He Was in the Pentagon on 9/11 | The Truth About Real Leadership Feat. Vice Admiral James Crawford

Vice Admiral James Crawford's powerful leadership lesson: In times of crisis, you become who you truly are—you revert to your training. Mission first, people always. Leaders are never unobserved; your unguarded moments reveal more than your speeches. The lesson from the unguarded moment is more powe

February 24, 2026 1h 2m
The Ed Mylett Show

Key Takeaway

Vice Admiral James Crawford's powerful leadership lesson: In times of crisis, you become who you truly are—you revert to your training. Mission first, people always. Leaders are never unobserved; your unguarded moments reveal more than your speeches. The lesson from the unguarded moment is more powerful than any scripted presentation. Sustain success by integrating mission and people, seeing team members as whole human beings, not chess pieces.

Episode Overview

Vice Admiral James Crawford, the highest-ranking attorney in the U.S. military and now President of Texas Southern University, shares profound insights on authentic servant leadership. From being in the Pentagon during 9/11 to the White House Situation Room during the bin Laden operation, Crawford exemplifies leadership rooted in three pillars: faith, family, and service. He discusses the critical distinction between leadership as a job versus an opportunity to create value, the power of humility as a shield against ego, and why leaders must remember they're never unobserved. Crawford chose education over lucrative private sector opportunities, continuing his mission of enabling others to have rich, vibrant lives.

Key Insights

You Revert to Your Training in Crisis

During the Pentagon attack on 9/11, Crawford witnessed that in times of challenge, people become who they truly are—they revert to their training. The women and men in the National Military Command Center were remarkable because their preparation met the moment. This reinforces that crisis reveals character; it doesn't build it.

Humility: The Leader's Greatest Shield

Humility is the leader's greatest shield against their greatest enemy: ego and arrogance. Humility allows you to recognize and embrace self-awareness—that there's much you don't know, and what you do know may not always be relevant. This openness enables you to find solutions around you rather than needing to be the architect of every solution.

Mission First, People Always

When asked whether mission or people are more important, a Navy admiral responded: 'Mission first, people always.' You can't accomplish the mission without the people. This integrates both priorities—never seeing people as chess pieces but recognizing them as whole human beings essential to sustained success.

Leaders Are Never Unobserved

Your unguarded moments—when you think no one is watching—teach more powerful lessons than your scripted presentations. If you deliver a polished speech about standards but then berate someone in private, that unguarded moment undercuts everything you said. People are always watching because they want to see how you achieved your position.

Character, Humility, and Authenticity Form Leadership

Leadership is an amalgam of many things, but three are critical: character, humility, and authenticity. You can only fake authenticity for so long. In times of stress or when given power, your true character will be revealed. Value-based decision-making creates consistency and reliability that your team can trust.

Leadership Is About People and For People

John Maxwell's insight resonates: leadership is about people and for people. This sounds simple but is profound. Every leader professes this, but few actually do it because it's not easy. You must see people—not just as the person performing a task, but for the wholeness of who they are as human beings.

Notable Quotes

"I saw people in times of challenge you become who you are truly—revert to your training."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford

"Being in the Pentagon that day is the thing that I am so thankful that I was able to be there because I was where my country needed me to be to serve at that moment with those incredible, incredible women and men that I was in there with."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford

"Mission first, people always."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford (quoting a Navy Admiral)

"Leaders must know you're never unobserved. Someone's always watching you."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford

"If you go into that unguarded moment and you are berating someone and you're acting completely 360 degrees away from what you just articulated, there's a lesson there, too. But that lesson is so much more powerful than the scripted lesson you just delivered."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford

"You've got the talent to have the sort of rich and vibrant life that you may want to have, but I will ask you to think about this: how do you enable others to have the same rich and vibrant life that you want to have. And if you're doing that, then you're doing something of value, something that lasts, something that matters."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford (quoting his father)

"Humility is your shield against that. And humility allows you to recognize and embrace the self-awareness that there's a lot you don't know, and what you do know may not always be relevant to the point that you're dealing with."

— Vice Admiral James Crawford

Action Items

  • 1
    Examine Your Unguarded Moments

    Identify situations where you think you're unobserved and assess whether your behavior aligns with your stated values. Remember that someone is always watching, and these moments teach more powerfully than any presentation. Create accountability by assuming you're always being observed.

  • 2
    Practice 'Mission First, People Always'

    When facing organizational challenges, integrate both mission and people rather than choosing between them. See your team members as whole human beings, not chess pieces. Ask yourself: 'How am I enabling others to have a rich and vibrant life?' This creates sustained success.

  • 3
    Use Humility as Your Shield

    Combat ego and arrogance by embracing self-awareness about what you don't know. Give your team space, freedom to think, freedom to initiate, and freedom to innovate. Open yourself to solutions that appear around you rather than needing to architect every solution yourself.

  • 4
    Build Trust Before the Crisis Hits

    Don't wait until your organization is under stress to gather people around you—they must already be gathered. Create consistency and reliability through authentic, value-based leadership so your team can trust you when challenges arrive. The groundwork for crisis leadership happens in peaceful times.

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