the Yeah, that actually was where I got the permanently erect idea from. Okay. permanently erect idea from. Okay. permanently erect idea from. Okay. >> It's terrifying. So, technology in war, >> It's terrifying. So, technology in war, >> It's terrifying. So, technology in war, yep, is it making soldiers more fragile yep, is it making soldiers more fragile yep, is it making soldiers more fragile or more effective? or more effective? or more effective? Do you think? I think two things can be true I think two things can be true sometimes. sometimes. sometimes. I don't I don't think you should outsource kill I don't think you should outsource kill it. it. it. And killing through a screen, And killing through a screen, And killing through a screen, even though I think that that's the way even though I think that that's the way even though I think that that's the way that the world is probably headed, that the world is probably headed, that the world is probably headed, I think that removes the burden I think that removes the burden I think that removes the burden associated with that. associated with that. associated with that. But at the same time, some of those But at the same time, some of those But at the same time, some of those tools can help you tools can help you tools can help you kill people a lot more effectively. So, kill people a lot more effectively. So, kill people a lot more effectively. So, you mean there shouldn't be a flippancy you mean there shouldn't be a flippancy you mean there shouldn't be a flippancy with pulling the trigger or the with pulling the trigger or the with pulling the trigger or the equivalent of on another human? No. equivalent of on another human? No. equivalent of on another human? No. I don't think so. I think it should I don't think so. I think it should I don't think so. I think it should scramble your eggs for what scramble your eggs for what scramble your eggs for what maybe the rest of your life. maybe the rest of your life. maybe the rest of your life. 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Wasn't there a stat around the number of Wasn't there a stat around the number of Wasn't there a stat around the number of soldiers who either didn't fire their soldiers who either didn't fire their soldiers who either didn't fire their weapon, or fired their weapons in a weapon, or fired their weapons in a weapon, or fired their weapons in a direction that wasn't basically toward direction that wasn't basically toward direction that wasn't basically toward the enemy in World War II? Yeah, S.L.A. the enemy in World War II? Yeah, S.L.A. the enemy in World War II? Yeah, S.L.A. Marshall did a study on this, and it's Marshall did a study on this, and it's Marshall did a study on this, and it's why they went from shooting at circular why they went from shooting at circular why they went from shooting at circular accuracy targets to silhouette type accuracy targets to silhouette type accuracy targets to silhouette type targets. Now, there's some issues with targets. Now, there's some issues with targets. Now, there's some issues with S.L.A. Marshall in his data collection S.L.A. Marshall in his data collection S.L.A. Marshall in his data collection though. So, as they've looked at this in though. So, as they've looked at this in though. So, as they've looked at this in hindsight, he claims to have hindsight, he claims to have hindsight, he claims to have interviewed a substantial number of interviewed a substantial number of interviewed a substantial number of people. And somebody finally just got people. And somebody finally just got people. And somebody finally just got out a calendar and a piece of paper and out a calendar and a piece of paper and out a calendar and a piece of paper and said, "How many did you say that you said, "How many did you say that you said, "How many did you say that you did? And how long were you over there did? And how long were you over there did? And how long were you over there for?" for?" for?" The math doesn't math on that. So, there The math doesn't math on that. So, there The math doesn't math on that. So, there come to find out there's some BS come to find out there's some BS come to find out there's some BS involved involved involved uh in that section of military history uh in that section of military history uh in that section of military history as well. Um but that is as well. Um but that is as well. Um but that is um a lot of where Grossman got his on um a lot of where Grossman got his on um a lot of where Grossman got his on killing information as well, too. And killing information as well, too. And killing information as well, too. And walking through that, they claim that walking through that, they claim that walking through that, they claim that there was a there was a there was a >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> a >> a >> a statistically very small amount of statistically very small amount of statistically very small amount of people that would actually aim their people that would actually aim their people that would actually aim their weapon at another human being and pull weapon at another human being and pull weapon at another human being and pull the trigger. And they associated that the trigger. And they associated that the trigger. And they associated that uh probably with uh probably with uh probably with two prompts. One, just the morality of two prompts. One, just the morality of two prompts. One, just the morality of humanity. But two, only practicing humanity. But two, only practicing humanity. But two, only practicing shooting at things that didn't look shooting at things that didn't look shooting at things that didn't look real. Not that a silhouette like a green real. Not that a silhouette like a green real. Not that a silhouette like a green type silhouette doesn't look that real, type silhouette doesn't look that real, type silhouette doesn't look that real, but it looks more human than a circular but it looks more human than a circular but it looks more human than a circular bull's-eye. bull's-eye. bull's-eye. So, they swap that out. And then, I So, they swap that out. And then, I So, they swap that out. And then, I believe SLA Marshall and Grossman their believe SLA Marshall and Grossman their believe SLA Marshall and Grossman their theory theory theory was that the was that the was that the percentages went up. percentages went up. percentages went up. I don't know how you actually measure I don't know how you actually measure I don't know how you actually measure that. that. that. You know, I talked with some guys who You know, I talked with some guys who You know, I talked with some guys who served in Vietnam. They're like, "God served in Vietnam. They're like, "God served in Vietnam. They're like, "God damn, man. I was shooting at everything damn, man. I was shooting at everything damn, man. I was shooting at everything I could get my I could get my I could get my >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Well, then it stopped me cuz I ran out >> Well, then it stopped me cuz I ran out >> Well, then it stopped me cuz I ran out of bullets." I'm like, "Whoa, dude. of bullets." I'm like, "Whoa, dude. of bullets." I'm like, "Whoa, dude. You're at a 12. Can I get you back at an You're at a 12. Can I get you back at an You're at a 12. Can I get you back at an eight? Also, are you okay? Have you eight? Also, are you okay? Have you eight? Also, are you okay? Have you talked to anybody about this in your talked to anybody about this in your talked to anybody about this in your life? Are you just like waiting for me life? Are you just like waiting for me life? Are you just like waiting for me 60 years later to ask you this 60 years later to ask you this 60 years later to ask you this question?" question?" question?" >> [laughter] >> That's my dad, by the way. >> That's my dad, by the way. Jesus Christ. Well, I look, I mean, the Jesus Christ. Well, I look, I mean, the Jesus Christ. Well, I look, I mean, the technology might enable people to get technology might enable people to get technology might enable people to get around that if that is an issue. And around that if that is an issue. And around that if that is an issue. And should we allow that, man? I I should we allow that, man? I I should we allow that, man? I I >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> Killing is so romanticized in so many >> Killing is so romanticized in so many >> Killing is so romanticized in so many ways. And it is ways. And it is ways. And it is something that I God, it should be a something that I God, it should be a something that I God, it should be a last resort. last resort. last resort. And I don't know if you should remove And I don't know if you should remove And I don't know if you should remove the complexity and difficulty associated the complexity and difficulty associated the complexity and difficulty associated with that. With suddenly With suddenly the flippancy that people can find the flippancy that people can find the flippancy that people can find around that. It shouldn't be that. Well, around that. It shouldn't be that. Well, around that. It shouldn't be that. Well, look at it. You can look at it. You can look at it. You can If you're on any social media platform, If you're on any social media platform, If you're on any social media platform, I mean, did you see Charlie Kirk's I mean, did you see Charlie Kirk's I mean, did you see Charlie Kirk's death? death? death? Uh how do you say? Uh Uh how do you say? Uh Uh how do you say? Uh unconsenting, yeah. So, all twice unconsenting, yeah. So, all twice unconsenting, yeah. So, all twice >> So, all three of my kids did too. That >> So, all three of my kids did too. That >> So, all three of my kids did too. That was the hardest conversations I had to was the hardest conversations I had to was the hardest conversations I had to have was with all three of my kids. have was with all three of my kids. have was with all three of my kids. Especially knowing what that that did. Especially knowing what that that did. Especially knowing what that that did. They I am the They I am the They I am the most resoundingly uninteresting human most resoundingly uninteresting human most resoundingly uninteresting human being to them. I think they have maybe being to them. I think they have maybe being to them. I think they have maybe asked me about my old job asked me about my old job asked me about my old job five times. Hm. five times. Hm. five times. Hm. I don't I don't know what they know or I don't I don't know what they know or I don't I don't know what they know or don't know. I don't talk with them don't know. I don't talk with them don't know. I don't talk with them about. I have nothing military related about. I have nothing military related about. I have nothing military related at the house. It's just at the house. It's just at the house. It's just I'm just I just try to be their dad. But I'm just I just try to be their dad. But I'm just I just try to be their dad. But all three of them in formative years of all three of them in formative years of all three of them in formative years of their life their life their life scrolling on social media cuz their scrolling on social media cuz their scrolling on social media cuz their generation is of course almost generation is of course almost generation is of course almost terminally online at this point saw terminally online at this point saw terminally online at this point saw that. I saw it as well, too. that. I saw it as well, too. that. I saw it as well, too. And on any of these social platforms, if And on any of these social platforms, if And on any of these social platforms, if you go deep enough down a rabbit hole, you go deep enough down a rabbit hole, you go deep enough down a rabbit hole, there's no way that these filters can be there's no way that these filters can be there's no way that these filters can be as effective as we want them to be. as effective as we want them to be. as effective as we want them to be. You're going to see people who are dying You're going to see people who are dying You're going to see people who are dying online. online. online. And that is not something that most And that is not something that most And that is not something that most people ever actually see in their real people ever actually see in their real people ever actually see in their real life. And I don't know if that reduces life. And I don't know if that reduces life. And I don't know if that reduces your You know what I mean? Like it's your You know what I mean? Like it's your You know what I mean? Like it's like this like this like this this barrier this barrier this barrier that I'm very thankful that almost that I'm very thankful that almost that I'm very thankful that almost nobody is willing to cross. Like my nobody is willing to cross. Like my nobody is willing to cross. Like my people might talk a big game about that, people might talk a big game about that, people might talk a big game about that, but almost nobody is willing to cross but almost nobody is willing to cross but almost nobody is willing to cross that barrier, and I'm very thankful for that barrier, and I'm very thankful for that barrier, and I'm very thankful for that. Because it's not something that that. Because it's not something that that. Because it's not something that should be talked about flippantly. I should be talked about flippantly. I should be talked about flippantly. I don't think we should remove barriers to don't think we should remove barriers to don't think we should remove barriers to making that easier. making that easier. making that easier. That was really I mean, that's seared That was really I mean, that's seared That was really I mean, that's seared into my brain. Think about how many into my brain. Think about how many into my brain. Think about how many videos on the internet you've seen. Like videos on the internet you've seen. Like videos on the internet you've seen. Like the tens of thousands of videos that the tens of thousands of videos that the tens of thousands of videos that I've seen. I mean, isn't that lucky I've seen. I mean, isn't that lucky I've seen. I mean, isn't that lucky numbers? I I I I I I I [ __ ] baby numbers? I I I I I I I [ __ ] baby numbers? I I I I I I I [ __ ] baby [laughter] numbers, dude. Up your game. [laughter] numbers, dude. Up your game. [laughter] numbers, dude. Up your game. We're talking a week? Yeah, yeah. Just We're talking a week? Yeah, yeah. Just We're talking a week? Yeah, yeah. Just That's just porn. That's just porn. That's just porn. And uh that one it's not the it's not And uh that one it's not the it's not And uh that one it's not the it's not the main angle that everybody saw. It the main angle that everybody saw. It the main angle that everybody saw. It was the second one that was much more was the second one that was much more was the second one that was much more graphic. And I didn't mean to see that graphic. And I didn't mean to see that graphic. And I didn't mean to see that one either. I one either. I one either. I that's not my idea of a good way to that's not my idea of a good way to that's not my idea of a good way to spend an afternoon to see that. And uh spend an afternoon to see that. And uh spend an afternoon to see that. And uh yeah, I didn't I didn't mean to, but yeah, I didn't I didn't mean to, but yeah, I didn't I didn't mean to, but then you're contending with what does then you're contending with what does then you're contending with what does freedom of speech mean? And freedom of freedom of speech mean? And freedom of freedom of speech mean? And freedom of exposure? Is that the same thing as exposure? Is that the same thing as exposure? Is that the same thing as freedom of speech? freedom of speech? freedom of speech? Freedom to be exposed to these things? Freedom to be exposed to these things? Freedom to be exposed to these things? And how much should we There's certainly And how much should we There's certainly And how much should we There's certainly things that we don't want to be things that we don't want to be things that we don't want to be insulating people from. Yeah. insulating people from. Yeah. insulating people from. Yeah. But then you There's stuff that almost But then you There's stuff that almost But then you There's stuff that almost universally like a guy being universally like a guy being universally like a guy being killed in a really, really graphic way. That's one of the ones that I Who Who That's one of the ones that I Who Who needs to see that as a part of their needs to see that as a part of their needs to see that as a part of their human development? human development? human development? I completely agree. And the fact that I completely agree. And the fact that I completely agree. And the fact that that stuff exists and will for the that stuff exists and will for the that stuff exists and will for the foreseeable future. foreseeable future. foreseeable future. I don't know I don't know what that does I don't know I don't know what that does I don't know I don't know what that does to the psyche of people who see that to the psyche of people who see that to the psyche of people who see that when they're when they're when they're in the those developing ages. in the those developing ages. in the those developing ages. What's something about special What's something about special What's something about special operations that you think civilians operations that you think civilians operations that you think civilians glorify that's glorify that's glorify that's completely wrong or misconstrued by completely wrong or misconstrued by completely wrong or misconstrued by people? people? people? Legitimately, so I Legitimately, so I Legitimately, so I I truly served with people that I I truly served with people that I I truly served with people that I considered to be considered to be considered to be just tremendous in every regard. And not just tremendous in every regard. And not just tremendous in every regard. And not like a person that was tremendous in like a person that was tremendous in like a person that was tremendous in every sense, but I could look at every sense, but I could look at every sense, but I could look at somebody and say, "Oh my god. I wish I somebody and say, "Oh my god. I wish I somebody and say, "Oh my god. I wish I could do what you're able to do to fill could do what you're able to do to fill could do what you're able to do to fill in the blank." I could find inspiration in the blank." I could find inspiration in the blank." I could find inspiration in those people and look at them and in those people and look at them and in those people and look at them and say, "Okay, I know what's possible." And say, "Okay, I know what's possible." And say, "Okay, I know what's possible." And And if you can get to that level, I can And if you can get to that level, I can And if you can get to that level, I can at least try to get to that level cuz I at least try to get to that level cuz I at least try to get to that level cuz I want that to be the standard. You can want that to be the standard. You can want that to be the standard. You can apply that across the board. apply that across the board. apply that across the board. >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> But they're all exceptionally normal >> But they're all exceptionally normal >> But they're all exceptionally normal people. people. people. The special operations community is not The special operations community is not The special operations community is not comprised of people that put a cape on comprised of people that put a cape on comprised of people that put a cape on and go to work. They are very normal and go to work. They are very normal and go to work. They are very normal people that are tasked with doing some people that are tasked with doing some people that are tasked with doing some exceptional things at times, but they exceptional things at times, but they exceptional things at times, but they suffer from the same ailments of life suffer from the same ailments of life suffer from the same ailments of life that everybody else does. that everybody else does. that everybody else does. And you can easily create this And you can easily create this And you can easily create this unrealistic expectation unrealistic expectation unrealistic expectation that they can do anything, that they can that they can do anything, that they can that they can do anything, that they can tolerate anything, tolerate anything, tolerate anything, that they are impossible to knock down, that they are impossible to knock down, that they are impossible to knock down, and that isn't the case, man. They're and that isn't the case, man. They're and that isn't the case, man. They're normal, exceptionally average people. I normal, exceptionally average people. I normal, exceptionally average people. I wish I could take people and wish I could take people and wish I could take people and introduce the first day of of buds introduce the first day of of buds introduce the first day of of buds training where you'll have a couple training where you'll have a couple training where you'll have a couple hundred people lined up and they're like hundred people lined up and they're like hundred people lined up and they're like just look at the physiology of these just look at the physiology of these just look at the physiology of these people. They'll be like there's going to people. They'll be like there's going to people. They'll be like there's going to be like a D1 college athlete, which be like a D1 college athlete, which be like a D1 college athlete, which guess what, that fucker's not going to guess what, that fucker's not going to guess what, that fucker's not going to be able to swim, so see you later. be able to swim, so see you later. be able to swim, so see you later. Right? And there's going to be a Right? And there's going to be a Right? And there's going to be a marathon runner, and that guy's going to marathon runner, and that guy's going to marathon runner, and that guy's going to have a really hard time swimming. So have a really hard time swimming. So have a really hard time swimming. So that stuff kind of sorts itself out. The that stuff kind of sorts itself out. The that stuff kind of sorts itself out. The rest of it, you would look at their rest of it, you would look at their rest of it, you would look at their physiology and anatomy and you'd be physiology and anatomy and you'd be physiology and anatomy and you'd be like, like, like, really? really? really? Like you look like the dude who was Like you look like the dude who was Like you look like the dude who was checking me out at the grocery store and checking me out at the grocery store and checking me out at the grocery store and that's like, yeah, that dude's a savage. that's like, yeah, that dude's a savage. that's like, yeah, that dude's a savage. But still also a normal person. And I But still also a normal person. And I But still also a normal person. And I think that's forgotten often. think that's forgotten often. think that's forgotten often. And you can actually lie to yourself And you can actually lie to yourself And you can actually lie to yourself when you're in that community because if when you're in that community because if when you're in that community because if people expect that from you, you start people expect that from you, you start people expect that from you, you start expecting it from yourself, and then expecting it from yourself, and then expecting it from yourself, and then you're headed in a really deep, dark you're headed in a really deep, dark you're headed in a really deep, dark place. You got a line, we are not as place. You got a line, we are not as place. You got a line, we are not as unique as we think. We just struggle in unique as we think. We just struggle in unique as we think. We just struggle in different ways. Yeah. different ways. Yeah. different ways. Yeah. I'm guessing that's what you're talking I'm guessing that's what you're talking I'm guessing that's what you're talking about here. Yeah. I mean, about here. Yeah. I mean, about here. Yeah. I mean, there you have more in common with a guy there you have more in common with a guy there you have more in common with a guy who's bagging your groceries and a who's bagging your groceries and a who's bagging your groceries and a special operations soldier than you special operations soldier than you special operations soldier than you could possibly think. And nobody wants could possibly think. And nobody wants could possibly think. And nobody wants to believe that. I'm not saying why do to believe that. I'm not saying why do to believe that. I'm not saying why do they not want to believe it? I don't they not want to believe it? I don't they not want to believe it? I don't know. know. know. Um Um Um because then I think it makes it easy because then I think it makes it easy because then I think it makes it easy for people to say, well, I can never do for people to say, well, I can never do for people to say, well, I can never do that because that person's different. that because that person's different. that because that person's different. And I'm not saying take the grocery And I'm not saying take the grocery And I'm not saying take the grocery bagger to Iran, you know, maybe maybe bagger to Iran, you know, maybe maybe bagger to Iran, you know, maybe maybe take the guy take the guy take the guy >> you can [ __ ] survive Actually, we >> you can [ __ ] survive Actually, we >> you can [ __ ] survive Actually, we really want to make a movie about you really want to make a movie about you really want to make a movie about you with Mark Wahlberg. with Mark Wahlberg. with Mark Wahlberg. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> You can put whatever you want to in this >> You can put whatever you want to in this >> You can put whatever you want to in this brown paper bag, but it's all you have brown paper bag, but it's all you have brown paper bag, but it's all you have to survive. I think 72 hours. Yeah. Only to survive. I think 72 hours. Yeah. Only to survive. I think 72 hours. Yeah. Only if you want, Chris. Yeah. Yeah. if you want, Chris. Yeah. Yeah. if you want, Chris. Yeah. Yeah. Now it's is easier to if you can say, Now it's is easier to if you can say, Now it's is easier to if you can say, well they're different. Then you give well they're different. Then you give well they're different. Then you give yourself an excuse. So I can't do it. yourself an excuse. So I can't do it. yourself an excuse. So I can't do it. I mean and I went back as an instructor I mean and I went back as an instructor I mean and I went back as an instructor for 18 months and I watched these kids for 18 months and I watched these kids for 18 months and I watched these kids and I'm sure the instructors watched my and I'm sure the instructors watched my and I'm sure the instructors watched my class class class and said the same thing like and said the same thing like and said the same thing like God, I work with retards. God, I work with retards. God, I work with retards. >> [laughter] >> That's >> That's clearly what they were saying about my clearly what they were saying about my clearly what they were saying about my class, but it it was not a group of class, but it it was not a group of class, but it it was not a group of people people people that are on baseball card decks. It was that are on baseball card decks. It was that are on baseball card decks. It was people from all over the US. people from all over the US. people from all over the US. From the Midwest to coastal cities From the Midwest to coastal cities From the Midwest to coastal cities who would probably have politics align a who would probably have politics align a who would probably have politics align a little bit more blue and some align a little bit more blue and some align a little bit more blue and some align a little bit more red and people who little bit more red and people who little bit more red and people who joined the military to get out of their joined the military to get out of their joined the military to get out of their social economic position because they social economic position because they social economic position because they had no upward mobility and legitimate had no upward mobility and legitimate had no upward mobility and legitimate people had probably generational wealth people had probably generational wealth people had probably generational wealth and they're all there. and they're all there. and they're all there. And they're all And they're all And they're all so ridiculously the differences are on so ridiculously the differences are on so ridiculously the differences are on it's just it's round off error. The it's just it's round off error. The it's just it's round off error. The similarities are similarities are similarities are Yeah, they're just average people. What Yeah, they're just average people. What Yeah, they're just average people. What did you learn as an instructor did you learn as an instructor did you learn as an instructor looking at selection that you didn't looking at selection that you didn't looking at selection that you didn't learn being part of selection? Yeah, let learn being part of selection? Yeah, let learn being part of selection? Yeah, let me just tell you it's a different me just tell you it's a different me just tell you it's a different experience. experience. experience. Right, yeah cuz you were warm. Did you Right, yeah cuz you were warm. Did you Right, yeah cuz you were warm. Did you did you play into the fact that when you did you play into the fact that when you did you play into the fact that when you went through it you saw some bastard went through it you saw some bastard went through it you saw some bastard with a big anorak on holding a hot cup with a big anorak on holding a hot cup with a big anorak on holding a hot cup of cocoa and you're like, "Ah, now it's of cocoa and you're like, "Ah, now it's of cocoa and you're like, "Ah, now it's my turn." my turn." my turn." >> Well, with all generational trauma the >> Well, with all generational trauma the >> Well, with all generational trauma the goal with it should be to pass it goal with it should be to pass it goal with it should be to pass it downhill. So at least that's what the downhill. So at least that's what the downhill. So at least that's what the military uses. Um no, there are military uses. Um no, there are military uses. Um no, there are definitely people who play like roles definitely people who play like roles definitely people who play like roles and caricatures. and caricatures. and caricatures. I was I went back about 10 years after I I was I went back about 10 years after I I was I went back about 10 years after I had been in and I was rehabbing from had been in and I was rehabbing from had been in and I was rehabbing from getting hurt. getting hurt. getting hurt. So and also we were well into the global So and also we were well into the global So and also we were well into the global war on terror. So when I went through in war on terror. So when I went through in war on terror. So when I went through in 1997 1997 1997 the concept of the real world the concept of the real world the concept of the real world application of the job was exactly that. application of the job was exactly that. application of the job was exactly that. It was a concept. I volunteered during It was a concept. I volunteered during It was a concept. I volunteered during peacetime peacetime peacetime and there was a generation of SEALs that and there was a generation of SEALs that and there was a generation of SEALs that had served post Vietnam all the way up had served post Vietnam all the way up had served post Vietnam all the way up until that point that it never seen any until that point that it never seen any until that point that it never seen any combat. No, but I mean it that doesn't combat. No, but I mean it that doesn't combat. No, but I mean it that doesn't change though how hard they trained and change though how hard they trained and change though how hard they trained and how much they focused on the job. It's how much they focused on the job. It's how much they focused on the job. It's either good luck or bad luck depending either good luck or bad luck depending either good luck or bad luck depending on the optic that you're looking at it on the optic that you're looking at it on the optic that you're looking at it and people would tell you it's both like and people would tell you it's both like and people would tell you it's both like oh it's good luck I didn't get that or I oh it's good luck I didn't get that or I oh it's good luck I didn't get that or I had feel like I have horrible luck had feel like I have horrible luck had feel like I have horrible luck because I didn't get those experiences. because I didn't get those experiences. because I didn't get those experiences. So it was a different world for me So it was a different world for me So it was a different world for me going through training. A lot of this going through training. A lot of this going through training. A lot of this stuff as a student it's really weird. stuff as a student it's really weird. stuff as a student it's really weird. You see my class started with 180 people You see my class started with 180 people You see my class started with 180 people and we graduated 18 of the originals. So and we graduated 18 of the originals. So and we graduated 18 of the originals. So every day you're peeling people off. every day you're peeling people off. every day you're peeling people off. Mostly in the first phase of training Mostly in the first phase of training Mostly in the first phase of training that's where the vast vast majority of that's where the vast vast majority of that's where the vast vast majority of people are going to disappear. people are going to disappear. people are going to disappear. But But But you don't get to talk to them because you don't get to talk to them because you don't get to talk to them because your training day continues and they're your training day continues and they're your training day continues and they're just they're gone and they are shifted just they're gone and they are shifted just they're gone and they are shifted over to another division and they're over to another division and they're over to another division and they're housed in a different area and this and housed in a different area and this and housed in a different area and this and that's not the meaning by any stretch that's not the meaning by any stretch that's not the meaning by any stretch they just they lift and shift them from they just they lift and shift them from they just they lift and shift them from the class that is going through training the class that is going through training the class that is going through training and you're back to the needs of the and you're back to the needs of the and you're back to the needs of the Navy. You can come back and that's Navy. You can come back and that's Navy. You can come back and that's something that people don't often know. something that people don't often know. something that people don't often know. You can uh you're going to have to go You can uh you're going to have to go You can uh you're going to have to go back out to the fleet for a couple of back out to the fleet for a couple of back out to the fleet for a couple of years. You're going to have to rescreen years. You're going to have to rescreen years. You're going to have to rescreen to come back in. But some of the most to come back in. But some of the most to come back in. But some of the most legendary SEAL operators are guys who legendary SEAL operators are guys who legendary SEAL operators are guys who didn't make it through Buds their first didn't make it through Buds their first didn't make it through Buds their first time. time. time. And I don't know why people it's And I don't know why people it's And I don't know why people it's understand that like oh you failed one understand that like oh you failed one understand that like oh you failed one time I have to go you know my life is time I have to go you know my life is time I have to go you know my life is over and I'm like I don't you know I over and I'm like I don't you know I over and I'm like I don't you know I don't if I had a list my successes and don't if I had a list my successes and don't if I had a list my successes and failures let me just tell you the failures let me just tell you the failures let me just tell you the failure list is multiples magnitudes of failure list is multiples magnitudes of failure list is multiples magnitudes of order greater than my success list. order greater than my success list. order greater than my success list. But when I went through as a student But when I went through as a student But when I went through as a student nothing made sense nothing made sense nothing made sense because you would have an instructor one because you would have an instructor one because you would have an instructor one day he would you would do something that day he would you would do something that day he would you would do something that they would ask and they'd be like good they would ask and they'd be like good they would ask and they'd be like good job. And the next day you'd do something job. And the next day you'd do something job. And the next day you'd do something that they would ask and they would just that they would ask and they would just that they would ask and they would just hand you your ass. You're like what is hand you your ass. You're like what is hand you your ass. You're like what is going on here? So it was very chaotic. going on here? So it was very chaotic. going on here? So it was very chaotic. And it didn't make sense like why are we And it didn't make sense like why are we And it didn't make sense like why are we so focused on some of these things? It so focused on some of these things? It so focused on some of these things? It was always attention to detail attention was always attention to detail attention was always attention to detail attention to detail attention to detail and follow to detail attention to detail and follow to detail attention to detail and follow procedure regardless of how you feel and procedure regardless of how you feel and procedure regardless of how you feel and