Mindset Coach on Why You’re Failing to Achieve Your Goals & How to Fix It | Rob Dial

Key Takeaway

When fear or avoidance appears, use Rob Dial’s three-part reset: name the fear, regulate your body, then repeat a more useful response. Today, pause for six deep breaths, ask “What is the best thing that could happen?”, and take one small action toward it. Pair that action with a deeper “why” by asking why your goal matters repeatedly until you reach the person, value, or change that makes persistence non-negotiable.

Episode Overview

Rob Dial joins Jay Shetty to explore why people stall on goals: imagined fears, shallow motivation, unexamined thought patterns, and attempts to find inner security through external achievement. They discuss building self-awareness through silence and meditation, finding a compelling why, accepting every part of oneself, and taking full responsibility while learning to ask for help.

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And so I It seems that two things that In fact us on things Attention to focus prevents from, We change or decision or failure and this all kinds of a lot of things Are afraid. And The second thing is this that we really what do I do to myself Understand, this We have no such by taking steps which prevents We need or You know, exactly the same situation stay in In which we are. I like this . I am both of these on the roads I want to go because I These two are different- for different reasons look attractive and I am that Spiritual Extraterrestrial journey also go to I like Because yes.

but from him First, I do this ensure I want to do so if we about those fears I talk to those who are are experiencing are, as You said many once this one Intellectual fear It happens. it not real It is, but it very real Seems like Real, yes. Correct? like when Somebody says, "Oh, I really I am feeling scared that's what will happen If I reject given." From the job? "Or I am really afraid It seems that my partner me Will leave. Or I am really afraid I think that I so good or so smart It is not that I any field I can succeed All this is very Looks real Is.

You are such a how to feel who handle looks real is, even if he Are you intellectual? Yes, so human this is what it means to be the most beautiful aspect. And I think that If I'm wrong So you correct me can do, But I It appears that In the Bhagavad Gita gave an example It has been that a Lions attack you is doing or a Tiger in the night attacking the Is. And you know Yes, I have my one in the book The example is given which is something like that is where if you About this Think about it, we Everyone had such a dream I have seen where You are very having a terrible dream Is.

like you in some forest are moving, whatever it is Yes, and you get a The lion appears Yes, that's your running back starts off . You know, you run away from him Yes, you turn Yes, you are your behind the shoulder See, they would be getting closer Yes, you still running away from him There are, you Turning around, you of your shoulder looking back . Bus. like teeth in your body are going to mess up . And you midnight wakes up to . and your body at all Doesn't move.

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So, my mind in my body neuropeptides sends and makes hormones is as if he moment right now It may be happening. And Therefore, it would have been That we humans, a security as a mechanism , consider yourself as such in the future project which do scary and It is frightening, And that scary realize us often in the same place Keeps it on. And So, I always says that that if I being the worst to imagine If so, I at least Low best imagine being Why not does?

And so, If I find myself Attention has to be paid, So I got this thing to be aware of I should like this to the business to begin taking a lot now I am scared. And I am thinking Dude, the worst What can happen; what can be done ? So then I close your eyes do this and say I can. As, best What can happen; what can be done ? and this business to start and one million dollars in the business of On being successful How will it feel and one million dollars to sell and to make it and of your family travel with to do and that to provide being able to But on myself how proud I will be what I since always render Wanted to have.

And If I fear Feeling the emotion It is going to happen, So I am successful feelings to feel and to get there Why try to does not? And Therefore, if we Note that this An intellectual fear If so, the first the part that I I always say Those are three parts. About this There is awareness. ok, me I know that I state of fear I am. Me himself from this take out exercises for to do Needed. Well, if I of fear itself in position I find it, then himself from this take out for me what exercises Should I do it?

So, I move forward I am going and I am going to calm down I am going and Six deep breaths I am going to take And I my heart go to join the I have been and I go ask yourself I have been," the most what is a good thing It could be so Is? "It itself out of this to remove There is practice. And then the last Part repetition Is. So this awareness, it is practice, it is There is repetition. If I do it again and again I do, then Ultimately, I myself again to start adding I will give it.

