BENNY BLANCO, LIL DICKY, KRISTIN Reveal This Fact About Their Weddings (Nobody Knows This)

Friends on purpose on three. 1 2 3. Friends on purpose on three. 1 2 3. Friends on purpose. Friends on purpose. Friends on purpose. >> I thought you thought that was being >> I thought you thought that was being >> I thought you thought that was being loserish. loserish. loserish. >> I do. >> I do. >> I do. >> Yeah. Right. >> Yeah. Right. >> Yeah. Right. >> We just are born to be best friends. >> We just are born to be best friends. >> We just are born to be best friends. >> Me and Benny met at this Mexican >> Me and Benny met at this Mexican >> Me and Benny met at this Mexican restaurant and he said, "What can you restaurant and he said, "What can you restaurant and he said, "What can you bring to the table?" And I was like, bring to the table?" And I was like, bring to the table?" And I was like, "What?" "What?" "What?" >> I thought he's so sweet and he's so >> I thought he's so sweet and he's so >> I thought he's so sweet and he's so himself. And he told me a story that himself. And he told me a story that himself. And he told me a story that lasted 40 minutes. lasted 40 minutes. lasted 40 minutes. >> The story was about me pooping my pants. >> The story was about me pooping my pants. >> The story was about me pooping my pants. >> And you chose that because it's my >> And you chose that because it's my >> And you chose that because it's my funniest best story. funniest best story. funniest best story. What was your favorite thing about Benny What was your favorite thing about Benny What was your favorite thing about Benny and Selena's wedding? and Selena's wedding? and Selena's wedding? >> Dave officiated >> Dave officiated >> Dave officiated >> to see Benny break when Selena when the >> to see Benny break when Selena when the >> to see Benny break when Selena when the curtain got revealed and she his face curtain got revealed and she his face curtain got revealed and she his face was like >> Benny Dave Kristen. Welcome to On >> Benny Dave Kristen. Welcome to On Purpose. Purpose. Purpose. >> Hey Jay. >> Hey Jay. >> Hey Jay. >> Hi >> Hi >> Hi Benny. Come on. Benny. Come on. Benny. Come on. >> Come on. >> Come on. >> Come on. >> Hey. >> Hey. >> Hey. Did you know this is the first time Did you know this is the first time Did you know this is the first time we've had three people on the show we've had three people on the show we've had three people on the show together? First ever time. Did you know together? First ever time. Did you know together? First ever time. Did you know that that that >> this is the first time someone has come >> this is the first time someone has come >> this is the first time someone has come on their own on their own on their own >> with their fiance, then wife, and now >> with their fiance, then wife, and now >> with their fiance, then wife, and now with their best friends. with their best friends. with their best friends. >> So, we've never done that before either. >> So, we've never done that before either. >> So, we've never done that before either. >> You're breaking all sorts of >> You're breaking all sorts of >> You're breaking all sorts of >> You're breaking all sorts of records. >> You're breaking all sorts of records. >> You're breaking all sorts of records. You're competing with Michelle Obama, You're competing with Michelle Obama, You're competing with Michelle Obama, who's been on the show twice. You've who's been on the show twice. You've who's been on the show twice. You've been on three times. This is your third been on three times. This is your third been on three times. This is your third time. So, time. So, time. So, >> Dave, I'm a huge fan. Always have been. >> Dave, I'm a huge fan. Always have been. >> Dave, I'm a huge fan. Always have been. The first time I met you. The first time I met you. The first time I met you. >> I I I've known you for maybe under a >> I I I've known you for maybe under a >> I I I've known you for maybe under a year, but I love you. year, but I love you. year, but I love you. >> Oh, thank you. >> Oh, thank you. >> Oh, thank you. >> It's been Ever since I've met you, I've >> It's been Ever since I've met you, I've >> It's been Ever since I've met you, I've loved you. loved you. loved you. >> Wow. Thank you. Notice how he doesn't >> Wow. Thank you. Notice how he doesn't >> Wow. Thank you. Notice how he doesn't say it back. say it back. say it back. >> I know he loves me, but but I said it >> I know he loves me, but but I said it >> I know he loves me, but but I said it already. Yeah, he said he just said he already. Yeah, he said he just said he already. Yeah, he said he just said he did. did. did. >> He did. I was caught up in his eyes. >> He did. I was caught up in his eyes. >> He did. I was caught up in his eyes. It's very hard very hard to look. It's very hard very hard to look. It's very hard very hard to look. >> And Kristen, I've become a huge fan of >> And Kristen, I've become a huge fan of >> And Kristen, I've become a huge fan of you. I can't believe that. you. I can't believe that. you. I can't believe that. >> I'm glad >> I'm glad >> I'm glad >> we're here. >> we're here. >> we're here. >> I'm glad that you still like me. >> I'm glad that you still like me. >> I'm glad that you still like me. >> But honestly, the guys, this is awesome. >> But honestly, the guys, this is awesome. >> But honestly, the guys, this is awesome. It's so great to have all three of you It's so great to have all three of you It's so great to have all three of you in the room. I I actually want to know in the room. I I actually want to know in the room. I I actually want to know how you all three met because I have no how you all three met because I have no how you all three met because I have no idea. I don't think I've ever asked you idea. I don't think I've ever asked you idea. I don't think I've ever asked you that before. Well, I I guess I'm the that before. Well, I I guess I'm the that before. Well, I I guess I'm the glue between the two of the three, you glue between the two of the three, you glue between the two of the three, you know. I met Benny. He basically from the know. I met Benny. He basically from the know. I met Benny. He basically from the day I put any music out, he actually the day I put any music out, he actually the day I put any music out, he actually the first day I released anything, he first day I released anything, he first day I released anything, he tweeted like something uh positive about tweeted like something uh positive about tweeted like something uh positive about me. me. me. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Yeah. So, he like it was, you know, what >> Yeah. So, he like it was, you know, what >> Yeah. So, he like it was, you know, what a first day to have a guy like him reach a first day to have a guy like him reach a first day to have a guy like him reach out. out. out. >> And then I Yeah. I like said something. >> And then I Yeah. I like said something. >> And then I Yeah. I like said something. We like kind of communicated back and We like kind of communicated back and We like kind of communicated back and forth a little bit and then we almost forth a little bit and then we almost forth a little bit and then we almost saw each other one of my concerts. We saw each other one of my concerts. We saw each other one of my concerts. We didn't really hang out. And then I don't didn't really hang out. And then I don't didn't really hang out. And then I don't the first time we met. the first time we met. the first time we met. >> No, we don't know. >> No, we don't know. >> No, we don't know. >> We don't know for sure when the very fir >> We don't know for sure when the very fir >> We don't know for sure when the very fir we can't place it. My memory of like the we can't place it. My memory of like the we can't place it. My memory of like the first uh real memory I have is we met at first uh real memory I have is we met at first uh real memory I have is we met at this uh Mexican restaurant and I think this uh Mexican restaurant and I think this uh Mexican restaurant and I think he was maybe trying to sign me or maybe he was maybe trying to sign me or maybe he was maybe trying to sign me or maybe just trying to explain the value that he just trying to explain the value that he just trying to explain the value that he could add to my life and my career and I could add to my life and my career and I could add to my life and my career and I really didn't see any value added really didn't see any value added really didn't see any value added potential. potential. potential. >> That's what he said. >> That's what he said. >> That's what he said. >> It was like a date. >> It was like a date. >> It was like a date. >> Did he Did he say that? >> Did he Did he say that? >> Did he Did he say that? >> Yeah. He said, he said, "Well, what what >> Yeah. He said, he said, "Well, what what >> Yeah. He said, he said, "Well, what what can you bring to the table?" And I was can you bring to the table?" And I was can you bring to the table?" And I was like, "What?" That was like his first like, "What?" That was like his first like, "What?" That was like his first thing he said to me. thing he said to me. thing he said to me. >> Now, in hindsight, I was totally wrong. >> Now, in hindsight, I was totally wrong. >> Now, in hindsight, I was totally wrong. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> What can I bring to the table? He brings >> What can I bring to the table? He brings >> What can I bring to the table? He brings everything. Best friend, all of your everything. Best friend, all of your everything. Best friend, all of your night life. night life. night life. >> How did you bring him over? How did you >> How did you bring him over? How did you >> How did you bring him over? How did you win him over? win him over? win him over? >> Just proof in the pudding. >> Just proof in the pudding. >> Just proof in the pudding. >> I think it was instant. >> I think it was instant. >> I think it was instant. >> Also, independent of our respective >> Also, independent of our respective >> Also, independent of our respective talents merging and being able to add to talents merging and being able to add to talents merging and being able to add to each other's talent careers, we would be each other's talent careers, we would be each other's talent careers, we would be best friends if we were like in Arkansas best friends if we were like in Arkansas best friends if we were like in Arkansas and we both were plumbers. You know what and we both were plumbers. You know what and we both were plumbers. You know what I mean? like we just are born to be best I mean? like we just are born to be best I mean? like we just are born to be best friends. And then I met Kristen years friends. And then I met Kristen years friends. And then I met Kristen years later and then they met because later and then they met because later and then they met because >> wait I want to know how Yeah. Don't just >> wait I want to know how Yeah. Don't just >> wait I want to know how Yeah. Don't just detail. detail. detail. >> You tell you tell the story. >> You tell you tell the story. >> You tell you tell the story. >> I met Kristen years later. Uh bowling >> I met Kristen years later. Uh bowling >> I met Kristen years later. Uh bowling alley a writer on my TV show Vanessa alley a writer on my TV show Vanessa alley a writer on my TV show Vanessa kind of set us up and Kristen didn't kind of set us up and Kristen didn't kind of set us up and Kristen didn't know that I was going to more or less know that I was going to more or less know that I was going to more or less >> scout me. >> scout me. >> scout me. >> Scout her. >> Scout her. >> Scout her. >> I was being scouted as a romantic. Not >> I was being scouted as a romantic. Not >> I was being scouted as a romantic. Not not for the show as a romantic partner. not for the show as a romantic partner. not for the show as a romantic partner. >> I always told Vanessa cuz I love this >> I always told Vanessa cuz I love this >> I always told Vanessa cuz I love this woman, Vanessa, who's one of the main woman, Vanessa, who's one of the main woman, Vanessa, who's one of the main writers on my show and she's a great writers on my show and she's a great writers on my show and she's a great person. I always said, "Keep it." Cuz I person. I always said, "Keep it." Cuz I person. I always said, "Keep it." Cuz I was just a hopeless romantic single guy was just a hopeless romantic single guy was just a hopeless romantic single guy for like a decade. And I would say, for like a decade. And I would say, for like a decade. And I would say, "Don't you have any friends? Don't you "Don't you have any friends? Don't you "Don't you have any friends? Don't you know anybody?" And then she would say, know anybody?" And then she would say, know anybody?" And then she would say, "Yeah, I'm looking around." And then "Yeah, I'm looking around." And then "Yeah, I'm looking around." And then Kristen had been in a relationship for Kristen had been in a relationship for Kristen had been in a relationship for pretty much her whole life. And then she pretty much her whole life. And then she pretty much her whole life. And then she kind of got single for like a 3-w weekek kind of got single for like a 3-w weekek kind of got single for like a 3-w weekek period. And then Vanessa was bowling period. And then Vanessa was bowling period. And then Vanessa was bowling with her and she realized, "Oh my god, with her and she realized, "Oh my god, with her and she realized, "Oh my god, Dave." And then she texted me while she Dave." And then she texted me while she Dave." And then she texted me while she was at the alley being like, "Hey, I was at the alley being like, "Hey, I was at the alley being like, "Hey, I don't know what you're doing." It was don't know what you're doing." It was don't know what you're doing." It was like 10 p.m. and she was like, "I don't like 10 p.m. and she was like, "I don't like 10 p.m. and she was like, "I don't know what you're doing, but I'm with know what you're doing, but I'm with know what you're doing, but I'm with someone who might be your wife." And I someone who might be your wife." And I someone who might be your wife." And I dropped everything I was doing and dropped everything I was doing and dropped everything I was doing and immediately went over there late, joined immediately went over there late, joined immediately went over there late, joined them late. They were already done them late. They were already done them late. They were already done bowling by the time I got there. So, I bowling by the time I got there. So, I bowling by the time I got there. So, I got to take everyone's turn. And then we got to take everyone's turn. And then we got to take everyone's turn. And then we just started talking about nachos. just started talking about nachos. just started talking about nachos. >> Didn't you bowl a strike? >> Didn't you bowl a strike? >> Didn't you bowl a strike? >> I bri I bowled a strike. First thing I >> I bri I bowled a strike. First thing I >> I bri I bowled a strike. First thing I did, I bowled a strike. Like, that was did, I bowled a strike. Like, that was did, I bowled a strike. Like, that was my first my first my first >> How did you pull that out? >> How did you pull that out? >> How did you pull that out? >> I just I'm a good athlete. High level >> I just I'm a good athlete. High level >> I just I'm a good athlete. High level athlete. athlete. athlete. >> Oh, you didn't see >> Oh, you didn't see >> Oh, you didn't see >> I didn't see it. So I I think I was >> I didn't see it. So I I think I was >> I didn't see it. So I I think I was doing my own thing, chatting up the doing my own thing, chatting up the doing my own thing, chatting up the group. group. group. >> Yeah, she was doing her own thing. Then >> Yeah, she was doing her own thing. Then >> Yeah, she was doing her own thing. Then then we started talking about uh I then we started talking about uh I then we started talking about uh I remember one of the first things I said remember one of the first things I said remember one of the first things I said to her were like, "What are those?" And to her were like, "What are those?" And to her were like, "What are those?" And I pointed to a plate of nachos and she I pointed to a plate of nachos and she I pointed to a plate of nachos and she said, "Those are nachos." And I said, "I said, "Those are nachos." And I said, "I said, "Those are nachos." And I said, "I know. I'm just making small talk." know. I'm just making small talk." know. I'm just making small talk." >> I liked that. I thought that was such a >> I liked that. I thought that was such a >> I liked that. I thought that was such a good like uh intro. good like uh intro. good like uh intro. >> Yeah. And that was his first intro. >> Yeah. And that was his first intro. >> Yeah. And that was his first intro. >> Like it was Yeah. I mean, he sat down >> Like it was Yeah. I mean, he sat down >> Like it was Yeah. I mean, he sat down next to me and said, "What are those?" next to me and said, "What are those?" next to me and said, "What are those?" And I liked that he was like, "I'm just And I liked that he was like, "I'm just And I liked that he was like, "I'm just making small talk." I feel like it was making small talk." I feel like it was making small talk." I feel like it was like the intro into his personality. like the intro into his personality. like the intro into his personality. >> And you were trying. That was like Oh, >> And you were trying. That was like Oh, >> And you were trying. That was like