what is going on around you. As an 18 what is going on around you. As an 18 what is going on around you. As an 18 year old kid year old kid year old kid all some of those things are very all some of those things are very all some of those things are very difficult concepts right? And I also, difficult concepts right? And I also, difficult concepts right? And I also, again, the lens of I mean, this is just training, right? I mean, this is just training, right? Like nobody's been to war in a really Like nobody's been to war in a really Like nobody's been to war in a really long time. Like long time. Like long time. Like you guys take it easy a little bit on you guys take it easy a little bit on you guys take it easy a little bit on me. Like, God. me. Like, God. me. Like, God. Then I go back in 2006, so we're 5 years Then I go back in 2006, so we're 5 years Then I go back in 2006, so we're 5 years into the GWOT at this point, and I into the GWOT at this point, and I into the GWOT at this point, and I looked at the curriculum and I saw what looked at the curriculum and I saw what looked at the curriculum and I saw what we were doing and I there was constant we were doing and I there was constant we were doing and I there was constant aha moments of like, oh, this is why we aha moments of like, oh, this is why we aha moments of like, oh, this is why we do that. do that. do that. Attention to detail has nothing to do Attention to detail has nothing to do Attention to detail has nothing to do with the knife that I'm expect with the knife that I'm expect with the knife that I'm expect inspecting to see if it can cut here inspecting to see if it can cut here inspecting to see if it can cut here before you go for an ocean swim or the before you go for an ocean swim or the before you go for an ocean swim or the CO2 cartridges that you twist into a CO2 cartridges that you twist into a CO2 cartridges that you twist into a life jacket that was produced in 1918, life jacket that was produced in 1918, life jacket that was produced in 1918, but I don't even know would save your but I don't even know would save your but I don't even know would save your life if you fired the cartridge off. life if you fired the cartridge off. life if you fired the cartridge off. But you're sitting there as an But you're sitting there as an But you're sitting there as an instructor and you're looking at each instructor and you're looking at each instructor and you're looking at each one of the, one of the, one of the, you know, the the screws and all all the you know, the the screws and all all the you know, the the screws and all all the the little crevices. Is there any rust the little crevices. Is there any rust the little crevices. Is there any rust in there? Is there any sand in there? in there? Is there any sand in there? in there? Is there any sand in there? It's not going to matter when it comes It's not going to matter when it comes It's not going to matter when it comes to functioning. You're focusing on to functioning. You're focusing on to functioning. You're focusing on attention to detail above everything attention to detail above everything attention to detail above everything else because that's what's keeping you else because that's what's keeping you else because that's what's keeping you alive when it comes to following a alive when it comes to following a alive when it comes to following a tactic when your entire world around you tactic when your entire world around you tactic when your entire world around you was falling apart. was falling apart. was falling apart. Um so, that type of stuff. Um so, that type of stuff. Um so, that type of stuff. Time management, emotional control, Time management, emotional control, Time management, emotional control, decision-making, all of those things. decision-making, all of those things. decision-making, all of those things. Going back as an instructor, I'm like, Going back as an instructor, I'm like, Going back as an instructor, I'm like, okay, now I get it. okay, now I get it. okay, now I get it. And the way I viewed it was this. And the way I viewed it was this. And the way I viewed it was this. I'm only going to be an instructor for 2 I'm only going to be an instructor for 2 I'm only going to be an instructor for 2 years, maybe on the far end, 18 months, years, maybe on the far end, 18 months, years, maybe on the far end, 18 months, and I do want to continue my career. And and I do want to continue my career. And and I do want to continue my career. And if I do so, I'm going to go back to a if I do so, I'm going to go back to a if I do so, I'm going to go back to a SEAL team. And guess who I'm going to SEAL team. And guess who I'm going to SEAL team. And guess who I'm going to end up serving with? All of these end up serving with? All of these end up serving with? All of these people. So, it is probably even to my people. So, it is probably even to my people. So, it is probably even to my own benefit and perhaps survival if I own benefit and perhaps survival if I own benefit and perhaps survival if I try to pour as much knowledge try to pour as much knowledge try to pour as much knowledge information into these people as opposed information into these people as opposed information into these people as opposed to treating them like the red-headed to treating them like the red-headed to treating them like the red-headed stepchild that you'd like to forget, stepchild that you'd like to forget, stepchild that you'd like to forget, which is which is which is technical description of how my class is technical description of how my class is technical description of how my class is treated. treated. treated. Not that I harbor any resentment and bad Not that I harbor any resentment and bad Not that I harbor any resentment and bad feelings. feelings. feelings. >> you had a particularly bad one? They >> you had a particularly bad one? They >> you had a particularly bad one? They hated our class. hated our class. hated our class. Well, hated the leadership of our class. Well, hated the leadership of our class. Well, hated the leadership of our class. We did So, Hell Week is the fifth week We did So, Hell Week is the fifth week We did So, Hell Week is the fifth week of training and it opens with like of training and it opens with like of training and it opens with like M60s firing blanks and smoke grenades. M60s firing blanks and smoke grenades. M60s firing blanks and smoke grenades. It's supposed to be like this intro into It's supposed to be like this intro into It's supposed to be like this intro into combat. Sounds like [ __ ] Coachella's combat. Sounds like [ __ ] Coachella's combat. Sounds like [ __ ] Coachella's opening party or something. I've never opening party or something. I've never opening party or something. I've never been to Coachella, but I like where your been to Coachella, but I like where your been to Coachella, but I like where your head's at. head's at. head's at. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> And probably less alcohol at this party >> And probably less alcohol at this party >> And probably less alcohol at this party than Coachella and Molly. But for our than Coachella and Molly. But for our than Coachella and Molly. But for our class, they just walked out to the beach class, they just walked out to the beach class, they just walked out to the beach cuz they put you out in these huge cuz they put you out in these huge cuz they put you out in these huge general purpose tents. general purpose tents. general purpose tents. And they just walked out to the beach And they just walked out to the beach And they just walked out to the beach with the bullhorn and like with the bullhorn and like with the bullhorn and like hit the surf, which just means run out hit the surf, which just means run out hit the surf, which just means run out of the tent and you just go get into the of the tent and you just go get into the of the tent and you just go get into the water. That's all we got. They hated our water. That's all we got. They hated our water. That's all we got. They hated our class. class. class. They'd beat the [ __ ] Why do you think They'd beat the [ __ ] Why do you think They'd beat the [ __ ] Why do you think they hate you so much? There's they hate you so much? There's they hate you so much? There's leadership. leadership. leadership. Do you have a leader during Hell Week? Do you have a leader during Hell Week? Do you have a leader during Hell Week? You have a leader at all times. Right. You have a leader at all times. Right. You have a leader at all times. Right. So, um they did not like me. So, um they did not like me. So, um they did not like me. Were you the leader? Were you the leader? Were you the leader? And how? And how? And how? >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> No, no. I was going to say I totally >> No, no. I was going to say I totally >> No, no. I was going to say I totally understand them if so. No, no. I failed understand them if so. No, no. I failed understand them if so. No, no. I failed in my leadership role much later on. Um in my leadership role much later on. Um in my leadership role much later on. Um after I had enough knowledge and after I had enough knowledge and after I had enough knowledge and experience and just not the technical experience and just not the technical experience and just not the technical capacity to do my job. capacity to do my job. capacity to do my job. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> That it's not everybody's There's >> That it's not everybody's There's >> That it's not everybody's There's another thing that a misconception that another thing that a misconception that another thing that a misconception that people have. people have. people have. Well, you know, if you come from special Well, you know, if you come from special Well, you know, if you come from special operations, you're just naturally this operations, you're just naturally this operations, you're just naturally this leader. You're going to be awesome. You leader. You're going to be awesome. You leader. You're going to be awesome. You can lead in any situation. It's not can lead in any situation. It's not can lead in any situation. It's not true. The best leaders that I ever was true. The best leaders that I ever was true. The best leaders that I ever was around was in that community. around was in that community. around was in that community. And in the same breath the worst leaders And in the same breath the worst leaders And in the same breath the worst leaders that I was ever around was also in that that I was ever around was also in that that I was ever around was also in that community. But nobody can tell that from community. But nobody can tell that from community. But nobody can tell that from the outside because we still will be the outside because we still will be the outside because we still will be successful. Get the job done. successful. Get the job done. successful. Get the job done. Right. And then so people look at that Right. And then so people look at that Right. And then so people look at that community and then they say, "Well, community and then they say, "Well, community and then they say, "Well, okay. If you guys always get the job okay. If you guys always get the job okay. If you guys always get the job done, then your leaders must all be done, then your leaders must all be done, then your leaders must all be awesome." awesome." awesome." Why don't you go ahead and canvas the Why don't you go ahead and canvas the Why don't you go ahead and canvas the group and you'll find out right quick group and you'll find out right quick group and you'll find out right quick which leaders are liked and appreciated which leaders are liked and appreciated which leaders are liked and appreciated and are actually doing the jobs and and are actually doing the jobs and and are actually doing the jobs and which ones are lucky which ones are lucky which ones are lucky that they might not have a dick rubbed that they might not have a dick rubbed that they might not have a dick rubbed on the inside of their coffee cup. on the inside of their coffee cup. on the inside of their coffee cup. >> So, you had a strong headwind. >> So, you had a strong headwind. >> So, you had a strong headwind. Does that mean a dick on my coffee cup? Does that mean a dick on my coffee cup? Does that mean a dick on my coffee cup? Yes. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. >> [laughter] >> I did the best I could. I've never >> I did the best I could. I've never claimed to be a good leader, man. I have claimed to be a good leader, man. I have claimed to be a good leader, man. I have made I'm not joking. I've made more made I'm not joking. I've made more made I'm not joking. I've made more mistakes in my life than I've had mistakes in my life than I've had mistakes in my life than I've had failures. This episode is brought to you failures. This episode is brought to you failures. This episode is brought to you by Gymshark. I have tried pretty much by Gymshark. I have tried pretty much by Gymshark. I have tried pretty much every brand of gym wear over the years. every brand of gym wear over the years. every brand of gym wear over the years. 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Every friend how I view failures, I now consider them tuition failures, I now consider them tuition failures, I now consider them tuition payments. Some of my tuition payments payments. Some of my tuition payments payments. Some of my tuition payments have been relatively inexpensive and have been relatively inexpensive and have been relatively inexpensive and some have taken me to the brink of some have taken me to the brink of some have taken me to the brink of bankruptcy. Yeah. bankruptcy. Yeah. bankruptcy. Yeah. Uh it's just an easier way to uh Uh it's just an easier way to uh Uh it's just an easier way to uh get comfortable with consistently get comfortable with consistently get comfortable with consistently failing. You're just lying to yourself failing. You're just lying to yourself failing. You're just lying to yourself and reframing that, "Hey, maybe this is and reframing that, "Hey, maybe this is and reframing that, "Hey, maybe this is a good thing." Cost of doing business is a good thing." Cost of doing business is a good thing." Cost of doing business is a great way to look at this stuff a great way to look at this stuff a great way to look at this stuff though, dude. Yeah, it really is. though, dude. Yeah, it really is. though, dude. Yeah, it really is. Legitimately, I I didn't view it like Legitimately, I I didn't view it like Legitimately, I I didn't view it like that for many, many years in my life that for many, many years in my life that for many, many years in my life because you want to sit there and blame because you want to sit there and blame because you want to sit there and blame every external circumstance and maybe every external circumstance and maybe every external circumstance and maybe you do fail because of an external you do fail because of an external you do fail because of an external circumstance, circumstance, circumstance, but by reframing it as a lesson that I but by reframing it as a lesson that I but by reframing it as a lesson that I learned then that I can apply moving learned then that I can apply moving learned then that I can apply moving forward, the tuition payment that you forward, the tuition payment that you forward, the tuition payment that you really don't understand the cost of, I really don't understand the cost of, I really don't understand the cost of, I mean, I'll take a mean, I'll take a mean, I'll take a to put in business terms, I'll take a to put in business terms, I'll take a to put in business terms, I'll take a $5,000 mistake that would save me $5,000 mistake that would save me $5,000 mistake that would save me 500,000 later on, you know, and that's 500,000 later on, you know, and that's 500,000 later on, you know, and that's that's really all it is. that's really all it is. that's really all it is. It's uh failures are rough. I mean, it It's uh failures are rough. I mean, it It's uh failures are rough. I mean, it doesn't make it any easier by reframing doesn't make it any easier by reframing doesn't make it any easier by reframing it to that, but I also it to that, but I also it to that, but I also sitting here today the person that I am sitting here today the person that I am sitting here today the person that I am because of the failures and hopefully because of the failures and hopefully because of the failures and hopefully what I've learned from those as well. what I've learned from those as well. what I've learned from those as well. What are some of the most expensive What are some of the most expensive What are some of the most expensive lessons that you've paid for? lessons that you've paid for? lessons that you've paid for? Oh, man. Oh, man. Oh, man. So, earlier in life So, earlier in life So, earlier in life my entire life was based around my entire life was based around my entire life was based around this concept of being somebody this concept of being somebody this concept of being somebody who was incapable of quitting who was incapable of quitting who was incapable of quitting because that's the community that I came because that's the community that I came because that's the community that I came from. from. from. And And And because of that because of that because of that I put my children and myself through I put my children and myself through I put my children and myself through probably 10 extra years in a probably 10 extra years in a probably 10 extra years in a relationship relationship relationship that I'm still working my way out of and that I'm still working my way out of and that I'm still working my way out of and the impact of because I would look at the impact of because I would look at the impact of because I would look at myself in the mirror myself in the mirror myself in the mirror and say and say and say today's the day, huh? [ __ ] today's the day, huh? [ __ ] today's the day, huh? [ __ ] Going to quit? Going to quit? Going to quit? I literally I literally I literally talked myself into staying in something talked myself into staying in something talked myself into staying in something that demonstrably and objectively almost that demonstrably and objectively almost that demonstrably and objectively almost everybody from the outside everybody from the outside everybody from the outside after I made the decision to leave was after I made the decision to leave was after I made the decision to leave was like, "Hey, man. like, "Hey, man. like, "Hey, man. Good job on that one. Good job on that one. Good job on that one. Wish you would have done that about a Wish you would have done that about a Wish you would have done that about a decade ago because of how I viewed decade ago because of how I viewed decade ago because of how I viewed myself in that situation." That shift myself in that situation." That shift myself in that situation." That shift and I write about it. It's I'd actually and I write about it. It's I'd actually and I write about it. It's I'd actually at this point in my life rather see at this point in my life rather see at this point in my life rather see people fall a little bit short of their people fall a little bit short of their people fall a little bit short of their goals goals goals and know when to walk away than destroy and know when to walk away than destroy and know when to walk away than destroy themselves because they don't ever want themselves because they don't ever want themselves because they don't ever want to quit and they end up having nothing to quit and they end up having nothing to quit and they end up having nothing in their life. in their life. in their life. There's a fine line between resilience There's a fine line between resilience There's a fine line between resilience and suppression with this. A lot of the and suppression with this. A lot of the and suppression with this. A lot of the time I think we are time I think we are time I think we are we compute confuse suppression for we compute confuse suppression for we compute confuse suppression for strength. strength. strength. And I don't I'm I'm I'm kind of And I don't I'm I'm I'm kind of And I don't I'm I'm I'm kind of fascinated about fascinated about fascinated about the line between giving up too soon Mhm. giving up too soon Mhm. leaving it on the table, sandbagging a leaving it on the table, sandbagging a leaving it on the table, sandbagging a workout and stopping because you're workout and stopping because you're workout and stopping because you're about to get injured. about to get injured. about to get injured. That is a tough one because how do you That is a tough one because how do you That is a tough one because how do you measure that? That there's no external measure that? That there's no external measure that? That there's no external tool that somebody can look at you and tool that somebody can look at you and tool that somebody can look at you and say, "Hey, say, "Hey, say, "Hey, you should keep going." Because they you should keep going." Because they you should keep going." Because they don't actually, you know, like they don't actually, you know, like they don't actually, you know, like they don't know don't know don't know how your body is how your body is how your body is >> What your limit is. Yeah, and especially >> What your limit is. Yeah, and especially >> What your limit is. Yeah, and especially like you know, if you use an exercise as like you know, if you use an exercise as like you know, if you use an exercise as an example, like the tension that you're an example, like the tension that you're an example, like the tension that you're under, like you you're actually getting under, like you you're actually getting under, like you you're actually getting physical feedback. Like, "No, no, I'm physical feedback. Like, "No, no, I'm physical feedback. Like, "No, no, I'm not going to put that down so I don't not going to put that down so I don't not going to put that down so I don't blow my, you know, my spine out." But blow my, you know, my spine out." But blow my, you know, my spine out." But the emotional one's even more difficult the emotional one's even more difficult the emotional one's even more difficult because because because what does it mean to say that you went what does it mean to say that you went what does it mean to say that you went past your emotional limit? Yeah. past your emotional limit? Yeah. past your emotional limit? Yeah. >> What does an injury >> What does an injury >> What does an injury relationally or comically or relationally or comically or relationally or comically or psychologically mean compared with yeah, psychologically mean compared with yeah, psychologically mean compared with yeah, dude, I I put dude, I I put dude, I I put 380 on the bar and tried to do 20 back 380 on the bar and tried to do 20 back 380 on the bar and tried to do 20 back squats and I blew my MCL. Yeah, that was squats and I blew my MCL. Yeah, that was squats and I blew my MCL. Yeah, that was a bad idea. But what does that mean? a bad idea. But what does that mean? a bad idea. But what does that mean? Because it's you erode psychological Because it's you erode psychological Because it's you erode psychological well-being in small chunks typically well-being in small chunks typically well-being in small chunks typically over a very long period of time. So, you over a very long period of time. So, you over a very long period of time. So, you can always go one more day. You can can always go one more day. You can can always go one more day. You can always go until you get to the stage always go until you get to the stage always go until you get to the stage where you've accumulated sufficient where you've accumulated sufficient where you've accumulated sufficient damage. Yeah. damage. Yeah. damage. Yeah. I wish I would have been able to I wish I would have been able to I wish I would have been able to recognize that point earlier in my life. recognize that point earlier in my life. recognize that point earlier in my life. It would have saved a lot of hardship It would have saved a lot of hardship It would have saved a lot of hardship for for for myself and I think for my my children as myself and I think for my my children as myself and I think for my my children as well, too. well, too. well, too. But if I'm like anybody else, But if I'm like anybody else, But if I'm like anybody else, I'm almost always my own worst enemy, I'm almost always my own worst enemy, I'm almost always my own worst enemy, you know. Like my mastery of negative you know. Like my mastery of negative you know. Like my mastery of negative self-talk and I I self-talk and I I self-talk and I I I have no uh education beyond a high I have no uh education beyond a high I have no uh education beyond a high school diploma that I barely got. I school diploma that I barely got. I school diploma that I barely got. I think they gave it to me just so I would think they gave it to me just so I would think they gave it to me just so I would get out of there. But a PhD in negative get out of there. But a PhD in negative get out of there. But a PhD in negative self-talk. self-talk. self-talk. How does that encourage you to stay in How does that encourage you to stay in How does that encourage you to stay in situations that you should leave situations that you should leave situations that you should leave earlier? earlier? earlier? The reason I stayed is because the The reason I stayed is because the The reason I stayed is because the entire currency of my life up until that entire currency of my life up until that entire currency of my life up until that point was being known as somebody who point was being known as somebody who point was being known as somebody who wouldn't quit. Mhm. wouldn't quit. Mhm. wouldn't quit. Mhm. And that's very common inside of that And that's very common inside of that And that's very common inside of that special operations world. Again, you special operations world. Again, you special operations world. Again, you know, what what do you what are these know, what what do you what are these know, what what do you what are these misconceptions that people may have? misconceptions that people may have? misconceptions that people may have? And and that's why to me it's so And and that's why to me it's so And and that's why to me it's so important to at least try to pull back important to at least try to pull back important to at least try to pull back the curtain a little bit and just the curtain a little bit and just the curtain a little bit and just explain that these are absolutely explain that these are absolutely explain that these are absolutely average people. Like, yeah, average people. Like, yeah, average people. Like, yeah, and God, so many guys will say this. and God, so many guys will say this. and God, so many guys will say this. I hate the term always and never, but I hate the term always and never, but I hate the term always and never, but most guys would tell you like, "Listen, most guys would tell you like, "Listen, most guys would tell you like, "Listen, the job will always suffer last. The the job will always suffer last. The the job will always suffer last. The boys will always suffer last, but the boys will always suffer last, but the boys will always suffer last, but the family will absolutely suffer before family will absolutely suffer before family will absolutely suffer before your job performance does." I mean, you your job performance does." I mean, you your job performance does." I mean, you put everything put everything put everything for that pursuit of who you are and and for that pursuit of who you are and and for that pursuit of who you are and and what you're doing on a pedestal, what you're doing on a pedestal, what you're doing on a pedestal, and everything else around you in life and everything else around you in life and everything else around you in life is falling apart, and you still have to is falling apart, and you still have to is falling apart, and you still have to deal with that at some point. And it's deal with that at some point. And it's deal with that at some point. And it's just that unwillingness to let people just that unwillingness to let people just that unwillingness to let people down, and that unwillingness to admit down, and that unwillingness to admit down, and that unwillingness to admit like, "Hey, man, like I'm falling apart like, "Hey, man, like I'm falling apart like, "Hey, man, like I'm falling apart at the seams here. Like, I might be at the seams here. Like, I might be at the seams here. Like, I might be performing work, but absolutely every performing work, but absolutely every performing work, but absolutely every other metric in my life is is trending other metric in my life is is trending other metric in my life is is trending in the wrong direction." in the wrong direction." in the wrong direction." The guys won't say anything. The guys won't say anything. The guys won't say anything. And it's it's dangerous. And it's it's dangerous. And it's it's dangerous. I think it has a lot to do with what I think it has a lot to do with what I think it has a lot to do with what happens when happens when happens when you know, you know, you know, guys get out and the struggles that they guys get out and the struggles that they guys get out and the struggles that they have when they get out as well, too. have when they get out as well, too. have when they get out as well, too. I found out that I found out that I found out that of professional athletes of professional athletes of professional athletes who get divorced, 50% of the divorces who get divorced, 50% of the divorces who get divorced, 50% of the divorces happen in the first year after they happen in the first year after they happen in the first year after they retire. retire. retire. It's a different universe when you stop It's a different universe when you stop It's a different universe when you stop going to work and you actually have to going to work and you actually have to going to work and you actually have to physically be there. physically be there. physically be there. On a the world I came from, On a the world I came from, On a the world I came from, 270 270 270 days a year on the road, easy. days a year on the road, easy. days a year on the road, easy. I mean, you you you're living I mean, you you you're living I mean, you you you're living independent, but maybe hopefully independent, but maybe hopefully independent, but maybe hopefully parallel lives. And then you switch to parallel lives. And then you switch to parallel lives. And then you switch to 365 home. 365 home. 365 home. Hey, honey, do we know each other? Do Hey, honey, do we know each other? Do Hey, honey, do we know each other? Do you still like me? you still like me? you still like me? I mean, you've lost your purpose. I I mean, you've lost your purpose. I I mean, you've lost your purpose. I think that's a big one. Like, you are think that's a big one. Like, you are think that's a big one. Like, you are trying to deal with the deceleration of trying to deal with the deceleration of trying to deal with the deceleration of your own identity. Hopefully you guys your own identity. Hopefully you guys your own identity. Hopefully you guys put the brakes on a little early, you put the brakes on a little early, you put the brakes on a little early, you know, lift their head up a little bit, know, lift their head up a little bit, know, lift their head up a little bit, realize that however long you want to realize that however long you want to realize that however long you want to stay in the military, the end is coming, stay in the military, the end is coming, stay in the military, the end is coming, so you can kind of keep an eye on the so you can kind of keep an eye on the so you can kind of keep an eye on the horizon, on the future. horizon, on the future. horizon, on the future. Uh the longer people wait for that, I Uh the longer people wait for that, I Uh the longer people wait for that, I think the tougher the transition can be. think the tougher the transition can be. think the tougher the transition can be. But, yeah, it's it's a shock, man. But, yeah, it's it's a shock, man. But, yeah, it's it's a shock, man. You got to be careful that it's not who You got to be careful that it's not who You got to be careful that it's not who you are, that it's just what you do. Given that it's so all-encompassing, Given that it's so all-encompassing, that's got to be difficult, then. that's got to be difficult, then. that's got to be difficult, then. >> Extremely. And I think that's why >> Extremely. And I think that's why >> Extremely. And I think that's why I mean, the stats don't lie. I mean, the stats don't lie. I mean, the stats don't lie. Statistically, uh veterans, special Statistically, uh veterans, special Statistically, uh veterans, special operations as well, suicide rate is operations as well, suicide rate is operations as well, suicide rate is statistically anomalous in comparison to statistically anomalous in comparison to statistically anomalous in comparison to the rest of society. the rest of society. the rest of society. You've got this line, "Until you view You've got this line, "Until you view You've got this line, "Until you view yourself as the author of your life, yourself as the author of your life, yourself as the author of your life, you'll be the victim of it." Yeah. you'll be the victim of it." Yeah. you'll be the victim of it." Yeah. What's that mean? What's that mean? What's that mean? It means until you stop blaming It means until you stop blaming It means until you stop blaming everything else around you for the everything else around you for the everything else around you for the course and trajectory of your life, course and trajectory of your life, course and trajectory of your life, you're just going to be a flag in the you're just going to be a flag in the you're just going to be a flag in the wind going with the direction that the wind going with the direction that the wind going with the direction that the wind is blowing. And for clarity, wind is blowing. And for clarity, wind is blowing. And for clarity, you have almost no control over what you have almost no control over what you have almost no control over what happens in your life, happens in your life, happens in your life, but you have complete and total control but you have complete and total control but you have complete and total control in how you respond to it. And that is in how you respond to it. And that is in how you respond to it. And that is being the author of your life. So, life being the author of your life. So, life being the author of your life. So, life sucks sometimes. Cool. sucks sometimes. Cool. sucks sometimes. Cool. Are you going to suck with that? Or are Are you going to suck with that? Or are Are you going to suck with that? Or are you going to take control of who you are you going to take control of who you are you going to take control of who you are and work your way through that and maybe and work your way through that and maybe and work your way through that and maybe even be better at the end of that, even be better at the end of that, even be better at the end of that, right? Um and that's the difference right? Um and that's the difference right? Um and that's the difference between somebody who will sit there and between somebody who will sit there and between somebody who will sit there and externally and instead of doing anything externally and instead of doing anything externally and instead of doing anything about what's going on, they'll sit there about what's going on, they'll sit there about what's going on, they'll sit there and complain about what's going on and and complain about what's going on and and complain about what's going on and point fingers at everything. The author point fingers at everything. The author point fingers at everything. The author of your life, not that it's any easier, of your life, not that it's any easier, of your life, not that it's any easier, you accept what's going on, and you you accept what's going on, and you you accept what's going on, and you focus on what it is that you can focus on what it is that you can focus on what it is that you can control, which is largely going to be control, which is largely going to be control, which is largely going to be your actions, your thought process, your your actions, your thought process, your your actions, your thought process, your internal monologue, and what you do with internal monologue, and what you do with internal monologue, and what you do with it. it. it. I suppose an interesting I suppose an interesting I suppose an interesting an interesting challenge that you have an interesting challenge that you have an interesting challenge that you have here is here is here is you are the author of your life, you are the author of your life, you are the author of your life, and that means that you need to take and that means that you need to take and that means that you need to take responsibility for how you have responsibility for how you have responsibility for how you have contributed to the problems that you're contributed to the problems that you're contributed to the problems that you're facing. But that also includes how your facing. But that also includes how your facing. But that also includes how your traits, even the ones that in a traits, even the ones that in a traits, even the ones that in a different world or a different different world or a different different world or a different environment were strengths, Yep. you are environment were strengths, Yep. you are environment were strengths, Yep. you are having to pay the price for now, too. having to pay the price for now, too. having to pay the price for now, too. That's also you are your own That's also you are your own That's also you are your own responsibility. Your traits are your own responsibility. Your traits are your own responsibility. Your traits are your own responsibility. responsibility. responsibility. If you take a no-quit attitude to If you take a no-quit attitude to If you take a no-quit attitude to everything in life, you are headed everything in life, you are headed everything in life, you are headed towards failure. towards failure. towards failure. You have to control those tools as well, You have to control those tools as well, You have to control those tools as well, too. too. too. And again, that from coming from the And again, that from coming from the And again, that from coming from the community where that was the currency community where that was the currency community where that was the currency and equity is your ability to never and equity is your ability to never and equity is your ability to never quit. quit. quit. Let's apply that to alcoholism. Let's apply that to alcoholism. Let's apply that to alcoholism. Like Like Like I have a drinking problem, I should not I have a drinking problem, I should not I have a drinking problem, I should not never quit, okay? Maybe I should just never quit, okay? Maybe I should just never quit, okay? Maybe I should just pick up heroin then, too, see how far I pick up heroin then, too, see how far I pick up heroin then, too, see how far I can push that one. Like, do you know can push that one. Like, do you know can push that one. Like, do you know what I mean? Like, you there's easy what I mean? Like, you there's easy what I mean? Like, you there's easy examples of where that can get examples of where that can get examples of where that can get completely out of control. completely out of control. completely out of control. >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> And >> And >> And it's just God, it's so God, it's so it's just God, it's so God, it's so it's just God, it's so God, it's so dangerous. dangerous. dangerous. And and that's why I say I would rather And and that's why I say I would rather And and that's why I say I would rather have people fall a little bit short of have people fall a little bit short of have people fall a little bit short of their goals and understand that not their goals and understand that not their goals and understand that not everything is worth destroying who you everything is worth destroying who you everything is worth destroying who you are or killing yourself for. There's are or killing yourself for. There's are or killing yourself for. There's just so few things in life that I think just so few things in life that I think just so few things in life that I think actually rise to that level. What's the actually rise to that level. What's the actually rise to that level. What's the classic avatar classic avatar classic avatar mold of a special operator's mold of a special operator's mold of a special operator's relationship relationship relationship like with their wife? like with their wife? like with their wife? Man, uh that really varies. I don't know Man, uh that really varies. I don't know Man, uh that really varies. I don't know if there could Some guys like to marry strippers. Some guys like to marry strippers. You know? You know? You know? So We're not even talking [laughter] So We're not even talking [laughter] So We're not even talking [laughter] about SEAL team anymore. about SEAL team anymore. about SEAL team anymore. So, I mean, that's that's that's so So, I mean, that's that's that's so So, I mean, that's that's that's so weird avatar and I'm not here to tell weird avatar and I'm not here to tell weird avatar and I'm not here to tell anybody how to party, but I mean, that anybody how to party, but I mean, that anybody how to party, but I mean, that relationship dynamic often involves relationship dynamic often involves relationship dynamic often involves Chinese food getting thrown at you for Chinese food getting thrown at you for Chinese food getting thrown at you for some reason. I don't know why, but I've some reason. I don't know why, but I've some reason. I don't know why, but I've seen it. seen it. seen it. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> I've seen it. It's weird. >> I've seen it. It's weird. >> I've seen it. It's weird. Um Um Um So, it really depends. The divorce rate So, it really depends. The divorce rate So, it really depends. The divorce rate in special operations, I would say, in special operations, I would say, in special operations, I would say, hovers at hovers at hovers at 80 to 85%? [ __ ] 80 to 85%? [ __ ] 80 to 85%? [ __ ] >> That's an estimate. Like, I have no That >> That's an estimate. Like, I have no That >> That's an estimate. Like, I have no That That It's anecdotal based on my That It's anecdotal based on my That It's anecdotal based on my experience. But, the other side of that experience. But, the other side of that experience. But, the other side of that is let's say it is 85. The 15% of those is let's say it is 85. The 15% of those is let's say it is 85. The 15% of those people are making it. And I have seen it people are making it. And I have seen it people are making it. And I have seen it where it's been high school sweethearts. where it's been high school sweethearts. where it's been high school sweethearts. Legitimately high school sweethearts and Legitimately high school sweethearts and Legitimately high school sweethearts and they they they they have the ability to grow together they have the ability to grow together they have the ability to grow together even though they're apart and they can even though they're apart and they can even though they're apart and they can reconnect. I mean, a lot of it has to do reconnect. I mean, a lot of it has to do reconnect. I mean, a lot of it has to do with, too, the the what was modeled for with, too, the the what was modeled for with, too, the the what was modeled for you when you were young, right? Because you when you were young, right? Because you when you were young, right? Because a lot of people will will replicate the a lot of people will will replicate the a lot of people will will replicate the avatar of what was shown to them when avatar of what was shown to them when avatar of what was shown to them when they were growing. That's what they they were growing. That's what they they were growing. That's what they think a relationship looks like. That's think a relationship looks like. That's think a relationship looks like. That's one of my regrets for staying 10 years one of my regrets for staying 10 years one of my regrets for staying 10 years longer than I than I think I should have longer than I than I think I should have longer than I than I think I should have is is is and I got to the point where I was and I got to the point where I was and I got to the point where I was asking myself like would I want my own asking myself like would I want my own asking myself like would I want my own children to follow my footsteps in this children to follow my footsteps in this children to follow my footsteps in this relationship? relationship? relationship? >> Yes, and if the answer like And you are >> Yes, and if the answer like And you are >> Yes, and if the answer like And you are imprinting them. Yes, and like what am I imprinting them. Yes, and like what am I imprinting them. Yes, and like what am I modeling here? I I'm so you know, I am modeling here? I I'm so you know, I am modeling here? I I'm so you know, I am the most influential person in my the most influential person in my the most influential person in my children's life, especially at that children's life, especially at that children's life, especially at that point in time in their life. What am I point in time in their life. What am I point in time in their life. What am I modeling? And it's like that is a tough modeling? And it's like that is a tough modeling? 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Dude, he was just tiny little robot? Dude, he was just like so extolling the virtues of his and like so extolling the virtues of his and like so extolling the virtues of his and his wife's relationship. Yeah. He's his wife's relationship. Yeah. He's his wife's relationship. Yeah. He's like, "Yeah, we I That's an example of like, "Yeah, we I That's an example of like, "Yeah, we I That's an example of one that did work. one that did work. one that did work. >> I think we've had >> I think we've had >> I think we've had about one and a half arguments in 35 about one and a half arguments in 35 about one and a half arguments in 35 years or however long they [ __ ] it. years or however long they [ __ ] it. years or however long they [ __ ] it. Oh, that just means they lie to each Oh, that just means they lie to each Oh, that just means they lie to each other. No. other. No. other. No. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Or she's too scared to do it. Uh that >> Or she's too scared to do it. Uh that >> Or she's too scared to do it. Uh that guy is a teddy bear. Yeah. He's cute. guy is a teddy bear. Yeah. He's cute. guy is a teddy bear. Yeah. He's cute. He's been He was nice. I saw him [ __ ] He's been He was nice. I saw him [ __ ] He's been He was nice. I saw him [ __ ] roll on the floor with Mark Zuckerberg. roll on the floor with Mark Zuckerberg. roll on the floor with Mark Zuckerberg. Like that was a a scene that I never Like that was a a scene that I never Like that was a a scene that I never thought I would have observed. That's thought I would have observed. That's thought I would have observed. That's not wise at Mark. No. No. That That no. not wise at Mark. No. No. That That no. not wise at Mark. No. No. That That no. That's not good. That's not good. That's not good. >> He's about half half the weight and size >> He's about half half the weight and size >> He's about half half the weight and size and about a tenth of the experience of and about a tenth of the experience of and about a tenth of the experience of Jocko. But it was fun. It was fun to Jocko. But it was fun. It was fun to Jocko. But it was fun. It was fun to watch. Especially while they were on watch. Especially while they were on watch. Especially while they were on their feet. It was really fun. Yeah. their feet. It was really fun. Yeah. their feet. It was really fun. Yeah. It's like watching UFC 1 happen. Is Zuck It's like watching UFC 1 happen. Is Zuck It's like watching UFC 1 happen. Is Zuck we Is he wee? Is he a tiny man? He's not we Is he wee? Is he a tiny man? He's not we Is he wee? Is he a tiny man? He's not small. He's definitely packed on some small. He's definitely packed on some small. He's definitely packed on some muscle and size. He's been training a muscle and size. He's been training a muscle and size. He's been training a good bit. good bit. good bit. >> How tall How tall do you think he is? Uh >> How tall How tall do you think he is? Uh >> How tall How tall do you think he is? Uh 5'9". 5'9". 5'9". I would try for one, but I would try for one, but I would try for one, but >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Look, I mean, it was it was good to see >> Look, I mean, it was it was good to see >> Look, I mean, it was it was good to see Jocko lie on top of another man. That Jocko lie on top of another man. That Jocko lie on top of another man. That was That was a great way to spend it. was That was a great way to spend it. was That was a great way to spend it. >> That's the best part about Jocko. >> That's the best part about Jocko. >> That's the best part about Jocko. Morning. Yeah. Getting to lie on another Morning. Yeah. Getting to lie on another Morning. Yeah. Getting to lie on another man. Or have them lie on top of you. man. Or have them lie on top of you. man. Or have them lie on top of you. Mhm. You know? Mhm. You know? Mhm. You know? We're not all tops. We're not all tops. We're not all tops. Sometimes we're bottoms. Sometimes we're Sometimes we're bottoms. Sometimes we're Sometimes we're bottoms. Sometimes we're bottoms. Dude, um what happened with bottoms. Dude, um what happened with bottoms. Dude, um what happened with this Rebel Neil conversation? Cuz me and this Rebel Neil conversation? Cuz me and this Rebel Neil conversation? Cuz me and you were texting about it and I saw an you were texting about it and I saw an you were texting about it and I saw an absolute tsunami of [ __ ] occur. Man, absolute tsunami of [ __ ] occur. Man, absolute tsunami of [ __ ] occur. Man, um I don't know how to accurately answer um I don't know how to accurately answer um I don't know how to accurately answer that because I don't know. that because I don't know. that because I don't know. This is the first time he and I ever had This is the first time he and I ever had This is the first time he and I ever had sat down and talked. When we opened the sat down and talked. When we opened the sat down and talked. When we opened the conversation, he reminded me that I had conversation, he reminded me that I had conversation, he reminded me that I had taken him for his first tandem when he taken him for his first tandem when he taken him for his first tandem when he went to the tandem, of course. I didn't went to the tandem, of course. I didn't went to the tandem, of course. I didn't remember that because on that day I was remember that because on that day I was remember that because on that day I was there as an instructor. there as an instructor. there as an instructor. You probably take six or eight people You probably take six or eight people You probably take six or eight people for a jump and that's how you That's for a jump and that's how you That's for a jump and that's how you That's strapped to you. Correct. You're a strapped to you. Correct. You're a strapped to you. Correct. You're a bottom. bottom. bottom. They would be the bottom. Ah. They would be the bottom. Ah. They would be the bottom. Ah. >> They're They're front riding. >> They're They're front riding. >> They're They're front riding. >> Power position. Yeah. Yeah. How to >> Power position. Yeah. Yeah. How to >> Power position. Yeah. Yeah. How to actually it is power bottom, yes. actually it is power bottom, yes. actually it is power bottom, yes. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> PBA, power bottom actual. Yeah. Um >> PBA, power bottom actual. Yeah. Um >> PBA, power bottom actual. Yeah. Um I didn't remember that. I didn't remember that. I didn't remember that. Because I'd always said I'd never met Because I'd always said I'd never met Because I'd always said I'd never met the guy. He was like, "Dude, you took me the guy. He was like, "Dude, you took me the guy. He was like, "Dude, you took me for a first hand." I'm like, "Fuck, for a first hand." I'm like, "Fuck, for a first hand." I'm like, "Fuck, sorry man, I didn't remember that. I've sorry man, I didn't remember that. I've sorry man, I didn't remember that. I've taken 1,500 people for the first hand taken 1,500 people for the first hand taken 1,500 people for the first hand him. So, it definitely wasn't him. So, it definitely wasn't him. So, it definitely wasn't intentional." intentional." intentional." I have never I have never I have never seen a military operation that has seen a military operation that has seen a military operation that has more more more tentacles tentacles tentacles going out going out going out with divergence in with divergence in with divergence in relayed experiences or stories, whatever relayed experiences or stories, whatever relayed experiences or stories, whatever you would want to call it, than that you would want to call it, than that you would want to call it, than that particular one. And I don't know what to particular one. And I don't know what to particular one. And I don't know what to make of it. make of it. make of it. I know a lot of people that were there. I know a lot of people that were there. I know a lot of people that were there. I was not. I was not. I was not. And And And not all of their stories align with not all of their stories align with not all of their stories align with the most the most the most common narratives as well, too. This is common narratives as well, too. This is common narratives as well, too. This is the Osama bin Laden, right? the Osama bin Laden, right? the Osama bin Laden, right? >> Correct. Yeah, the operation was called >> Correct. Yeah, the operation was called >> Correct. Yeah, the operation was called Neptune's Spear. Neptune's Spear. Neptune's Spear. So, to I don't know. So, to I don't know. So, to I don't know. Um He didn't deviate from his story. You He didn't deviate from his story. You know, he added some things in there that know, he added some things in there that know, he added some things in there that that definitely surprised me about what that definitely surprised me about what that definitely surprised me about what they included in the debrief and what they included in the debrief and what they included in the debrief and what they left out of the debrief. What were they left out of the debrief. What were they left out of the debrief. What were those things? those things? those things? Uh Uh Uh from Again, I was not there, so I'm from Again, I was not there, so I'm from Again, I was not there, so I'm relaying this. There was the first relaying this. There was the first relaying this. There was the first floor, the second floor, and then bin floor, the second floor, and then bin floor, the second floor, and then bin Laden and his wives and I believe a few Laden and his wives and I believe a few Laden and his wives and I believe a few children were on the third floor. children were on the third floor. children were on the third floor. The stories or the relayed experiences The stories or the relayed experiences The stories or the relayed experiences seem to start deviating at the the seem to start deviating at the the seem to start deviating at the the stairs that go up from the second floor stairs that go up from the second floor stairs that go up from the second floor to the third. And very, very few people to the third. And very, very few people to the third. And very, very few people were actually on those stairs. I don't were actually on those stairs. I don't were actually on those stairs. I don't know how wide the the stairways actually know how wide the the stairways actually know how wide the the stairways actually were. But, stairways can actually be were. But, stairways can actually be were. But, stairways can actually be really dangerous from a tactical You really dangerous from a tactical You really dangerous from a tactical You don't want to get get a bunch of people don't want to get get a bunch of people don't want to get get a bunch of people in there. It would take one guy to pull in there. It would take one guy to pull in there. It would take one guy to pull a pin on a grenade and roll it down a a pin on a grenade and roll it down a a pin on a grenade and roll it down a set of stairs and you're having a real set of stairs and you're having a real set of stairs and you're having a real [ __ ] day. [ __ ] day. [ __ ] day. So, you want to have enough people, but So, you want to have enough people, but So, you want to have enough people, but also the minimum amount. And the way he also the minimum amount. And the way he also the minimum amount. And the way he described it is that it they were described it is that it they were described it is that it they were getting a little bit thin on bodies. getting a little bit thin on bodies. getting a little bit thin on bodies. But, the But, the But, the first person first person first person saw movement, took a shot. saw movement, took a shot. saw movement, took a shot. They went into the room. They went into the room. They went into the room. Rob encountered Bin Laden, shot Bin Rob encountered Bin Laden, shot Bin Rob encountered Bin Laden, shot Bin Laden, Laden, Laden, and then essentially before and then essentially before and then essentially before they went to the debrief and then after they went to the debrief and then after they went to the debrief and then after that it I mean Rob said that as he was that it I mean Rob said that as he was that it I mean Rob said that as he was getting ready to take pictures a guy getting ready to take pictures a guy getting ready to take pictures a guy walked up and shot him in the face walked up and shot him in the face walked up and shot him in the face multiple times right in front of him. multiple times right in front of him. multiple times right in front of him. That essentially before they went down That essentially before they went down That essentially before they went down to do the debrief, they the the people to do the debrief, they the the people to do the debrief, they the the people who were on the third floor got together who were on the third floor got together who were on the third floor got together and decided what they were going to and decided what they were going to and decided what they were going to include in that and what they were going include in that and what they were going include in that and what they were going to include in that. And again the to include in that. And again the to include in that. And again the conversation was a while ago so I don't conversation was a while ago so I don't conversation was a while ago so I don't know the exact specifics of it but it know the exact specifics of it but it know the exact specifics of it but it was the initial shots and then the was the initial shots and then the was the initial shots and then the follow-up shots from that as well from follow-up shots from that as well from follow-up shots from that as well from Rob and the man who was in front of him. Rob and the man who was in front of him. Rob and the man who was in front of him. Mhm. Why is shooting a enemy combatant Mhm. Why is shooting a enemy combatant Mhm. Why is shooting a enemy combatant that's dead in the face It's a war that's dead in the face It's a war that's dead in the face It's a war crime. crime. crime. >> [sighs] >> [sighs] >> [sighs] >> Mutilation of an enemy combatant. >> Mutilation of an enemy combatant. >> Mutilation of an enemy combatant. >> Correct. >> Correct. >> Correct. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Not Not Not not advisable. not advisable. not advisable. And if you And if you And if you are going to do that and I mean it's are going to do that and I mean it's are going to do that and I mean it's just I heard That stuff happens. I mean bottom line. That stuff happens. I mean bottom line. Um Um Um you also sometime I mean it but there's you also sometime I mean it but there's you also sometime I mean it but there's a difference between the way he a difference between the way he a difference between the way he described it is there was an immense described it is there was an immense described it is there was an immense amount of time amount of time amount of time between essentially the target being between essentially the target being between essentially the target being called secure which is where you can called secure which is where you can called secure which is where you can kind of unravel a little bit from a kind of unravel a little bit from a kind of unravel a little bit from a tactical perspective, right? You like tactical perspective, right? You like tactical perspective, right? You like that call come over the radio and then that call come over the radio and then that call come over the radio and then you start a process of basically you start a process of basically you start a process of basically gathering as much information as you gathering as much information as you gathering as much information as you can. That's where you get the cameras can. That's where you get the cameras can. That's where you get the cameras out and you start looking for stuff and out and you start looking for stuff and out and you start looking for stuff and bagging things. bagging things. bagging things. >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> It you know when you're clearing >> It you know when you're clearing >> It you know when you're clearing you don't want to you don't want to you don't want to you don't want to you don't want to you don't want to leave uncertainty. As if you engage leave uncertainty. As if you engage leave uncertainty. As if you engage somebody you don't want to leave somebody you don't want to leave somebody you don't want to leave uncertainty as to whether or not they're uncertainty as to whether or not they're uncertainty as to whether or not they're going to resurrect themself and come So going to resurrect themself and come So going to resurrect themself and come So it's and so you what you end up doing is it's and so you what you end up doing is it's and so you what you end up doing is you inflict wounds that are incompatible you inflict wounds that are incompatible you inflict wounds that are incompatible with life. So if you can put the inside with life. So if you can put the inside with life. So if you can put the inside of their head on the outside of their of their head on the outside of their of their head on the outside of their head, that's usually a good indication head, that's usually a good indication head, that's usually a good indication that that problem is solved. Um there's that that problem is solved. Um there's that that problem is solved. Um there's a difference in doing that as you are a difference in doing that as you are a difference in doing that as you are clearing instructor and instructor and clearing instructor and instructor and clearing instructor and instructor and actively engaged actively engaged actively engaged and then after, you know what I mean, and then after, you know what I mean, and then after, you know what I mean, after that happening. It happens. It happens. It's a It's a [ __ ] ugly occupation. It's a It's a [ __ ] ugly occupation. It's a It's a [ __ ] ugly occupation. And it And it And it will show you the best of who you are will show you the best of who you are will show you the best of who you are and the worst of who you ever thought and the worst of who you ever thought and the worst of who you ever thought you could be. you could be. you could be. And some people get lost in that. And some people get lost in that. And some people get lost in that. And you put people on the front lines And you put people on the front lines And you put people on the front lines who have been sharpening their teeth for who have been sharpening their teeth for who have been sharpening their teeth for decades decades decades fighting the same people in the same fighting the same people in the same fighting the same people in the same places. places. places. It happens. It happens. It happens. But Did that feel like righteous But Did that feel like righteous But Did that feel like righteous retribution in the moment, perhaps? retribution in the moment, perhaps? retribution in the moment, perhaps? Probably in the moment. Probably in the moment. Probably in the moment. But And almost immediately regret. But And almost immediately regret. But And almost immediately regret. I don't know if there's always regret. I don't know if there's always regret. I don't know if there's always regret. Hm. Um Sometimes I don't think there ever is. Sometimes I don't think there ever is. To me, my personal opinion, and I always To me, my personal opinion, and I always To me, my personal opinion, and I always speak for myself, speak for myself, speak for myself, we need to be better than that. If we we need to be better than that. If we we need to be better than that. If we want to be a beacon to the world, want to be a beacon to the world, want to be a beacon to the world, we need to be better than that. we need to be better than that. we need to be better than that. And that's tough. And that's tough. And that's tough. Because it means that you need to play Because it means that you need to play Because it means that you need to play by rules that other people are maybe not by rules that other people are maybe not by rules that other people are maybe not going to. going to. going to. You need to respect certain boundaries. You need to respect certain boundaries. You need to respect certain boundaries. You need to play, I mean, You need to play, I mean, You need to play, I mean, war fair, you know, the the war fair, you know, the the war fair, you know, the the Geneva Convention, get it, totally Geneva Convention, get it, totally Geneva Convention, get it, totally understand. Rules of engagement, totally understand. Rules of engagement, totally understand. Rules of engagement, totally understand. Law of war, rule of war, understand. Law of war, rule of war, understand. Law of war, rule of war, totally understand. totally understand. totally understand. There is a lot of flexibility inside of There is a lot of flexibility inside of There is a lot of flexibility inside of all of those things. You can do all of those things. You can do all of those things. You can do everything that you need to do and be everything that you need to do and be everything that you need to do and be accomplish the mission you need to and accomplish the mission you need to and accomplish the mission you need to and dominate people on the battlefield dominate people on the battlefield dominate people on the battlefield inside of those things. inside of those things. inside of those things. Just imagine it. I mean, in a lot of Just imagine it. I mean, in a lot of Just imagine it. I mean, in a lot of times all you have to do is flip the times all you have to do is flip the times all you have to do is flip the coin. How would the American people coin. How would the American people coin. How would the American people react if, let's say, react if, let's say, react if, let's say, pilot in Iran, pilot in Iran, pilot in Iran, right, we'll go to modern day, got right, we'll go to modern day, got right, we'll go to modern day, got captured, captured, captured, got killed, and then they put on the got killed, and then they put on the got killed, and then they put on the internet a guy walking up with an AK and internet a guy walking up with an AK and internet a guy walking up with an AK and unloading a magazine into his face. unloading a magazine into his face. unloading a magazine into his face. That's not going to go over well. Yeah. That's not going to go over well. Yeah. That's not going to go over well. Yeah. If we do that to other people, If we do that to other people, If we do that to other people, often times it'll move the barrier often times it'll move the barrier often times it'll move the barrier for what they're willing to do to us as for what they're willing to do to us as for what they're willing to do to us as well. And I think that our country and well. And I think that our country and well. And I think that our country and our flag needs to stand for more than our flag needs to stand for more than our flag needs to stand for more than that. that. that. Well, there's already a level of Well, there's already a level of Well, there's already a level of contention over the US entering contention over the US entering contention over the US entering conflicts at the moment. And conflicts at the moment. And conflicts at the moment. And I don't know what you think this does to I don't know what you think this does to I don't know what you think this does to how attractive military service looks at how attractive military service looks at how attractive military service looks at the moment. But at least for me, you the moment. But at least for me, you the moment. But at least for me, you know, in the UK for instance, you've know, in the UK for instance, you've know, in the UK for instance, you've spent a good bit of time in the UK. spent a good bit of time in the UK. spent a good bit of time in the UK. Um Um Um there is no we would like to invite there is no we would like to invite there is no we would like to invite first responders and active military first responders and active military first responders and active military personnel to board the plane early. How personnel to board the plane early. How personnel to board the plane early. How come? come? come? Because no one gives a [ __ ] about our Because no one gives a [ __ ] about our Because no one gives a [ __ ] about our military. I've never I've flown hundreds of I've never I've flown hundreds of flights around the UK. And they they may flights around the UK. And they they may flights around the UK. And they they may have changed it now, but I've never once have changed it now, but I've never once have changed it now, but I've never once heard heard heard >> Do they have a special group that they >> Do they have a special group that they >> Do they have a special group that they invite on early? invite on early? invite on early? I'm fascinated now. I'm fascinated now. I'm fascinated now. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> I >> I >> I I don't know. Maybe your friend that I don't know. Maybe your friend that I don't know. Maybe your friend that ejected himself out into liquefied, ejected himself out into liquefied, ejected himself out into liquefied, perhaps he would get to go on first. perhaps he would get to go on first. perhaps he would get to go on first. >> Gillian Gill, look him up now. Holy Can >> Gillian Gill, look him up now. Holy Can >> Gillian Gill, look him up now. Holy Can he walk now? he walk now? he walk now? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Okay. >> running half marathons. Okay. I mean, >> running half marathons. Okay. I mean, >> running half marathons. Okay. I mean, I'm not saying he's Gates good, but it I'm not saying he's Gates good, but it I'm not saying he's Gates good, but it like like like >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> He's Gillian Gill. He's loping down. >> He's Gillian Gill. He's loping down. >> He's Gillian Gill. He's loping down. >> A little slower. Uh yeah, did just I >> A little slower. Uh yeah, did just I >> A little slower. Uh yeah, did just I said the UK doesn't revere the the said the UK doesn't revere the the said the UK doesn't revere the the veteran community in the UK. I have no veteran community in the UK. I have no veteran community in the UK. I have no idea what that Yeah. idea what that Yeah. idea what that Yeah. >> And to me it's the sort of [ __ ] that I >> And to me it's the sort of [ __ ] that I >> And to me it's the sort of [ __ ] that I just learned about in American movies. just learned about in American movies. just learned about in American movies. And then since coming here, And then since coming here, And then since coming here, I for instance, I once was wearing a I for instance, I once was wearing a I for instance, I once was wearing a Black Rifle Coffee uh t-shirt and I Black Rifle Coffee uh t-shirt and I Black Rifle Coffee uh t-shirt and I think it had the American flag Yeah. on think it had the American flag Yeah. on think it had the American flag Yeah. on and it's a sort of um um military green and it's a sort of um um military green and it's a sort of um um military green kind of color. kind of color. kind of color. >> Yeah. It's really nice t-shirt. I wore >> Yeah. It's really nice t-shirt. I wore >> Yeah. It's really nice t-shirt. I wore it until it was [ __ ] threadbare. And it until it was [ __ ] threadbare. And it until it was [ __ ] threadbare. And I got on a plane and a gentleman who was I got on a plane and a gentleman who was I got on a plane and a gentleman who was sat in one of the earliest rows said, sat in one of the earliest rows said, sat in one of the earliest rows said, "Thank you for your service." to me as I "Thank you for your service." to me as I "Thank you for your service." to me as I went past. went past. went past. >> What did you say? I was like, I we I >> What did you say? I was like, I we I >> What did you say? I was like, I we I [ __ ] yeah. And as I'm like being [ __ ] [ __ ] yeah. And as I'm like being [ __ ] [ __ ] yeah. And as I'm like being [ __ ] conveyed belted along conveyed belted along conveyed belted along >> The movies you say, "You're welcome. I >> The movies you say, "You're welcome. I >> The movies you say, "You're welcome. I did it for you." Oh, yes, go and get it. did it for you." Oh, yes, go and get it. did it for you." Oh, yes, go and get it. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> I don't know. Is it enough about stolen >> I don't know. Is it enough about stolen >> I don't know. Is it enough about stolen valor already for the British to come valor already for the British to come valor already for the British to come in? Not only stolen valor, it's stolen in? Not only stolen valor, it's stolen in? Not only stolen valor, it's stolen patriotism. Holy [ __ ] patriotism. Holy [ __ ] patriotism. Holy [ __ ] >> It's stolen passing valor. You were >> It's stolen passing valor. You were >> It's stolen passing valor. You were being pushed over. That's correct. being pushed over. That's correct. being pushed over. That's correct. >> [laughter] >> I'm like desperately trying to like my I >> I'm like desperately trying to like my I needed to get my British out of the way needed to get my British out of the way needed to get my British out of the way first so that I could apologize for him first so that I could apologize for him first so that I could apologize for him getting it wrong. I'm like I'm so sorry getting it wrong. I'm like I'm so sorry getting it wrong. I'm like I'm so sorry that you you you seem to be mistaken. that you you you seem to be mistaken. that you you you seem to be mistaken. Allow me to say my word. Um but even Allow me to say my word. Um but even Allow me to say my word. Um but even within that like it's just so there's a within that like it's just so there's a within that like it's just so there's a a reflex response in this country. a reflex response in this country. a reflex response in this country. Not always though. So my dad served in Not always though. So my dad served in Not always though. So my dad served in Vietnam. Vietnam. Vietnam. They didn't get that. They didn't get that. They didn't get that. Most of my dad's generation and served Most of my dad's generation and served Most of my dad's generation and served in the military they'd be the last in the military they'd be the last in the military they'd be the last person to tell you that they actually person to tell you that they actually person to tell you that they actually did. His experiences were completely did. His experiences were completely did. His experiences were completely different than the Yeah. different than the Yeah. different than the Yeah. Yeah. Then the modern era veteran. How Yeah. Then the modern era veteran. How Yeah. Then the modern era veteran. How do you think he would change in the UK do you think he would change in the UK do you think he would change in the UK though? Like let's transport 9/11. Do though? Like let's transport 9/11. Do though? Like let's transport 9/11. Do you guys have twin tower Are you guys you guys have twin tower Are you guys you guys have twin tower Are you guys allowed to build that high? Are you allowed to build that high? Are you allowed to build that high? Are you capable of it? I think we're capable of capable of it? I think we're capable of capable of it? I think we're capable of it. I mean look Christopher Wren it. I mean look Christopher Wren it. I mean look Christopher Wren >> I thought five stories was the maximum >> I thought five stories was the maximum >> I thought five stories was the maximum you could do. you could do. you could do. >> Christopher Wren was Dude, we had the >> Christopher Wren was Dude, we had the >> Christopher Wren was Dude, we had the 7/7 we had the 7/7 bombings. 