So, such as a thing which I myself years ago in I found what I Did not like it, She was that I judge the people Will do. And I thought," Man, I like people I like it. As I love am. I try I do that I as much as possible I will serve them, but sometimes in my mind a quick thought It comes that someone of such a person Opinions about make what I I don't know . "And I just judges them am. And I thought, "I have this Pattern choice Not there.

I This inside you to the pattern wants to change am. "So, awareness. I know that what about me Have to change. And the first time when I really did that did, so I was a grocery store was on and a near the man There was Bluetooth, you You know, long Bluetooth. it It was as if he in an office make cold calls It may have been, but that grocery Was at the store. And immediately my first in mind Thoughts & Judgments Was of. And me I always say that you are your first not to the idea can change, but You are your second change the idea Can.

So, I saw that Judgment One First There was an idea. awareness. I for myself which practice It was decided that it that I was my in the mind itself three such to say things forced to I will do what I about this man I like it. I found myself in that stopped in a moment . I myself such a pattern found in in which I now no more staying I want. this man About this Which three do I need? Do you like the sayings? And I told them, and Then I my in the daily routine It worked.

And I've done it repeatedly- start bar Did it. and one more thing that I Notice that it that my first Thought less Judgment and more in acceptance Started changing. Because Ultimately this is it I really work on something I want to do, He is the people and Accept yourself to do and to To love. And So, I It seems that its aware of It is necessary to have . Once you of those things about become aware are those whom you Trying it out, the pattern which you to change trying to If so, which one are you because of the thing take yourself down Are you going?

And Then pay attention that you just going to do it again and again Have been. But the biggest The key is that when you do this If you are yourself Please forgive me. because many times We do this and then to himself calculate and himself for him They curse. So, I It seems to itself much love to and grant forgiveness and say this It's important," hey, I did this I have seen the pattern . Don't worry, We're going to change it Have been. Let go on this exercise Let's go.

"" And just do this Have to stay. Yes, you have a lot well said Is. I think that often we afraid of this too that go what is possible could because we I am afraid that It is not possible Can. And what about us no one to fear Find something else Let's take it. And I love your ideas about changing It was said in I like the thing very much I came because As much as I more read books Yes, I have as much only more have read and I've found that in life all our failures and Our successes the most repeat several times those going on thoughts would have been based Are.

And nowadays I meet people I am mine from them The biggest question Same thing happens, " Your most more often to be repeated who's gonna think What is it?" I don't remember that I did this Where did you hear it before I was, but I About this Whatsoever way like to think I do and I….to you said this before I have heard, like many people says, "Oh, I care in applying there would be trouble "And I You also have before I have heard it said that This is your on thoughts Gain Control About this No, it is your thoughts to drive away the not about Yes, it's just your of thoughts A little about and being aware It is about.

Because when we close your eyes If you do, then of our mind About 60% of The scene happens. We look to visual things use . Therefore, when we close your eyes If you do, then it many close the parts Does. And Therefore, the idea come often And we talk about them I am aware of Let's go. As, One thing that I a lot recently I am doing it, he is as much as possible so much in silence try to stay to do. Like, I just as much as possible so much in silence try to stay I am doing because I It seems that my Many more Awareness and a lot of my Answer from here Let's come.

And So, when you sit there and your of thoughts think about let start So the analogy I She likes it that it is a of the mountain on the shore It's like sitting and just below The road is going what you are looking at Are. and mountains on the edge of Sitting is like this like meditation or simply mute sit in and just , you know, your thoughts and you to the vehicles watching as they pass which can Thoughts pass are, and from them to stay connected No need .

You find yourself in that in the red car not lost which you just get It has passed. You just to trains passing by Let's see. And That's how I your thoughts to see the I will try, Which is, well, I them passing by going to see am. I to them not going to join I am, but I look at them I can and think I can:" what This idea, you Do you know, About 90% of our thoughts of tomorrow Are they the same? What This idea to me where in life I want to be Yes, there in reaching is helping, or this idea me in life where I am to be I want there prevent access Used to be?