Oh, yeah. Instantly I saw her and I was yeah. Instantly I saw her and I was yeah. Instantly I saw her and I was like, "Oh my god, Vanessa, good call." like, "Oh my god, Vanessa, good call." like, "Oh my god, Vanessa, good call." >> Well, no. You said you didn't like it >> Well, no. You said you didn't like it >> Well, no. You said you didn't like it cuz I was wearing glasses. cuz I was wearing glasses. cuz I was wearing glasses. >> I said it wasn't love at first sight. >> I said it wasn't love at first sight. >> I said it wasn't love at first sight. >> I was going to ask, was it an instant >> I was going to ask, was it an instant >> I was going to ask, was it an instant connection for both? connection for both? connection for both? >> Because she was wearing these big >> Because she was wearing these big >> Because she was wearing these big glasses, so I couldn't see her face. I glasses, so I couldn't see her face. I glasses, so I couldn't see her face. I haven't seen you in Yeah. She doesn't haven't seen you in Yeah. She doesn't haven't seen you in Yeah. She doesn't often wear glasses. often wear glasses. often wear glasses. >> I was going through a lot and I was >> I was going through a lot and I was >> I was going through a lot and I was wearing the same clothes for like two wearing the same clothes for like two wearing the same clothes for like two weeks straight. And this was my first weeks straight. And this was my first weeks straight. And this was my first venture out. venture out. venture out. >> Yeah. Not shades like >> Yeah. Not shades like >> Yeah. Not shades like >> No, they were like re because it was I >> No, they were like re because it was I >> No, they were like re because it was I think I drove there. Yeah. She drove me think I drove there. Yeah. She drove me think I drove there. Yeah. She drove me home home home >> cuz she was she never lives in Venice or >> cuz she was she never lives in Venice or >> cuz she was she never lives in Venice or lived in Venice and I was living in lived in Venice and I was living in lived in Venice and I was living in Venice and she happened to be staying in Venice and she happened to be staying in Venice and she happened to be staying in an Airbnb for that week in Venice. So, an Airbnb for that week in Venice. So, an Airbnb for that week in Venice. So, it only made sense for her to be like, it only made sense for her to be like, it only made sense for her to be like, "Can I get a ride home?" So, then I had "Can I get a ride home?" So, then I had "Can I get a ride home?" So, then I had like an extra 40-minute ride where we like an extra 40-minute ride where we like an extra 40-minute ride where we just talked. just talked. just talked. >> No, he he told me a story that lasted 40 >> No, he he told me a story that lasted 40 >> No, he he told me a story that lasted 40 minutes. minutes. minutes. >> Really? >> Really? >> Really? >> What was the story? >> What was the story? >> What was the story? >> I thought he's so sweet and he's so >> I thought he's so sweet and he's so >> I thought he's so sweet and he's so himself and I was like I was really himself and I was like I was really himself and I was like I was really happy to I felt like you had such an happy to I felt like you had such an happy to I felt like you had such an ease to you that was rare. like you were ease to you that was rare. like you were ease to you that was rare. like you were really willing to be like um vulnerable, really willing to be like um vulnerable, really willing to be like um vulnerable, but I also was like the story's very but I also was like the story's very but I also was like the story's very long. long. long. >> The story was about me pooping my pants >> The story was about me pooping my pants >> The story was about me pooping my pants >> and you chose that because >> and you chose that because >> and you chose that because >> it's my best it's my funniest best >> it's my best it's my funniest best >> it's my best it's my funniest best story, story, story, >> but it was like him talking the entire >> but it was like him talking the entire >> but it was like him talking the entire the entire practiced. It's like a the entire practiced. It's like a the entire practiced. It's like a 15-inute story. And I was like, "Yeah, 15-inute story. And I was like, "Yeah, 15-inute story. And I was like, "Yeah, I've said it so many times." And then, I've said it so many times." And then, I've said it so many times." And then, ironically, I believe that you guys ironically, I believe that you guys ironically, I believe that you guys probably met for the first time at a probably met for the first time at a probably met for the first time at a bowling alley because right remember bowling alley because right remember bowling alley because right remember remember right before remember for my TV remember right before remember for my TV remember right before remember for my TV show premiere season one, I had all my show premiere season one, I had all my show premiere season one, I had all my friends come in from out of town and we friends come in from out of town and we friends come in from out of town and we all met at the bowling alley the one all met at the bowling alley the one all met at the bowling alley the one time and Kristen was there and I was time and Kristen was there and I was time and Kristen was there and I was like, like, like, >> "Don't make it that like don't say >> "Don't make it that like don't say >> "Don't make it that like don't say anything that I don't want you to say." anything that I don't want you to say." anything that I don't want you to say." You remember that? You remember that? You remember that? >> Uh maybe. I remember two I remember two >> Uh maybe. I remember two I remember two >> Uh maybe. I remember two I remember two times specifically. I remember once like times specifically. I remember once like times specifically. I remember once like in the very beginning of the in the very beginning of the in the very beginning of the relationship. I remember once after your relationship. I remember once after your relationship. I remember once after your actual premiere and we like all walked actual premiere and we like all walked actual premiere and we like all walked up to my house. I remember that time and up to my house. I remember that time and up to my house. I remember that time and I remember like in I remember like in I remember like in >> in that time >> in that time >> in that time >> being like this girl's really cool. I >> being like this girl's really cool. I >> being like this girl's really cool. I was like like nothing not thinking like was like like nothing not thinking like was like like nothing not thinking like >> was your first impression when he's like >> was your first impression when he's like >> was your first impression when he's like meet my girlfriend. meet my girlfriend. meet my girlfriend. >> No no no no no. They was not his >> No no no no no. They was not his >> No no no no no. They was not his girlfriend. It was a girl he was like girlfriend. It was a girl he was like girlfriend. It was a girl he was like >> no it was a in my mind I was his >> no it was a in my mind I was his >> no it was a in my mind I was his girlfriend. girlfriend. girlfriend. >> In your mind it was official. And then >> In your mind it was official. And then >> In your mind it was official. And then now you find is this the first time you now you find is this the first time you now you find is this the first time you find out about and then the turning find out about and then the turning find out about and then the turning point really in their relationship I point really in their relationship I point really in their relationship I think was that night at like our think was that night at like our think was that night at like our birthday party that was like that was I birthday party that was like that was I birthday party that was like that was I remember it so clearly remember it so clearly remember it so clearly I do I do what it was for you Kristen. I do I do what it was for you Kristen. I do I do what it was for you Kristen. >> Uh >> Uh >> Uh >> you remember it differently. >> you remember it differently. >> you remember it differently. >> That's a bad memory. >> That's a bad memory. >> That's a bad memory. >> It wasn't it was a it wasn't the best >> It wasn't it was a it wasn't the best >> It wasn't it was a it wasn't the best you weren't the you weren't like you weren't the you weren't like you weren't the you weren't like exhibiting the best behavior. exhibiting the best behavior. exhibiting the best behavior. >> No I was lashing out. Do you want to >> No I was lashing out. Do you want to >> No I was lashing out. Do you want to hear what happened? J hear what happened? J hear what happened? J >> please. I do want to hear what happened. >> please. I do want to hear what happened. >> please. I do want to hear what happened. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. >> We It was We met in like January 31st. >> We It was We met in like January 31st. >> We It was We met in like January 31st. We had our birthday party like 6 weeks We had our birthday party like 6 weeks We had our birthday party like 6 weeks later. We have joint birthday parties later. We have joint birthday parties later. We have joint birthday parties every year. And look, what I'm about to every year. And look, what I'm about to every year. And look, what I'm about to say is pathetic, but they really were say is pathetic, but they really were say is pathetic, but they really were like the Super Bowl of like being a like the Super Bowl of like being a like the Super Bowl of like being a single man. Like I I never would even single man. Like I I never would even single man. Like I I never would even have a I never would even throw myself a have a I never would even throw myself a have a I never would even throw myself a birthday party if it weren't for Benny. birthday party if it weren't for Benny. birthday party if it weren't for Benny. So now all of a sudden every year I'm So now all of a sudden every year I'm So now all of a sudden every year I'm having like the most upscale birthday having like the most upscale birthday having like the most upscale birthday parties planned by him completely where parties planned by him completely where parties planned by him completely where all these people and women come all these people and women come all these people and women come >> and they know it's like my party and >> and they know it's like my party and >> and they know it's like my party and like so there's just this building like so there's just this building like so there's just this building icebreaker where like people want to icebreaker where like people want to icebreaker where like people want to come up to me and talk to me come up to me and talk to me come up to me and talk to me >> and I just had this feeling that we were >> and I just had this feeling that we were >> and I just had this feeling that we were going to start dating and I you know if going to start dating and I you know if going to start dating and I you know if you know me you know that I have trouble you know me you know that I have trouble you know me you know that I have trouble like wrapping my head around uh not like wrapping my head around uh not like wrapping my head around uh not necessarily commitment but just like I'm necessarily commitment but just like I'm necessarily commitment but just like I'm a turnover over every stone kind of guy a turnover over every stone kind of guy a turnover over every stone kind of guy in everything I do. And it really in everything I do. And it really in everything I do. And it really >> the stone was here. There's nothing else >> the stone was here. There's nothing else >> the stone was here. There's nothing else to turn over. to turn over. to turn over. >> Now, as I continue to tell the story, I >> Now, as I continue to tell the story, I >> Now, as I continue to tell the story, I want you to know that I'm ashamed of my want you to know that I'm ashamed of my want you to know that I'm ashamed of my behavior. This is not something that I'm behavior. This is not something that I'm behavior. This is not something that I'm proud of. proud of. proud of. >> But I think I just knew that we were >> But I think I just knew that we were >> But I think I just knew that we were going to end up dating and but it was going to end up dating and but it was going to end up dating and but it was too early to be like I didn't have to too early to be like I didn't have to too early to be like I didn't have to commit yet to be quite honest, which is commit yet to be quite honest, which is commit yet to be quite honest, which is a really misogynistic thing to say. And a really misogynistic thing to say. And a really misogynistic thing to say. And I knew that I didn't have to commit. And I knew that I didn't have to commit. And I knew that I didn't have to commit. And I also knew my days were numbered of of I also knew my days were numbered of of I also knew my days were numbered of of having romantic freedom because I felt having romantic freedom because I felt having romantic freedom because I felt like I was about to be totally in a like I was about to be totally in a like I was about to be totally in a committed relationship. And I think I committed relationship. And I think I committed relationship. And I think I don't know. I just kind of like don't know. I just kind of like don't know. I just kind of like overreacted and for whatever reason I overreacted and for whatever reason I overreacted and for whatever reason I went into the night being like I'm not went into the night being like I'm not went into the night being like I'm not committed to Kristen tonight. We're not committed to Kristen tonight. We're not committed to Kristen tonight. We're not I'm not necessarily going home with I'm not necessarily going home with I'm not necessarily going home with Kristen tonight. I'm going to do my own Kristen tonight. I'm going to do my own Kristen tonight. I'm going to do my own thing. thing. thing. >> But can I cuz I didn't do You're making >> But can I cuz I didn't do You're making >> But can I cuz I didn't do You're making it seem like I went in there being like it seem like I went in there being like it seem like I went in there being like we have to be we're married. we have to be we're married. we have to be we're married. >> No, she didn't do anything. >> No, she didn't do anything. >> No, she didn't do anything. >> I'd like to hear Kristen. >> I'd like to hear Kristen. >> I'd like to hear Kristen. went in there with like I think there went in there with like I think there went in there with like I think there was like seven of girlfriends of mine was like seven of girlfriends of mine was like seven of girlfriends of mine and I played it. So like I don't like to and I played it. So like I don't like to and I played it. So like I don't like to play it cool. It's very hard for me to play it cool. It's very hard for me to play it cool. It's very hard for me to play it cool. I'm glad that Benny play it cool. I'm glad that Benny play it cool. I'm glad that Benny thought I was cool when he first met me, thought I was cool when he first met me, thought I was cool when he first met me, but that's not me. Um and so I was like, but that's not me. Um and so I was like, but that's not me. Um and so I was like, "Okay, well this is fun. I like a party. "Okay, well this is fun. I like a party. "Okay, well this is fun. I like a party. I'm just going to be like free and not I'm just going to be like free and not I'm just going to be like free and not expect anything from him." So I didn't expect anything from him." So I didn't expect anything from him." So I didn't all night. And then as the night came to all night. And then as the night came to all night. And then as the night came to an end, it was kind of like, well, we an end, it was kind of like, well, we an end, it was kind of like, well, we all know the expectation that we're all know the expectation that we're all know the expectation that we're going to like hang out if we haven't going to like hang out if we haven't going to like hang out if we haven't hung out yet. And he just had such a hung out yet. And he just had such a hung out yet. And he just had such a like um you had such a I knew exactly like um you had such a I knew exactly like um you had such a I knew exactly what he was doing. Like I could sense what he was doing. Like I could sense what he was doing. Like I could sense what he was doing and then I think I was what he was doing and then I think I was what he was doing and then I think I was like well this is lame like well this is lame like well this is lame >> and then it got into a little bit of a >> and then it got into a little bit of a >> and then it got into a little bit of a like like like >> I would say at the end >> I would say at the end >> I would say at the end >> a flirt battle. >> a flirt battle. >> a flirt battle. >> I'd like to interject I'd like I'd like >> I'd like to interject I'd like I'd like >> I'd like to interject I'd like I'd like to interject. to interject. to interject. >> She started talking to other guys and >> She started talking to other guys and >> She started talking to other guys and talking to other girls. talking to other girls. talking to other girls. >> I'd like to interject at this moment. >> I'd like to interject at this moment. >> I'd like to interject at this moment. There was a flirt battle going on back There was a flirt battle going on back There was a flirt battle going on back and forth and it was like and forth and it was like and forth and it was like >> so strange. It was like Yeah. It was >> so strange. It was like Yeah. It was >> so strange. It was like Yeah. It was like so strange and and childish in the like so strange and and childish in the like so strange and and childish in the moment. moment. moment. >> It's like a scene out of a movie. >> It's like a scene out of a movie. >> It's like a scene out of a movie. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And we were in such a small area cuz now >> And we were in such a small area cuz now >> And we were in such a small area cuz now it was like the afterparty. It was like it was like the afterparty. It was like it was like the afterparty. It was like such a like it was like 50 people total. such a like it was like 50 people total. such a like it was like 50 people total. And I remember And I remember And I remember going to the bathroom. There was like a going to the bathroom. There was like a going to the bathroom. There was like a communal bathroom you go into and I was communal bathroom you go into and I was communal bathroom you go into and I was like with Dave and and we were drunk and like with Dave and and we were drunk and like with Dave and and we were drunk and and he was just like and he was just like and he was just like >> what did he say? He was talking about >> what did he say? He was talking about >> what did he say? He was talking about how this was like one of the best nights how this was like one of the best nights how this was like one of the best nights of his life and he was like, "No, of his life and he was like, "No, of his life and he was like, "No, >> was this the first time you're hearing >> was this the first time you're hearing >> was this the first time you're hearing this story?" this story?" this story?" >> Well, sometimes I forget the details. It >> Well, sometimes I forget the details. It >> Well, sometimes I forget the details. It was it was a sad time. was it was a sad time. was it was a sad time. >> Basically, >> Basically, >> Basically, >> but not really. >> but not really. >> but not really. >> He wasn't that sad. >> He wasn't that sad. >> He wasn't that sad. >> It wasn't heavy. >> It wasn't heavy. >> It wasn't heavy. >> In the moment that night, she was >> In the moment that night, she was >> In the moment that night, she was talking about like leaving and like talking about like leaving and like talking about like leaving and like before we went into the bathroom and she before we went into the bathroom and she before we went into the bathroom and she was like visibly upset at this. was like visibly upset at this. was like visibly upset at this. >> She was about to leave. She might have >> She was about to leave. She might have >> She was about to leave. She might have even have just just walked out. even have just just walked out. even have just just walked out. >> Yeah, she did. And there was like there >> Yeah, she did. And there was like there >> Yeah, she did. And there was like there was like maybe I don't remember. was like maybe I don't remember. was like maybe I don't remember. I don't remember if there was tears or I don't remember if there was tears or I don't remember if there was tears or anything. anything. anything. >> There were tears and no one saw them. So >> There were tears and no one saw them. So >> There were tears and no one saw them. So that's that's the tidbit that I'm that's that's the tidbit that I'm that's that's the tidbit that I'm providing. providing. providing. >> So she walks out and I remember talking >> So she walks out and I remember talking >> So she walks out and I remember talking to Dave and I was like Dave I was like to Dave and I was like Dave I was like to Dave and I was like Dave I was like what are you doing? I was like she's so what are you doing? I was like she's so what are you doing? I was like she's so cool. She's beautiful. And I was and and cool. She's beautiful. And I was and and cool. She's beautiful. And I was and and yeah, it was like his sentiment was kind yeah, it was like his sentiment was kind yeah, it was like his sentiment was kind of like the what he was saying where of like the what he was saying where of like the what he was saying where he's like what if there's more? Like I'm he's like what if there's more? Like I'm he's like what if there's more? Like I'm so like he was like I'm about so like he was like I'm about so like he was like I'm about >> this is all there is more. No, no, >> this is all there is more. No, no, >> this is all there is more. No, no, >> that that was everything he just said >> that that was everything he just said >> that that was everything he just said was the subtext, but really all you said was the subtext, but really all you said was the subtext, but really all you said I remember specifically you were like I I remember specifically you were like I I remember specifically you were like I don't know. You were like I kind of like don't know. You were like I kind of like don't know. You were like I kind of like Battle Luca. Battle Luca. Battle Luca. >> Yeah, that's all he had. And then >> Yeah, that's all he had. And then >> Yeah, that's all he had. And then Kristen's last name. And then at the end Kristen's last name. And then at the end Kristen's last name. And then at the end I was like I was like I don't I was like I was like I was like I don't I was like I was like I was like I don't I was like I was like I don't know Chuck like I I was like I don't know Chuck like I I was like I don't know Chuck like I really I like Baluca and then really I like Baluca and then really I like Baluca and then >> and then I called her >> and then I called her >> and then I called her >> and then he called her one foot in the >> and then he called her one foot in the >> and then he called her one foot in the car and then she turned car and then she turned car and then she turned >> it was like out of a move >> it was like out of a move >> it was like out of a move >> and then and then we never split up for >> and then and then we never split up for >> and then and then we never split up for >> what what was it for you that went this >> what what was it for you that went this >> what what was it for you that went this is it no more stones to be turned over. is it no more stones to be turned over. is it no more stones to be turned over. >> Like I'm not the kind of guy that did >> Like I'm not the kind of guy that did >> Like I'm not the kind of guy that did what I said I just did at the thing. So, what I said I just did at the thing. So, what I said I just did at the thing. So, I just felt a little bit bad about I'm I just felt a little bit bad about I'm I just felt a little bit bad about I'm just not that guy and I don't it's like just not that guy and I don't it's like just not that guy and I don't it's like what what am I looking for someone else what what am I looking for someone else what what am I looking for someone else when I have such a great person who when I have such a great person who when I have such a great person who wants to hang out with me? Now, at that wants to hang out with me? Now, at that wants to hang out with me? Now, at that point, I don't think either one of us point, I don't think either one of us point, I don't think either one of us necessarily knew we were going to get necessarily knew we were going to get necessarily knew we were going to get married. I don't think you knew we were married. I don't think you knew we were married. I don't think you knew we were going to get married 6 weeks in. going to get married 6 weeks in. going to get married 6 weeks in. >> Remember, I think the first thing I said >> Remember, I think the first thing I said >> Remember, I think the first thing I said like on our second date, I was like, "Is like on our second date, I was like, "Is like on our second date, I was like, "Is this a dead end?" this a dead end?" this a dead end?" >> Like, >> Like, >> Like, >> well, yeah. So, >> well, yeah. So, >> well, yeah. So, >> I was I was angling for marriage. >> I was I was angling for marriage. >> I was I was angling for marriage. >> So, our second date, she said, "Is this >> So, our second date, she said, "Is this >> So, our second date, she said, "Is this She said, "Is this a dead end? Is this a She said, "Is this a dead end? Is this a She said, "Is this a dead end? Is this a second date? If us if us not getting second date? If us if us not getting second date? If us if us not getting married is a dead end, it's totally married is a dead end, it's totally married is a dead end, it's totally possible that this is a dead end. But if possible that this is a dead end. But if possible that this is a dead end. But if you're saying it's a dead end if we you're saying it's a dead end if we you're saying it's a dead end if we aren't actually married, I can't answer aren't actually married, I can't answer aren't actually married, I can't answer that question that question that question >> because it's a second date. >> because it's a second date. >> because it's a second date. >> Exactly. But Kristen, from your side, >> Exactly. But Kristen, from your side, >> Exactly. But Kristen, from your side, like you're angling for marriage on the like you're angling for marriage on the like you're angling for marriage on the second day, like you're really clear second day, like you're really clear second day, like you're really clear about what you want. about what you want. about what you want. >> A, what's making it clear that this is >> A, what's making it clear that this is >> A, what's making it clear that this is the guy you want to be with and B, the guy you want to be with and B, the guy you want to be with and B, what's making you confident to be so what's making you confident to be so what's making you confident to be so clear about what you want? Because I clear about what you want? Because I clear about what you want? Because I think so many people who listen to the think so many people who listen to the think so many people who listen to the show, I know they actually feel quite show, I know they actually feel quite show, I know they actually feel quite scared scared scared >> Yeah. on their second date to actually >> Yeah. on their second date to actually >> Yeah. on their second date to actually be honest about what they're looking be honest about what they're looking be honest about what they're looking for. Well, I went into it being like I for. Well, I went into it being like I for. Well, I went into it being like I was 30 and I'd come out of a long was 30 and I'd come out of a long was 30 and I'd come out of a long relationship and I felt like like I had relationship and I felt like like I had relationship and I felt like like I had this whole narrative in my head, which I this whole narrative in my head, which I this whole narrative in my head, which I think the narrative is true that it's think the narrative is true that it's think the narrative is true that it's like why should women have to kind of like why should women have to kind of like why should women have to kind of play like this game of let them chase play like this game of let them chase play like this game of let them chase you or like I feel like so often even you or like I feel like so often even you or like I feel like so often even with my friends like even with Dave with my friends like even with Dave with my friends like even with Dave they'd be like don't be too aggressive they'd be like don't be too aggressive they'd be like don't be too aggressive like don't because I very much always like don't because I very much always like don't because I very much always just said what I wanted which was like I just said what I wanted which was like I just said what I wanted which was like I like taking out with you let's hang out like taking out with you let's hang out like taking out with you let's hang out again and I felt like I didn't want to again and I felt like I didn't want to again and I felt like I didn't want to waste waste time like letting him drive waste waste time like letting him drive waste waste time like letting him drive the relationship. So, I just thought I the relationship. So, I just thought I the relationship. So, I just thought I it's better off that I figure out if it's better off that I figure out if it's better off that I figure out if we're a bad fit than like let it go too we're a bad fit than like let it go too we're a bad fit than like let it go too long. Also, I'm only getting older and long. Also, I'm only getting older and long. Also, I'm only getting older and it is remarkable how infrequent I went it is remarkable how infrequent I went it is remarkable how infrequent I went on a lot of dates. I dated a lot of on a lot of dates. I dated a lot of on a lot of dates. I dated a lot of people over a 10 year. not really any people over a 10 year. not really any people over a 10 year. not really any seriously, but I went on a lot of dates seriously, but I went on a lot of dates seriously, but I went on a lot of dates and it's very rare that I was held and it's very rare that I was held and it's very rare that I was held accountable and like you know where I accountable and like you know where I accountable and like you know where I feel like often times there are games feel like often times there are games feel like often times there are games that are played that that are totally that are played that that are totally that are played that that are totally predisposed to advantage the man and I predisposed to advantage the man and I predisposed to advantage the man and I was very much down to lean into that was very much down to lean into that was very much down to lean into that because it advantaged me. because it advantaged me. because it advantaged me. >> I was ready to debate like I was I was >> I was ready to debate like I was I was >> I was ready to debate like I was I was like waiting for him to be up for the like waiting for him to be up for the like waiting for him to be up for the challenge. challenge. challenge. >> Yeah. here are all the reasons why it >> Yeah. here are all the reasons why it >> Yeah. here are all the reasons why it like why I'm not ready or whatever and like why I'm not ready or whatever and like why I'm not ready or whatever and then I kind of always came into the then I kind of always came into the then I kind of always came into the situation. situation. situation. >> Like we were always able to talk about >> Like we were always able to talk about >> Like we were always able to talk about it like you would be overwhelmed with it like you would be overwhelmed with it like you would be overwhelmed with like your work and you thought that like your work and you thought that like your work and you thought that because if you're dating somebody that because if you're dating somebody that because if you're dating somebody that means that you can't work and have like means that you can't work and have like means that you can't work and have like a career so I was always up for the a career so I was always up for the a career so I was always up for the debate. debate. debate. >> Do you want to chime in Benny? >> Do you want to chime in Benny? >> Do you want to chime in Benny? >> I just think I think No, I was thinking >> I just think I think No, I was thinking >> I just think I think No, I was thinking about it because it's like I think we're about it because it's like I think we're about it because it's like I think we're actually in actually in actually in a time where like I think it's sexy when a time where like I think it's sexy when a time where like I think it's sexy when a woman does that. Like when like when a woman does that. Like when like when a woman does that. Like when like when Selena was doing that to me like she was Selena was doing that to me like she was Selena was doing that to me like she was just like her like very much just like her like very much just like her like very much >> we would talk about it. So would I we >> we would talk about it. So would I we >> we would talk about it. So would I we would I'd be like you have to go for would I'd be like you have to go for would I'd be like you have to go for these you have to go after them. these you have to go after them. these you have to go after them. >> Yeah. And and it made me like it made me >> Yeah. And and it made me like it made me >> Yeah. And and it made me like it made me be like whoa. Like it was like cool. be like whoa. Like it was like cool. be like whoa. Like it was like cool. It's like cool. I was like oh my god. It's like cool. I was like oh my god. It's like cool. I was like oh my god. Yeah. I want like cuz you know Dave is Yeah. I want like cuz you know Dave is Yeah. I want like cuz you know Dave is saying like you know you know sometimes saying like you know you know sometimes saying like you know you know sometimes when you're dating someone they might when you're dating someone they might when you're dating someone they might not want to say something to rock the not want to say something to rock the not want to say something to rock the boat. And like boat. And like boat. And like >> I love when Selena would turn over. It'd >> I love when Selena would turn over. It'd >> I love when Selena would turn over. It'd be 3:00 in the morning and we were be 3:00 in the morning and we were be 3:00 in the morning and we were dating for like 3 weeks and she'd be dating for like 3 weeks and she'd be dating for like 3 weeks and she'd be like, "Well, what are we?" And I was like, "Well, what are we?" And I was like, "Well, what are we?" And I was like, "What?" And then she was like, like, "What?" And then she was like, like, "What?" And then she was like, "Well, when I go to New