7/7 we had the 7/7 bombings. 7/7 we had the 7/7 bombings. So what let's say it was something Okay, So what let's say it was something Okay, So what let's say it was something Okay, what what what for whatever the analogy would be if for whatever the analogy would be if for whatever the analogy would be if 9/11 had occurred in the UK 9/11 had occurred in the UK 9/11 had occurred in the UK and the UK had responded in the way that and the UK had responded in the way that and the UK had responded in the way that the US had in Afghanistan or like also the US had in Afghanistan or like also the US had in Afghanistan or like also taking the fact differences in size and taking the fact differences in size and taking the fact differences in size and all that. all that. all that. Do you think it would have changed the Do you think it would have changed the Do you think it would have changed the mentality though of the mentality though of the mentality though of the the citizens in the UK and how they the citizens in the UK and how they the citizens in the UK and how they viewed it? Perhaps. I mean I look I viewed it? Perhaps. I mean I look I viewed it? Perhaps. I mean I look I Are you saying to me that the turning Are you saying to me that the turning Are you saying to me that the turning point point point around how the military was interpreted around how the military was interpreted around how the military was interpreted and the level of warmth towards people and the level of warmth towards people and the level of warmth towards people who were veterans was 2001. I don't know who were veterans was 2001. I don't know who were veterans was 2001. I don't know if that was if that was if that was the I don't know if I can't claim the I don't know if I can't claim the I don't know if I can't claim causality but correlation certainly causality but correlation certainly causality but correlation certainly existed. existed. existed. >> That seems to be a for prior to then not >> That seems to be a for prior to then not >> That seems to be a for prior to then not quite so revered after then pretty quite so revered after then pretty quite so revered after then pretty revered. But it's Okay, so maybe it's revered. But it's Okay, so maybe it's revered. But it's Okay, so maybe it's just recency bias for me talking that just recency bias for me talking that just recency bias for me talking that what I know from my memory of how people what I know from my memory of how people what I know from my memory of how people respond to respond to respond to American veterans is that it's American veterans is that it's American veterans is that it's Thank you for your service, special Thank you for your service, special Thank you for your service, special dispensation, dispensation, dispensation, a variety of different days and and a variety of different days and and a variety of different days and and parades and all sorts of other stuff parades and all sorts of other stuff parades and all sorts of other stuff with rainbow flags. And then you get with rainbow flags. And then you get with rainbow flags. And then you get to now where to now where to now where I don't know if the same thing's quite I don't know if the same thing's quite I don't know if the same thing's quite so true. I I feel like there's a a lack so true. I I feel like there's a a lack so true. I I feel like there's a a lack there's a dearth of Pendulum's always there's a dearth of Pendulum's always there's a dearth of Pendulum's always swing. swing. swing. And so maybe it's going back to what it And so maybe it's going back to what it And so maybe it's going back to what it what is more typical. Perhaps that was what is more typical. Perhaps that was what is more typical. Perhaps that was the aberration. Perhaps that was the the aberration. Perhaps that was the the aberration. Perhaps that was the anomaly the last 30 years or so 20 anomaly the last 30 years or so 20 anomaly the last 30 years or so 20 years. Perhaps that was what was years. Perhaps that was what was years. Perhaps that was what was strange. I would say one hears is the strange. I would say one hears is the strange. I would say one hears is the anomaly. And honestly I think the anomaly. And honestly I think the anomaly. And honestly I think the again again again to go back to misconceptions. I to go back to misconceptions. I to go back to misconceptions. I Sorry, please World War II. Yeah. Guys Sorry, please World War II. Yeah. Guys Sorry, please World War II. Yeah. Guys came home. came home. came home. That was a big part of the baby boom was That was a big part of the baby boom was That was a big part of the baby boom was off the back of dudes that were just off the back of dudes that were just off the back of dudes that were just revered by every single person who revered by every single person who revered by every single person who hadn't been to war. And all of the other hadn't been to war. And all of the other hadn't been to war. And all of the other people that had as well. Yeah. people that had as well. Yeah. people that had as well. Yeah. I think uh I think uh I think uh revering revering revering a community above all others can also a community above all others can also a community above all others can also become incredibly dangerous as well. It become incredibly dangerous as well. It become incredibly dangerous as well. It becomes a manipulatable system, it becomes a manipulatable system, it becomes a manipulatable system, it becomes a system that you can gain, and becomes a system that you can gain, and becomes a system that you can gain, and then poor examples [snorts] then poor examples [snorts] then poor examples [snorts] or expressions of that start that or expressions of that start that or expressions of that start that pendulum going back in the other pendulum going back in the other pendulum going back in the other direction. I think it's a naturally direction. I think it's a naturally direction. I think it's a naturally correcting thing. correcting thing. correcting thing. But But But yeah, I think it has more to do with the yeah, I think it has more to do with the yeah, I think it has more to do with the previous 20 years than anything else. previous 20 years than anything else. previous 20 years than anything else. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. That'll be my guess. That'll be my guess. That'll be my guess. Yeah, I would just you know Yeah, I would just you know Yeah, I would just you know if you are if you are if you are if there's the potential for boots on if there's the potential for boots on if there's the potential for boots on the ground being needed in the Middle the ground being needed in the Middle the ground being needed in the Middle East, which East, which East, which every day it just how whatever low the every day it just how whatever low the every day it just how whatever low the likelihood was or is likelihood was or is likelihood was or is that likelihood increases each day. I that likelihood increases each day. I that likelihood increases each day. I have absolutely no idea what is going have absolutely no idea what is going have absolutely no idea what is going on. It is on. It is on. It is pretty wild. How so? pretty wild. How so? pretty wild. How so? Um I thought I thought that we were in the like end the wars that we were in the like end the wars that we were in the like end the wars phase of politics. phase of politics. phase of politics. And uh you know, don't start any new And uh you know, don't start any new And uh you know, don't start any new ones. Even the technical who are not at ones. Even the technical who are not at ones. Even the technical who are not at war, right? Of course there's that war, right? Of course there's that war, right? Of course there's that lovely little caveat of how the lovely little caveat of how the lovely little caveat of how the authorized use of military force has authorized use of military force has authorized use of military force has been completely bent by every president been completely bent by every president been completely bent by every president that has been in office since it was that has been in office since it was that has been in office since it was created. created. created. Um Um Um I don't know how well the checks and I don't know how well the checks and I don't know how well the checks and balances are currently working. balances are currently working. balances are currently working. Um I don't I don't know what the Um I don't I don't know what the Um I don't I don't know what the conscription thing like registering for conscription thing like registering for conscription thing like registering for the draft. I mean, there's a difference the draft. I mean, there's a difference the draft. I mean, there's a difference between registering people for the draft between registering people for the draft between registering people for the draft and then they like executing a draft. and then they like executing a draft. and then they like executing a draft. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. I would actually really like to see 2 I would actually really like to see 2 I would actually really like to see 2 years of mandatory service for young men years of mandatory service for young men years of mandatory service for young men and women. It would give people such a and women. It would give people such a and women. It would give people such a different context on on the world around different context on on the world around different context on on the world around them. As opposed to just experiencing them. As opposed to just experiencing them. As opposed to just experiencing world through Instagram at that age, world through Instagram at that age, world through Instagram at that age, you'd go out and just if you could leave you'd go out and just if you could leave you'd go out and just if you could leave where you were at and go to an area that where you were at and go to an area that where you were at and go to an area that was perhaps more impoverished or just was perhaps more impoverished or just was perhaps more impoverished or just get it a different view of it and and get it a different view of it and and get it a different view of it and and serve something bigger than yourself for serve something bigger than yourself for serve something bigger than yourself for 2 years, I think it would help a lot. 2 years, I think it would help a lot. 2 years, I think it would help a lot. >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> But >> But >> But I mean I mean I mean I don't I don't know. Um I don't I don't know. Um I don't I don't know. Um I get really wary I get really wary I get really wary when when when there's no definable end state and there's no definable end state and there's no definable end state and that's on my own experience in the that's on my own experience in the that's on my own experience in the global war on terror. global war on terror. global war on terror. I mean, we accomplished our I mean, we accomplished our I mean, we accomplished our military objectives in Afghanistan, then military objectives in Afghanistan, then military objectives in Afghanistan, then this is people way more steeped in this is people way more steeped in this is people way more steeped in military knowledge and understanding military knowledge and understanding military knowledge and understanding than myself in about 90 days. than myself in about 90 days. than myself in about 90 days. We stayed for 20 years. We stayed for 20 years. We stayed for 20 years. Our exit Our exit Our exit probably could have been better. probably could have been better. probably could have been better. We left a few things behind. We left a few things behind. We left a few things behind. Did you see the video of like the day Did you see the video of like the day Did you see the video of like the day after we left? after we left? after we left? They were flying a Black Hawk with a man They were flying a Black Hawk with a man They were flying a Black Hawk with a man hanging from his neck underneath the hanging from his neck underneath the hanging from his neck underneath the rope underneath it literally the day rope underneath it literally the day rope underneath it literally the day after. after. after. No. Oh, yeah. Not really. We left a lot No. Oh, yeah. Not really. We left a lot No. Oh, yeah. Not really. We left a lot of stuff behind. Iraq of stuff behind. Iraq of stuff behind. Iraq you know you know you know what's our definable end state? What what's our definable end state? What what's our definable end state? What How long Sorry, how long ago was the How long Sorry, how long ago was the How long Sorry, how long ago was the official official official withdrawal? Uh 5 years? I think so, withdrawal? Uh 5 years? I think so, withdrawal? Uh 5 years? I think so, yeah. We would have to look that one up. yeah. We would have to look that one up. yeah. We would have to look that one up. My point is however long ago that was My point is however long ago that was My point is however long ago that was >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> I don't know. It's like you and a toxic >> I don't know. It's like you and a toxic >> I don't know. It's like you and a toxic ex. Like you're just not able to stop ex. Like you're just not able to stop ex. Like you're just not able to stop going back. All right. I She's not good going back. All right. I She's not good going back. All right. I She's not good for me. She wasn't good for me for a for me. She wasn't good for me for a for me. She wasn't good for me for a long time. long time. long time. God, I've had a few cocktails though. God, I've had a few cocktails though. God, I've had a few cocktails though. So [laughter] how many do that to send a So [laughter] how many do that to send a So [laughter] how many do that to send a you up WhatsApp? You know what's wild you up WhatsApp? You know what's wild you up WhatsApp? You know what's wild too is too is too is where was it? August 30th, 2021. So not where was it? August 30th, 2021. So not where was it? August 30th, 2021. So not even 5 years. And here's what's wild. even 5 years. And here's what's wild. even 5 years. And here's what's wild. We're talking about We're talking about We're talking about The talking point now is that Iran has The talking point now is that Iran has The talking point now is that Iran has been our enemy for 47 years, which I'm been our enemy for 47 years, which I'm been our enemy for 47 years, which I'm not going to argue. But death to America not going to argue. But death to America not going to argue. But death to America is a thing for a certain segment of the is a thing for a certain segment of the is a thing for a certain segment of the population and ideological belief there. population and ideological belief there. population and ideological belief there. Got it. Got it. Got it. Why are we choosing now over the 47 Why are we choosing now over the 47 Why are we choosing now over the 47 years? Where was people that I mean, we years? Where was people that I mean, we years? Where was people that I mean, we had a robust for people who don't know had a robust for people who don't know had a robust for people who don't know where Iran is. It sits in between Iraq where Iran is. It sits in between Iraq where Iran is. It sits in between Iraq and Afghanistan. and Afghanistan. and Afghanistan. We had Oreo'd that [ __ ] They were the We had Oreo'd that [ __ ] They were the We had Oreo'd that [ __ ] They were the delicious creamy center. delicious creamy center. delicious creamy center. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> So what is analogy is getting wild >> So what is analogy is getting wild >> So what is analogy is getting wild bastard bastard bastard of the US military. of the US military. of the US military. But what we did is bailed But what we did is bailed But what we did is bailed when we had an immense amount of when we had an immense amount of when we had an immense amount of infrastructure there. infrastructure there. infrastructure there. And now we're going to go back and I And now we're going to go back and I And now we're going to go back and I just just just Give me some Give me some metrics by Give me some Give me some metrics by Give me some Give me some metrics by which we're measuring our if it's like which we're measuring our if it's like which we're measuring our if it's like what are we using as our metric here? We what are we using as our metric here? We what are we using as our metric here? We destroyed their entire anti-air system. destroyed their entire anti-air system. destroyed their entire anti-air system. But we just lost two F-15s and two But we just lost two F-15s and two But we just lost two F-15s and two A-10s. We just nuked four of our own A-10s. We just nuked four of our own A-10s. We just nuked four of our own A-6s and the C-130s that they flew in A-6s and the C-130s that they flew in A-6s and the C-130s that they flew in there on like there on like there on like I thought we had air superiority. Can't I thought we had air superiority. Can't I thought we had air superiority. Can't get We can't let them get a nuclear get We can't let them get a nuclear get We can't let them get a nuclear weapon. Well, then what do we strike for weapon. Well, then what do we strike for weapon. Well, then what do we strike for last year because the president of the last year because the president of the last year because the president of the United States got up there and said we United States got up there and said we United States got up there and said we completely annihilated their ability to completely annihilated their ability to completely annihilated their ability to enrich uranium. But now we're saying we enrich uranium. But now we're saying we enrich uranium. But now we're saying we can't let them get a bomb like can't let them get a bomb like can't let them get a bomb like Were you not telling me the truth then Were you not telling me the truth then Were you not telling me the truth then or you're not telling me the truth now? or you're not telling me the truth now? or you're not telling me the truth now? Or are you never telling me the truth? Or are you never telling me the truth? Or are you never telling me the truth? That's probably the better question for That's probably the better question for That's probably the better question for politicians. politicians. politicians. I just it's such I just it's such I just it's such It is such It is such It is such a horrific thing to ask of people to go a horrific thing to ask of people to go a horrific thing to ask of people to go do those things that I wish the people do those things that I wish the people do those things that I wish the people that made the decisions that made the decisions that made the decisions to some degree I wish they had more skin to some degree I wish they had more skin to some degree I wish they had more skin in the game. I wish they had to go with in the game. I wish they had to go with in the game. 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What's that line about wars being chosen by old that line about wars being chosen by old that line about wars being chosen by old men so that young men go out and die? men so that young men go out and die? men so that young men go out and die? There's some Yeah, some pithy aphorism There's some Yeah, some pithy aphorism There's some Yeah, some pithy aphorism around that. But I mean around that. But I mean around that. But I mean I I think what's what's been fascinating I I think what's what's been fascinating I I think what's what's been fascinating to me is watching the to me is watching the to me is watching the commentariat and the supporters and the commentariat and the supporters and the commentariat and the supporters and the critiques, criticizers of both sides, critiques, criticizers of both sides, critiques, criticizers of both sides, like can talk themselves into knots like can talk themselves into knots like can talk themselves into knots trying to work out what their position trying to work out what their position trying to work out what their position is on this. People who didn't like Trump is on this. People who didn't like Trump is on this. People who didn't like Trump still don't like Trump. Yeah. And have still don't like Trump. Yeah. And have still don't like Trump. Yeah. And have more reason not to. Lots of people who more reason not to. Lots of people who more reason not to. Lots of people who did like Trump also now don't like did like Trump also now don't like did like Trump also now don't like Trump. I don't know of anybody Trump. I don't know of anybody Trump. I don't know of anybody who has been converted over to the who has been converted over to the who has been converted over to the support and I think this is shown in the support and I think this is shown in the support and I think this is shown in the polls. Like he's he's had over the last polls. Like he's he's had over the last polls. Like he's he's had over the last 2 years, check this out Jared, I'm 2 years, check this out Jared, I'm 2 years, check this out Jared, I'm pretty sure over the last 2 years what pretty sure over the last 2 years what pretty sure over the last 2 years what what's happened to Trump's approval what's happened to Trump's approval what's happened to Trump's approval numbers? I think he's had the fastest numbers? I think he's had the fastest numbers? I think he's had the fastest decline decline decline in approval numbers in approval numbers in approval numbers maybe in American history. Historically maybe in American history. Historically maybe in American history. Historically when you tell people to go [ __ ] when you tell people to go [ __ ] when you tell people to go [ __ ] themselves on Easter themselves on Easter themselves on Easter that may happen. that may happen. that may happen. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Or and what did he end the Easter post >> Or and what did he end the Easter post >> Or and what did he end the Easter post with? Praise to Allah. with? Praise to Allah. with? Praise to Allah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah, what the [ __ ] was going on with Yeah, what the [ __ ] was going on with Yeah, what the [ __ ] was going on with that? I was over this drawing that? I was over this drawing that? I was over this drawing >> me what's going on with that? >> me what's going on with that? >> me what's going on with that? >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Over the last 2 years Trump's approval >> Over the last 2 years Trump's approval >> Over the last 2 years Trump's approval has followed a pretty clear pattern of has followed a pretty clear pattern of has followed a pretty clear pattern of modest bump then a steady decline now modest bump then a steady decline now modest bump then a steady decline now persistently low and polarized. Uh 46% persistently low and polarized. Uh 46% persistently low and polarized. Uh 46% approval and 43% disapproval in January approval and 43% disapproval in January approval and 43% disapproval in January 2025 which is higher than 2017. 2025 which is higher than 2017. 2025 which is higher than 2017. Uh keep going down. Recent polling shows Uh keep going down. Recent polling shows Uh keep going down. Recent polling shows 55 to 60% so a net negative approval of 55 to 60% so a net negative approval of 55 to 60% so a net negative approval of 14 to 20 points. 14 to 20 points. 14 to 20 points. Yeah, maybe that's not as low as I might Yeah, maybe that's not as low as I might Yeah, maybe that's not as low as I might have thought. But I mean still not have thought. But I mean still not have thought. But I mean still not great. great. great. But But But that's a big drop and that's a big drop and that's a big drop and What was the [ __ ] I was in Australia What was the [ __ ] I was in Australia What was the [ __ ] I was in Australia for this so I kind of saw it third hand. for this so I kind of saw it third hand. for this so I kind of saw it third hand. Why why did he say the Allah thing? Why why did he say the Allah thing? Why why did he say the Allah thing? I love that you're asking me I love that you're asking me I love that you're asking me for an explanation to that. for an explanation to that. for an explanation to that. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> He's so funny. Analyze Donald Trump for >> He's so funny. Analyze Donald Trump for >> He's so funny. Analyze Donald Trump for me for a second. me for a second. me for a second. Uh Oh yeah, good. There you go. Uh Oh yeah, good. There you go. Uh Oh yeah, good. There you go. >> Psychoanalyze Right. I have a theory >> Psychoanalyze Right. I have a theory >> Psychoanalyze Right. I have a theory about about about Why Donald hate look I was at Glasses Why Donald hate look I was at Glasses Why Donald hate look I was at Glasses Ty. Ty. Ty. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. Put these Put these on >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. Put these Put these on >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. Put these Put these on and now that you've got and now that you've got and now that you've got >> [laughter] >> Okay, so why did Donald Trump say >> Okay, so why did Donald Trump say Praise to Allah? Praise to Allah? Praise to Allah? Because we elected a Because we elected a Because we elected a TV star to be the president of the TV star to be the president of the TV star to be the president of the United States. >> I'm going to have to I'm going to have >> I'm going to have to I'm going to have to condition myself to use this. to condition myself to use this. to condition myself to use this. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Uh yeah, well >> Uh yeah, well >> Uh yeah, well I don't know what the [ __ ] um I don't know what the [ __ ] um I don't know what the [ __ ] um is like what you can say the current US is like what you can say the current US is like what you can say the current US administration's plan is. I don't know administration's plan is. I don't know administration's plan is. I don't know if they have one. if they have one. if they have one. And I think that might be the scariest And I think that might be the scariest And I think that might be the scariest thing. thing. thing. I people get so wrapped around the color I people get so wrapped around the color I people get so wrapped around the color of their team's jersey and I just of their team's jersey and I just of their team's jersey and I just I want whatever administration is in I want whatever administration is in I want whatever administration is in office to do the best they possibly can office to do the best they possibly can office to do the best they possibly can so that we all can benefit from that. so that we all can benefit from that. so that we all can benefit from that. And I don't know where it it leads us And I don't know where it it leads us And I don't know where it it leads us when when when people forget that the goal should be people forget that the goal should be people forget that the goal should be like, "Hey, like, "Hey, like, "Hey, like thriving of this country." But like thriving of this country." But like thriving of this country." But they'll choose alignment of their they'll choose alignment of their they'll choose alignment of their colored jersey over like to the colored jersey over like to the colored jersey over like to the exclusion. exclusion. exclusion. I don't understand that. I don't know I don't understand that. I don't know I don't understand that. I don't know why it got that way. I don't also don't why it got that way. I don't also don't why it got that way. I don't also don't know how to get out of it either. know how to get out of it either. know how to get out of it either. >> They'd rather their side win but the >> They'd rather their side win but the >> They'd rather their side win but the country lose. I don't know if they would country lose. I don't know if they would country lose. I don't know if they would verbalize that but their actions seem to verbalize that but their actions seem to verbalize that but their actions seem to be in line with that. be in line with that. be in line with that. And I don't that's not great. It really And I don't that's not great. It really And I don't that's not great. It really does feel at the moment, dude, it really does feel at the moment, dude, it really does feel at the moment, dude, it really does seem just like does seem just like does seem just like I know own goal after own goal. And then I know own goal after own goal. And then I know own goal after own goal. And then even inside of the Republican Party like even inside of the Republican Party like even inside of the Republican Party like the whole thing that J.D. Vance ran on the whole thing that J.D. Vance ran on the whole thing that J.D. Vance ran on was America first. Like the whole the was America first. Like the whole the was America first. Like the whole the whole his whole philosophy was that. whole his whole philosophy was that. whole his whole philosophy was that. >> The next Republican candidate for >> The next Republican candidate for >> The next Republican candidate for president is going to have a very president is going to have a very president is going to have a very interesting character trying to [ __ ] interesting character trying to [ __ ] interesting character trying to [ __ ] unwind this. Well, they're going to have unwind this. Well, they're going to have unwind this. Well, they're going to have to run at a time where he's still to run at a time where he's still to run at a time where he's still president and answer for a lot of the president and answer for a lot of the president and answer for a lot of the policy policy policy >> and throwing him under the bus. Somebody >> and throwing him under the bus. Somebody >> and throwing him under the bus. Somebody is not going to like is not going to like is not going to like >> able to because I think he would cut his >> able to because I think he would cut his >> able to because I think he would cut his own nose off despite his face when it own nose off despite his face when it own nose off despite his face when it came that I think came that I think came that I think >> and not support them. I think so. >> and not support them. I think so. >> and not support them. I think so. >> So you've got to walk this tightrope of >> So you've got to walk this tightrope of >> So you've got to walk this tightrope of and how do you do that? Well, this was and how do you do that? Well, this was and how do you do that? Well, this was the issue that uh Kamala had, right? the issue that uh Kamala had, right? the issue that uh Kamala had, right? Where she was being asked Where she was being asked Where she was being asked >> Putting it down to a single issue or to >> Putting it down to a single issue or to >> Putting it down to a single issue or to throw throw throw She was being She was being asked to She was being She was being asked to She was being She was being asked to under the bus Biden while still being under the bus Biden while still being under the bus Biden while still being his VP. Yeah. And that was something his VP. Yeah. And that was something his VP. Yeah. And that was something that she struggled with. that she struggled with. that she struggled with. I mean, uh I mean, uh I mean, uh something I thought about, you know, did something I thought about, you know, did something I thought about, you know, did the Republicans win the last elections the Republicans win the last elections the Republicans win the last elections or did the Democrats [ __ ] it up so much? or did the Democrats [ __ ] it up so much? or did the Democrats [ __ ] it up so much? You know, like, hey, we're not even You know, like, hey, we're not even You know, like, hey, we're not even going to let you choose which candidate going to let you choose which candidate going to let you choose which candidate you're going to vote for, all because of you're going to vote for, all because of you're going to vote for, all because of all the money we would have to give back all the money we would have to give back all the money we would have to give back and not be able to fundraise with. So, and not be able to fundraise with. So, and not be able to fundraise with. So, yeah, we're going to strip away your yeah, we're going to strip away your yeah, we're going to strip away your choice and like this is the person you choice and like this is the person you choice and like this is the person you got. got. got. Get on team blue. Like, what? Get on team blue. Like, what? Get on team blue. Like, what? What? Yeah. What? Yeah. What? Yeah. What do you think about the um What do you think about the um What do you think about the um the future of the future of the future of mercenary organizations, of sort of guns mercenary organizations, of sort of guns mercenary organizations, of sort of guns for hire? Increasingly, I'm seeing for hire? Increasingly, I'm seeing for hire? Increasingly, I'm seeing Depends on who you ask. Some people are Depends on who you ask. Some people are Depends on who you ask. Some people are saying it's the way forward. saying it's the way forward. saying it's the way forward. Um Um Um usually those people own those usually those people own those usually those people own those companies, but companies, but companies, but >> [laughter] >> that's a tough one. I don't think you >> that's a tough one. I don't think you should be able to rent the American should be able to rent the American should be able to rent the American flag. I think it should be issued on flag. I think it should be issued on flag. I think it should be issued on your uniform and that's it. your uniform and that's it. your uniform and that's it. If you want to do things if the military If you want to do things if the military If you want to do things if the military is not capable of doing the things that is not capable of doing the things that is not capable of doing the things that you're filling those gaps with, then do you're filling those gaps with, then do you're filling those gaps with, then do me a favor and restructure the military me a favor and restructure the military me a favor and restructure the military and develop those capabilities instead and develop those capabilities instead and develop those capabilities instead of outsourcing it because there are some of outsourcing it because there are some of outsourcing it because there are some ways to cut corners ways to cut corners ways to cut corners outsourcing it and paint outside of the outsourcing it and paint outside of the outsourcing it and paint outside of the lines that the military isn't supposed lines that the military isn't supposed lines that the military isn't supposed to be able to do, and I think that's a to be able to do, and I think that's a to be able to do, and I think that's a dangerous thing. I think if the military isn't serving I think if the military isn't serving the role and isn't capable of doing it, the role and isn't capable of doing it, the role and isn't capable of doing it, then let's solve that problem. then let's solve that problem. then let's solve that problem. Because you're using this Because you're using this Because you're using this buttress performance enhance buttress performance enhance buttress performance enhance uh thing to And out so I mean, it uh thing to And out so I mean, it uh thing to And out so I mean, it compensate. Yeah, it's uh compensate. Yeah, it's uh compensate. Yeah, it's uh and there's also risk in that, too. I and there's also risk in that, too. I and there's also risk in that, too. I mean, it the Iranian pilot as an mean, it the Iranian pilot as an mean, it the Iranian pilot as an example. Dude, we nuked some assets to example. Dude, we nuked some assets to example. Dude, we nuked some assets to go get that guy. Which by the way, go get that guy. Which by the way, go get that guy. Which by the way, people complain about the price of that. people complain about the price of that. people complain about the price of that. But to go back to like being issued in a But to go back to like being issued in a But to go back to like being issued in a flag on your uniform and being asked to flag on your uniform and being asked to flag on your uniform and being asked to do exceptional things, it kind of helps do exceptional things, it kind of helps do exceptional things, it kind of helps to know that if [ __ ] goes sideways, to know that if [ __ ] goes sideways, to know that if [ __ ] goes sideways, like the chariot will be lit on fire. It like the chariot will be lit on fire. It like the chariot will be lit on fire. It might not be pointed in the right might not be pointed in the right might not be pointed in the right direction. Like, you might see it go off direction. Like, you might see it go off direction. Like, you might see it go off a cliff, but like we're going to come a cliff, but like we're going to come a cliff, but like we're going to come and do something totally different. and do something totally different. and do something totally different. >> Send more chariots until we get you. It >> Send more chariots until we get you. It >> Send more chariots until we get you. It uh it's uh it's uh it's that doesn't exist in the contracting that doesn't exist in the contracting that doesn't exist in the contracting world. I mean, if you're out there and world. I mean, if you're out there and world. I mean, if you're out there and and you're doing a contract