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And all of us a friend near or maybe we There are such friends which continuously putting things off live. We postpone Yes, we are lazy We do, we says that I another year to give it I will do it. I am a podcast Launching I like. Any give such a person been saying for years Is. Someone listen now which has been a Starting an Instagram page wants to do, He sold it for 6 for the month To avert. Any I am hearing this too who is saying, "Oh, I'm in Clubhouse from something that missed, and then I am TikTok girl missed something , and now I'm on to the next miss something I am." And we In this hope procrastinating live that one The day will come.

when you Write your book were, then you From your research of procrastination what about learned from which People this break the cycle I was helped, because it Many of our Applied to life It happens? I mean, About this The thing is that If I always In the examples being too extreme I like it, Because we are extreme You can go to, So this is very It matters. But I always from people I say, and I always it I say it like that "Hey, I did this is given when I am a lot of Used to give speeches.

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"And you can't do it to do very hard work We do. And This is about you most of beautiful things Is one of. you to the world want to change and you have One for this very strong reason Is. And me It seems that if Most people be able to find out "Yes, I do that" wants to work am. "You this why do Want? And my first Personal Coach asked me used to do, he They used to say, yours Why is it? You why are you doing this yes?

you this why are you doing this ? "He's in my mind I hammered this thing Used to give. And me I thought, "You this so often why ask? "And he always They used to say, because if yours Why enough If strong, then how are you come forward yourself Will go. "If you you know that you Why do something You want it, this How did you do it If you go, you You will understand. It makes no difference It doesn't matter. your way many in problems Will come.

Obstacles Will come. Always Challenges Will come. Always There will be moments when You will think, I do not know that I do this I will get it or not . "but if Your 'why' So strong, So you will say, I care It is not that my what comes before Is. I it I will complete it. " most kind of people, They also inspire want to stay . And me Inspiration words to hate It is stuck. Because Inspiration a lot only fleeting it occurs. As As soon as we wake up in the morning Listen to podcasts Can.

We by reading something get inspired Can. And then with us something like this could happen which is for us Not there. He just disappears . I just Staying Motivated I like. When you are someone Inspired to the person Let's see, then You look into their eyes I see in that "yes, they those who stop There are no. "And an apostle person and a Inspired between the person The difference would have been that inspired near the person There would be a 'why' which they in the world or in your life or your family occurred for to see happen want.

And so I It seems that if People say," I aim this to achieve I like. "So The next question Why is it? And Then why, Why, why, Why, why and Then in that and Go deeper. An example that I have my given in the book is, that is I have years First a coaching The client was Like 8, 9 years First. And that something It was like, "Rob, I $100,000 this year want to earn am. I have never Did not earn. "And I said," Why? "And I told him Why seven By levels Survival.

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what about it means? As such It seems that you You are fine. anything to you what to do Need it? "And I said, “We of everything right now are at the beginning . I just now that Beginning of the place I am where I have to be Needed "I said, "We're just going to are on the verge where we are many connect with people can, but us people to their lives to change step by step Process I will have to tell you. And Now we give them this take on a trip can Because people They are listening, are connected, one of our The community is Ours from the people There is connection.

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"And I think Yes, "because I'm just like that feeling am. I try I am doing it. And Every year he tells me He used to ask, of my mind and Unpacking the layers Used to go. Correct in the same way, and then From, I my someone in life of such a person I am grateful who told me this to ask questions inspired to did, of course Like you. And so I It seems that we both say this are you, please Ask yourself this question Ask. But What if Someone question this asked and he stopped Go and say, I asked but it just a nice house Needed As I just have a nice car Needed I just I just want to, You know, like me this not so deep Is.

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"Such people How to price yourself Do you recognize me? Yes, I think that for me my life ever bad no more, or you You know, when I started I did...yes, when I Podcast, The Mindset Mentor Start I did, so I your life at that point of was where I was very was earning money And I'm 27 years old and I was every 250 thousand a year was earning dollars And I'm from home was working and everything else going great Was. But I I felt like I was slow -Slowly end I am, and when I was there then me of the future It was becoming known, and I said," Well, if I for the next 5 years keep doing this And I'm 32 years old.

I will be and I still doing the same I am staying where near me manager's If there is a job, then Does this make me Will it satisfy? "And the manager's About the job thinking of me and having concerns It started. And then I sat there and I thought," Okay, okay, like me In fact Podcasting I want to do . This is very good It's going on. I to the people Coaching I like. I Helping people I want to do . "And um, I'm Time is an Amazon Starting a Business and online to earn money to try to also think about Had been.