York this "Well, when I go to New York this "Well, when I go to New York this weekend, what am I going to tell people weekend, what am I going to tell people weekend, what am I going to tell people we are?" And I was like, it like she we are?" And I was like, it like she we are?" And I was like, it like she like caught me so off guard. It's cool like caught me so off guard. It's cool like caught me so off guard. It's cool to have that dynamic where like both to have that dynamic where like both to have that dynamic where like both person both people are like on that same person both people are like on that same person both people are like on that same level. And I think I I do see it like I level. And I think I I do see it like I level. And I think I I do see it like I feel like I do cuz a lot of my friends feel like I do cuz a lot of my friends feel like I do cuz a lot of my friends are like that where I see women starting are like that where I see women starting are like that where I see women starting to do that a lot more now. And I think to do that a lot more now. And I think to do that a lot more now. And I think it's I think it's cool. Like I think it it's I think it's cool. Like I think it it's I think it's cool. Like I think it shows like such a confidence like you shows like such a confidence like you shows like such a confidence like you know some people look at it like some of know some people look at it like some of know some people look at it like some of my friends look at it like oh like my friends look at it like oh like my friends look at it like oh like that's so needy or that's so I'm like that's so needy or that's so I'm like that's so needy or that's so I'm like that's a person telling you exactly what that's a person telling you exactly what that's a person telling you exactly what they want. Like I don't want to play they want. Like I don't want to play they want. Like I don't want to play these games like and when you're when these games like and when you're when these games like and when you're when >> and it's okay to be needy. Like I think >> and it's okay to be needy. Like I think >> and it's okay to be needy. Like I think it's okay to just exist exactly how you it's okay to just exist exactly how you it's okay to just exist exactly how you are. Selena will say that in the morning are. Selena will say that in the morning are. Selena will say that in the morning she'll say like she'll be like today's a she'll say like she'll be like today's a she'll say like she'll be like today's a needy day and she'll be and and it what needy day and she'll be and and it what needy day and she'll be and and it what when you are with someone who can when you are with someone who can when you are with someone who can because it's so hard when you're trying because it's so hard when you're trying because it's so hard when you're trying to play a guessing game like when you're to play a guessing game like when you're to play a guessing game like when you're trying to talk with your partner who trying to talk with your partner who trying to talk with your partner who doesn't express themselves, it's so doesn't express themselves, it's so doesn't express themselves, it's so difficult to meet them in the right difficult to meet them in the right difficult to meet them in the right place and then they're like harboring place and then they're like harboring place and then they're like harboring all this resentment. But yeah, like all this resentment. But yeah, like all this resentment. But yeah, like Selena will wake up in the morning and Selena will wake up in the morning and Selena will wake up in the morning and she'll say, "Okay, today's like a needy she'll say, "Okay, today's like a needy she'll say, "Okay, today's like a needy day. I need you to be like extra nice to day. I need you to be like extra nice to day. I need you to be like extra nice to me, extra gentle." And then you are set me, extra gentle." And then you are set me, extra gentle." And then you are set up for success cuz you know what to do. up for success cuz you know what to do. up for success cuz you know what to do. >> I should say on behalf of Dave like I >> I should say on behalf of Dave like I >> I should say on behalf of Dave like I did trust my instincts which was that I did trust my instincts which was that I did trust my instincts which was that I could tell that Dave like I knew who he could tell that Dave like I knew who he could tell that Dave like I knew who he was as a person and I knew it was just was as a person and I knew it was just was as a person and I knew it was just his anxieties that were kind of like his anxieties that were kind of like his anxieties that were kind of like overriding this entire situation. It overriding this entire situation. It overriding this entire situation. It wasn't like I was like totally shooting wasn't like I was like totally shooting wasn't like I was like totally shooting in the dark. in the dark. in the dark. >> Totally. When I look back on it, like it >> Totally. When I look back on it, like it >> Totally. When I look back on it, like it is crazy to me that now that I know her is crazy to me that now that I know her is crazy to me that now that I know her and everything that I wasn't after the and everything that I wasn't after the and everything that I wasn't after the first day, week, whatever being like, first day, week, whatever being like, first day, week, whatever being like, "Oh my god, that's the person I'm going "Oh my god, that's the person I'm going "Oh my god, that's the person I'm going to like." To me, it's so obvious like to like." To me, it's so obvious like to like." To me, it's so obvious like that she is my soulmate. And the only that she is my soulmate. And the only that she is my soulmate. And the only reason I wasn't But truly, the only reason I wasn't But truly, the only reason I wasn't But truly, the only reason I didn't see it was because of my reason I didn't see it was because of my reason I didn't see it was because of my own anxieties wouldn't even allow me to own anxieties wouldn't even allow me to own anxieties wouldn't even allow me to see it. Cuz as soon as we started see it. Cuz as soon as we started see it. Cuz as soon as we started spending more time together, I was like, spending more time together, I was like, spending more time together, I was like, >> "She's the funniest, most beautiful, >> "She's the funniest, most beautiful, >> "She's the funniest, most beautiful, perfect." I couldn't even believe that I perfect." I couldn't even believe that I perfect." I couldn't even believe that I was. It was a debate. And what I said to was. It was a debate. And what I said to was. It was a debate. And what I said to myself, I said I always I feel like I myself, I said I always I feel like I myself, I said I always I feel like I was in a lot of relationships where I was in a lot of relationships where I was in a lot of relationships where I didn't always feel like I was the one didn't always feel like I was the one didn't always feel like I was the one that like chased or I had like all of that like chased or I had like all of that like chased or I had like all of the agency. And I would after my last the agency. And I would after my last the agency. And I would after my last relationship before Dave, I was like, I relationship before Dave, I was like, I relationship before Dave, I was like, I want to chase the person I marry and I want to chase the person I marry and I want to chase the person I marry and I want to be the one that's like choosing want to be the one that's like choosing want to be the one that's like choosing cuz so often you kind of I don't know. I cuz so often you kind of I don't know. I cuz so often you kind of I don't know. I I felt like so so many of my past I felt like so so many of my past I felt like so so many of my past relationships were more like, relationships were more like, relationships were more like, >> you know, like you're I don't >> you know, like you're I don't >> you know, like you're I don't >> you're being pursued. >> you're being pursued. >> you're being pursued. >> Yeah. or something or like it's just >> Yeah. or something or like it's just >> Yeah. or something or like it's just easier to stay whatever then go so with easier to stay whatever then go so with easier to stay whatever then go so with Dave well before Dave I was like I want Dave well before Dave I was like I want Dave well before Dave I was like I want to like chase my husband like I want to to like chase my husband like I want to to like chase my husband like I want to be like I really know that I want this be like I really know that I want this be like I really know that I want this not like this is easy not like this is easy not like this is easy >> but I feel like it set them up for such >> but I feel like it set them up for such >> but I feel like it set them up for such success cuz when I look at them there success cuz when I look at them there success cuz when I look at them there couldn't be more even in a rel and like couldn't be more even in a rel and like couldn't be more even in a rel and like I feel like that's when a relationship I feel like that's when a relationship I feel like that's when a relationship wins like no person has the upper hand wins like no person has the upper hand wins like no person has the upper hand in their relationship there's no like in their relationship there's no like in their relationship there's no like bad like there's like funny like banter bad like there's like funny like banter bad like there's like funny like banter back and forth and I love that But it's back and forth and I love that But it's back and forth and I love that But it's like they truly like watching both of like they truly like watching both of like they truly like watching both of them, they truly want each other to win them, they truly want each other to win them, they truly want each other to win and and then that's when I feel like and and then that's when I feel like and and then that's when I feel like that's when the relationship works. I've that's when the relationship works. I've that's when the relationship works. I've been in relationships where been in relationships where been in relationships where >> the person is secretly like Yeah. >> the person is secretly like Yeah. >> the person is secretly like Yeah. They're like competitive. Or I've been They're like competitive. Or I've been They're like competitive. Or I've been in relationships where something good in relationships where something good in relationships where something good happens to me and I'm keeping it from happens to me and I'm keeping it from happens to me and I'm keeping it from the person because I'm scared or like I the person because I'm scared or like I the person because I'm scared or like I I had a time where like I like won some I had a time where like I like won some I had a time where like I like won some big award and I went into a closet to big award and I went into a closet to big award and I went into a closet to answer the call and be excited because I answer the call and be excited because I answer the call and be excited because I was too scared and like that's like the was too scared and like that's like the was too scared and like that's like the worst type of relationship to be in. worst type of relationship to be in. worst type of relationship to be in. Like I want to be in a relationship Like I want to be in a relationship Like I want to be in a relationship where like my partner is like cares more where like my partner is like cares more where like my partner is like cares more about like they they like feel like they about like they they like feel like they about like they they like feel like they care more about you than their own thing care more about you than their own thing care more about you than their own thing and you feel that way too and you guys and you feel that way too and you guys and you feel that way too and you guys are just like the ultimate cheerleader are just like the ultimate cheerleader are just like the ultimate cheerleader for each other. for each other. for each other. >> Yeah. Well, you guys I mean what's >> Yeah. Well, you guys I mean what's >> Yeah. Well, you guys I mean what's amazing though is that you guys are amazing though is that you guys are amazing though is that you guys are living the dream because you guys are living the dream because you guys are living the dream because you guys are best friends and then your wife and your best friends and then your wife and your best friends and then your wife and your best friend are really great friends best friend are really great friends best friend are really great friends >> and that's so special. And the fact that >> and that's so special. And the fact that >> and that's so special. And the fact that you guys used to do your birthdays you guys used to do your birthdays you guys used to do your birthdays together, the fact that you also all got together, the fact that you also all got together, the fact that you also all got married in the same year, married in the same year, married in the same year, same month and she's so close with same month and she's so close with same month and she's so close with Selena, too. It's like Selena, too. It's like Selena, too. It's like >> it's been it's perfect. >> it's been it's perfect. >> it's been it's perfect. >> I'm so happy it wor like you know when >> I'm so happy it wor like you know when >> I'm so happy it wor like you know when you know when one of your friends dates you know when one of your friends dates you know when one of your friends dates someone that you're like h and like and someone that you're like h and like and someone that you're like h and like and you never No, it's crazy. you never No, it's crazy. you never No, it's crazy. >> What would you have done? What would you >> What would you have done? What would you >> What would you have done? What would you have done? have done? have done? >> Oh my god. I've been that guy. I've >> Oh my god. I've been that guy. I've >> Oh my god. I've been that guy. I've dated someone where my f I've dated dated someone where my f I've dated dated someone where my f I've dated multiple people where I mean one time I multiple people where I mean one time I multiple people where I mean one time I I broke up with a person I was with and I broke up with a person I was with and I broke up with a person I was with and my friends uh wanted to throw me a party my friends uh wanted to throw me a party my friends uh wanted to throw me a party like and I said I said well why didn't like and I said I said well why didn't like and I said I said well why didn't anyone tell me when I was in it and they anyone tell me when I was in it and they anyone tell me when I was in it and they said what are we supposed to tell you said what are we supposed to tell you said what are we supposed to tell you they said we made we made gestures and they said we made we made gestures and they said we made we made gestures and and and yeah and and yeah and and yeah >> Dave have you ever made gestures to >> Dave have you ever made gestures to >> Dave have you ever made gestures to Benny in that way Benny in that way Benny in that way >> no I would >> no I would >> no I would >> he has slightly in his own way not as >> he has slightly in his own way not as >> he has slightly in his own way not as blunt as blunt as blunt as >> I keep it real If anyone's beh I I don't >> I keep it real If anyone's beh I I don't >> I keep it real If anyone's beh I I don't care who you are. If anyone's behave, I care who you are. If anyone's behave, I care who you are. If anyone's behave, I just like to speak about the facts at just like to speak about the facts at just like to speak about the facts at hand. So I always hand. So I always hand. So I always >> he's a fact basically. >> he's a fact basically. >> he's a fact basically. >> I'm a helping hand with anyone who wants >> I'm a helping hand with anyone who wants >> I'm a helping hand with anyone who wants to analyze the facts at hand. But you to analyze the facts at hand. But you to analyze the facts at hand. But you know, love is a particular thing that know, love is a particular thing that know, love is a particular thing that sometimes transcends fact. sometimes transcends fact. sometimes transcends fact. >> So pretty good, right Jay? >> So pretty good, right Jay? >> So pretty good, right Jay? >> That's beautiful. That's like you've >> That's beautiful. That's like you've >> That's beautiful. That's like you've like found something there. I was like, like found something there. I was like, like found something there. I was like, wow. That is beautiful. I get what wow. That is beautiful. I get what wow. That is beautiful. I get what you're saying. It's like when when you you're saying. It's like when when you you're saying. It's like when when you know someone, you have a friend and know someone, you have a friend and know someone, you have a friend and they're like really into this person. they're like really into this person. they're like really into this person. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> You're kind of like, well, maybe there's >> You're kind of like, well, maybe there's >> You're kind of like, well, maybe there's a part of that I don't want to mess up a part of that I don't want to mess up a part of that I don't want to mess up cuz they see something I don't see. cuz they see something I don't see. cuz they see something I don't see. >> Yeah. It's just not your place >> Yeah. It's just not your place >> Yeah. It's just not your place necessarily to be like, you know, you I necessarily to be like, you know, you I necessarily to be like, you know, you I know you love this person, but just so know you love this person, but just so know you love this person, but just so you know. you know. you know. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You shouldn't. Yeah. I don't know. >> You shouldn't. Yeah. I don't know. >> You shouldn't. Yeah. I don't know. >> What What was it like though going from >> What What was it like though going from >> What What was it like though going from those parties to actually getting those parties to actually getting those parties to actually getting married a month apart like to be at each married a month apart like to be at each married a month apart like to be at each other's wedding? other's wedding? other's wedding? >> High level partying. High level parties. >> High level partying. High level parties. >> High level partying. High level parties. >> No. Stressful. We were so tired. I feel >> No. Stressful. We were so tired. I feel >> No. Stressful. We were so tired. I feel like we were all really tired. I was like we were all really tired. I was like we were all really tired. I was really tired. really tired. really tired. >> I liked it. I mean, I really enjoyed it. >> I liked it. I mean, I really enjoyed it. >> I liked it. I mean, I really enjoyed it. To me, I was like, "Our wedding was the To me, I was like, "Our wedding was the To me, I was like, "Our wedding was the best night of our lives and it was so best night of our lives and it was so best night of our lives and it was so great." And I just remember being so great." And I just remember being so great." And I just remember being so happy that I had his wedding. Like, I happy that I had his wedding. Like, I happy that I had his wedding. Like, I was like, "And the fun isn't done." was like, "And the fun isn't done." was like, "And the fun isn't done." >> And I remember telling I said to her, I >> And I remember telling I said to her, I >> And I remember telling I said to her, I said, "We should really try to have as said, "We should really try to have as said, "We should really try to have as much fun as possible because much fun as possible because much fun as possible because >> nights don't always have this upside >> nights don't always have this upside >> nights don't always have this upside potential of how fun a night can be the potential of how fun a night can be the potential of how fun a night can be the way." And like we just had the most like way." And like we just had the most like way." And like we just had the most like very rarely do you go into a night where very rarely do you go into a night where very rarely do you go into a night where it has the potential to be the most fun it has the potential to be the most fun it has the potential to be the most fun night of your life. And our wedding of night of your life. And our wedding of night of your life. And our wedding of course had that potential. It felt so course had that potential. It felt so course had that potential. It felt so good when it actually was like, you good when it actually was like, you good when it actually was like, you know, I would have called it a fact a know, I would have called it a fact a know, I would have called it a fact a fact if it was in any way fact if it was in any way fact if it was in any way >> shorter than I would have, especially >> shorter than I would have, especially >> shorter than I would have, especially cuz we're paying all this goddamn money. cuz we're paying all this goddamn money. cuz we're paying all this goddamn money. >> But it really was. >> But it really was. >> But it really was. >> Yeah, it was the best night. >> Yeah, it was the best night. >> Yeah, it was the best night. >> It was so perfect. And then I just >> It was so perfect. And then I just >> It was so perfect. And then I just remember being so excited for his and remember being so excited for his and remember being so excited for his and his was perfect. And his was perfect. And his was perfect. And >> and we had the Bachelorette in between. >> and we had the Bachelorette in between. >> and we had the Bachelorette in between. >> Oh, go. We had like we had it was like >> Oh, go. We had like we had it was like >> Oh, go. We had like we had it was like we kept saying that we're like kicking we kept saying that we're like kicking we kept saying that we're like kicking off like it was our wedding and then we off like it was our wedding and then we off like it was our wedding and then we had in between our wedding and their had in between our wedding and their had in between our wedding and their wedding we each separately went on like wedding we each separately went on like wedding we each separately went on like you know I went to like Selena's and you know I went to like Selena's and you know I went to like Selena's and Dave went to Benny's and then we had Dave went to Benny's and then we had Dave went to Benny's and then we had >> then we had the wedding so it was like a >> then we had the wedding so it was like a >> then we had the wedding so it was like a fun two months. fun two months. fun two months. >> Kristen, what was your favorite thing >> Kristen, what was your favorite thing >> Kristen, what was your favorite thing about Benny and Selena's wedding? about Benny and Selena's wedding? about Benny and Selena's wedding? >> Probably the vows. It's so like watching >> Probably the vows. It's so like watching >> Probably the vows. It's so like watching your close friends get married and like your close friends get married and like your close friends get married and like hearing that what hearing that what hearing that what >> No, no. I was thinking >> No, no. I was thinking >> No, no. I was thinking >> remembering how his his face moved when >> remembering how his his face moved when >> remembering how his his face moved when he would cry. I mean, I couldn't see he would cry. I mean, I couldn't see he would cry. I mean, I couldn't see anything cuz I was behind a pole, but I anything cuz I was behind a pole, but I anything cuz I was behind a pole, but I heard the B. heard the B. heard the B. >> You didn't get like preferred seeing or >> You didn't get like preferred seeing or >> You didn't get like preferred seeing or anything. anything. anything. >> I did get the front row seat, but I I >> I did get the front row seat, but I I >> I did get the front row seat, but I I didn't know if people were going to sit didn't know if people were going to sit didn't know if people were going to sit between me and Benny's family, so I like between me and Benny's family, so I like between me and Benny's family, so I like sat all the way to the side. sat all the way to the side. sat all the way to the side. >> She just had she had she had an >> She just had she had she had an >> She just had she had she had an architectural issue. architectural issue. architectural issue. >> But that was the best part. >> But that was the best part. >> But that was the best part. >> Tell us about the vows. >> Tell us about the vows. >> Tell us about the vows. >> The vows were so good. And I think Well, >> The vows were so good. And I think Well, >> The vows were so good. And I think Well, and Dave officiated, which I also and Dave officiated, which I also and Dave officiated, which I also obviously enjoyed. I just loved hearing obviously enjoyed. I just loved hearing obviously enjoyed. I just loved hearing it's like it was nice to kind of hear it's like it was nice to kind of hear it's like it was nice to kind of hear them be serious like you're not it's so them be serious like you're not it's so them be serious like you're not it's so rare that you're going to like hear your rare that you're going to like hear your rare that you're going to like hear your friends friends friends you know say their love is like what you know say their love is like what you know say their love is like what they're doing in your vows you know they're doing in your vows you know they're doing in your vows you know >> especially okay so my perspective by the >> especially okay so my perspective by the >> especially okay so my perspective by the way I couldn't have a better view like way I couldn't have a better view like way I couldn't have a better view like they're like I'm like right there and they're like I'm like right there and they're like I'm like right there and they're right here they're right here they're right here >> and so >> and so >> and so >> because you're officiating yeah so >> because you're officiating yeah so >> because you're officiating yeah so >> have you done one before >> have you done one before >> have you done one before >> no >> no >> no >> I've actually never even given a best >> I've actually never even given a best >> I've actually never even given a best man speech so like the whole thing and man speech so like the whole thing and man speech so like the whole thing and then it's also such a trick then it's also such a trick then it's also such a trick cuz like on the I'm almost giving a best cuz like on the I'm almost giving a best cuz like on the I'm almost giving a best man speech but it's also right there at man speech but it's also right there at man speech but it's also right there at the altar so you can't even do the altar so you can't even do the altar so you can't even do >> pressure those days. It was a lot of >> pressure those days. It was a lot of >> pressure those days. It was a lot of pressure, but I really felt born for pressure, but I really felt born for pressure, but I really felt born for that moment. And it was really, look, that moment. And it was really, look, that moment. And it was really, look, Selena, like when the curtain went away Selena, like when the curtain went away Selena, like when the curtain went away and it was her and she started, she like and it was her and she started, she like and it was her and she started, she like literally I I'm loathed to say that she literally I I'm loathed to say that she literally I I'm loathed to say that she looked like a princess, but she just looked like a princess, but she just looked like a princess, but she just looked like a fairy tale. Like looked like a fairy tale. Like looked like a fairy tale. Like >> the sun, it was like the most amazing >> the sun, it was like the most amazing >> the sun, it was like the most amazing setting behind her and they had like setting behind her and they had like setting behind her and they had like these beautiful tents. So when she This these beautiful tents. So when she This these beautiful tents. So when she This is what I did see a little bit of when is what I did see a little bit of when is what I did see a little bit of when she was like walking. It was like it was she was like walking. It was like it was she was like walking. It was like it was like majestic. like majestic. like majestic. >> Yeah. And like you know she pulls out >> Yeah. And like you know she pulls out >> Yeah. And like you know she pulls out this like this like this like >> I don't even this hand this book of >> I don't even this hand this book of >> I don't even this hand this book of scriptures or that is like her vows that scriptures or that is like her vows that scriptures or that is like her vows that were like written by hand that she like were like written by hand that she like were like written by hand that she like lost 5 days earlier that Benny had she lost 5 days earlier that Benny had she lost 5 days earlier that Benny had she like lo wrote her vows for like a year like lo wrote her vows for like a year like lo wrote her vows for like a year and then she lost them like right before and then she lost them like right before and then she lost them like right before the wedding the wedding the wedding >> and then Benny found like pulled it like >> and then Benny found like pulled it like >> and then Benny found like pulled it like >> double point. >> double point. >> double point. >> Yeah. you found it on the day and she >> Yeah. you found it on the day and she >> Yeah. you found it on the day and she told the day a few days before told the day a few days before told the day a few days before >> but like her vows are just like you know >> but like her vows are just like you know >> but like her vows are just like you know and and then Benny like you know and and then Benny like you know and and then Benny like you know obviously Benny has a high level of obviously Benny has a high level of obviously Benny has a high level of emotional capacity and sensitivity but emotional capacity and sensitivity but emotional capacity and sensitivity but he's definitely a joker he's definitely a joker he's definitely a joker >> and to see him just >> and to see him just >> and to see him just break like and become just a shell of a break like and become just a shell of a break like and become just a shell of a man. man. man. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Like his face like I never like when >> Like his face like I never like when >> Like his face like I never like when Selena when the curtain got revealed and Selena when the curtain got revealed and Selena when the curtain got revealed and sh his face was like cuz I was trying not to. Okay. So, when cuz I was trying not to. Okay. So, when we did the first look, I was like, "Oh, we did the first look, I was like, "Oh, we did the first look, I was like, "Oh, oh, that this is easy. I'm not even oh, that this is easy. I'm not even oh, that this is easy. I'm not even crying." But when she came out to the crying." But when she came out to the crying." But when she came out to the music, my face, I was like, "I'm not music, my face, I was like, "I'm not music, my face, I was like, "I'm not ready to cry this early." So, I was like ready to cry this early." So, I was like ready to cry this early." So, I was like I was like, I was like, I was like, >> "Yeah, >> "Yeah, >> "Yeah, >> like I can't even do it." I was like, >> like I can't even do it." I was like, >> like I can't even do it." I was like, >> I recently watched the video back and >> I recently watched the video back and >> I recently watched the video back and it's insane. It's weird to to see it's insane. It's weird to to see it's insane. It's weird to to see someone's face so often and then realize someone's face so often and then realize someone's face so often and then realize you've never seen them their face do a you've never seen them their face do a you've never seen them their face do a certain thing is a weird feeling to certain thing is a weird feeling to certain thing is a weird feeling to feel. feel. feel. >> That's amazing. That's amazing. >> That's amazing. That's amazing. >> That's amazing. That's amazing. >> I'm never nervous and I was before it >> I'm never nervous and I was before it >> I'm never nervous and I was before it happened. I all of a sudden got so happened. I all of a sudden got so happened. I all of a sudden got so nervous and like 10 times I was like nervous and like 10 times I was like nervous and like 10 times I was like should I have him print mine out bigger? should I have him print mine out bigger? should I have him print mine out bigger? Should I do it small? And like I asked Should I do it small? And like I asked Should I do it small? And like I asked him all these questions and then him all these questions and then him all these questions and then >> he made me walk out to like everyone's >> he made me walk out to like everyone's >> he made me walk out to like everyone's seated thinking the thing's about to seated thinking the thing's about to seated thinking the thing's about to start and he made me walk out alone like start and he made me walk out alone like start and he made me walk out alone like down the aisle essentially and like down the aisle essentially and like down the aisle essentially and like double check and he had multiple double check and he had multiple double check and he had multiple printouts of the thing already sitting printouts of the thing already sitting printouts of the thing already sitting up there. I remember being so nervous up there. I remember being so nervous up there. I remember being so nervous and then for some reason the second I and then for some reason the second I and then for some reason the second I turned into the room everything melted turned into the room everything melted turned into the room everything melted away and it was like I wasn't nervous at away and it was like I wasn't nervous at away and it was like I wasn't nervous at all anymore and it was it it was so cool all anymore and it was it it was so cool all anymore and it was it it was so cool to see theirs was like to see theirs was like to see theirs was like >> training Yeah. Theirs was like training >> training Yeah. Theirs was like training >> training Yeah. Theirs was like training and theirs was I I really can't stress and theirs was I I really can't stress and theirs was I I really can't stress this. It was the best wedding I'd ever this. It was the best wedding I'd ever this. It was the best wedding I'd ever been to in my life. I think also it's been to in my life. I think also it's been to in my life. I think also it's because it's like the people like I because it's like the people like I because it's like the people like I care. I've never like I cried so much at care. I've never like I cried so much at care. I've never like I cried so much at their wedding during their vows. I was their wedding during their vows. I was their wedding during their vows. I was bawling and you think about your friends bawling and you think about your friends bawling and you think about your friends but then like to see them do this thing but then like to