and you and you're doing a contract and you and you're doing a contract and you know, a kinetic contract in an know, a kinetic contract in an know, a kinetic contract in an environment that is maybe environment that is maybe environment that is maybe less newsworthy, but you're still I less newsworthy, but you're still I less newsworthy, but you're still I mean, there is no like red button like, mean, there is no like red button like, mean, there is no like red button like, "Hey, send everybody." It's so there's a "Hey, send everybody." It's so there's a "Hey, send everybody." It's so there's a lot of risk involved in that as well, lot of risk involved in that as well, lot of risk involved in that as well, too. too. too. >> That's interesting. I didn't know that. >> That's interesting. I didn't know that. >> That's interesting. I didn't know that. Well, how could there be? I mean, the Well, how could there be? I mean, the Well, how could there be? I mean, the the the the C-SAR combat search and the the the C-SAR combat search and the the the C-SAR combat search and rescue response so that was all military rescue response so that was all military rescue response so that was all military based, right? I thought that there would based, right? I thought that there would based, right? I thought that there would be something that was a part of that be something that was a part of that be something that was a part of that ecosystem inside of it. But, I suppose ecosystem inside of it. But, I suppose ecosystem inside of it. But, I suppose it's it's much closer to a market. It's it's it's much closer to a market. It's it's it's much closer to a market. It's just a capitalist and Correct. Yeah, I just a capitalist and Correct. Yeah, I just a capitalist and Correct. Yeah, I mean, they're talking probably minimum mean, they're talking probably minimum mean, they're talking probably minimum manning at times. You know, I mean, how manning at times. You know, I mean, how manning at times. You know, I mean, how many bodies do we need to be able to do many bodies do we need to be able to do many bodies do we need to be able to do this? What can we charge? They're not this? What can we charge? They're not this? What can we charge? They're not going to have like the assets that we going to have like the assets that we going to have like the assets that we no pun intended, metaphorically and no pun intended, metaphorically and no pun intended, metaphorically and literally burned to the ground, those literally burned to the ground, those literally burned to the ground, those organizations don't have a stable of organizations don't have a stable of organizations don't have a stable of those things to be able to do that. those things to be able to do that. those things to be able to do that. >> Yeah. So, >> Yeah. So, >> Yeah. So, yeah, it's yeah, it's yeah, it's I don't like the idea of I don't like the idea of I don't like the idea of of outsourcing military type roles, of outsourcing military type roles, of outsourcing military type roles, specifically when the underlying specifically when the underlying specifically when the underlying motivation behind it is to skirt rules motivation behind it is to skirt rules motivation behind it is to skirt rules that prohibit military behaviors and that prohibit military behaviors and that prohibit military behaviors and activities. What are those sorts of activities. What are those sorts of activities. What are those sorts of rules? rules? rules? Rules of engagement. Rules of engagement. Rules of engagement. Um Um Um meddling in affairs that the US military meddling in affairs that the US military meddling in affairs that the US military is not supposed to be meddling in is not supposed to be meddling in is not supposed to be meddling in because it would cross some kind of because it would cross some kind of because it would cross some kind of diplomatic diplomatic diplomatic >> or >> or >> or Yep. legislative Yep. Yep. legislative Yep. Yep. legislative Yep. Right. Right. Right. I don't think we should be doing that I don't think we should be doing that I don't think we should be doing that stuff. I think that [clears throat] gets stuff. I think that [clears throat] gets stuff. I think that [clears throat] gets real murky real fast. I'm not saying real murky real fast. I'm not saying real murky real fast. I'm not saying there's not a role for private military there's not a role for private military there's not a role for private military contractors, PMC's, which are most of contractors, PMC's, which are most of contractors, PMC's, which are most of those organizations. those organizations. those organizations. Um I don't think you outsourcing war is a I don't think you outsourcing war is a good idea. But, suddenly opens up But, suddenly opens up the problem of who's got the biggest the problem of who's got the biggest the problem of who's got the biggest bank balance and who can continue who bank balance and who can continue who bank balance and who can continue who who is going to pay the most. Yeah. And who is going to pay the most. Yeah. And who is going to pay the most. Yeah. And if allegiance is basically if allegiance is basically if allegiance is basically to whoever's got the biggest paycheck. to whoever's got the biggest paycheck. to whoever's got the biggest paycheck. That's a problem. That's a problem. That's a problem. I don't know much about Bitcoin, but I don't know much about Bitcoin, but I don't know much about Bitcoin, but There's a lot of people out there with a There's a lot of people out there with a There's a lot of people out there with a lot of Bitcoin. Yeah, [laughter] yeah, lot of Bitcoin. Yeah, [laughter] yeah, lot of Bitcoin. Yeah, [laughter] yeah, yeah. Why don't we have our own private yeah. Why don't we have our own private yeah. Why don't we have our own private military contract? That'd be nice. Uh military contract? That'd be nice. Uh military contract? That'd be nice. Uh >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. People quit when they focus on how far People quit when they focus on how far People quit when they focus on how far they have to go. Yeah. Where'd you learn they have to go. Yeah. Where'd you learn they have to go. Yeah. Where'd you learn that? that? that? Uh so, interestingly enough, going back Uh so, interestingly enough, going back Uh so, interestingly enough, going back as an instructor. I was there for 18 as an instructor. I was there for 18 as an instructor. I was there for 18 months. months. months. I did not want to go back. It it was I did not want to go back. It it was I did not want to go back. It it was global war terror. That's a shore duty global war terror. That's a shore duty global war terror. That's a shore duty command, non-deployable, meaning command, non-deployable, meaning command, non-deployable, meaning regardless of what's going on, your job regardless of what's going on, your job regardless of what's going on, your job is to be an instructor. Which if you are is to be an instructor. Which if you are is to be an instructor. Which if you are in a profession of arms and arms are in a profession of arms and arms are in a profession of arms and arms are being used in your profession, you're being used in your profession, you're being used in your profession, you're probably going to want to be over there, probably going to want to be over there, probably going to want to be over there, not at the schoolhouse, wiping the noses not at the schoolhouse, wiping the noses not at the schoolhouse, wiping the noses and asses, right? We didn't actually do and asses, right? We didn't actually do and asses, right? We didn't actually do that. We let them do that for that. We let them do that for that. We let them do that for themselves, cuz they're adults. themselves, cuz they're adults. themselves, cuz they're adults. But it ended up being the most rewarding But it ended up being the most rewarding But it ended up being the most rewarding 18 months of my entire career. I look 18 months of my entire career. I look 18 months of my entire career. I look back on it and I learned a lot about back on it and I learned a lot about back on it and I learned a lot about myself, and it gave me an incredible myself, and it gave me an incredible myself, and it gave me an incredible understanding of the understanding of the understanding of the community, and I realized it was like community, and I realized it was like community, and I realized it was like the world's best laboratory the world's best laboratory the world's best laboratory on why people quit. on why people quit. on why people quit. Like all of this There have been so many Like all of this There have been so many Like all of this There have been so many s- millions of dollars, and I don't have s- millions of dollars, and I don't have s- millions of dollars, and I don't have an exact an exact an exact I'm going to say it's safe to say I'm going to say it's safe to say I'm going to say it's safe to say millions of dollars have been spent millions of dollars have been spent millions of dollars have been spent trying to figure out who makes it trying to figure out who makes it trying to figure out who makes it through SEAL training. through SEAL training. through SEAL training. Psychological assessments, looking at Psychological assessments, looking at Psychological assessments, looking at your sporting background, did you come your sporting background, did you come your sporting background, did you come from a nuclear family, a broken home, from a nuclear family, a broken home, from a nuclear family, a broken home, where'd you come from, socioeconomic where'd you come from, socioeconomic where'd you come from, socioeconomic status, all of these things. status, all of these things. status, all of these things. Pre-training programs that existed for a Pre-training programs that existed for a Pre-training programs that existed for a couple of years. The attrition rate couple of years. The attrition rate couple of years. The attrition rate just hums right along. All of this just hums right along. All of this just hums right along. All of this stuff, it might have bumped it a stuff, it might have bumped it a stuff, it might have bumped it a percentage point. And uh for people who percentage point. And uh for people who percentage point. And uh for people who don't know, the attrition rate in the don't know, the attrition rate in the don't know, the attrition rate in the summer months is about 75%, so three out summer months is about 75%, so three out summer months is about 75%, so three out of four students aren't going to make of four students aren't going to make of four students aren't going to make it. Winter months, a little bit colder, it. Winter months, a little bit colder, it. Winter months, a little bit colder, so more exposure to the elements, 80, so more exposure to the elements, 80, so more exposure to the elements, 80, maybe sometimes 90% attrition rate. maybe sometimes 90% attrition rate. maybe sometimes 90% attrition rate. Which is winter, right? Winter Hell Which is winter, right? Winter Hell Which is winter, right? Winter Hell Week, yes. Um, for sure. I'm I'm My Week, yes. Um, for sure. I'm I'm My Week, yes. Um, for sure. I'm I'm My class was the last hard uh Buds class class was the last hard uh Buds class class was the last hard uh Buds class that there ever was. that there ever was. that there ever was. Um, documented. It's written somewhere. Um, documented. It's written somewhere. Um, documented. It's written somewhere. Uh, probably in my handwriting, but Uh, probably in my handwriting, but Uh, probably in my handwriting, but um um um the winter the winter is just it's just the winter the winter is just it's just the winter the winter is just it's just colder and the cold sucks more. colder and the cold sucks more. colder and the cold sucks more. As a student, when you're going through, As a student, when you're going through, As a student, when you're going through, you don't get a chance to talk to the you don't get a chance to talk to the you don't get a chance to talk to the guy who is next to you who quits, guy who is next to you who quits, guy who is next to you who quits, because they're gone and your training because they're gone and your training because they're gone and your training day continues. day continues. day continues. And especially like Hell Week, if that's And especially like Hell Week, if that's And especially like Hell Week, if that's a 5-day evolution starting on Sunday and a 5-day evolution starting on Sunday and a 5-day evolution starting on Sunday and ending on Friday, ending on Friday, ending on Friday, if they're gone, most of the uh quitting if they're gone, most of the uh quitting if they're gone, most of the uh quitting occurs between Sunday and about Tuesday occurs between Sunday and about Tuesday occurs between Sunday and about Tuesday morning, they're already moved out of morning, they're already moved out of morning, they're already moved out of the barracks. Like, you'll probably the barracks. Like, you'll probably the barracks. Like, you'll probably never see them again. So, as a student, never see them again. So, as a student, never see them again. So, as a student, you're just like front sight focus. As you're just like front sight focus. As you're just like front sight focus. As an instructor, they're there for a an instructor, they're there for a an instructor, they're there for a couple of weeks. They have to process couple of weeks. They have to process couple of weeks. They have to process out. They get put over in a different out. They get put over in a different out. They get put over in a different berthing place. berthing place. berthing place. A lot of times they have uh medical A lot of times they have uh medical A lot of times they have uh medical issues that they're working their way issues that they're working their way issues that they're working their way through. through. through. And you are around And you are around And you are around young men who young men who young men who probably a week before probably a week before probably a week before you have a conversation with them would you have a conversation with them would you have a conversation with them would have told you that it is their singular have told you that it is their singular have told you that it is their singular goal and focus in life. goal and focus in life. goal and focus in life. And that there's nothing that you could And that there's nothing that you could And that there's nothing that you could have done to make them quit. And that have done to make them quit. And that have done to make them quit. And that they were going to be there on they were going to be there on they were going to be there on graduation day. And that this is the graduation day. And that this is the graduation day. And that this is the only goal that matters to them. only goal that matters to them. only goal that matters to them. And then eight to nine out of 10 of them And then eight to nine out of 10 of them And then eight to nine out of 10 of them quit. And you can sit there and you can quit. And you can sit there and you can quit. And you can sit there and you can talk to them about why. talk to them about why. talk to them about why. And I try to be very kind uh in talking And I try to be very kind uh in talking And I try to be very kind uh in talking with them, because most of the people with them, because most of the people with them, because most of the people who have regret is the largest emotion who have regret is the largest emotion who have regret is the largest emotion that this is kind of outpouring. It uh that this is kind of outpouring. It uh that this is kind of outpouring. It uh they want to go back. It sucks. I met they want to go back. It sucks. I met they want to go back. It sucks. I met students decades later or people who students decades later or people who students decades later or people who have quit Buds. I'm like, "Hey, man, have quit Buds. I'm like, "Hey, man, have quit Buds. I'm like, "Hey, man, I'm not trying to be a dick, but I'm I'm not trying to be a dick, but I'm I'm not trying to be a dick, but I'm just curious, because I have a theory. just curious, because I have a theory. just curious, because I have a theory. Like, how do you feel about that Like, how do you feel about that Like, how do you feel about that decision?" Regret, every single time. decision?" Regret, every single time. decision?" Regret, every single time. They wish they had been able to see it They wish they had been able to see it They wish they had been able to see it through, because it leaves a really through, because it leaves a really through, because it leaves a really large question mark in their life going large question mark in their life going large question mark in their life going forward. forward. forward. So, in spending time with the students, So, in spending time with the students, So, in spending time with the students, I I would ask them, you know, "Well, why I I would ask them, you know, "Well, why I I would ask them, you know, "Well, why did you quit?" And in that did you quit?" And in that did you quit?" And in that kind of fragile state, they were really kind of fragile state, they were really kind of fragile state, they were really honest with me. And they kept saying the honest with me. And they kept saying the honest with me. And they kept saying the same things. There There There was a same things. There There There was a same things. There There There was a couple categories, and one of them was couple categories, and one of them was couple categories, and one of them was huge. The small one was huge. The small one was huge. The small one was like life habit. My dad died and I got like life habit. My dad died and I got like life habit. My dad died and I got to get the [ __ ] out of here. Like, dude, to get the [ __ ] out of here. Like, dude, to get the [ __ ] out of here. Like, dude, I wish you the absolute best. You know I wish you the absolute best. You know I wish you the absolute best. You know what I mean? Like, that's not the data what I mean? Like, that's not the data what I mean? Like, that's not the data set that I'm looking for. set that I'm looking for. set that I'm looking for. Injury is another one. Can't control Injury is another one. Can't control Injury is another one. Can't control that because that wasn't necessarily a that because that wasn't necessarily a that because that wasn't necessarily a consensual choice. So, boom, they're consensual choice. So, boom, they're consensual choice. So, boom, they're gone. Everybody else who rang the bell. gone. Everybody else who rang the bell. gone. Everybody else who rang the bell. Why'd you quit? Why'd you quit? Why'd you quit? And they would all say the same thing. I And they would all say the same thing. I And they would all say the same thing. I couldn't be as cold as I was for as long couldn't be as cold as I was for as long couldn't be as cold as I was for as long as I thought I was going to be cold. I as I thought I was going to be cold. I as I thought I was going to be cold. I would say, "Well, how would say, "Well, how would say, "Well, how who told you how long you were going to who told you how long you were going to who told you how long you were going to be cold for?" Well, nobody. be cold for?" Well, nobody. be cold for?" Well, nobody. But, I told myself I couldn't be cold But, I told myself I couldn't be cold But, I told myself I couldn't be cold for as long as I thought I was going to for as long as I thought I was going to for as long as I thought I was going to have to be. We're tired. We're hungry. have to be. We're tired. We're hungry. have to be. We're tired. We're hungry. We're a combination of all of those We're a combination of all of those We're a combination of all of those things. Or in physical pain. things. Or in physical pain. things. Or in physical pain. Um or it was too hard. Um or it was too hard. Um or it was too hard. What they are all What they are all What they are all expressing expressing expressing is a moment where they became is a moment where they became is a moment where they became overwhelmed by the situation that they overwhelmed by the situation that they overwhelmed by the situation that they were in. were in. were in. And And And they started looking at they started looking at they started looking at time. Literally time. How they viewed time. Literally time. How they viewed time. Literally time. How they viewed time was the determining factor on the time was the determining factor on the time was the determining factor on the decision that they made. decision that they made. decision that they made. If they could only see where they were, If they could only see where they were, If they could only see where they were, like this is the start of BUD/S first like this is the start of BUD/S first like this is the start of BUD/S first day. Mhm. day. Mhm. day. Mhm. And this is graduation. On average, 180 And this is graduation. On average, 180 And this is graduation. On average, 180 days. And only thing that they can see days. And only thing that they can see days. And only thing that they can see is the the gap between my two fingers. is the the gap between my two fingers. is the the gap between my two fingers. Dude, that's a lot. Especially on your Dude, that's a lot. Especially on your Dude, that's a lot. Especially on your first day when you get your [ __ ] first day when you get your [ __ ] first day when you get your [ __ ] absolutely kicked in. And let's say you absolutely kicked in. And let's say you absolutely kicked in. And let's say you had a three-inch stack of had a three-inch stack of had a three-inch stack of uh little notes and on the first one it uh little notes and on the first one it uh little notes and on the first one it said 180. And at the end of that day, said 180. And at the end of that day, said 180. And at the end of that day, where you're barely able to walk back to where you're barely able to walk back to where you're barely able to walk back to the barracks, you rip that off and it the barracks, you rip that off and it the barracks, you rip that off and it says 179. says 179. says 179. How pumped are you? Not that pumped. So, How pumped are you? Not that pumped. So, How pumped are you? Not that pumped. So, that's a person that's a person that's a person who became the They're They're They're who became the They're They're They're who became the They're They're They're They're They're creeping towards They're They're creeping towards They're They're creeping towards becoming overwhelmed. Hell Week, the becoming overwhelmed. Hell Week, the becoming overwhelmed. Hell Week, the same thing. Starts on a Sunday. same thing. Starts on a Sunday. same thing. Starts on a Sunday. ends on a Friday. But if all you can see ends on a Friday. But if all you can see ends on a Friday. But if all you can see is this gap and how far you are from is this gap and how far you are from is this gap and how far you are from your goal, your goal, your goal, you're getting into a really susceptible you're getting into a really susceptible you're getting into a really susceptible position and a really malleable position position and a really malleable position position and a really malleable position from an instructor state. from an instructor state. from an instructor state. And And And that that was literally that that was literally that that was literally like that's the secret sauce. This is like that's the secret sauce. This is like that's the secret sauce. This is the most important thing that I learned the most important thing that I learned the most important thing that I learned in my entire career. in my entire career. in my entire career. If you can identify If you can identify If you can identify that that is the main reason why people that that is the main reason why people that that is the main reason why people give up on their lifelong goals, you give up on their lifelong goals, you give up on their lifelong goals, you should be able to reverse engineer that. should be able to reverse engineer that. should be able to reverse engineer that. So, how do you do that? You think about So, how do you do that? You think about So, how do you do that? You think about everything other than that. So, instead everything other than that. So, instead everything other than that. So, instead of trying to get from here to here and of trying to get from here to here and of trying to get from here to here and only looking at that distance, you slam only looking at that distance, you slam only looking at that distance, you slam these two together. So, there is a these two together. So, there is a these two together. So, there is a microscopic step that you can take and microscopic step that you can take and microscopic step that you can take and you only focus on that step and then the you only focus on that step and then the you only focus on that step and then the next one and the next one. And you don't next one and the next one. And you don't next one and the next one. And you don't have to keep track of your steps because have to keep track of your steps because have to keep track of your steps because as long as you keep making forward as long as you keep making forward as long as you keep making forward motion, this bridge will be gaped at motion, this bridge will be gaped at motion, this bridge will be gaped at some point in time. some point in time. some point in time. The muscle that fails at Buds is not The muscle that fails at Buds is not The muscle that fails at Buds is not below the neck. It's between the ears. below the neck. It's between the ears. below the neck. It's between the ears. So, they focus on that distance, they So, they focus on that distance, they So, they focus on that distance, they become overwhelmed when they make a become overwhelmed when they make a become overwhelmed when they make a decision and they'll regret for the rest decision and they'll regret for the rest decision and they'll regret for the rest of their life. of their life. of their life. So, the key to that is to chunk your So, the key to that is to chunk your So, the key to that is to chunk your goals into the most digestible piece goals into the most digestible piece goals into the most digestible piece that you possibly can and then that you possibly can and then that you possibly can and then consistently put those one on top of consistently put those one on top of consistently put those one on top of another. Is there a difference between another. Is there a difference between another. Is there a difference between stress and overwhelm? stress and overwhelm? stress and overwhelm? Can somebody force you to be overwhelmed Can somebody force you to be overwhelmed Can somebody force you to be overwhelmed is a better question. is a better question. is a better question. I don't think so. I don't think so. I don't think so. You can't actually And I would I would You can't actually And I would I would You can't actually And I would I would so have some interesting conversation so have some interesting conversation so have some interesting conversation with this dude. Like, "Well, instructor with this dude. Like, "Well, instructor with this dude. Like, "Well, instructor so-and-so made me quit." I'm like, so-and-so made me quit." I'm like, so-and-so made me quit." I'm like, "Stand by, please. I have additional "Stand by, please. I have additional "Stand by, please. I have additional questions." questions." questions." "What do you mean?" "Well, they made me "What do you mean?" "Well, they made me "What do you mean?" "Well, they made me quit." I'm like, "So, they they quit." I'm like, "So, they they quit." I'm like, "So, they they they they they interlace fingers interlace fingers interlace fingers like the movie Ghost where they were like the movie Ghost where they were like the movie Ghost where they were doing pottery. "And they put your hand doing pottery. "And they put your hand doing pottery. "And they put your hand on the bell and rang the bell?" They're on the bell and rang the bell?" They're on the bell and rang the bell?" They're like, "No, no, no. No, man, that's not like, "No, no, no. No, man, that's not like, "No, no, no. No, man, that's not what I'm saying. what I'm saying. what I'm saying. But they were like in my face and they But they were like in my face and they But they were like in my face and they weren't going away cuz they told me they weren't going away cuz they told me they weren't going away cuz they told me they weren't going to go away weren't going to go away weren't going to go away and I couldn't take anymore, so I quit." and I couldn't take anymore, so I quit." and I couldn't take anymore, so I quit." I'm like, "Okay." And again, these are I'm like, "Okay." And again, these are I'm like, "Okay." And again, these are people in a fragile state, so I'm not people in a fragile state, so I'm not people in a fragile state, so I'm not like trying to have an argument with like trying to have an argument with like trying to have an argument with them. them. them. But I would try to you know maybe But I would try to you know maybe But I would try to you know maybe reinforce a little bit like listen reinforce a little bit like listen reinforce a little bit like listen that instructor facilitated an that instructor facilitated an that instructor facilitated an environment for you where you became environment for you where you became environment for you where you became your own worst enemy. your own worst enemy. your own worst enemy. And you made that choice. And here's how And you made that choice. And here's how And you made that choice. And here's how I know that this works. I know that this works. I know that this works. As soon as I understood that concept As soon as I understood that concept As soon as I understood that concept that that that the view of time the view of time the view of time was the most dangerous thing for the was the most dangerous thing for the was the most dangerous thing for the student. student. student. I gave up on all physical tools that I I gave up on all physical tools that I I gave up on all physical tools that I had whether it was the ocean or the had whether it was the ocean or the had whether it was the ocean or the watch watch watch or food or physical exertion or food or physical exertion or food or physical exertion then I would [snorts] just talk to then I would [snorts] just talk to then I would [snorts] just talk to students like you and I are talking students like you and I are talking students like you and I are talking right now. Hey dude, what's going on right now. Hey dude, what's going on right now. Hey dude, what's going on man? man? man? It's like you're having a shitty day. It's like you're having a shitty day. It's like you're having a shitty day. This is only the first day of Hell Week This is only the first day of Hell Week This is only the first day of Hell Week and it would be like the third but and it would be like the third but and it would be like the third but they're already hallucinating and I had they're already hallucinating and I had they're already hallucinating and I had set my watch to incorrect day and time. How you look like you're really cold. How you look like you're really cold. How long do you think you can be this How long do you think you can be this How long do you think you can be this cold? cold? cold? I'm on shift the next 12 hours. I'm I'm on shift the next 12 hours. I'm I'm on shift the next 12 hours. I'm going to sit here with you for 12 hours. going to sit here with you for 12 hours. going to sit here with you for 12 hours. I'm going to keep you in this water for I'm going to keep you in this water for I'm going to keep you in this water for longer than you thought was even longer than you thought was even longer than you thought was even possible. Huh? possible. Huh? possible. Huh? And then you could see it in their eyes. And then you could see it in their eyes. And then you could see it in their eyes. The students were like just whatever The students were like just whatever The students were like just whatever dude, I know the game. [ __ ] off. And dude, I know the game. [ __ ] off. And dude, I know the game. [ __ ] off. And then and then so what they're chunking then and then so what they're chunking then and then so what they're chunking in that moment is just surviving the in that moment is just surviving the in that moment is just surviving the interaction with me. And I can recognize interaction with me. And I can recognize interaction with me. And I can recognize it too and I'm like lame, next. it too and I'm like lame, next. it too and I'm like lame, next. Then you go to the other student and you Then you go to the other student and you Then you go to the other student and you can you start seeing the self-doubt and can you start seeing the self-doubt and can you start seeing the self-doubt and you just water you just water you just water the self-doubt. It was the single most the self-doubt. It was the single most the self-doubt. It was the single most effective tool to get people to quit effective tool to get people to quit effective tool to get people to quit training. training. training. Had nothing to do with anything in the Had nothing to do with anything in the Had nothing to do with anything in the physical world. physical world. physical world. So you can reverse engineer that. So by reminding them So by reminding them how much further they had to go. That's how much further they had to go. That's how much further they had to go. That's all I focused on as I tried to get them all I focused on as I tried to get them all I focused on as I tried to get them to focus on where they were and how much to focus on where they were and how much to focus on where they were and how much more work they had to do to get to their more work they had to do to get to their more work they had to do to get to their goal. Mhm. goal. Mhm. goal. Mhm. It's not just going to be the next It's not just going to be the next It's not just going to be the next minute. minute. minute. No, I tried to get them to think of No, I tried to get them to think of No, I tried to get them to think of anything but that. The kid who was anything but that. The kid who was anything but that. The kid who was thinking about the next minute like thinking about the next minute like thinking about the next minute like lame, get out of here. You're going to lame, get out of here. You're going to lame, get out of here. You're going to be fine. Good job. And then like as be fine. Good job. And then like as be fine. Good job. And then like as you're walking you're like good job. You you're walking you're like good job. You you're walking you're like good job. You wouldn't say that of course but wouldn't say that of course but wouldn't say that of course but >> Yeah, I think it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Yeah, I think it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. >> Yeah, I think it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, you outfoxed me. You saw the game Yeah, you outfoxed me. You saw the game Yeah, you outfoxed me. You saw the game that I was trying to play. that I was trying to play. that I was trying to play. >> Yeah, totally. Yeah. >> Yeah, totally. Yeah. >> Yeah, totally. Yeah. That's I mean it it's That's I mean it it's That's I mean it it's For clarity, for people who hearing this For clarity, for people who hearing this For clarity, for people who hearing this to like, yes, I'm going to start doing to like, yes, I'm going to start doing to like, yes, I'm going to start doing this and everything in my life is going this and everything in my life is going this and everything in my life is going to be easy. No. to be easy. No. to be easy. No. It doesn't make anything easier. It It doesn't make anything easier. It It doesn't make anything easier. It makes it more digestible. Pain still makes it more digestible. Pain still makes it more digestible. Pain still hurts. Suffering still sucks. hurts. Suffering still sucks. hurts. Suffering still sucks. But little bites of suffering, focusing But little bites of suffering, focusing But little bites of suffering, focusing on that little bite and not letting on that little bite and not letting on that little bite and not letting yourself get overwhelmed to make an yourself get overwhelmed to make an yourself get overwhelmed to make an emotionally poor decision, emotionally poor decision, emotionally poor decision, that's going to make a huge trajectory that's going to make a huge trajectory that's going to make a huge trajectory distance in your life. distance in your life. distance in your life. Yeah, the being paralyzed by indecision Yeah, the being paralyzed by indecision Yeah, the being paralyzed by indecision thing is something that I've been pretty thing is something that I've been pretty thing is something that I've been pretty fascinated by and I know it's something fascinated by and I know it's something fascinated by and I know it's something that you are too. That line, many a that you are too. That line, many a that you are too. That line, many a wrong move was made by just standing wrong move was made by just standing wrong move was made by just standing still. So we're seeing can do I wrote still. So we're seeing can do I wrote still. So we're seeing can do I wrote about that too. Uh about that too. Uh about that too. Uh You get ambushed. The actually the worst You get ambushed. The actually the worst You get ambushed. The actually the worst thing that you can do is just stay in thing that you can do is just stay in thing that you can do is just stay in place, which is a really hard one place, which is a really hard one place, which is a really hard one because sometimes you find awesome rocks because sometimes you find awesome rocks because sometimes you find awesome rocks to hide behind. You're like, hey dude, to hide behind. You're like, hey dude, to hide behind. You're like, hey dude, get over here. This thing stops bullets. get over here. This thing stops bullets. get over here. This thing stops bullets. And your body will be screaming at you, And your body will be screaming at you, And your body will be screaming at you, stay behind this rock because it stay behind this rock because it stay behind this rock because it currently is stopping. It's currently is stopping. It's currently is stopping. It's ballistically it's cover, right? Cover ballistically it's cover, right? Cover ballistically it's cover, right? Cover is something that stops bullets. is something that stops bullets. is something that stops bullets. Concealment is something that hides you. Concealment is something that hides you. Concealment is something that hides you. Both work in hide and seek. Both do not Both work in hide and seek. Both do not Both work in hide and seek. Both do not work in a gunfight. Don't confuse the work in a gunfight. Don't confuse the work in a gunfight. Don't confuse the two. I've actually seen it happen. It's two. I've actually seen it happen. It's two. I've actually seen it happen. It's pretty gnarly. pretty gnarly. pretty gnarly. >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> Mostly it was the enemy combatants >> Mostly it was the enemy combatants >> Mostly it was the enemy combatants thinking that bushes were cover. And it thinking that bushes were cover. And it thinking that bushes were cover. And it was not. was not. was not. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Okay. And also I can see you because you >> Okay. And also I can see you because you >> Okay. And also I can see you because you keep picking your head up. So like, keep picking your head up. So like, keep picking your head up. So like, dude, you suck at hide and seek. dude, you suck at hide and seek. dude, you suck at hide and seek. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Um >> Um >> Um If you stay there though, If you stay there though, If you stay there though, because you're scared, because you're scared, because you're scared, >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> because you don't want to die, both of >> because you don't want to die, both of >> because you don't want to die, both of which legitimate emotions, which legitimate emotions, which legitimate emotions, and your enemy starts to come around the and your enemy starts to come around the and your enemy starts to come around the corner, corner, corner, it's going to be where you die. Mhm. it's going to be where you die. Mhm. it's going to be where you die. Mhm. Your indecision and inability to control Your indecision and inability to control Your indecision and inability to control the fear that you are experiencing and the fear that you are experiencing and the fear that you are experiencing and being shot at and somebody trying to being shot at and somebody trying to being shot at and somebody trying to kill you is scary. kill you is scary. kill you is scary. Um it's another one of those Um it's another one of those Um it's another one of those misconceptions people have that there's misconceptions people have that there's misconceptions people have that there's there's this fearless nature of people there's this fearless nature of people there's this fearless nature of people in that community, but is not my in that community, but is not my in that community, but is not my experience. I actually don't want to experience. I actually don't want to experience. I actually don't want to work with somebody who is fearless work with somebody who is fearless work with somebody who is fearless because that either means you're not because that either means you're not because that either means you're not paying attention or you're a sociopath paying attention or you're a sociopath paying attention or you're a sociopath or a psychopath. Neither which are a or a psychopath. Neither which are a or a psychopath. Neither which are a good model for that world. good model for that world. good model for that world. >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> So, if you just stay there because >> So, if you just stay there because >> So, if you just stay there because you're scared and your enemy starts to you're scared and your enemy starts to you're scared and your enemy starts to maneuver on you, maneuver on you, maneuver on you, it's going to be where they find you. it's going to be where they find you. it's going to be where they find you. It's actually where you're going to be It's actually where you're going to be It's actually where you're going to be there you're going to find your dead there you're going to find your dead there you're going to find your dead body. body. body. What you actually have to do is even What you actually have to do is even What you actually have to do is even knowing knowing knowing that you could potentially absorb risk, that you could potentially absorb risk, that you could potentially absorb risk, you could get hurt, you have to move and you could get hurt, you have to move and you could get hurt, you have to move and you have to switch that on the people you have to switch that on the people you have to switch that on the people that initiated the ambush on you. The that initiated the ambush on you. The that initiated the ambush on you. The fastest way to get out of an ambush is fastest way to get out of an ambush is fastest way to get out of an ambush is to either, depending on the type, to either, depending on the type, to either, depending on the type, there's linear ones that look like lines there's linear ones that look like lines there's linear ones that look like lines or L's, often time is to punch through or L's, often time is to punch through or L's, often time is to punch through it or to flank. But that requires it or to flank. But that requires it or to flank. But that requires movement. movement. movement. That's then that's the same thing as That's then that's the same thing as That's then that's the same thing as that indecision, right? If you're that indecision, right? If you're that indecision, right? If you're paralyzed by indecision, you're not paralyzed by indecision, you're not paralyzed by indecision, you're not going to do anything and the world is going to do anything and the world is going to do anything and the world is going to continue to shift around you going to continue to shift around you going to continue to shift around you and then you're even farther behind the and then you're even farther behind the and then you're even farther behind the eight ball. eight ball. eight ball. I'd rather have see people take I'd rather have see people take I'd rather have see people take maybe even take a step in the wrong maybe even take a step in the wrong maybe even take a step in the wrong direction, but get some momentum going. direction, but get some momentum going. direction, but get some momentum going. Obviously, correct for your mistake as Obviously, correct for your mistake as Obviously, correct for your mistake as quickly as humanly possible, but dude, quickly as humanly possible, but dude, quickly as humanly possible, but dude, get the wheels running. Like get the get the wheels running. Like get the get the wheels running. Like get the wheels spinning on the road. What are wheels spinning on the road. What are wheels spinning on the road. What are the other traits that matter in life or the other traits that matter in life or the other traits that matter in life or death situations that people death situations that people death situations that people overestimate or underestimate? Emotional overestimate or underestimate? Emotional overestimate or underestimate? Emotional control. As ridiculous as that is to say control. As ridiculous as that is to say control. As ridiculous as that is to say because it is an emotionally scary because it is an emotionally scary because it is an emotionally scary event, you have to be able to detach event, you have to be able to detach event, you have to be able to detach your emotions from your decision-making your emotions from your decision-making your emotions from your decision-making process. You have to be able to function process. You have to be able to function process. You have to be able to function and that is and that is and that is but but but the test I administered in second phase the test I administered in second phase the test I administered in second phase was a dive and test and it was 20 was a dive and test and it was 20 was a dive and test and it was 20 minutes long. You're tying a bunch of minutes long. You're tying a bunch of minutes long. You're tying a bunch of knots in the student's gear knots in the student's gear knots in the student's gear >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> and they have to get the knots out in an >> and they have to get the knots out in an >> and they have to get the knots out in an appropriate procedure. If you deviate appropriate procedure. If you deviate appropriate procedure. If you deviate from procedure, you fail. We'll pull you from procedure, you fail. We'll pull you from procedure, you fail. We'll pull you out of the water. You get four attempts out of the water. You get four attempts out of the water. You get four attempts at the test. at the test. at the test. So, even if you do the knots, but you do So, even if you do the knots, but you do So, even if you do the knots, but you do them in the wrong way? You have if the them in the wrong way? You have if the them in the wrong way? You have if the if at a broad level the mouthpiece that if at a broad level the mouthpiece that if at a broad level the mouthpiece that you were breathing out of, if it is in you were breathing out of, if it is in you were breathing out of, if it is in your mouth and I leave it in your mouth your mouth and I leave it in your mouth your mouth and I leave it in your mouth as I tie a knot, you have to start from as I tie a knot, you have to start from as I tie a knot, you have to start from the mouthpiece and work your way back. the mouthpiece and work your way back. the mouthpiece and work your way back. If I rip it out and tie a knot, you have If I rip it out and tie a knot, you have If I rip it out and tie a knot, you have to start all the way from your manifold to start all the way from your manifold to start all the way from your manifold and trace it up. And some people will and trace it up. And some people will and trace it up. And some people will just reach up and put the mouthpiece in just reach up and put the mouthpiece in just reach up and put the mouthpiece in their mouth like dip and just it's like their mouth like dip and just it's like their mouth like dip and just it's like filled right there. Yeah. But they can't filled right there. Yeah. But they can't filled right there. Yeah. But they can't breathe. breathe. breathe. And I know that because I can see the And I know that because I can see the And I know that because I can see the inhale and exhale. And if you want to be inhale and exhale. And if you want to be inhale and exhale. And if you want to be a dick instructor, you wait till all the a dick instructor, you wait till all the a dick instructor, you wait till all the bubbles come out and go, "My bubbles come out and go, "My bubbles come out and go, "My mouthpiece." Right? mouthpiece." Right? mouthpiece." Right? If you don't want to be a dick If you don't want to be a dick If you don't want to be a dick instructor and you want to teach the instructor and you want to teach the instructor and you want to teach the students, you just tap them on the students, you just tap them on the students, you just tap them on the mouthpiece cuz it's a one-to-one ratio. mouthpiece cuz it's a one-to-one ratio. mouthpiece cuz it's a one-to-one ratio. This is a one-to-one test. This is a one-to-one test. This is a one-to-one test. Tap them on the mouthpiece. Let them get Tap them on the mouthpiece. Let them get Tap them on the mouthpiece. Let them get a big breath. a big breath. a big breath. >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> [snorts] >> And then I take the mouthpiece and I tie >> And then I take the mouthpiece and I tie >> And then I take the mouthpiece and I tie knots. And there's a variety of knots. And there's a variety of knots. And there's a variety of different ways that you can do it. And different ways that you can do it. And different ways that you can do it. And I'm sitting there as an instructor just I'm sitting there as an instructor just I'm sitting there as an instructor just floating in a wetsuit floating in a wetsuit floating in a wetsuit with a mask and snorkel on and you you with a mask and snorkel on and you you with a mask and snorkel on and you you start seeing it. They start like start seeing it. They start like start seeing it. They start like Like it's insane. Like it's insane. Like it's insane. And it's like cool. I've been there. I And it's like cool. I've been there. I And it's like cool. I've been there. I know it sucks. Are you going to follow know it sucks. Are you going to follow know it sucks. Are you going to follow procedure? procedure? procedure? And at the end of that week, if they And at the end of that week, if they And at the end of that week, if they pass that test, you sit them down. pass that test, you sit them down. pass that test, you sit them down. You're like, "For the love of God, You're like, "For the love of God, You're like, "For the love of God, please do not go recreational scuba please do not go recreational scuba please do not go recreational scuba diving cuz you guys don't know a [ __ ] diving cuz you guys don't know a [ __ ] diving cuz you guys don't know a [ __ ] thing about it. This test had absolutely thing about it. This test had absolutely thing about it. This test had absolutely nothing to do with diving and everything nothing to do with diving and everything nothing to do with diving and everything to do with stress management and to do with stress management and to do with stress management and following procedure regardless of what's following procedure regardless of what's following procedure regardless of what's going on in the world around you." Mm. going on in the world around you." Mm. going on in the world around you." Mm. What's drown proof? What's drown proof? What's drown proof? Drown proof is uh an evolution that does Drown proof is uh an evolution that does Drown proof is uh an evolution that does not make you drown proof at all. Plenty not make you drown proof at all. Plenty not make you drown proof at all. Plenty of seals unfortunately have drowned. of seals unfortunately have drowned. of seals unfortunately have drowned. You get introduced to that in first You get introduced to that in first You get introduced to that in first phase. Um phase. Um phase. Um the final evolution, which is the the final evolution, which is the the final evolution, which is the picture on the front cover, is where you picture on the front cover, is where you picture on the front cover, is where you have your hands tied behind your back have your hands tied behind your back have your hands tied behind your back and your feet tied together. and your feet tied together. and your feet tied together. And I believe this is whoo 30 years in And I believe this is whoo 30 years in And I believe this is whoo 30 years in the rearview mirror. the rearview mirror. the rearview mirror. You bob up and down for an hour. You bob up and down for an hour. You bob up and down for an hour. You then have to transit the pool You then have to transit the pool You then have to transit the pool uh uh uh all the way to the end and then back. all the way to the end and then back. all the way to the end and then back. After an hour? After that which After an hour? After that which After an hour? After that which if this is one of the most relaxing Hold if this is one of the most relaxing Hold if this is one of the most relaxing Hold on. Hold on. on. Hold on. on. Hold on. What I'm about to say is not a What I'm about to say is not a What I'm about to say is not a recommendation for people to do in their recommendation for people to do in their recommendation for people to do in their own personal pool. Uh what I'm saying is own personal pool. Uh what I'm saying is own personal pool. Uh what I'm saying is as a student, you can only hear them as a student, you can only hear them as a student, you can only hear them yelling at you as your head is above yelling at you as your head is above yelling at you as your head is above water. So, if you're comfortable water. So, if you're comfortable water. So, if you're comfortable >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> If you're comfortable in the water >> If you're comfortable in the water >> If you're comfortable in the water >> if I stay down here, I can't hear Andy >> if I stay down here, I can't hear Andy >> if I stay down here, I can't hear Andy shouting at me. shouting at me. shouting at me. >> It's Yeah, well I had a bullhorn so it's >> It's Yeah, well I had a bullhorn so it's >> It's Yeah, well I had a bullhorn so it's like talking in a normal voice with a like talking in a normal voice with a like talking in a normal voice with a extremely high decibel level. extremely high decibel level. extremely high decibel level. >> Yep. Which talking to somebody from 6 in >> Yep. Which talking to somebody from 6 in >> Yep. Which talking to somebody from 6 in from their face with a bullhorn, let me from their face with a bullhorn, let me from their face with a bullhorn, let me just tell you, just tell you, just tell you, it's pretty fun. it's pretty fun. it's pretty fun. Big Big Big >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> What are you thinking about right now? >> What are you thinking about right now? >> What are you thinking about right now? There's like a Again, generational trauma, it has to be Again, generational trauma, it has to be passed down hill cuz instructors did passed down hill cuz instructors did passed down hill cuz instructors did that to me. that to me. that to me. It is for an hour. I played water polo It is for an hour. I played water polo It is for an hour. I played water polo in high school. So, for me, I was in high school. So, for me, I was in high school. So, for me, I was comfortable in the water. And comfortable in the water. And comfortable in the water. And although on the picture on the book, although on the picture on the book, although on the picture on the book, their hands are tied, their feet are their hands are tied, their feet are their hands are tied, their feet are tied. But this is also a one-to-one tied. But this is also a one-to-one tied. But this is also a one-to-one ratio. Half the class is watching the ratio. Half the class is watching the ratio. Half the class is watching the students in the water, and there are students in the water, and there are students in the water, and there are instructors in the water for safety. instructors in the water for safety. instructors in the water for safety. Mhm. So, You try not to kill people. We Mhm. So, You try not to kill people. We Mhm. So, You try not to kill people. We do our absolute best, even though I will do our absolute best, even though I will do our absolute best, even though I will say it is essential people die at say it is essential people die at say it is essential people die at training from time to time, and we can training from time to time, and we can training from time to time, and we can touch on that if you want to after I touch on that if you want to after I touch on that if you want to after I describe this. But the first time they describe this. But the first time they describe this. But the first time they do this, their feet aren't tied do this, their feet aren't tied do this, their feet aren't tied together, and they're just holding their together, and they're just holding their together, and they're just holding their fingers behind their back. It's a crawl, fingers behind their back. It's a crawl, fingers behind their back. It's a crawl, walk, run approach. Then we'll use like walk, run approach. Then we'll use like walk, run approach. Then we'll use like some Velcro, right? Or maybe just do the some Velcro, right? Or maybe just do the some Velcro, right? Or maybe just do the legs and then the hands. legs and then the hands. legs and then the hands. If you bob up and down, it's it's If you bob up and down, it's it's If you bob up and down, it's it's honestly you bounce at the bottom, honestly you bounce at the bottom, honestly you bounce at the bottom, take a deep breath, take a deep breath, take a deep breath, >> [sighs and gasps] >> [sighs and gasps] >> [sighs and gasps] >> and you slowly exhale to become >> and you slowly exhale to become >> and you slowly exhale to become negatively buoyant, and you bounce. It's negatively buoyant, and you bounce. It's negatively buoyant, and you bounce. It's really not that bad. The swimming isn't really not that bad. The swimming isn't really not that bad. The swimming isn't that bad, either. Then you get back, that bad, either. Then you get back, that bad, either. Then you get back, and they throw a mask into the water, and they throw a mask into the water, and they throw a mask into the water, and you have to go down, bite it with and you have to go down, bite it with and you have to go down, bite it with your teeth, your teeth, your teeth, come up, and then bob with it for a come up, and then bob with it for a come up, and then bob with it for a bunch of times, and then the test bunch of times, and then the test bunch of times, and then the test actually ends. actually ends. actually ends. >> Cuz that limits the ability for you to >> Cuz that limits the ability for you to >> Cuz that limits the ability for you to breathe, or it's just a [ __ ] awkward breathe, or it's just a [ __ ] awkward breathe, or it's just a [ __ ] awkward thing to do? I feel like it's the thing to do? I feel like it's the thing to do? I feel like it's the latter. I have no explanation as to why, latter. I have no explanation as to why, latter. I have no explanation as to why, and I think there's honestly a and I think there's honestly a and I think there's honestly a somersault in there somewhere, too. somersault in there somewhere, too. somersault in there somewhere, too. Scientifically, this isn't justified at Scientifically, this isn't justified at Scientifically, this isn't justified at all. No, it's not at all. Again, this is all. No, it's not at all. Again, this is all. No, it's not at all. Again, this is just a rolling rock of generational just a rolling rock of generational just a rolling rock of generational trauma that's going down hill. trauma that's going down hill. trauma that's going down hill. And so, that is drown-proofing. And so, that is drown-proofing. And so, that is drown-proofing. The concept being now like, before The concept being now like, before The concept being now like, before thriving, let's learn how to survive. thriving, let's learn how to survive. thriving, let's learn how to survive. It's about control and comfort It's about control and comfort It's about control and comfort to the best of your ability in an to the best of your ability in an to the best of your ability in an environment that you can't control, and environment that you can't control, and environment that you can't control, and probably shouldn't be comfortable in if probably shouldn't be comfortable in if probably shouldn't be comfortable in if you have your feet tied together and you have your feet tied together and you have your feet tied together and your hands tied behind your back. Some your hands tied behind your back. Some your hands tied behind your back. Some people are like, "Oh, man, is is so people are like, "Oh, man, is is so people are like, "Oh, man, is is so like, if you guys are taken hostage on a like, if you guys are taken hostage on a like, if you guys are taken hostage on a boat, you can just go do like a dolphin boat, you can just go do like a dolphin boat, you can just go do like a dolphin off the side and port puss out?" And I'm off the side and port puss out?" And I'm off the side and port puss out?" And I'm like, "Uh, no. That's not what that's like, "Uh, no. That's not what that's like, "Uh, no. That's not what that's for at all." So, I'm up like, it's so for at all." So, I'm up like, it's so for at all." So, I'm up like, it's so crazy. And again, I didn't I didn't crazy. And again, I didn't I didn't crazy. And again, I didn't I didn't understand a lot of this as a student. understand a lot of this as a student. understand a lot of this as a student. I did this was just the evolution of the I did this was just the evolution of the I did this was just the evolution of the day. Like, okay, cool. Let's go through day. Like, okay, cool. Let's go through day. Like, okay, cool. Let's go through it. Let's get it done. it. Let's get it done. it. Let's get it done. One of the evolutions is a 50-m One of the evolutions is a 50-m One of the evolutions is a 50-m underwater swim. Like, why? underwater swim. Like, why? underwater swim. Like, why? Why do we do this? Cuz it freaks people Why do we do this? Cuz it freaks people Why do we do this? Cuz it freaks people out. Mhm. And that's exactly why we do out. Mhm. And that's exactly why we do out. Mhm. And that's exactly why we do Is it Do you really need to be able to Is it Do you really need to be able to Is it Do you really need to be able to do a 50-m underwater swim? I don't think do a 50-m underwater swim? I don't think do a 50-m underwater swim? I don't think so. so. so. I hope not. That would suck. I hope not. That would suck. I hope not. That would suck. I don't want to do one. Mhm. But, you do I don't want to do one. Mhm. But, you do I don't want to do one. Mhm. But, you do it in training cuz it scares the [ __ ] it in training cuz it scares the [ __ ] it in training cuz it scares the [ __ ] out of the students. And it's again, out of the students. And it's again, out of the students. And it's again, it's a one-to-one and the instructors it's a one-to-one and the instructors it's a one-to-one and the instructors are doing the best they can to make you are doing the best they can to make you are doing the best they can to make you nervous beforehand. nervous beforehand. nervous beforehand. So, how are they doing that? So, how are they doing that? So, how are they doing that? Oh, Oh, Oh, we have many tricks and tools. we have many tricks and tools. we have many tricks and tools. >> [clears throat] >> [clears throat] >> [clears throat] >> What year is it? 2026? Okay, statute of >> What year is it? 2026? Okay, statute of >> What year is it? 2026? Okay, statute of limitations has probably expired on limitations has probably expired on limitations has probably expired on this. So, we would often grab the foreign students we would often grab the foreign students first. They were augmenting training. first. They were augmenting training. first. They were augmenting training. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Uh, >> Uh, >> Uh, they were paid to be there by their host they were paid to be there by their host they were paid to be there by their host country and we couldn't really get rid country and we couldn't really get rid country and we couldn't really get rid of them anyway. And so, like the diving of them anyway. And so, like the diving of them anyway. And so, like the diving test. When you're So, the 50-m test. When you're So, the 50-m test. When you're So, the 50-m underwater swim is a great example. underwater swim is a great example. underwater swim is a great example. But, the diving test or even the tread But, the diving test or even the tread But, the diving test or even the tread is even better. We have scuba tanks on is even better. We have scuba tanks on is even better. We have scuba tanks on your back. your back. your back. You have your fins on, a weight belt on, You have your fins on, a weight belt on, You have your fins on, a weight belt on, and you have to tread water with to the and you have to tread water with to the and you have to tread water with to the wrist or about where the watch would be wrist or about where the watch would be wrist or about where the watch would be with your hands out for 5 minutes. with your hands out for 5 minutes. with your hands out for 5 minutes. >> [sighs and gasps] >> [sighs and gasps] >> Five or six students are going in at a >> Five or six students are going in at a time. Everybody else is on the pool time. Everybody else is on the pool time. Everybody else is on the pool deck, but their back is to the pool. So, deck, but their back is to the pool. So, deck, but their back is to the pool. So, you can only hear it. you can only hear it. you can only hear it. So, So, So, if you were to grab if you were to grab if you were to grab a sub-par performer a sub-par performer a sub-par performer and they were to lose their [ __ ] and they were to lose their [ __ ] and they were to lose their [ __ ] and everybody else had to hear that, and everybody else had to hear that, and everybody else had to hear that, wondering what in the absolute [ __ ] was wondering what in the absolute [ __ ] was wondering what in the absolute [ __ ] was happening, knowing that they have to go happening, knowing that they have to go happening, knowing that they have to go next, thinking that they were prepared, next, thinking that they were prepared, next, thinking that they were prepared, sounding like And then somebody sounds sounding like And then somebody sounds sounding like And then somebody sounds like they're just like talking to a like they're just like talking to a like they're just like talking to a dinosaur and then is being pulled dinosaur and then is being pulled dinosaur and then is being pulled unconscious out of the water and being unconscious out of the water and being unconscious out of the water and being slapped back to life by a dude with 7 slapped back to life by a dude with 7 slapped back to life by a dude with 7 years of medical school. years of medical school. years of medical school. That's one way. That's one way. That's one way. >> [laughter] [gasps] [gasps] >> The noises >> The noises >> The noises You you could just see people just like You you could just see people just like You you could just see people just like God. And you're like God, I love my job. God. And you're like God, I love my job. God. And you're like God, I love my job. It just it warms your soul like a candle It just it warms your soul like a candle It just it warms your soul like a candle that starts a forest fire, you know. that starts a forest fire, you know. that starts a forest fire, you know. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Uh and what about the underwater swim? Uh and what about the underwater swim? Uh and what about the underwater swim? Same thing. Just people struggle with Same thing. Just people struggle with Same thing. Just people struggle with that. They make weird noises. What makes that. They make weird noises. What makes that. They make weird noises. What makes them mad? them mad? them mad? Well, only when they pass out. Of all Well, only when they pass out. Of all Well, only when they pass out. Of all the evolutions in training, that is the the evolutions in training, that is the the evolutions in training, that is the only one I'm aware of that if you pass only one I'm aware of that if you pass only one I'm aware of that if you pass out, so you jump into the water front out, so you jump into the water front out, so you jump into the water front somersault somersault somersault Front somersaults? What's that? I don't Front somersaults? What's that? I don't Front somersaults? What's that? I don't know. I don't know. know. I don't know. know. I don't know. It well, it's just it's weird. It It well, it's just it's weird. It It well, it's just it's weird. It interrupts cuz anybody could like run interrupts cuz anybody could like run interrupts cuz anybody could like run and jump and dive and carry the and jump and dive and carry the and jump and dive and carry the momentum, right? And it it like screws momentum, right? And it it like screws momentum, right? And it it like screws with your ability to hold your breath with your ability to hold your breath with your ability to hold your breath like just enough, right? Like we know like just enough, right? Like we know like just enough, right? Like we know you can do this, but can you do it the you can do this, but can you do it the you can do this, but can you do it the way we ask you to do it for no reason way we ask you to do it for no reason way we ask you to do it for no reason other than we're asking you to do it. other than we're asking you to do it. other than we're asking you to do it. So, you jump in So, you jump in So, you jump in front somersault. The smart students front somersault. The smart students front somersault. The smart students dive down to the bottom of the pool cuz dive down to the bottom of the pool cuz dive down to the bottom of the pool cuz it compresses your lung a little bit it compresses your lung a little bit it compresses your lung a little bit more. It makes it easier to hold your more. It makes it easier to hold your more. It makes it easier to hold your breath than maybe 6 inches above the breath than maybe 6 inches above the breath than maybe 6 inches above the surface. Mhm. Or below the surface. surface. Mhm. Or below the surface. surface. Mhm. Or below the surface. You get the other side, you touch the You get the other side, you touch the You get the other side, you touch the other side, you have to do another other side, you have to do another other side, you have to do another [ __ ] front flip. [ __ ] front flip. [ __ ] front flip. And I think this just so you can't push And I think this just so you can't push And I think this just so you can't push off actually now that I think about it. off actually now that I think about it. off actually now that I think about it. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. You start coming back. This is also a You start coming back. This is also a You start coming back. This is also a one-to-one instructor ratio. So, anytime one-to-one instructor ratio. So, anytime one-to-one instructor ratio. So, anytime it's one-to-one, it's considered more it's one-to-one, it's considered more it's one-to-one, it's considered more high risk. This is the only evolution high risk. This is the only evolution high risk. This is the only evolution that I'm aware of that as you are if you that I'm aware of that as you are if you that I'm aware of that as you are if you can can can stay down there and do like this last stay down there and do like this last stay down there and do like this last Herculean breaststroke in your forward Herculean breaststroke in your forward Herculean breaststroke in your forward momentum, your head touches the wall as momentum, your head touches the wall as momentum, your head touches the wall as you are unconscious, we will pull you you are unconscious, we will pull you you are unconscious, we will pull you out and you go to the pass line. out and you go to the pass line. out and you go to the pass line. But the noises that students make when But the noises that students make when But the noises that students make when they come out of the water they come out of the water they come out of the water I don't know how to describe it. And I don't know how to describe it. And I don't know how to describe it. And it's it's like a drunk elephant it's it's like a drunk elephant it's it's like a drunk elephant trumpeting or a blue whale surfacing. trumpeting or a blue whale surfacing. trumpeting or a blue whale surfacing. Is he trying to get water out of them? Is he trying to get water out of them? Is he trying to get water out of them? No, because they're just unconscious. No, because they're just unconscious. No, because they're just unconscious. They're only unconscious for a few They're only unconscious for a few They're only unconscious for a few seconds. seconds. seconds. >> Right. BUT THEY'RE JUST LIKE >> Right. BUT THEY'RE JUST LIKE >> Right. BUT THEY'RE JUST LIKE AND MEANWHILE, ALL THE OTHER STUDENTS AND MEANWHILE, ALL THE OTHER STUDENTS AND MEANWHILE, ALL THE OTHER STUDENTS ARE JUST LIKE, "OH MY GOD." ARE JUST LIKE, "OH MY GOD." ARE JUST LIKE, "OH MY GOD." >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> It's wild. And yeah, cuz people are >> It's wild. And yeah, cuz people are >> It's wild. And yeah, cuz people are like, "Oh man, they make you hold your like, "Oh man, they make you hold your like, "Oh man, they make you hold your breath in training until you pass out, breath in training until you pass out, breath in training until you pass out, right?" Like, no. Actually, in every right?" Like, no. Actually, in every right?" Like, no. Actually, in every ever ever evolution in the water, if you ever ever evolution in the water, if you ever ever evolution in the water, if you pass out, you're going to fail for not pass out, you're going to fail for not pass out, you're going to fail for not following procedure. Because there's a following procedure. Because there's a following procedure. Because there's a hand signal you can put out if you need hand signal you can put out if you need hand signal you can put out if you need us come down and get you. But does that us come down and get you. But does that us come down and get you. But does that not mean you fail, too? not mean you fail, too? not mean you fail, too? It means you fail. So, but that if you It means you fail. So, but that if you It means you fail. So, but that if you get to that point, it it means you get to that point, it it means you get to that point, it it means you either didn't follow procedure either didn't follow procedure either didn't follow procedure or you didn't control your You know what or you didn't control your You know what or you didn't control your You know what I mean? Like, something went awry, and I mean? Like, something went awry, and I mean? Like, something went awry, and that's why you don't get just one and that's why you don't get just one and that's why you don't get just one and done. You get four attempts at the test. done. You get four attempts at the test. done. You get four attempts at the test. Most people pass it on their third Most people pass it on their third Most people pass it on their third attempt. The diving test that I attempt. The diving test that I attempt. The diving test that I administer. Oh, okay. Yeah. You get two administer. Oh, okay. Yeah. You get two administer. Oh, okay. Yeah. You get two attempts on one day and two attempts on attempts on one day and two attempts on attempts on one day and two attempts on the next day. Right. With a really the next day. Right. With a really the next day. Right. With a really probably great night's sleep. probably great night's sleep. probably great night's sleep. >> That's [ __ ] rough that you have to >> That's [ __ ] rough that you have to >> That's [ __ ] rough that you have to know that you've got to go back and do know that you've got to go back and do know that you've got to go back and do it again. it again. it again. As somebody who passed it on their third As somebody who passed it on their third As somebody who passed it on their third try, you don't sleep very much. It try, you don't sleep very much. It try, you don't sleep very much. It sucks. sucks. sucks. And then, that night, I slept way And then, that night, I slept way And then, that night, I slept way better. better. better. But But But to go back to chunking, the reason I to go back to chunking, the reason I to go back to chunking, the reason I failed the first two times, the first failed the first two times, the first failed the first two times, the first time I remember Cubs 30 years ago, I time I remember Cubs 30 years ago, I time I remember Cubs 30 years ago, I remember there's a knot where your head remember there's a knot where your head remember there's a knot where your head can get turned to the side, and it's can get turned to the side, and it's can get turned to the side, and it's just an exhalation just an exhalation just an exhalation knot, meaning you can still inhale and knot, meaning you can still inhale and knot, meaning you can still inhale and get air, but your head is crimped to the get air, but your head is crimped to the get air, but your head is crimped to the side, and you can't blow It's a side, and you can't blow It's a side, and you can't blow It's a regulator much like Jacques Cousteau regulator much like Jacques Cousteau regulator much like Jacques Cousteau would dive with. It's two rubber hoses would dive with. It's two rubber hoses would dive with. It's two rubber hoses that come to a bit essentially. So, your that come to a bit essentially. So, your that come to a bit essentially. So, your head is yanked to the left, and all you head is yanked to the left, and all you head is yanked to the left, and all you have to do is breathe out of your nose. have to do is breathe out of your nose. have to do is breathe out of your nose. Mhm. Mhm. Mhm. But down there, you're like freaking out But down there, you're like freaking out But down there, you're like freaking out because this happens within 30 seconds because this happens within 30 seconds because this happens within 30 seconds of starting, and a little bit of water of starting, and a little bit of water of starting, and a little bit of water is coming into your mouthpiece, too, is coming into your mouthpiece, too, is coming into your mouthpiece, too, because your head is to the back. because your head is to the back. because your head is to the back. And I remember the first time that And I remember the first time that And I remember the first time that happened to me, I started thinking about happened to me, I started thinking about happened to me, I started thinking about the exact thing I was telling myself, "I the exact thing I was telling myself, "I the exact thing I was telling myself, "I can't do this for 20 minutes." can't do this for 20 minutes." can't do this for 20 minutes." All I started thinking about was the gap All I started thinking about was the gap All I started thinking about was the gap in between the two. Same thing on the in between the two. Same thing on the in between the two. Same thing on the second test. By the time I got in the in second test. By the time I got in the in second test. By the time I got in the in the third one, the only thing I was the third one, the only thing I was the third one, the only thing I was thinking about was the problem that was thinking about was the problem that was thinking about was the problem that was introduced at that time, which again was introduced at that time, which again was introduced at that time, which again was the head yanked to the left. Like the head yanked to the left. Like the head yanked to the left. Like whatever, no problem. Just went back to whatever, no problem. Just went back to whatever, no problem. Just went back to crawling, meaning as the student you crawling, meaning as the student you crawling, meaning as the student you accept the malfunction. It's not a accept the malfunction. It's not a accept the malfunction. It's not a critical malfunction, you're ready to critical malfunction, you're ready to critical malfunction, you're ready to continue with the test. I'm like, continue with the test. I'm like, continue with the test. I'm like, why didn't I just do this the first why didn't I just do this the first why didn't I just do this the first time? time? time? And that that's the only thing I changed And that that's the only thing I changed And that that's the only thing I changed was I was like, one problem at a time, was I was like, one problem at a time, was I was like, one problem at a time, we're going to work it, and that's the we're going to work it, and that's the we're going to work it, and that's the only thing that exists in my life is only thing that exists in my life is only thing that exists in my life is that one problem at a time. that one problem at a time. that one problem at a time. Why is it important to have a proper Why is it important to have a proper Why is it important to have a proper attrition rate for people to actually attrition rate for people to actually attrition rate for people to actually die? die? die? Because the job is very dangerous, and Because the job is very dangerous, and Because the job is very dangerous, and I'm not I don't want people to die, but I'm not I don't want people to die, but I'm not I don't want people to die, but if nobody ever died in training, you are if nobody ever died in training, you are if nobody ever died in training, you are not training hard enough. not training hard enough. not training hard enough. The training has to be a reverse The training has to be a reverse The training has to be a reverse engineering engineering engineering downstream downstream downstream real-world requirements of the job that real-world requirements of the job that real-world requirements of the job that you are expected to do, and it is a you are expected to do, and it is a you are expected to do, and it is a dangerous job. You cannot prepare for dangerous job. You cannot prepare for dangerous job. You cannot prepare for that that that by avoiding danger in training. Except by avoiding danger in training. Except by avoiding danger in training. Except no one ever died, there wouldn't be no one ever died, there wouldn't be no one ever died, there wouldn't be anything on the line. Ultimately, there anything on the line. Ultimately, there anything on the line. Ultimately, there wouldn't be a sufficient risk for the wouldn't be a sufficient risk for the wouldn't be a sufficient risk for the guys to know that this is pushing it guys to know that this is pushing it guys to know that this is pushing it hard enough. hard enough. hard enough. >> There's a reason to fear it. Yep. You >> There's a reason to fear it. Yep. You >> There's a reason to fear it. Yep. You wouldn't be pushing hard enough. wouldn't be pushing hard enough. wouldn't be pushing hard enough. What's the most common way that people What's the most common way that people What's the most common way that people die? die? die? Drowning? Uh that is not uncommon. I Drowning? Uh that is not uncommon. I Drowning? Uh that is not uncommon. I think well, the last one I think in the think well, the last one I think in the think well, the last one I think in the pool was somebody who uh vomited and pool was somebody who uh vomited and pool was somebody who uh vomited and then aspirated it while they were then aspirated it while they were then aspirated it while they were underwater. underwater. underwater. Um Um Um The last student to die in training was The last student to die in training was The last student to die in training was post-Hell post-Hell post-Hell Week. Week. Week. Um and I don't remember the exact Um and I don't remember the exact Um and I don't remember the exact medical term, but it was fluid into the medical term, but it was fluid into the medical term, but it was fluid into the lungs. lungs. lungs. Uh and then yeah, he made it to the Uh and then yeah, he made it to the Uh and then yeah, he made it to the hospital, but still expire. hospital, but still expire. hospital, but still expire. It's a You You are destroyed at the end It's a You You are destroyed at the end It's a You You are destroyed at the end of Hell Week. It's the only week of Hell Week. It's the only week of Hell Week. It's the only week afterwards where they let you walk in afterwards where they let you walk in afterwards where they let you walk in tennis shoes. tennis shoes. tennis shoes. Be I mean, you're like you're wearing Be I mean, you're like you're wearing Be I mean, you're like you're wearing life jacket. Like you are life jacket. Like you are life jacket. Like you are Sand is abrasive. For people who didn't Sand is abrasive. For people who didn't Sand is abrasive. For people who didn't know this, imagine it's basically know this, imagine it's basically know this, imagine it's basically wearing sandpaper for a week because wearing sandpaper for a week because wearing sandpaper for a week because you're wet and sandy the entire time. you're wet and sandy the entire time. you're wet and sandy the entire time. It does things to the body. Uh and yeah, It does things to the body. Uh and yeah, It does things to the body. Uh and yeah, you're just absolutely destroyed, and you're just absolutely destroyed, and you're just absolutely destroyed, and most people are nursing an injury anyway most people are nursing an injury anyway most people are nursing an injury anyway uh throughout training, but uh throughout training, but uh throughout training, but yeah, that one [snorts] gets you. What role do you think hardship plays in What role do you think hardship plays in people's lives? I'm at a place now as I'm getting closer I'm at a place now as I'm getting closer to 50 than 40 that I actually think the to 50 than 40 that I actually think the to 50 than 40 that I actually think the pursuit of an easy life is a mistake. I pursuit of an easy life is a mistake. I pursuit of an easy life is a mistake. I think that the grind think that the grind think that the grind is actually what life is all about. It's is actually what life is all about. It's is actually what life is all about. It's It's not a matter of whether you're It's not a matter of whether you're It's not a matter of whether you're going to have a a hard life or an easy going to have a a hard life or an easy going to have a a hard life or an easy life. It's the life. It's the life. It's the ability your ability to determine how ability your ability to determine how ability your ability to determine how well that you can suffer along the way well that you can suffer along the way well that you can suffer along the way and try and to enjoy the journey. and try and to enjoy the journey. and try and to enjoy the journey. Okay. So, as somebody that has either Okay. So, as somebody that has either Okay. So, as somebody that has either endured or dolled out quite a bit of endured or dolled out quite a bit of endured or dolled out quite a bit of suffering, suffering, suffering, how do people deal with suffering more how do people deal with suffering more how do people deal with suffering more effectively? effectively? effectively? First by acknowledging that sometimes First by acknowledging that sometimes First by acknowledging that sometimes the answer is you are going to suffer the answer is you are going to suffer the answer is you are going to suffer instead of looking for a way to avoid it instead of looking for a way to avoid it instead of looking for a way to avoid it altogether. You know, you don't have to altogether. You know, you don't have to altogether. You know, you don't have to nerf all the corners on tables. Maybe nerf all the corners on tables. Maybe nerf all the corners on tables. Maybe you shouldn't. Maybe it's okay to you shouldn't. Maybe it's okay to you shouldn't. Maybe it's okay to bang your knee every once in a while in bang your knee every once in a while in bang your knee every once in a while in the middle of the night. So, I think the middle of the night. So, I think the middle of the night. So, I think it's actually starts with accepting that it's actually starts with accepting that it's actually starts with accepting that if you really want to accomplish if you really want to accomplish if you really want to accomplish something in your life, there's no hack something in your life, there's no hack something in your life, there's no hack to hard work. to hard work. to hard work. I I think you should hack as many like I I think you should hack as many like I I think you should hack as many like for efficiencies like hack your Gmail for efficiencies like hack your Gmail for efficiencies like hack your Gmail inbox, but totally go to town. Hack your inbox, but totally go to town. Hack your inbox, but totally go to town. Hack your business systems. business systems. business systems. There's no There's no There's no there is no substitute for hard work. there is no substitute for hard work. there is no substitute for hard work. Do you have anything in your life that Do you have anything in your life that Do you have anything in your life that was truly given to you that you didn't was truly given to you that you didn't was truly given to you that you didn't work for at all that you except you have work for at all that you except you have work for at all that you except you have right? And then I look at the things right? And then I look at the things right? And then I look at the things that I worked the hardest for and the that I worked the hardest for and the that I worked the hardest for and the goals that I set where I'm like, "Am I goals that I set where I'm like, "Am I goals that I set where I'm like, "Am I out of my mind? Like can I actually do out of my mind? Like can I actually do out of my mind? Like can I actually do this?" this?" this?" That's the stuff that I value the most. That's the stuff that I value the most. That's the stuff that I value the most. And then I'm trying to trying to And then I'm trying to trying to And then I'm trying to trying to emphasis on this, learn how to enjoy emphasis on this, learn how to enjoy emphasis on this, learn how to enjoy that journey more. that journey more. that journey more. Because it's hard. Because it's hard. Because it's hard. And enjoying hard things is it's And enjoying hard things is it's And enjoying hard things is it's difficult. difficult. difficult. What gets in the way of enjoying it? What gets in the way of enjoying it? What gets in the way of enjoying it? Usually just myself. Usually just myself. Usually just myself. You know, I I'm my biggest enemy You know, I I'm my biggest enemy You know, I I'm my biggest enemy throughout my entire life has been throughout my entire life has been throughout my entire life has been myself. You know, waking up knowing your myself. You know, waking up knowing your myself. You know, waking up knowing your day is going to be difficult or more day is going to be difficult or more day is going to be difficult or more difficult or choosing to have it be more difficult or choosing to have it be more difficult or choosing to have it be more difficult to do the hard work up front difficult to do the hard work up front difficult to do the hard work up front so maybe you can enjoy it easier day so maybe you can enjoy it easier day so maybe you can enjoy it easier day later in the week. It's not a keynote. later in the week. It's not a keynote. later in the week. It's not a keynote. It's challenging. I think that's what It's challenging. I think that's what It's challenging. I think that's what people struggle. That's where I people struggle. That's where I people struggle. That's where I struggle. Strange to think that as you get older, Strange to think that as you get older, you try to make things harder not you try to make things harder not you try to make things harder not easier. easier. easier. Yeah, and my goal in life for sure up Yeah, and my goal in life for sure up Yeah, and my goal in life for sure up until let's say exceptionally recently until let's say exceptionally recently until let's say exceptionally recently was let's make things as easy as was let's make things as easy as was let's make things as easy as possible. possible. possible. Everybody's searching for that. Then you Everybody's searching for that. Then you Everybody's searching for that. Then you just and it, you know, you realize that just and it, you know, you realize that just and it, you know, you realize that all the stuff that you got easy all the stuff that you got easy all the stuff that you got easy just doesn't matter. just doesn't matter. just doesn't matter. It's the stuff that sucks, especially if It's the stuff that sucks, especially if It's the stuff that sucks, especially if you can share that with your friends. you can share that with your friends. you can share that with your friends. That's the biggest thing I would say I That's the biggest thing I would say I That's the biggest thing I would say I probably miss about the community is probably miss about the community is probably miss about the community is that that that we would do the dumbest, most painful we would do the dumbest, most painful we would do the dumbest, most painful [ __ ] ever and laugh about it while we [ __ ] ever and laugh about it while we [ __ ] ever and laugh about it while we were doing it. were doing it. were doing it. Because you're doing it with somebody Because you're doing it with somebody Because you're doing it with somebody else. else. else. >> Yeah, totally. >> Yeah, totally. >> Yeah, totally. It would suck by yourself. I mean you It would suck by yourself. I mean you It would suck by yourself. I mean you could do it, but could do it, but could do it, but watching somebody else suffer with you watching somebody else suffer with you watching somebody else suffer with you and finding joy in that, yeah. and finding joy in that, yeah. and finding joy in that, yeah. If you could take one lesson from the If you could take one lesson from the If you could take one lesson from the SEAL teams and force every young man to SEAL teams and force every young man to SEAL teams and force every young man to learn it, what would it be? Choose. Choose. One lesson. Be cautious. Be cautious. And make sure you know what you're And make sure you know what you're And make sure you know what you're willing to die for cuz not everything's willing to die for cuz not everything's willing to die for cuz not everything's worth it. Many times in my life the things that I Many times in my life the things that I thought were the most important ended up thought were the most important ended up thought were the most important ended up being inconsequential being inconsequential being inconsequential because I didn't put enough thought or because I didn't put enough thought or because I didn't put enough thought or time and effort into understanding why I time and effort into understanding why I time and effort into understanding why I wanted to do them. wanted to do them. wanted to do them. And killing yourself and sacrificing And killing yourself and sacrificing And killing yourself and sacrificing everything in your life and trying to everything in your life and trying to everything in your life and trying to achieve that, you might get it at the achieve that, you might get it at the achieve that, you might get it at the end of the day and be the most hollow end of the day and be the most hollow end of the day and be the most hollow shell of a human being known to man. And how do you do that assessment And how do you do that assessment without having to go through it? without having to go through it? without having to go through it? I think you have to slow down a little I think you have to slow down a little I think you have to slow down a little bit. bit. bit. We seem to be in a world where speed is We seem to be in a world where speed is We seem to be in a world where speed is one of the most important metrics and I one of the most important metrics and I one of the most important metrics and I think think think that's important at times, that's important at times, that's important at times, but do all decisions have to be made in but do all decisions have to be made in but do all decisions have to be made in a moment's notice? But for me, it's one a moment's notice? But for me, it's one a moment's notice? But for me, it's one of the things I really Like, if your of the things I really Like, if your of the things I really Like, if your house is on fire, get the [ __ ] out of house is on fire, get the [ __ ] out of house is on fire, get the [ __ ] out of your house, right? your house, right? your house, right? If If If your house isn't on fire, and you have your house isn't on fire, and you have your house isn't on fire, and you have time to make a decision, time to make a decision, time to make a decision, think about the decision. Think about think about the decision. Think about think about the decision. Think about your available options, and make the your available options, and make the your available options, and make the most educated one at the time, and then most educated one at the time, and then most educated one at the time, and then on that journey, on that journey, on that journey, keep asking yourself, is this I mean, keep asking yourself, is this I mean, keep asking yourself, is this I mean, like, reinforcing it along the way as like, reinforcing it along the way as like, reinforcing it along the way as opposed to just one decision, and then opposed to just one decision, and then opposed to just one decision, and then you're full back dive straight ahead. you're full back dive straight ahead. you're full back dive straight ahead. Mhm. I don't think you can get to that point I don't think you can get to that point there without making some mistakes on there without making some mistakes on there without making some mistakes on your own. Like, people always ask me, your own. Like, people always ask me, your own. Like, people always ask me, "What would you say to your younger "What would you say to your younger "What would you say to your younger self?" The truly honest answer is, "Buy self?" The truly honest answer is, "Buy self?" The truly honest answer is, "Buy Bitcoin, you dipshit." Yes. Buy Bitcoin Bitcoin, you dipshit." Yes. Buy Bitcoin Bitcoin, you dipshit." Yes. Buy Bitcoin and do 531. That's it. and do 531. That's it. and do 531. That's it. But here's the problem, though. If I was But here's the problem, though. If I was But here's the problem, though. If I was 18, and my 48-year-old self went back, 18, and my 48-year-old self went back, 18, and my 48-year-old self went back, I'd be like, "Shut up, dude. I got this I'd be like, "Shut up, dude. I got this I'd be like, "Shut up, dude. I got this figured out." figured out." figured out." >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> All right, granddad, sit down. >> All right, granddad, sit down. >> All right, granddad, sit down. >> Yeah, totally. Pretty sure I'm likely to >> Yeah, totally. Pretty sure I'm likely to >> Yeah, totally. Pretty sure I'm likely to invest in new cars. invest in new cars. invest in new cars. Uh Yeah. Uh Yeah. Uh Yeah. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> I like to buy high and sell low. It's >> I like to buy high and sell low. It's >> I like to buy high and sell low. It's not a big deal. It's a new investment not a big deal. It's a new investment not a big deal. It's a new investment strategy. strategy. strategy. Yeah, um I I wouldn't have listened to Yeah, um I I wouldn't have listened to Yeah, um I I wouldn't have listened to myself, but myself, but myself, but I also probably I also probably I also probably would not remove the mistakes. would not remove the mistakes. would not remove the mistakes. I wouldn't remove I wouldn't remove I wouldn't remove some key mistakes in my life just to some key mistakes in my life just to some key mistakes in my life just to make sure make sure make sure that I learned the lesson from them. that I learned the lesson from them. that I learned the lesson from them. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. I would remove some, for sure, because I would remove some, for sure, because I would remove some, for sure, because they were underneath this, you know, they were underneath this, you know, they were underneath this, you know, pain and suffering, and don't worry, I pain and suffering, and don't worry, I pain and suffering, and don't worry, I made They were repeats of mistakes that made They were repeats of mistakes that made They were repeats of mistakes that I was already making. Yeah. I was already making. Yeah. I was already making. Yeah. But you have to have those mistakes. The But you have to have those mistakes. The But you have to have those mistakes. The fascinating thing about the question, fascinating thing about the question, fascinating thing about the question, "What would you tell your younger self? "What would you tell your younger self? "What would you tell your younger self? What advice would you give to your What advice would you give to your What advice would you give to your younger self?" If you answer that, younger self?" If you answer that, younger self?" If you answer that, it is almost always the exact advice it is almost always the exact advice it is almost always the exact advice that you need to hear right now. For him that you need to hear right now. For him that you need to hear right now. For him the same way that you've got the same the same way that you've got the same the same way that you've got the same feet that you did 30 years ago, you have feet that you did 30 years ago, you have feet that you did 30 years ago, you have the same patterns, the same fears, the the same patterns, the same fears, the the same patterns, the same fears, the same coping mechanisms, the same same coping mechanisms, the same same coping mechanisms, the same responses when things become stressful responses when things become stressful responses when things become stressful or overwhelming. or overwhelming. or overwhelming. And And And that means that you're going to be that means that you're going to be that means that you're going to be driven by those unconscious driven by those unconscious driven by those unconscious unalchemized trends. Those are going to unalchemized trends. Those are going to unalchemized trends. Those are going to be the things. They're going to be be the things. They're going to be be the things. They're going to be the [snorts] [ __ ] that you dealt with the [snorts] [ __ ] that you dealt with the [snorts] [ __ ] that you dealt with when you were 18 and you got cut from when you were 18 and you got cut from when you were 18 and you got cut from the baseball team or the way that your the baseball team or the way that your the baseball team or the way that your first breakup felt and how you coped first breakup felt and how you coped first breakup felt and how you coped with it after that. with it after that. with it after that. For the most part, those are going to be For the most part, those are going to be For the most part, those are going to be the dynamics that are going to drive the the dynamics that are going to drive the the dynamics that are going to drive the rest of your life, too. So, anything rest of your life, too. So, anything rest of your life, too. So, anything about So, for me, it would be feel less. about So, for me, it would be feel less. about So, for me, it would be feel less. Like, just stop [ __ ] fearing so much, Like, just stop [ __ ] fearing so much, Like, just stop [ __ ] fearing so much, dude. What do you fear the most? dude. What do you fear the most? dude. What do you fear the most? Not doing it right, not getting it Not doing it right, not getting it Not doing it right, not getting it right. What do you use as your yardstick right. What do you use as your yardstick right. What do you use as your yardstick for that, though? No, it's totally for that, though? No, it's totally for that, though? No, it's totally superfluous superfluous superfluous ethereal [ __ ] fluffy big cloud of ethereal [ __ ] fluffy big cloud of ethereal [ __ ] fluffy big cloud of like something going wrong. Things will like something going wrong. Things will like something going wrong. Things will go wrong and you'll be in the wrong and go wrong and you'll be in the wrong and go wrong and you'll be in the wrong and something will be taken away from you. I something will be taken away from you. I something will be taken away from you. I don't know what, I don't know by who. don't know what, I don't know by who. don't know what, I don't know by who. But not doing it right, not getting it But not doing it right, not getting it But not doing it right, not getting it right, not being enough. I don't know right, not being enough. I don't know right, not being enough. I don't know who for or why. All that's going to who for or why. All that's going to who for or why. All that's going to happen, though. happen, though. happen, though. Of course. Of course. Of course. So, isn't the juice then in just So, isn't the juice then in just So, isn't the juice then in just preparing yourself for that and working preparing yourself for that and working preparing yourself for that and working your way through And then overcoming it. your way through And then overcoming it. your way through And then overcoming it. Yeah, of course, which I've done Yeah, of course, which I've done Yeah, of course, which I've done throughout my entire life. But they throughout my entire life. But they throughout my entire life. But they >> the judge of that, sir. >> the judge of that, sir. >> the judge of that, sir. Yeah, yeah. [laughter] Yeah, yeah. [laughter] Yeah, yeah. [laughter] Interestingly, we have a we have a pool Interestingly, we have a we have a pool Interestingly, we have a we have a pool and a bunch of knots for you to get and a bunch of knots for you to get and a bunch of knots for you to get stuck into after this. stuck into after this. stuck into after this. Um Um Um you know, all of the things everybody you know, all of the things everybody you know, all of the things everybody that's listening, whatever the that's listening, whatever the that's listening, whatever the challenges that you thought was going to challenges that you thought was going to challenges that you thought was going to destroy you by virtue of the fact that destroy you by virtue of the fact that destroy you by virtue of the fact that you're listening to this, it hasn't. Can you're listening to this, it hasn't. Can you're listening to this, it hasn't. Can I add one thing to that, too? And this I add one thing to that, too? And this I add one thing to that, too? And this is one thing that I wish I know people is one thing that I wish I know people is one thing that I wish I know people hear this, but they don't believe me. hear this, but they don't believe me. hear this, but they don't believe me. Whatever it is you think you're going Whatever it is you think you're going Whatever it is you think you're going through, through, through, please do not convince yourself that you please do not convince yourself that you please do not convince yourself that you are the only one struggling with it. My are the only one struggling with it. My are the only one struggling with it. My god. god. god. If COVID taught us anything, If COVID taught us anything, If COVID taught us anything, that it should be that isolation that it should be that isolation that it should be that isolation or even perceived isolation is one of or even perceived isolation is one of or even perceived isolation is one of the most damaging things to the human the most damaging things to the human the most damaging things to the human brain. brain. brain. We are every person I've ever met in my We are every person I've ever met in my We are every person I've ever met in my life is more defined by their life is more defined by their life is more defined by their similarities than by their differences similarities than by their differences similarities than by their differences and that and that and that it is so unfortunate it is so unfortunate it is so unfortunate against statistically the world that I against statistically the world that I against statistically the world that I come from has a much higher suicide rate come from has a much higher suicide rate come from has a much higher suicide rate than many other occupational fields. than many other occupational fields. than many other occupational fields. And for those that have chosen to leave And for those that have chosen to leave And for those that have chosen to leave things behind often times there are deep things behind often times there are deep things behind often times there are deep sentiments of being isolated and alone sentiments of being isolated and alone sentiments of being isolated and alone and feeling like they were dealing with and feeling like they were dealing with and feeling like they were dealing with something something something that nobody else would or was or that that nobody else would or was or that that nobody else would or was or that nobody else would understand and it's nobody else would understand and it's nobody else would understand and it's not true. not true. not true. You You can't Nobody knows what's going You You can't Nobody knows what's going You You can't Nobody knows what's going on behind your eyes, right? Like We I on behind your eyes, right? Like We I on behind your eyes, right? Like We I guarantee you and I are probably guarantee you and I are probably guarantee you and I are probably spend our mental bandwidth worrying spend our mental bandwidth worrying spend our mental bandwidth worrying about the vast majority of the same about the vast majority of the same about the vast majority of the same [ __ ] But in my mind I'm like cutting my [ __ ] But in my mind I'm like cutting my [ __ ] But in my mind I'm like cutting my nails. But I Who Who could I possibly nails. But I Who Who could I possibly nails. But I Who Who could I possibly talk to about this cuz I'm the only one talk to about this cuz I'm the only one talk to about this cuz I'm the only one on Earth dealing with this and the on Earth dealing with this and the on Earth dealing with this and the reality is almost everybody is. So we reality is almost everybody is. So we reality is almost everybody is. So we lie to ourselves, you isolate, you don't lie to ourselves, you isolate, you don't lie to ourselves, you isolate, you don't say anything and it ends up getting say anything and it ends up getting say anything and it ends up getting worse. And it's interesting you said um worse. And it's interesting you said um worse. And it's interesting you said um I don't think that I can do the thing I don't think that I can do the thing I don't think that I can do the thing that I need to do for as long as is that I need to do for as long as is that I need to do for as long as is going to be required of me. going to be required of me. going to be required of me. And that's not too dissimilar to one of And that's not too dissimilar to one of And that's not too dissimilar to one of the most common thoughts that people the most common thoughts that people the most common thoughts that people have before taking their own lives, have before taking their own lives, have before taking their own lives, which is that the world would be better which is that the world would be better which is that the world would be better off without me. Or I can't take this off without me. Or I can't take this off without me. Or I can't take this anymore. The people around me will be anymore. The people around me will be anymore. The people around me will be better off without me and I can't better off without me and I can't better off without me and I can't continue. Yeah. Uh and it's the continue. Yeah. Uh and it's the continue. Yeah. Uh and it's the combination of those two things. It's combination of those two things. It's combination of those two things. It's the isolation that's in there too. You the isolation that's in there too. You the isolation that's in there too. You know that know that know that wonderful line, "The feeling of being wonderful line, "The feeling of being wonderful line, "The feeling of being alone is one of the most dangerous lies alone is one of the most dangerous lies alone is one of the most dangerous lies we tell ourselves." I have never asked we tell ourselves." I have never asked we tell ourselves." I have never asked for help and not received it. Mhm. And I for help and not received it. Mhm. And I for help and not received it. Mhm. And I have been have been have been like in tears like in tears like in tears overwhelmed with the number of people overwhelmed with the number of people overwhelmed with the number of people who saw that I needed help who saw that I needed help who saw that I needed help but didn't say anything cuz they were but didn't say anything cuz they were but didn't say anything cuz they were waiting for me to ask. waiting for me to ask. waiting for me to ask. Mhm. Mhm. Mhm. Well, this is a curse of being competent Well, this is a curse of being competent Well, this is a curse of being competent in the sort of people that listen to in the sort of people that listen to in the sort of people that listen to this show and read books like yours this show and read books like yours this show and read books like yours that the kinds of people who usually in that the kinds of people who usually in that the kinds of people who usually in their friend group are the ones that their friend group are the ones that their friend group are the ones that have have have got it figured out. You know, they got it figured out. You know, they got it figured out. You know, they they're the ones that are working on they're the ones that are working on they're the ones that are working on their diet, they're thinking about their their diet, they're thinking about their their diet, they're