And So I About this I thought and I I asked myself, Well, if I 5 years from today I move forward, So am I that Becoming a Person I want which sale in management I am as I am I am doing it right now and consultation I am? What I am that person I want to become goods on Amazon selling and You know, an incredible Amazon businessman? Or Am I that Becoming a Person I want which to the people giving coaching and the people to their lives help change doing?

"And Immediate reply was very clear . to the people Coaching and to their lives Change. And I thought," Okay, okay, It seems that This is the way. " and then immediately several kinds of fears Let's come. because I I don't know that I what am I doing . Like in 2015 In days, From the podcast any money I did not earn. I do not know that business was How to increase, any such Also talk. But For me the most Important The thing was that when I in the future He was moving forward, So I have a future I who am not He should have, to the unknown by trying much more feels painful Was.

and if I that If you choose the path What will happen. And So he is a scared became. Such as fear of criticism, myself to everyone to put forward fear of other people to seek the opinion of Fear, that was all. it Still is. And I do not know that you ever recover or No, but you just its get used to it go, but work in the same position to do and the same to have a job Fear, maybe every day By doing this a little and earn money fear of, unless I am not dead Goes, all this It used to scare me.

It was a fear. And I thought, okay is, of the unknown This way is so much Not scary . And so I This of the unknown Choosing a path It is definitely needed. And I absolutely transparent I will stay. I This one more time It was shared, I think. One such moment in 2015 I came when In August 2015 Starting a Podcast Had done. november In 2015, I I am feeling very scared Was. I thought that me going back for someone else have to work Can.

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He us letters Used to write. And He my Sister gets [ __ ] in her 19 on his birthday wrote a letter Was. And I to her You were reading, You know, 2015 In. So, He released her in 1999 It must be written in. and the last line was," I It is hoped that you your life Courage, love and with laughter I will live. "And I read it And it felt like universe has become distorted . And I thought, Oh, he did it written for me Is.

"A moment like this also came when I I felt it," he This is for my sister It is written, but universe me my father This through conveying the message because I Just to hear this need because I very scared I am and most The first line is Bravery. own Life, courage Love and laughter Live with. " And I'm thinking was, "I need to commit." It has to be done. " I have to do this will be. me a only to decide And when you The origins of the decision to the word You will see, then he Decider, which means cut off.

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everything to me do it yourself will be. in which Some truth too It is, isn't it? Me Sometimes further growing oneself supposed to do personify Does matter. but for a long time Till I don't understood that someone also person Not an island would happen because I think so that I had all did something myself Is. and then I saw my surroundings Start looking around I did and I Thought, no, I did not do that Have done. universe always been mine with me and give him everything whose has been I need and every person Somehow help me from so that I it better I can prove it.

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And in asking for help To be capable. whether he Be it business, But at the same time my wife's Go near this Saying, "Hey, I am just very struggling am. are you a few minutes from me Can you talk?" And to know that He is not this She'll think, "Hey, He's quite a man It is not." which There was a fear that I had the. As, " Hey, if I your problems regarding his I will pass by, then She will say that she quite a man Don't have, but This is for him to say, "Yes, I love you make room for Two.

Let's talk Let's do it." and So, I It seems that my the biggest for The point is to learn that I am all this don't do it yourself Can. Help It's okay to ask. Asking for Help In fact There is strength. Help to ask for There is strength. And when I need If yes, help me in asking for and to be even better Needed Yes. This is very It's a good thing. This is very good The thing is. I it understanding in many ways I can and Correct.

Rob, we every on Purpose Episode the last five ending with We do. Ok. to these questions Answer: Maximum one word or a give in a sentence will be. God. Ok. and so I am very verbose am. This is one. I your full Will try. Rob, this is your The last five are . The first question is that you have now have heard till received the best What is the advice? I sentence you I will tell you. And if you want that I can make it Let me explain, I I can do, But everything It's your fault.

Yes, you can do it Can explain. everything is yours mistake, like that you live your life is the CEO of. I am my first I had a Guru, Your first coach to $500 per month paid When I was 19 years old was 20 years old It was about to happen. And we did that for 2 years. worked together and We have some Great call meet. Me any of them Don't remember. I remember one. And that was that I have very all the excuses had made that I late on call Why did he come, I have my Assignment Why not I completed it, I why doesn't he did what I Should have done it.