see them do this thing but then like to see them do this thing that's so like final. It was so be and that's so like final. It was so be and that's so like final. It was so be and they're both so wellspoken and funny but they're both so wellspoken and funny but they're both so wellspoken and funny but also serious and like yeah I don't also serious and like yeah I don't also serious and like yeah I don't usually see Dave serious. I never see usually see Dave serious. I never see usually see Dave serious. I never see Kristen's here. Like we're all those Kristen's here. Like we're all those Kristen's here. Like we're all those people who kind of like make like I'll people who kind of like make like I'll people who kind of like make like I'll probably be laughing at like my friend's probably be laughing at like my friend's probably be laughing at like my friend's funeral like cuz I like can't like it's funeral like cuz I like can't like it's funeral like cuz I like can't like it's it's it's it's like a coping mechanism. it's it's it's like a coping mechanism. it's it's it's like a coping mechanism. And to watch them do that was so fun. And to watch them do that was so fun. And to watch them do that was so fun. And everything was perfect. And I their And everything was perfect. And I their And everything was perfect. And I their week their wedding was one of the best week their wedding was one of the best week their wedding was one of the best weekends of my life. And then I was weekends of my life. And then I was weekends of my life. And then I was like, "Oh my god, I have my own to look like, "Oh my god, I have my own to look like, "Oh my god, I have my own to look forward to." And I had that feeling forward to." And I had that feeling forward to." And I had that feeling where I was so scared that mine wasn't where I was so scared that mine wasn't where I was so scared that mine wasn't going to live up to what it was in my going to live up to what it was in my going to live up to what it was in my head. And it was so far beyond what like head. And it was so far beyond what like head. And it was so far beyond what like the only thing I didn't like is um the only thing I didn't like is um the only thing I didn't like is um cocktail hour cuz I kept having to say cocktail hour cuz I kept having to say cocktail hour cuz I kept having to say hi to everyone. I said, "Am I going to hi to everyone. I said, "Am I going to hi to everyone. I said, "Am I going to be doing this the whole night?" be doing this the whole night?" be doing this the whole night?" >> I tried to get you to do the thing. You >> I tried to get you to do the thing. You >> I tried to get you to do the thing. You didn't want to do it. didn't want to do it. didn't want to do it. >> No, we did do it. We did do it and we >> No, we did do it. We did do it and we >> No, we did do it. We did do it and we didn't like it. We didn't We took We didn't like it. We didn't We took We didn't like it. We didn't We took We should have We basically went Dave and I should have We basically went Dave and I should have We basically went Dave and I like had to go to the bathroom. So we like had to go to the bathroom. So we like had to go to the bathroom. So we before Benny and Selena had seen before Benny and Selena had seen before Benny and Selena had seen >> of course it was our wedding was how we >> of course it was our wedding was how we >> of course it was our wedding was how we even knew about this. even knew about this. even knew about this. >> Did you do this like where they they >> Did you do this like where they they >> Did you do this like where they they take you into the reception before the take you into the reception before the take you into the reception before the the guests come the guests come the guests come >> they pluck you from cocktail hour 5 >> they pluck you from cocktail hour 5 >> they pluck you from cocktail hour 5 minutes early minutes early minutes early >> take you to where the band is and where >> take you to where the band is and where >> take you to where the band is and where dinner is and they like let you see it dinner is and they like let you see it dinner is and they like let you see it all and the band's playing just for you all and the band's playing just for you all and the band's playing just for you and it was like our favorite part of our and it was like our favorite part of our and it was like our favorite part of our wedding. wedding. wedding. >> And then we had to go to the bathroom so >> And then we had to go to the bathroom so >> And then we had to go to the bathroom so we went into Benny and Selena's before we went into Benny and Selena's before we went into Benny and Selena's before they had seen it and we were like oh my they had seen it and we were like oh my they had seen it and we were like oh my god this is incredible they have to see god this is incredible they have to see god this is incredible they have to see it. So, we were like, should we pull it. So, we were like, should we pull it. So, we were like, should we pull them away? And pulling them away was them away? And pulling them away was them away? And pulling them away was like, like, like, >> it was so hard. >> it was so hard. >> it was so hard. >> It was so hard. Like, I thought, you >> It was so hard. Like, I thought, you >> It was so hard. Like, I thought, you know what? I felt like they were being know what? I felt like they were being know what? I felt like they were being bombarded. They were And I was just bombarded. They were And I was just bombarded. They were And I was just like, they're miss they're only going to like, they're miss they're only going to like, they're miss they're only going to the tenting that they're thing. It was the tenting that they're thing. It was the tenting that they're thing. It was the most beautiful tent. the most beautiful tent. the most beautiful tent. >> Oh, and you never go to see. >> Oh, and you never go to see. >> Oh, and you never go to see. >> I was No, they got to see No, not empty. >> I was No, they got to see No, not empty. >> I was No, they got to see No, not empty. But they But I but I made them do it. I But they But I but I made them do it. I But they But I but I made them do it. I was just like I just had this instinct was just like I just had this instinct was just like I just had this instinct that I knew better and and that they that I knew better and and that they that I knew better and and that they didn't know. didn't know. didn't know. >> What was your wedding like? >> What was your wedding like? >> What was your wedding like? >> Gosh, I think Do I remember this >> Gosh, I think Do I remember this >> Gosh, I think Do I remember this correctly? Was yours like some sort of correctly? Was yours like some sort of correctly? Was yours like some sort of thing like outside near like a brick? thing like outside near like a brick? thing like outside near like a brick? Like Like Like >> No, no, no. That was just our photo >> No, no, no. That was just our photo >> No, no, no. That was just our photo shoot. That was just our photo shoot shoot. That was just our photo shoot shoot. That was just our photo shoot afterwards. We afterwards. We afterwards. We >> This year's our 10 year wedding >> This year's our 10 year wedding >> This year's our 10 year wedding anniversary. I was going to say when you anniversary. I was going to say when you anniversary. I was going to say when you get married 10 years 10 years. Oh, get married 10 years 10 years. Oh, get married 10 years 10 years. Oh, actually I don't care about your actually I don't care about your actually I don't care about your wedding. I want to know. I want to know wedding. I want to know. I want to know wedding. I want to know. I want to know this. This is my real question. My real this. This is my real question. My real this. This is my real question. My real >> This is not your podcast. I have a >> This is not your podcast. I have a >> This is not your podcast. I have a question for you. I have a question. question for you. I have a question. question for you. I have a question. >> I have many more. Go on. >> I have many more. Go on. >> I have many more. Go on. >> I got one question. >> I got one question. >> I got one question. >> I'll let you ask one question. >> I'll let you ask one question. >> I'll let you ask one question. >> I have one question. >> I have one question. >> I have one question. >> You have one question. >> You have one question. >> You have one question. >> He's got to think of the question. >> He's got to think of the question. >> He's got to think of the question. >> No. No. No. No. No, no. It's such a good >> No. No. No. No. No, no. It's such a good >> No. No. No. No. No, no. It's such a good question. I just want to word it the question. I just want to word it the question. I just want to word it the right way. right way. right way. >> Okay. You're 10 years in. >> Okay. You're 10 years in. >> Okay. You're 10 years in. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Juny by Jay. >> Juny by Jay. >> Juny by Jay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> And my wife. >> And my wife. >> And my wife. >> You're 10 years in. What have you >> You're 10 years in. What have you >> You're 10 years in. What have you learned in this time that you that you learned in this time that you that you learned in this time that you that you thought you knew when it was 10 years thought you knew when it was 10 years thought you knew when it was 10 years before? And what do you want like the before? And what do you want like the before? And what do you want like the next 10 years to be like? Yeah. next 10 years to be like? Yeah. next 10 years to be like? Yeah. >> Two questions. >> Two questions. >> Two questions. >> Good question. Good question. >> Good question. Good question. >> Good question. Good question. >> Only answer. >> Only answer. >> Only answer. >> It's similar to the way you're even >> It's similar to the way you're even >> It's similar to the way you're even talking about each other. I feel like talking about each other. I feel like talking about each other. I feel like you think you love your partner the most you think you love your partner the most you think you love your partner the most you could love them on your wedding day you could love them on your wedding day you could love them on your wedding day and then you realize you had no idea how and then you realize you had no idea how and then you realize you had no idea how much you could love them. much you could love them. much you could love them. >> Like 10 years on it's just like >> Like 10 years on it's just like >> Like 10 years on it's just like >> I thought I loved my wife like the most >> I thought I loved my wife like the most >> I thought I loved my wife like the most I could ever love her and then you I could ever love her and then you I could ever love her and then you actually go through life, you go through actually go through life, you go through actually go through life, you go through challenges, you go through ups and challenges, you go through ups and challenges, you go through ups and downs. We we got married, changed jobs, downs. We we got married, changed jobs, downs. We we got married, changed jobs, moved country and moved home all in the moved country and moved home all in the moved country and moved home all in the same year. same year. same year. >> Wow. And so like we went through so much >> Wow. And so like we went through so much >> Wow. And so like we went through so much and I feel like that could either break and I feel like that could either break and I feel like that could either break you or make you closer and for us it you or make you closer and for us it you or make you closer and for us it just brought us closer. Then the just brought us closer. Then the just brought us closer. Then the pandemic we were stuck together every pandemic we were stuck together every pandemic we were stuck together every day and it brought us closer and I think day and it brought us closer and I think day and it brought us closer and I think that could have been a so I feel like that could have been a so I feel like that could have been a so I feel like when you've been through so much life when you've been through so much life when you've been through so much life together you just have so much proof together you just have so much proof together you just have so much proof >> that you love each other through so many >> that you love each other through so many >> that you love each other through so many different versions of each other. And I different versions of each other. And I different versions of each other. And I think that's the other thing that I feel think that's the other thing that I feel think that's the other thing that I feel like I've been love with a different like I've been love with a different like I've been love with a different person in 10 years because my wife has person in 10 years because my wife has person in 10 years because my wife has been so many different versions of been so many different versions of been so many different versions of herself. She'll probably feel like she has changed so many times feel like she has changed so many times in beautiful in beautiful in beautiful >> and so you're learning to fall in love >> and so you're learning to fall in love >> and so you're learning to fall in love again. So this idea of oh I know your again. So this idea of oh I know your again. So this idea of oh I know your every move and I know everything about every move and I know everything about every move and I know everything about you. It's like I actually don't you. It's like I actually don't you. It's like I actually don't >> and I feel like I'm constantly on my >> and I feel like I'm constantly on my >> and I feel like I'm constantly on my toes and because we end up spending a toes and because we end up spending a toes and because we end up spending a bit of time away from each other every bit of time away from each other every bit of time away from each other every year because of work. I feel like we're year because of work. I feel like we're year because of work. I feel like we're still dating which is really fun still dating which is really fun still dating which is really fun actually. I I love the fact that we actually. I I love the fact that we actually. I I love the fact that we don't see each other all the time. And don't see each other all the time. And don't see each other all the time. And there's a sense of like I can't wait to there's a sense of like I can't wait to there's a sense of like I can't wait to get back to you and so get back to you and so get back to you and so >> we see each other >> we see each other >> we see each other >> too much all day every day. >> too much all day every day. >> too much all day every day. >> Not too much for me, Jay. >> Not too much for me, Jay. >> Not too much for me, Jay. >> Never too much for me. >> Never too much for me. >> Never too much for me. >> Yeah. I I Yeah. I was like I was trying >> Yeah. I I Yeah. I was like I was trying >> Yeah. I I Yeah. I was like I was trying to convince my wife to do a reality show to convince my wife to do a reality show to convince my wife to do a reality show with me cuz I was like I just want to be with me cuz I was like I just want to be with me cuz I was like I just want to be with you all day long. Like that would with you all day long. Like that would with you all day long. Like that would be my dream. She's like we're never be my dream. She's like we're never be my dream. She's like we're never doing a reality TV show. All right then. doing a reality TV show. All right then. doing a reality TV show. All right then. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. I don't know who Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. I don't know who Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. I don't know who else would because there wouldn't be else would because there wouldn't be else would because there wouldn't be much drama. We'd have to create some much drama. We'd have to create some much drama. We'd have to create some drama. Like you'd have to find ways I'd drama. Like you'd have to find ways I'd drama. Like you'd have to find ways I'd have to in invite drama. We can give you have to in invite drama. We can give you have to in invite drama. We can give you some ideas. Yeah. some ideas. Yeah. some ideas. Yeah. >> But did you guys ever think, like, we're >> But did you guys ever think, like, we're >> But did you guys ever think, like, we're here to talk about Friends Keep Secrets. here to talk about Friends Keep Secrets. here to talk about Friends Keep Secrets. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> The show, not a podcast, not a live >> The show, not a podcast, not a live >> The show, not a podcast, not a live stream. Did you ever believe that you stream. Did you ever believe that you stream. Did you ever believe that you guys would be doing a show together? guys would be doing a show together? guys would be doing a show together? >> I think it makes sense. >> I think it makes sense. >> I think it makes sense. >> Ever. Yes. Cuz we I I don't think we saw >> Ever. Yes. Cuz we I I don't think we saw >> Ever. Yes. Cuz we I I don't think we saw I didn't necessarily see it coming, but I didn't necessarily see it coming, but I didn't necessarily see it coming, but it really kind of was this perfect storm it really kind of was this perfect storm it really kind of was this perfect storm of things happening at the right time. of things happening at the right time. of things happening at the right time. And like Kristen was very she was always And like Kristen was very she was always And like Kristen was very she was always even as I was making Dave in my just even as I was making Dave in my just even as I was making Dave in my just always on TikTok and always being like always on TikTok and always being like always on TikTok and always being like there's something that's so rewarding there's something that's so rewarding there's something that's so rewarding about real human behavior. And she was about real human behavior. And she was about real human behavior. And she was always kind of on the forefront of always kind of on the forefront of always kind of on the forefront of knowing that consumption patterns are knowing that consumption patterns are knowing that consumption patterns are really changing. And that was something really changing. And that was something really changing. And that was something that I I I really respect her opinion that I I I really respect her opinion that I I I really respect her opinion about a lot of things. And that was about a lot of things. And that was about a lot of things. And that was something that was in my head. And something that was in my head. And something that was in my head. And separately, me and Benny had kind of separately, me and Benny had kind of separately, me and Benny had kind of just flirted with the idea of a podcast just flirted with the idea of a podcast just flirted with the idea of a podcast for years, but I never really saw it as for years, but I never really saw it as for years, but I never really saw it as a thing that I wanted to do. And a thing that I wanted to do. And a thing that I wanted to do. And >> what changed? >> what changed? >> what changed? >> I think one day I was like, but what if >> I think one day I was like, but what if >> I think one day I was like, but what if like we like rigged our house and what like we like rigged our house and what like we like rigged our house and what if you take the same like creativity if you take the same like creativity if you take the same like creativity that the two of you have and you try to that the two of you have and you try to that the two of you have and you try to change what this is versus trying to change what this is versus trying to change what this is versus trying to like fit the mold of what everything like fit the mold of what everything like fit the mold of what everything else is. And I feel like that's when you else is. And I feel like that's when you else is. And I feel like that's when you were and I think Benny like separately were and I think Benny like separately were and I think Benny like separately had the same idea cuz we all got on the had the same idea cuz we all got on the had the same idea cuz we all got on the phone and he was like, "Yeah, we can phone and he was like, "Yeah, we can phone and he was like, "Yeah, we can literally like he was like I was so I I literally like he was like I was so I I literally like he was like I was so I I just think it was a perfect storm for just think it was a perfect storm for just think it was a perfect storm for you to be like, "Oh, this is exciting." you to be like, "Oh, this is exciting." you to be like, "Oh, this is exciting." >> Once I started thinking about the >> Once I started thinking about the >> Once I started thinking about the potential to reinvent things and make potential to reinvent things and make potential to reinvent things and make things different. Then I got really things different. Then I got really things different. Then I got really excited about it. And then only when we excited about it. And then only when we excited about it. And then only when we started doing it did I did I really like started doing it did I did I really like started doing it did I did I really like fall in love with everything because I fall in love with everything because I fall in love with everything because I say this to them all the time. say this to them all the time. say this to them all the time. My me even going for it as a comedic My me even going for it as a comedic My me even going for it as a comedic presence only happened because I was presence only happened because I was presence only happened because I was trying to entertain my friends and be trying to entertain my friends and be trying to entertain my friends and be like the funny guy to my friends and like the funny guy to my friends and like the funny guy to my friends and that is my when I am the happiest when that is my when I am the happiest when that is my when I am the happiest when I'm around my best friends and I'm like I'm around my best friends and I'm like I'm around my best friends and I'm like seeking the joke and trying to make them seeking the joke and trying to make them seeking the joke and trying to make them laugh and then I went for it. I try you laugh and then I went for it. I try you laugh and then I went for it. I try you know I became a comedian made my show know I became a comedian made my show know I became a comedian made my show Dave and like a show like Dave it Dave and like a show like Dave it Dave and like a show like Dave it requires so much like hard work. I requires so much like hard work. I requires so much like hard work. I believe it show and like believe it show and like believe it show and like >> everything that seems like it's all so >> everything that seems like it's all so >> everything that seems like it's all so fun and light and like the amount of fun and light and like the amount of fun and light and like the amount of brain power that goes into executing it brain power that goes into executing it brain power that goes into executing it is so next level that actually making is so next level that actually making is so next level that actually making the show Dave can be torturous. the show Dave can be torturous. the show Dave can be torturous. >> Whereas as soon as we started doing this >> Whereas as soon as we started doing this >> Whereas as soon as we started doing this I've never had more it's just like I was I've never had more it's just like I was I've never had more it's just like I was the inner child in me was like now the inner child in me was like now the inner child in me was like now having fun with my best friends again. having fun with my best friends again. having fun with my best friends again. And then even seeing the footage of it And then even seeing the footage of it And then even seeing the footage of it and understanding how it all was working and understanding how it all was working and understanding how it all was working to me, I think back to Kristen's to me, I think back to Kristen's to me, I think back to Kristen's original thesis, there's nothing more original thesis, there's nothing more original thesis, there's nothing more compelling. I think co actually caused compelling. I think co actually caused compelling. I think co actually caused this because the show stopped being made this because the show stopped being made this because the show stopped being made and people were just at home and then and people were just at home and then and people were just at home and then Tik Tok was blowing up and we were just Tik Tok was blowing up and we were just Tik Tok was blowing up and we were just seeing over and over again human beings seeing over and over again human beings seeing over and over again human beings being themselves and being really being themselves and being really being themselves and being really entertaining and fun to watch. And so I entertaining and fun to watch. And so I entertaining and fun to watch. And so I think at the end of the day, things are think at the end of the day, things are think at the end of the day, things are only as good as the the characters that only as good as the the characters that only as good as the the characters that that are there. that are there. that are there. >> And we're just being ourselves. And >> And we're just being ourselves. And >> And we're just being ourselves. And there really is nothing pure than like there really is nothing pure than like there really is nothing pure than like having a great time with your best having a great time with your best having a great time with your best friends. And it's all everything that's friends. And it's all everything that's friends. And it's all everything that's happening is so real and organic. And happening is so real and organic. And happening is so real and organic. And like they're like the amount of hard like they're like the amount of hard like they're like the amount of hard laughs that are happening with all three laughs that are happening with all three laughs that are happening with all three of us as we're filming it is I've been of us as we're filming it is I've been of us as we're filming it is I've been talking for a long time. talking for a long time. talking for a long time. >> I'm realizing making it reating. I >> I'm realizing making it reating. I >> I'm realizing making it reating. I realize how long I allow for that space. I still remember the first call when you I still remember the first call when you called me up. I was like, called me up. I was like, called me up. I was like, >> "I think me and you know, me and Dave >> "I think me and you know, me and Dave >> "I think me and you know, me and Dave and Kristen want to start this show." and Kristen want to start this show." and Kristen want to start this show." And in my head, I was like, "Oh, great." And in my head, I was like, "Oh, great." And in my head, I was like, "Oh, great." You know, we'll put some microphones You know, we'll put some microphones You know, we'll put some microphones down. We're going to sit down. It'll be down. We're going to sit down. It'll be down. We're going to sit down. It'll be another interview show. You guys will another interview show. You guys will another interview show. You guys will have great guests. And then as this have great guests. And then as this have great guests. And then as this thing's evolved, I was just like, "Your thing's evolved, I was just like, "Your thing's evolved, I was just like, "Your guys creative vision, the way you're guys creative vision, the way you're guys creative vision, the way you're shifting up the industry, the way this shifting up the industry, the way this shifting up the industry, the way this show is going to change the way people show is going to change the way people show is going to change the way people think about what a podcast is, what an think about what a podcast is, what an think about what a podcast is, what an interview is, it's amazing. And and interview is, it's amazing. And and interview is, it's amazing. And and honestly, it's been such a joy like honestly, it's been such a joy like honestly, it's been such a joy like seeing you guys put in the work, put in seeing you guys put in the work, put in seeing you guys put in the work, put in the hustle, but also the most important the hustle, but also the most important the hustle, but also the most important thing is I feel like whenever I've seen thing is I feel like whenever I've seen thing is I feel like whenever I've seen you, I I I got to walk into one of your you, I I I got to walk into one of your you, I I I got to walk into one of your episodes when I was coming to do a photo episodes when I was coming to do a photo episodes when I was coming to do a photo shoot, but then I just got to walk in to shoot, but then I just got to walk in to shoot, but then I just got to walk in to an episode, which is insane. an episode, which is insane. an episode, which is insane. >> And and I'm like, I couldn't believe >> And and I'm like, I couldn't believe >> And and I'm like, I couldn't believe just how crazy, real, authentic, and and just how crazy, real, authentic, and and just how crazy, real, authentic, and and you know, people throw those words you know, people throw those words you know, people throw those words around. So, I don't even like using around. So, I don't even like using around. So, I don't even like using those words cuz nowadays everyone's those words cuz nowadays everyone's those words cuz nowadays everyone's like, "Oh, it's so authentic. It's so like, "Oh, it's so authentic. It's so like, "Oh, it's so authentic. It's so this." this." this." >> It's not even that. It just is what it >> It's not even that. It just is what it >> It's not even that. It just is what it is. Like it is just three friends. is. Like it is just three friends. is. Like it is just three friends. >> We don't even know what's coming and we >> We don't even know what's coming and we >> We don't even know what's coming and we get in these random conversations and get in these random conversations and get in these random conversations and arguments that become so passionate that arguments that become so passionate that arguments that become so passionate that I feel like anyone watching a group of I feel like anyone watching a group of I feel like anyone watching a group of anyone in their own group of friends is anyone in their own group of friends is anyone in their own group of friends is able to relate to like it's really just able to relate to like it's really just able to relate to like it's really just us kind of living and existing and it's us kind of living and existing and it's us kind of living and existing and it's a fly on the wall observation of that. a fly on the wall observation of that. a fly on the wall observation of that. >> I think what's fascinating about it on a >> I think what's fascinating about it on a >> I think what's fascinating about it on a on a more thoughtful level is one of the on a more thoughtful level is one of the on a more thoughtful level is one of the things I'm trying to do with the work things I'm trying to do with the work things I'm trying to do with the work I'm that we're putting out there in the I'm that we're putting out there in the I'm that we're putting out there in the world is trying to make people feel less world is trying to make people feel less world is trying to make people feel less alone. Mhm. alone. Mhm. alone. Mhm. >> And and I feel like this show makes >> And and I feel like this show makes >> And and I feel like this show makes people feel less alone. people feel less alone. people feel less alone. >> She always says there's a loneliness uh >> She always says there's a loneliness uh >> She always says there's a loneliness uh epidemic. epidemic. epidemic. >> Well, cuz there is. But I felt like I >> Well, cuz there is. But I felt like I >> Well, cuz there is. But I felt like I realized I do think after co like all of realized I do think after co like all of realized I do think after co like all of our social lives have slowed down or if our social lives have slowed down or if our social lives have slowed down or if they haven't there was like there was they haven't there was like there was they haven't there was like there was definitely like a period where definitely like a period where definitely like a period where socializing beyond the anxiety of like socializing beyond the anxiety of like socializing beyond the anxiety of like co kind of create there was like a co kind of create there was like a co kind of create there was like a learning curve to kind of get back into learning curve to kind of get back into learning curve to kind of get back into it and putting yourself out there. And I it and putting yourself out there. And I it and putting yourself out there. And I really resonate with like Tik Tok and really resonate with like Tik Tok and really resonate with like Tik Tok and it's not like I love watching people in it's not like I love watching people in it's not like I love watching people in like Michigan or like random state, you like Michigan or like random state, you like Michigan or like random state, you know, like home videos essentially of know, like home videos essentially of know, like home videos essentially of like people hanging out. And I feel like like people hanging out. And I feel like like people hanging out. And I feel like one cool thing about us is I mean one cool thing about us is I mean one cool thing about us is I mean especially Benny, not Dave is cool, but especially Benny, not Dave is cool, but especially Benny, not Dave is cool, but like I feel like when we met Benny, you like I feel like when we met Benny, you like I feel like when we met Benny, you were such a good host. you always like were such a good host. you always like were such a good host. you always like have us over and like we have so much have us over and like we have so much have us over and like we have so much fun and we meet new people and I think fun and we meet new people and I think fun and we meet new people and I think we now have the opportunity to like we now have the opportunity to like we now have the opportunity to like bring people into that experience which bring people into that experience which bring people into that experience which is what I like on TikTok. is what I like on TikTok. is what I like on TikTok. >> I I I'll tell you some I was I was with >> I I I'll tell you some I was I was with >> I I I'll tell you some I was I was with my friend the other day and we were my friend the other day and we were my friend the other day and we were hanging out and he was he like just went hanging out and he was he like just went hanging out and he was he like just went through a breakup. You know, I don't through a breakup. You know, I don't through a breakup. You know, I don't ever watch myself back. I'm not like a ever watch myself back. I'm not like a ever watch myself back. I'm not like a guy that does that. I don't like once guy that does that. I don't like once guy that does that. I don't like once it's there it's there. I like