thinking about their sleep pattern, they're reading and doing sleep pattern, they're reading and doing sleep pattern, they're reading and doing meditation, they're they're everything meditation, they're they're everything meditation, they're they're everything maxing. Like Thor. He You know, he he maxing. Like Thor. He You know, he he maxing. Like Thor. He You know, he he did he didn't he just genetics maxed. did he didn't he just genetics maxed. did he didn't he just genetics maxed. And um And um And um what that means is that if you're the what that means is that if you're the what that means is that if you're the friend that always seems like you've got friend that always seems like you've got friend that always seems like you've got your life sorted, your life sorted, your life sorted, people tend to not want to come to your people tend to not want to come to your people tend to not want to come to your aid because oh [ __ ] like, you know, aid because oh [ __ ] like, you know, aid because oh [ __ ] like, you know, Andy's the guy that that I go to. Like, Andy's the guy that that I go to. Like, Andy's the guy that that I go to. Like, who am I Who am I Who am I to help who am I Who am I Who am I to help who am I Who am I Who am I to help the him? Like, he's got he's got it the him? Like, he's got he's got it the him? Like, he's got he's got it sorted. Like, he's not he's not on me. sorted. Like, he's not he's not on me. sorted. Like, he's not he's not on me. Like, he's it's going to be Like, he's it's going to be Like, he's it's going to be embarrassing. It's going to be whatever. embarrassing. It's going to be whatever. embarrassing. It's going to be whatever. And um it's a weird inversion of things And um it's a weird inversion of things And um it's a weird inversion of things that are good of of that are good of of that are good of of There're lots of ways that competence is There're lots of ways that competence is There're lots of ways that competence is great, but this is one of the ways where great, but this is one of the ways where great, but this is one of the ways where competence can hold you back. And uh competence can hold you back. And uh competence can hold you back. And uh Yeah, I think it's Yeah, I think it's Yeah, I think it's It goes back to the misconceptions about It goes back to the misconceptions about It goes back to the misconceptions about special operations. special operations. special operations. Defined Defined Defined by their competence. by their competence. by their competence. The country calls upon that community to The country calls upon that community to The country calls upon that community to solve problems when they can't figure solve problems when they can't figure solve problems when they can't figure out another solution. And by the way, out another solution. And by the way, out another solution. And by the way, they're not looking for a negative they're not looking for a negative they're not looking for a negative result. They're looking for success. result. They're looking for success. result. They're looking for success. I wrote this essay. This I wrote this essay. This I wrote this essay. This came to me when you were talking about came to me when you were talking about came to me when you were talking about the fact that you stayed in a a marriage the fact that you stayed in a a marriage the fact that you stayed in a a marriage for longer than you should have done and for longer than you should have done and for longer than you should have done and that you'd used a skill that you'd used a skill that you'd used a skill that had got you a lot of accolade that had got you a lot of accolade that had got you a lot of accolade in your military career, but it had in your military career, but it had in your military career, but it had damaged you when it came to your damaged you when it came to your damaged you when it came to your relationship. relationship. relationship. The curse of psychological strength. The curse of psychological strength. The curse of psychological strength. Everyone has a limit. Everyone has a limit. Everyone has a limit. An end to the amount of discomfort that An end to the amount of discomfort that An end to the amount of discomfort that they can cope with. This is obvious they can cope with. This is obvious they can cope with. This is obvious physically. Some people can lift more physically. Some people can lift more physically. Some people can lift more and run further than others. and run further than others. and run further than others. But how much emotional pain, upset, or But how much emotional pain, upset, or But how much emotional pain, upset, or disappointment a person can endure is disappointment a person can endure is disappointment a person can endure is subtler and harder to detect. It's not subtler and harder to detect. It's not subtler and harder to detect. It's not apparent in the size of someone's arms, apparent in the size of someone's arms, apparent in the size of someone's arms, but the capacity of their nervous but the capacity of their nervous but the capacity of their nervous system. It's not a weight that you can system. It's not a weight that you can system. It's not a weight that you can see on squat rack. It's their ability to see on squat rack. It's their ability to see on squat rack. It's their ability to carry a heavy emotional load. This carry a heavy emotional load. This carry a heavy emotional load. This psychological strength can be a good psychological strength can be a good psychological strength can be a good thing. thing. thing. You're able to handle more than most. You're able to handle more than most. You're able to handle more than most. You don't bulk at pain. You keep pushing You don't bulk at pain. You keep pushing You don't bulk at pain. You keep pushing through regardless of how you feel. through regardless of how you feel. through regardless of how you feel. But too much strength can be a weakness. But too much strength can be a weakness. But too much strength can be a weakness. High performers are particularly High performers are particularly High performers are particularly vulnerable to this trap. Psychological vulnerable to this trap. Psychological vulnerable to this trap. Psychological strength is rewarded almost everywhere. strength is rewarded almost everywhere. strength is rewarded almost everywhere. In the gym it's discipline, in business In the gym it's discipline, in business In the gym it's discipline, in business it's grit, in public it's composure. You it's grit, in public it's composure. You it's grit, in public it's composure. You become person who can handle it, who become person who can handle it, who become person who can handle it, who doesn't complain, who pushes through and doesn't complain, who pushes through and doesn't complain, who pushes through and others don't quit. Your ability to others don't quit. Your ability to others don't quit. Your ability to ignore how you feel and keep moving ignore how you feel and keep moving ignore how you feel and keep moving forward earns admiration, builds your forward earns admiration, builds your forward earns admiration, builds your career, and creates momentum. career, and creates momentum. career, and creates momentum. But what you are praised for in public, But what you are praised for in public, But what you are praised for in public, you often pay for in private. Oof. you often pay for in private. Oof. you often pay for in private. Oof. Relationships don't reward endurance, Relationships don't reward endurance, Relationships don't reward endurance, they require attunement. If your default they require attunement. If your default they require attunement. If your default strategy in life is to absorb discomfort strategy in life is to absorb discomfort strategy in life is to absorb discomfort and override warning signs, you will do and override warning signs, you will do and override warning signs, you will do exactly that when someone repeatedly exactly that when someone repeatedly exactly that when someone repeatedly hurts you. You'll rationalize it, hurts you. You'll rationalize it, hurts you. You'll rationalize it, reframe it, decide it's your job to make reframe it, decide it's your job to make reframe it, decide it's your job to make it work. And the stronger you are, the it work. And the stronger you are, the it work. And the stronger you are, the longer you can stay. longer you can stay. longer you can stay. What looks like strength from the What looks like strength from the What looks like strength from the outside becomes self-abandonment on the outside becomes self-abandonment on the outside becomes self-abandonment on the inside. You've trained yourself to inside. You've trained yourself to inside. You've trained yourself to believe that struggle is noble and believe that struggle is noble and believe that struggle is noble and difficulty is meaningful. So when love difficulty is meaningful. So when love difficulty is meaningful. So when love feels destabilizing, it doesn't register feels destabilizing, it doesn't register feels destabilizing, it doesn't register as a warning, it feels like a challenge. as a warning, it feels like a challenge. as a warning, it feels like a challenge. And challenges are your thing. And challenges are your thing. And challenges are your thing. But a relationship isn't a marathon to But a relationship isn't a marathon to But a relationship isn't a marathon to be endured, it's a place to feel safe. be endured, it's a place to feel safe. be endured, it's a place to feel safe. The qualities that make you formidable The qualities that make you formidable The qualities that make you formidable in the arena can quietly make you in the arena can quietly make you in the arena can quietly make you miserable in your own living room. miserable in your own living room. miserable in your own living room. Let's say that you're dating when you Let's say that you're dating when you Let's say that you're dating when you feel like a side character in your own feel like a side character in your own feel like a side character in your own relationship. You put them first and relationship. You put them first and relationship. You put them first and they put you sixth. The rupture is they put you sixth. The rupture is they put you sixth. The rupture is regular and the repair is absent. Lower regular and the repair is absent. Lower regular and the repair is absent. Lower resilience, less stubborn people, would resilience, less stubborn people, would resilience, less stubborn people, would have broken long ago and said, "I'm have broken long ago and said, "I'm have broken long ago and said, "I'm out." But not you. You're the Jocko out." But not you. You're the Jocko out." But not you. You're the Jocko Willink of psychological suffering. Willink of psychological suffering. Willink of psychological suffering. Forget carrying the boats, you'll carry Forget carrying the boats, you'll carry Forget carrying the boats, you'll carry the whole fleet forever. the whole fleet forever. the whole fleet forever. In these situations, you're faced with a In these situations, you're faced with a In these situations, you're faced with a much tougher problem. Not how much can much tougher problem. Not how much can much tougher problem. Not how much can you tolerate, you tolerate, you tolerate, but how much do you want to tolerate? but how much do you want to tolerate? but how much do you want to tolerate? Perhaps this is what you had to do as a Perhaps this is what you had to do as a Perhaps this is what you had to do as a child. If your needs weren't noticed, child. If your needs weren't noticed, child. If your needs weren't noticed, your sadness was ignored, and your your sadness was ignored, and your your sadness was ignored, and your feelings didn't matter, then you become feelings didn't matter, then you become feelings didn't matter, then you become accustomed to pushing through accustomed to pushing through accustomed to pushing through disconnection in order to make those disconnection in order to make those disconnection in order to make those relationships function. relationships function. relationships function. If child you learns If child you learns If child you learns I need to work hard to be loved, then I need to work hard to be loved, then I need to work hard to be loved, then adult you believes, "If I am not loved, adult you believes, "If I am not loved, adult you believes, "If I am not loved, I just need to work harder." I just need to work harder." I just need to work harder." You've achieved 10,000 hours of ignoring You've achieved 10,000 hours of ignoring You've achieved 10,000 hours of ignoring your own needs. You can't tell people your own needs. You can't tell people your own needs. You can't tell people how you feel without first worrying how you feel without first worrying how you feel without first worrying about how it'll make them feel. You about how it'll make them feel. You about how it'll make them feel. You unconsciously believe that suffering is unconsciously believe that suffering is unconsciously believe that suffering is the price of connection, and that silent the price of connection, and that silent the price of connection, and that silent subjugation is noble. subjugation is noble. subjugation is noble. You basically think, "I should be able You basically think, "I should be able You basically think, "I should be able to tolerate the intolerable in order to to tolerate the intolerable in order to to tolerate the intolerable in order to make this work." make this work." make this work." What inspires you to write that? What inspires you to write that? What inspires you to write that? Thinking about some of the ways that I'd Thinking about some of the ways that I'd Thinking about some of the ways that I'd denied myself denied myself denied myself uh prioritization. That uh prioritization. That uh prioritization. That I'd pushed through discomfort because I I'd pushed through discomfort because I I'd pushed through discomfort because I could. could. could. Because Because Because almost everything that was valuable in almost everything that was valuable in almost everything that was valuable in life had come on the other side of life had come on the other side of life had come on the other side of working hard and going through working hard and going through working hard and going through difficulty. So, there's just this difficulty. So, there's just this difficulty. So, there's just this implicit belief that, "Well, implicit belief that, "Well, implicit belief that, "Well, if something's hard, that must mean that if something's hard, that must mean that if something's hard, that must mean that there's something valuable on the other there's something valuable on the other there's something valuable on the other side of it." But, there is such a thing side of it." But, there is such a thing side of it." But, there is such a thing as kind of pointless suffering. as kind of pointless suffering. as kind of pointless suffering. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It made me think It made me think about It made me think It made me think about It made me think It made me think about Yeah, the curse of psychological Yeah, the curse of psychological Yeah, the curse of psychological strength. It made me think about what strength. It made me think about what strength. It made me think about what you were saying. you were saying. you were saying. Sounded very self-reflective as you were Sounded very self-reflective as you were Sounded very self-reflective as you were writing it. Massive. Massively. I mean, writing it. Massive. Massively. I mean, writing it. Massive. Massively. I mean, I could have easily I could have easily I could have easily You use You have a better grasp on the You use You have a better grasp on the You use You have a better grasp on the English language than I do, probably cuz English language than I do, probably cuz English language than I do, probably cuz you guys You guys don't use it properly. you guys You guys don't use it properly. you guys You guys don't use it properly. I think you guys might Kind of invented I think you guys might Kind of invented I think you guys might Kind of invented it. Yeah. it. Yeah. it. Yeah. So, yeah. No, that's uh Say more. So, yeah. No, that's uh Say more. So, yeah. No, that's uh Say more. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> It's good, man. That's I can hear uh >> It's good, man. That's I can hear uh >> It's good, man. That's I can hear uh a startling amount of myself Yeah. in a startling amount of myself Yeah. in a startling amount of myself Yeah. in that. that. that. It's tough. It's tough. It's tough. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. What people see from the outside isn't What people see from the outside isn't What people see from the outside isn't always what's going on on the inside. I always what's going on on the inside. I always what's going on on the inside. I like that line, you know, what what you like that line, you know, what what you like that line, you know, what what you are praised for in public, you pay for are praised for in public, you pay for are praised for in public, you pay for in private. And uh it's one of the in private. And uh it's one of the in private. And uh it's one of the reasons why when you look at anybody reasons why when you look at anybody reasons why when you look at anybody that's a high performer or somebody that's a high performer or somebody that's a high performer or somebody that's in seals or you know, whatever. that's in seals or you know, whatever. that's in seals or you know, whatever. Uh Uh Uh anybody that's got unusual results anybody that's got unusual results anybody that's got unusual results typically has unusual inputs and unusual typically has unusual inputs and unusual typically has unusual inputs and unusual environment internally, too. Mhm. You environment internally, too. Mhm. You environment internally, too. Mhm. You know, know, know, normal people get normal results. Weird normal people get normal results. Weird normal people get normal results. Weird people get weird results. people get weird results. people get weird results. And the most successful popular in the And the most successful popular in the And the most successful popular in the world world world you shouldn't your first response you shouldn't your first response you shouldn't your first response shouldn't necessarily be envy. A lot of shouldn't necessarily be envy. A lot of shouldn't necessarily be envy. A lot of the time it should be pity. the time it should be pity. the time it should be pity. Like what happened to you that caused Like what happened to you that caused Like what happened to you that caused you to do that to yourself? Or at what you to do that to yourself? Or at what you to do that to yourself? Or at what cost? Yeah. Yeah. What did you have to cost? Yeah. Yeah. What did you have to cost? Yeah. Yeah. What did you have to go through in order to get that? Man, go through in order to get that? Man, go through in order to get that? Man, that message is so not that message is so not that message is so not put out there. put out there. put out there. That be careful what you wish for and That be careful what you wish for and That be careful what you wish for and you know, envy may not be the first you know, envy may not be the first you know, envy may not be the first thing that you cross your mind when you thing that you cross your mind when you thing that you cross your mind when you see somebody who has something you want. see somebody who has something you want. see somebody who has something you want. It's the It's the question that I've It's the It's the question that I've It's the It's the question that I've been most fascinated by on the show for been most fascinated by on the show for been most fascinated by on the show for probably about 5 years now. probably about 5 years now. probably about 5 years now. Unfortunately, it's an anti-meme. It's Unfortunately, it's an anti-meme. It's Unfortunately, it's an anti-meme. It's If you tell people that If you tell people that If you tell people that the view from the top of the mountain the view from the top of the mountain the view from the top of the mountain that they are still climbing maybe might that they are still climbing maybe might that they are still climbing maybe might not be worth the rest of the journey, it not be worth the rest of the journey, it not be worth the rest of the journey, it feels to them like you're sucking the feels to them like you're sucking the feels to them like you're sucking the oxygen out of the fuel tank. oxygen out of the fuel tank. oxygen out of the fuel tank. Because it is Because it is Because it is it is it is it is [ __ ] your feelings, just work harder, [ __ ] your feelings, just work harder, [ __ ] your feelings, just work harder, you will get there and glory is waiting you will get there and glory is waiting you will get there and glory is waiting for you. for you. for you. The total addressable market for that is The total addressable market for that is The total addressable market for that is 99.999% 99.999% 99.999% of people. of people. of people. The people who get there or got close to The people who get there or got close to The people who get there or got close to the top and said, "I I I think this is a the top and said, "I I I think this is a the top and said, "I I I think this is a false peak. I don't think that what's up false peak. I don't think that what's up false peak. I don't think that what's up there is going to be worth it." Or they there is going to be worth it." Or they there is going to be worth it." Or they got there and said, "No." There's a very got there and said, "No." There's a very got there and said, "No." There's a very small number of people who got there and small number of people who got there and small number of people who got there and went, "Ah, it's two mountains. That's went, "Ah, it's two mountains. That's went, "Ah, it's two mountains. That's the problem." As opposed to this entire the problem." As opposed to this entire the problem." As opposed to this entire game is kind of rigged against me and I game is kind of rigged against me and I game is kind of rigged against me and I actually need to look deeper. I'm not actually need to look deeper. I'm not actually need to look deeper. I'm not going to fill an internal void with going to fill an internal void with going to fill an internal void with external accolades, etc., etc., etc. external accolades, etc., etc., etc. external accolades, etc., etc., etc. It's an anti-meme. It's an anti-meme and It's an anti-meme. It's an anti-meme and It's an anti-meme. It's an anti-meme and it is always going to lose to a much it is always going to lose to a much it is always going to lose to a much more simplistic No, no, no, it's just more simplistic No, no, no, it's just more simplistic No, no, no, it's just more. The answer is more. You should more. The answer is more. You should more. The answer is more. You should push for more. Yeah. Uh well, especially push for more. Yeah. Uh well, especially push for more. Yeah. Uh well, especially in a society that celebrates more. in a society that celebrates more. in a society that celebrates more. It's radical to say that you're It's radical to say that you're It's radical to say that you're satisfied. The most radical thing that satisfied. The most radical thing that satisfied. The most radical thing that you can do in a meritocracy that's you can do in a meritocracy that's you can do in a meritocracy that's capitalist is say, capitalist is say, capitalist is say, "I'm good." "I'm good." "I'm good." It's to be in Montana as opposed to It's to be in Montana as opposed to It's to be in Montana as opposed to downtown New York City. It's to I'm downtown New York City. It's to I'm downtown New York City. It's to I'm I kind of like my life. It's kind of I kind of like my life. It's kind of I kind of like my life. It's kind of enough for me. enough for me. enough for me. >> And uh >> And uh >> And uh Yeah, dude, it's it's it's [ __ ] Yeah, dude, it's it's it's [ __ ] Yeah, dude, it's it's it's [ __ ] fascinating. And what's more fascinating fascinating. And what's more fascinating fascinating. And what's more fascinating to me is how many guys have come out of to me is how many guys have come out of to me is how many guys have come out of special operations and uh special operations and uh special operations and uh turned their hand And there's still turned their hand And there's still turned their hand And there's still always the [ __ ] Glenn in your guys's always the [ __ ] Glenn in your guys's always the [ __ ] Glenn in your guys's eyes, the little Yeah, that one. eyes, the little Yeah, that one. eyes, the little Yeah, that one. >> What do you need? The You want me to do >> What do you need? The You want me to do >> What do you need? The You want me to do more? more? more? >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> And instead you got to pin me down after >> And instead you got to pin me down after >> And instead you got to pin me down after we finish up, which actually is my we finish up, which actually is my we finish up, which actually is my request. Um request. Um request. Um it's the the the turn to [ __ ] like I it's the the the turn to [ __ ] like I it's the the the turn to [ __ ] like I really did a lot really did a lot really did a lot physically, kind of in these three physically, kind of in these three physically, kind of in these three dimensions, and then, you know, this dimensions, and then, you know, this dimensions, and then, you know, this is is is you trying to turn that mirror around, I you trying to turn that mirror around, I you trying to turn that mirror around, I guess, on yourself and then start to guess, on yourself and then start to guess, on yourself and then start to show it to other people, too. >> [sighs] >> [sighs] >> The most common thing people say to me >> The most common thing people say to me >> The most common thing people say to me when they find out about my background, when they find out about my background, when they find out about my background, they'll say, they'll say, they'll say, "First off, dude, "First off, dude, "First off, dude, you must be crazy." So, I I skip that you must be crazy." So, I I skip that you must be crazy." So, I I skip that part of it. part of it. part of it. But they'll say, "Those experiences must But they'll say, "Those experiences must But they'll say, "Those experiences must have been like unbelievable." have been like unbelievable." have been like unbelievable." And the reality is, they were. And the reality is, they were. And the reality is, they were. And they are statistically out of reach And they are statistically out of reach And they are statistically out of reach for almost everybody. Mhm. for almost everybody. Mhm. for almost everybody. Mhm. But if I end up But if I end up But if I end up doing nothing with that, and only only doing nothing with that, and only only doing nothing with that, and only only impacts my life, and I'm on my deathbed, impacts my life, and I'm on my deathbed, impacts my life, and I'm on my deathbed, I will regret not doing something with I will regret not doing something with I will regret not doing something with that. And I think that there is a way that. And I think that there is a way that. And I think that there is a way to take those experiences to take those experiences to take those experiences and package them in a way and package them in a way and package them in a way that can help people. Because at this that can help people. Because at this that can help people. Because at this point in my life point in my life point in my life all I really actually want to do all I really actually want to do all I really actually want to do is make the world a little bit better is make the world a little bit better is make the world a little bit better than it was when I came into it. Like than it was when I came into it. Like than it was when I came into it. Like that's literally that's literally that's literally Money is cool. I like nice things as Money is cool. I like nice things as Money is cool. I like nice things as well too, but I'm also at the point in well too, but I'm also at the point in well too, but I'm also at the point in my life like, "Okay, I get it. Like I my life like, "Okay, I get it. Like I my life like, "Okay, I get it. Like I might want the nice thing, but there's might want the nice thing, but there's might want the nice thing, but there's no actual happiness from the nice no actual happiness from the nice no actual happiness from the nice thing." thing." thing." Teaching [clears throat] somebody Teaching [clears throat] somebody Teaching [clears throat] somebody something or giving them a tool that something or giving them a tool that something or giving them a tool that they can use to just attack a problem in they can use to just attack a problem in they can use to just attack a problem in their life, their life, their life, that's [ __ ] awesome. And it is so that's [ __ ] awesome. And it is so that's [ __ ] awesome. And it is so much more rewarding than a thing you much more rewarding than a thing you much more rewarding than a thing you write a check for. write a check for. write a check for. And that's what I'm trying to do with And that's what I'm trying to do with And that's what I'm trying to do with that is to take experiences and tools that is to take experiences and tools that is to take experiences and tools and lessons that people think they don't and lessons that people think they don't and lessons that people think they don't have access to. And I'll And I will be have access to. And I'll And I will be have access to. And I'll And I will be honest with this too. You can learn or honest with this too. You can learn or honest with this too. You can learn or be exposed to those lessons in organized be exposed to those lessons in organized be exposed to those lessons in organized sports. It's not like the military sports. It's not like the military sports. It's not like the military There's no unique creations inside of There's no unique creations inside of There's no unique creations inside of the military. Yeah, a lot of things are the military. Yeah, a lot of things are the military. Yeah, a lot of things are reinforced to a higher degree because reinforced to a higher degree because reinforced to a higher degree because the consequences of the environment the consequences of the environment the consequences of the environment can get pretty gnarly pretty quick. But can get pretty gnarly pretty quick. But can get pretty gnarly pretty quick. But if things work in that pressure cooker if things work in that pressure cooker if things work in that pressure cooker environment, you're telling me that environment, you're telling me that environment, you're telling me that they're not going to work in your they're not going to work in your they're not going to work in your personal and professional life. They'll personal and professional life. They'll personal and professional life. They'll help you just crush whatever it is that help you just crush whatever it is that help you just crush whatever it is that you're trying to do. And that's you're trying to do. And that's you're trying to do. And that's I resisted writing something for many I resisted writing something for many I resisted writing something for many years. years. years. One because I talked so much [ __ ] about One because I talked so much [ __ ] about One because I talked so much [ __ ] about other guys who were SEALs that wrote other guys who were SEALs that wrote other guys who were SEALs that wrote books and now I'm well deserved and books and now I'm well deserved and books and now I'm well deserved and deserving of the other people who are deserving of the other people who are deserving of the other people who are talking [ __ ] on me. talking [ __ ] on me. talking [ __ ] on me. But um But um But um I just I just I just I want to try to take those to create I want to try to take those to create I want to try to take those to create tools to give people a foundation tools to give people a foundation tools to give people a foundation and a framework to throw it at whatever and a framework to throw it at whatever and a framework to throw it at whatever it is is going on in their life. it is is going on in their life. it is is going on in their life. So So So that they can maybe that they can maybe that they can maybe suffer better. I don't know if that's a suffer better. I don't know if that's a suffer better. I don't know if that's a great way to put it, but just to attack great way to put it, but just to attack great way to put it, but just to attack whatever it is is going on in their whatever it is is going on in their whatever it is is going on in their life. Suffer better is a wonderful life. Suffer better is a wonderful life. Suffer better is a wonderful tagline, dude. If the world went tagline, dude. If the world went tagline, dude. If the world went completely sideways from a zombie virus completely sideways from a zombie virus completely sideways from a zombie virus outbreak, we had to put together a outbreak, we had to put together a outbreak, we had to put together a militia to save the human race, Andy militia to save the human race, Andy militia to save the human race, Andy Stumpf would be my top draft pick. Can Stumpf would be my top draft pick. Can Stumpf would be my top draft pick. Can you imagine how [ __ ] the rest of the you imagine how [ __ ] the rest of the you imagine how [ __ ] the rest of the militia would be? militia would be? militia would be? Oh, exceptionally. You're the first guy. Oh, exceptionally. You're the first guy. Oh, exceptionally. You're the first guy. Yeah. At the tip of the spear. Well, at Yeah. At the tip of the spear. Well, at Yeah. At the tip of the spear. Well, at the base of the shaft, bro. Ah, of the base of the shaft, bro. Ah, of the base of the shaft, bro. Ah, of course. [laughter] course. [laughter] course. [laughter] Andy, you're a [ __ ] legend, dude. I Andy, you're a [ __ ] legend, dude. I Andy, you're a [ __ ] legend, dude. I appreciate the hell out of you. appreciate the hell out of you. appreciate the hell out of you. Congratulations on this. It's awesome. Congratulations on this. It's awesome. Congratulations on this. It's awesome. You worked real hard on it. You worked real hard on it. You worked real hard on it. Yeah, it's uh I don't know if you get emails like I don't know if you get emails like this. I'm sure you do. this. I'm sure you do. this. I'm sure you do. Because the internet's a weird place, Because the internet's a weird place, Because the internet's a weird place, right? We hit upload and I don't know right? We hit upload and I don't know right? We hit upload and I don't know where anything goes. And where anything goes. And where anything goes. And your platform is massive and I could not your platform is massive and I could not your platform is massive and I could not be more proud for what you have built. be more proud for what you have built. be more proud for what you have built. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. But I bet you get emails from people But I bet you get emails from people But I bet you get emails from people that you'll never meet and they say, that you'll never meet and they say, that you'll never meet and they say, "You know what? Something I heard you "You know what? Something I heard you "You know what? Something I heard you say or a guest say changed the course say or a guest say changed the course say or a guest say changed the course and trajectory and trajectory and trajectory of my life." And that is of my life." And that is of my life." And that is I don't I save those emails. I have a I I don't I save those emails. I have a I I don't I save those emails. I have a I have a folder, but a dozen people have have a folder, but a dozen people have have a folder, but a dozen people have reached out and said they'd chose not to reached out and said they'd chose not to reached out and said they'd chose not to kill themselves because of something kill themselves because of something kill themselves because of something they heard on the podcast. they heard on the podcast. they heard on the podcast. Books are measured by best-seller lists. Books are measured by best-seller lists. Books are measured by best-seller lists. [ __ ] all that. [ __ ] all that. [ __ ] all that. I want to hear about people who changed I want to hear about people who changed I want to hear about people who changed the course of their life because of the course of their life because of the course of their life because of something they got from a place that something they got from a place that something they got from a place that they never thought that they would have they never thought that they would have they never thought that they would have access to. Mhm. access to. Mhm. access to. Mhm. They picked this up and realized They picked this up and realized They picked this up and realized holy [ __ ] holy [ __ ] holy [ __ ] we are way more similar. we are way more similar. we are way more similar. And I can use this and I will use it. And I can use this and I will use it. And I can use this and I will use it. And you're still going to make mistakes And you're still going to make mistakes And you're still going to make mistakes and I hope you do cuz you need them. and I hope you do cuz you need them. and I hope you do cuz you need them. But it'll help you suffer better. But it'll help you suffer better. But it'll help you suffer better. [ __ ] yeah. Dude, you're awesome. [ __ ] yeah. Dude, you're awesome. [ __ ] yeah. Dude, you're awesome. You're awesome. Congratulations. Thank You're awesome. Congratulations. Thank You're awesome. Congratulations. Thank you, man. Appreciate it. All right. you, man. Appreciate it. All right. you, man. Appreciate it. All right. Goodbye, everybody. Goodbye, everybody. Goodbye, everybody. Dude, let's [ __ ] go. So good. Dude, let's [ __ ] go. So good. Dude, let's [ __ ] go. So good. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Unreal. Unreal. >> Unreal. Unreal. >> Unreal. Unreal. Thank you very much for tuning in. If Thank you very much for tuning in. 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