And they one with me very difficult talked and He said, " Rob, if anyone Business Success If it happens, then it Whose fault is it?" and I said, " I mean, what do you mean Is it?" he said, "If anyone Business Success If it happens, then all 1,000 employees forward in the direction grows where One of his successful The year is, So whose is this Is it a mistake?" he the person who operate it Did. I Said, "CEO." He said, " if anyone Business failures If it happens, then whose fault is this Is it?" I said.

CEO.” He said, " Rob, if you of your life At the end arrive and It's not like that as you would wanted, and You lived that life which was not made You wanted to, as much money as you wanted success , love, happiness Could not get it, where you go If you wanted, it whose fault Will it be?" and I said, "This is my It must be a mistake." and He said, " If you did that life that was created You wanted to, Love, happiness, Abundance, all of that something you want If so, whose was it?

would it be a mistake?" and I said, “This It would be my mistake ." and she said, " yours The problem is that You live this life you are taking it like this like you suffer, and you this be realized should that with you whatever would have happened is that yours mistake, and when until you decide don't do that you your life Becoming CEO of as long as you want your life do not very." What U know that at the time when you You must have heard this how are you Must have felt it?

you have Have heard. Yes, Absolutely. That of the mentality with. And me It seems that today many people This is insulting to It will take. Them it hurts Can. They probably... You got that energy how like this transferred did, "No, this In fact It is helpful. These not painful Is." Yes. I mean Yes, I have a little It hurt, but me of the truth Realised. I thought, “Yeah, He’s right.” Because when I that of your life to the way I see where he was going to go If I every blame someone kept giving, so this not good It was about to happen.

But when I to those people saw those I knew who of your life Complete took responsibility I had one, maybe my first Guru, without any of the purpose, My Uncle Dan who were a Incredible largely successful The person was He very Achieved successes did, but they always very Generous and loving Were about to do it. And when their Business failures if it is done then He never blame someone else did not give and He gave him back from zero bringing it again Stood up. He never blame someone else Did not give.

They always everyone exist for stay, but They always everything Own of responsibility Taken as. And, you know Yes, with you whatever happened Yes, for that not your fault yes, but your whatever happened with Yes, take him away do your responsibility is . Will Smith It was also said that, Isn't it? such as what not my fault that my father He was an alcoholic, but This is my responsibility is that I am with him What to do Because it is a reality is who is with me.

And I have these recovering from things will be. and my For it was true, I was considering, " Ok. that's right Is. And if my changing lives so let me take it changeable becoming human It will be." And then I understand this I came. I say I can say that he Conversation complete kind of mine life changing 100% conversation with Was. Powerful. second question, You have so far The worst advice What did you get? with everyone To mingle. Good. third Questions in your mind most of what more Do you think about it?

Recently, I I want to say this I mean that you But I am proud of it. I myself every day to say this I will try . my mother me in childhood often this is I had told you. I This by itself to repeat I will try . I like this very much Like it. it It's very nice . Fourth question, your life changing The biggest habit. A daily habit, whose you practicing Are. Meditation and breathing to take Exercise. Time for yourself Removal Very Good. uh, fifth and last question, if You are such a rule can make which is followed every in the world to the person If you have to, do What will that be?

Oh God. Take your time . Uh, such a rule which is followed every in the world to the person have to do it, that 5 minutes every day Self-awareness to practice . Rob, again Thank you. Thanks, man. uh, come over here and to your heart opening and so sensitivity to show And also people to where they are from there to there to reach where he really want to be and more than that greater depth Till, so many practical insight To give. So , your very- Thank you very much.

I its appreciates am. ok, thanks . Thanks, Jai. Like I give you 7 I have known for years I am and you in the world to do good an inspiration for and I see I can that you whoever works They are your heart from and one with purpose do it and it seeing me Always inspiration It is available. Thanks, man. I your appreciates am. Thank you. If from this clip You have some benefit It happened and you Watching something else If you want, then this next video especially your to see of behavior Based on your has been selected for .

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