I'll ask it's there it's there. I like I'll ask it's there it's there. I like I'll ask my manager. I'll say, "Hey, did I say my manager. I'll say, "Hey, did I say my manager. I'll say, "Hey, did I say something stupid?" And I'll be like, something stupid?" And I'll be like, something stupid?" And I'll be like, "Ah, this was stupid." And I'll say, "Ah, this was stupid." And I'll say, "Ah, this was stupid." And I'll say, "Okay, take it out." Like, I'm not like "Okay, take it out." Like, I'm not like "Okay, take it out." Like, I'm not like a I don't want to I I can't do that in a I don't want to I I can't do that in a I don't want to I I can't do that in any like I don't want to look at a any like I don't want to look at a any like I don't want to look at a magazine. I don't want to do any of magazine. I don't want to do any of magazine. I don't want to do any of that. But my friend wasn't feeling that. But my friend wasn't feeling that. But my friend wasn't feeling great. And I said, "Let me put on an great. And I said, "Let me put on an great. And I said, "Let me put on an episode of of of our new show." and I episode of of of our new show." and I episode of of of our new show." and I put it on and at first he's like staring put it on and at first he's like staring put it on and at first he's like staring at it and he's laughing uncontrollably at it and he's laughing uncontrollably at it and he's laughing uncontrollably and he's like just like following along and he's like just like following along and he's like just like following along to everything and it got to the point to everything and it got to the point to everything and it got to the point where we start having our normal where we start having our normal where we start having our normal conversation and it's just playing in conversation and it's just playing in conversation and it's just playing in the background and it's just like it the background and it's just like it the background and it's just like it just we were like in it but then we go just we were like in it but then we go just we were like in it but then we go do our own thing and then we come back do our own thing and then we come back do our own thing and then we come back to it and we're like it was so cool to to it and we're like it was so cool to to it and we're like it was so cool to have it's like a constant friend in the have it's like a constant friend in the have it's like a constant friend in the corner and it was like whenever there corner and it was like whenever there corner and it was like whenever there was like a lull in the conversation we was like a lull in the conversation we was like a lull in the conversation we would just start watching the thing would just start watching the thing would just start watching the thing again and it was and it and and we were again and it was and it and and we were again and it was and it and and we were laughing and we would like pause it then laughing and we would like pause it then laughing and we would like pause it then talk about like our own stories we're talk about like our own stories we're talk about like our own stories we're like oh my god that reminds me of and to like oh my god that reminds me of and to like oh my god that reminds me of and to me I feel like we live in a world where me I feel like we live in a world where me I feel like we live in a world where there's constantly so much static and there's constantly so much static and there's constantly so much static and noise of like not great things and I noise of like not great things and I noise of like not great things and I feel like there's a way to put something feel like there's a way to put something feel like there's a way to put something good into the earth without like pushing good into the earth without like pushing good into the earth without like pushing like pushing it down people's throats like pushing it down people's throats like pushing it down people's throats like trying to do like some educational like trying to do like some educational like trying to do like some educational like it it's it's like when we did Earth like it it's it's like when we did Earth like it it's it's like when we did Earth like we made Earth and it had a really like we made Earth and it had a really like we made Earth and it had a really good sentiment behind it but it was good sentiment behind it but it was good sentiment behind it but it was talking about like your penis and a talking about like your penis and a talking about like your penis and a baboon's butt like it's like like I baboon's butt like it's like like I baboon's butt like it's like like I think there's a way think there's a way think there's a way >> to do something good for the world and >> to do something good for the world and >> to do something good for the world and not take yourself so seriously and we not take yourself so seriously and we not take yourself so seriously and we talk about real life on this talk about real life on this talk about real life on this podcast. It's not a podcast, but um podcast. It's not a podcast, but um podcast. It's not a podcast, but um >> I was waiting for that day. >> I was waiting for that day. >> I was waiting for that day. >> He's thinking Mr. >> He's thinking Mr. >> He's thinking Mr. >> It's not only >> It's not only >> It's not only >> Yeah, it's multimedia. >> Yeah, it's multimedia. >> Yeah, it's multimedia. >> Yeah, he wants to change the name to >> Yeah, he wants to change the name to >> Yeah, he wants to change the name to multidia. multidia. multidia. >> Multimedia. >> Multimedia. >> Multimedia. >> No one liked it but me. >> No one liked it but me. >> No one liked it but me. >> Yeah, right. >> Yeah, right. >> Yeah, right. >> It seems like 90s. That's what I It's >> It seems like 90s. That's what I It's >> It seems like 90s. That's what I It's cool. It's classic. Vintage. cool. It's classic. Vintage. cool. It's classic. Vintage. >> Vintage. >> Vintage. >> Vintage. >> No one wants it though, so it's still >> No one wants it though, so it's still >> No one wants it though, so it's still Friends Keep Secrets. Friends Keep Secrets. Friends Keep Secrets. >> Oh, you wanted to change the name to >> Oh, you wanted to change the name to >> Oh, you wanted to change the name to >> multi. Yeah, >> multi. Yeah, >> multi. Yeah, >> you like sent a serious text. >> you like sent a serious text. >> you like sent a serious text. >> That's amazing. I never got that dress. >> That's amazing. I never got that dress. >> That's amazing. I never got that dress. I just I just I just >> It hadn't made it to you yet. It got >> It hadn't made it to you yet. It got >> It hadn't made it to you yet. It got shot down. shot down. shot down. >> It's not the right idea. >> It's not the right idea. >> It's not the right idea. >> I don't think Benny replied. >> I don't think Benny replied. >> I don't think Benny replied. >> No, but that's what I love about what >> No, but that's what I love about what >> No, but that's what I love about what you guys can do. Like you guys are doing you guys can do. Like you guys are doing you guys can do. Like you guys are doing something that not a lot of people can something that not a lot of people can something that not a lot of people can do. You guys can have fun, be do. You guys can have fun, be do. You guys can have fun, be ridiculous, talk about crazy stuff, and ridiculous, talk about crazy stuff, and ridiculous, talk about crazy stuff, and have a moral message to wrap it up with, have a moral message to wrap it up with, have a moral message to wrap it up with, which is insane or not. And and I think which is insane or not. And and I think which is insane or not. And and I think that's the beautiful thing that you're that's the beautiful thing that you're that's the beautiful thing that you're making people feel close. But for you, making people feel close. But for you, making people feel close. But for you, Dave, like you're working with your wife Dave, like you're working with your wife Dave, like you're working with your wife and your best friend in the same space. and your best friend in the same space. and your best friend in the same space. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> I feel like you have the hardest job >> I feel like you have the hardest job >> I feel like you have the hardest job >> because that's you say that, >> because that's you say that, >> because that's you say that, >> you know. Yeah. I just wanted to >> you know. Yeah. I just wanted to >> you know. Yeah. I just wanted to empathize. I was like, take a moment to empathize. I was like, take a moment to empathize. I was like, take a moment to acknowledge that you're you're in the acknowledge that you're you're in the acknowledge that you're you're in the middle. Like how how does middle. Like how how does middle. Like how how does >> working with friends, loved ones is hard >> working with friends, loved ones is hard >> working with friends, loved ones is hard anyway. anyway. anyway. >> Yeah. Chuck, >> Yeah. Chuck, >> Yeah. Chuck, >> how are you? Uh >> how are you? Uh >> how are you? Uh >> yeah, Chuck, >> yeah, Chuck, >> yeah, Chuck, >> how are you managing it? Uh, look, I >> how are you managing it? Uh, look, I >> how are you managing it? Uh, look, I really had no fear going into it because really had no fear going into it because really had no fear going into it because I just know both of them so well and I just know both of them so well and I just know both of them so well and I've I just feel like I I wouldn't I've I just feel like I I wouldn't I've I just feel like I I wouldn't become this close with anyone if they if become this close with anyone if they if become this close with anyone if they if the person couldn't analyze whatever the person couldn't analyze whatever the person couldn't analyze whatever facts at hand that are and talk about facts at hand that are and talk about facts at hand that are and talk about them fairly, logically, whatever. So, them fairly, logically, whatever. So, them fairly, logically, whatever. So, I'm we get in little spats and arguments I'm we get in little spats and arguments I'm we get in little spats and arguments all the time. What's the roles usually? all the time. What's the roles usually? all the time. What's the roles usually? Who starts the fight? Who continues it? Who starts the fight? Who continues it? Who starts the fight? Who continues it? All three of us are equally annoying to All three of us are equally annoying to All three of us are equally annoying to all three. Like all three. Like all three. Like >> it really varies and all of us do >> it really varies and all of us do >> it really varies and all of us do different things. different things. different things. >> I love But I love all of them. They're >> I love But I love all of them. They're >> I love But I love all of them. They're so fun. so fun. so fun. >> But I just I just Sorry. >> But I just I just Sorry. >> But I just I just Sorry. >> No, go on. >> No, go on. >> No, go on. >> I just I just know that there's really >> I just I just know that there's really >> I just I just know that there's really no argument or moment that could ever be no argument or moment that could ever be no argument or moment that could ever be the type of thing that we couldn't the type of thing that we couldn't the type of thing that we couldn't logically talk about it and arrive at logically talk about it and arrive at logically talk about it and arrive at the facts at hand. So ultimately, I have the facts at hand. So ultimately, I have the facts at hand. So ultimately, I have no fear. I also have a pretty high no fear. I also have a pretty high no fear. I also have a pretty high tolerance for like understanding him, tolerance for like understanding him, tolerance for like understanding him, understanding her, understanding when to understanding her, understanding when to understanding her, understanding when to leave things be. And I think all of us leave things be. And I think all of us leave things be. And I think all of us kind of do and we're all so close that I kind of do and we're all so close that I kind of do and we're all so close that I don't know for me it's literally like I don't know for me it's literally like I don't know for me it's literally like I work so hard that nothing makes me work so hard that nothing makes me work so hard that nothing makes me happier than getting to work so hard and happier than getting to work so hard and happier than getting to work so hard and hang out with my best friend and wife hang out with my best friend and wife hang out with my best friend and wife while doing it. while doing it. while doing it. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And I think we all communicate the same >> And I think we all communicate the same >> And I think we all communicate the same way. Like we can kind of get like revved way. Like we can kind of get like revved way. Like we can kind of get like revved up and get like not aggressive but up and get like not aggressive but up and get like not aggressive but passionate. passionate. passionate. >> We're all aggressive >> We're all aggressive >> We're all aggressive >> but we don't take it like I feel like >> but we don't take it like I feel like >> but we don't take it like I feel like we'll do it and then like two seconds we'll do it and then like two seconds we'll do it and then like two seconds later we'll be like we'll be fine. And I later we'll be like we'll be fine. And I later we'll be like we'll be fine. And I think that's like it's unique to kind of think that's like it's unique to kind of think that's like it's unique to kind of find people that communicate the same find people that communicate the same find people that communicate the same way that you do in these moments. I way that you do in these moments. I way that you do in these moments. I mean, we can definitely get on each mean, we can definitely get on each mean, we can definitely get on each other's nerves, but it's never like like other's nerves, but it's never like like other's nerves, but it's never like like it's never like taken personal it's never like taken personal it's never like taken personal >> really. I'm never mad at anyone. >> really. I'm never mad at anyone. >> really. I'm never mad at anyone. >> That's what I'm saying. >> That's what I'm saying. >> That's what I'm saying. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Oh, you are annoyed. You get annoyed. >> Oh, you are annoyed. You get annoyed. >> Oh, you are annoyed. You get annoyed. >> No, but I'm never It's like what she's >> No, but I'm never It's like what she's >> No, but I'm never It's like what she's saying. saying. saying. >> Yeah. It goes like sucking the >> Yeah. It goes like sucking the >> Yeah. It goes like sucking the conversation. conversation. conversation. >> No one's ever mad at anyone. We get >> No one's ever mad at anyone. We get >> No one's ever mad at anyone. We get revved up together. Like Like I don't revved up together. Like Like I don't revved up together. Like Like I don't think I could ever like be like actually think I could ever like be like actually think I could ever like be like actually really angry at you guys. really angry at you guys. really angry at you guys. I don't think I don't think I don't think also none of us are that type of person. also none of us are that type of person. also none of us are that type of person. He's only been angry at me one time in He's only been angry at me one time in He's only been angry at me one time in his entire life and we were coming home his entire life and we were coming home his entire life and we were coming home from Coachella from Coachella from Coachella >> and he was really tired and he hadn't >> and he was really tired and he hadn't >> and he was really tired and he hadn't slept in the type of like situ. He slept in the type of like situ. He slept in the type of like situ. He hadn't had a full night's sleep in a few hadn't had a full night's sleep in a few hadn't had a full night's sleep in a few days and he needs a full night's sleep days and he needs a full night's sleep days and he needs a full night's sleep and he's getting his stuff out of the and he's getting his stuff out of the and he's getting his stuff out of the car and I'm getting my stuff out of the car and I'm getting my stuff out of the car and I'm getting my stuff out of the car and I kind of like like kicked his car and I kind of like like kicked his car and I kind of like like kicked his knee or something and and and knee or something and and and knee or something and and and >> yeah, I can't even remember. >> yeah, I can't even remember. >> yeah, I can't even remember. >> I think you like >> I think you like >> I think you like >> I like was like pushed me from behind >> I like was like pushed me from behind >> I like was like pushed me from behind playfully. Yeah, I was like pushing him playfully. Yeah, I was like pushing him playfully. Yeah, I was like pushing him like as a joke and he was like like as a joke and he was like like as a joke and he was like >> No, no, no. >> No, no, no. >> No, no, no. >> No, he pushed me playfully. >> No, he pushed me playfully. >> No, he pushed me playfully. >> Oh, yeah. You hit your shin >> Oh, yeah. You hit your shin >> Oh, yeah. You hit your shin >> and my shin hit the like the car. Yeah. >> and my shin hit the like the car. Yeah. >> and my shin hit the like the car. Yeah. And hurt so much. And hurt so much. And hurt so much. >> AND HE GOES, "GET OFF of me." And he was >> AND HE GOES, "GET OFF of me." And he was >> AND HE GOES, "GET OFF of me." And he was and then I laughed at him. It was He was and then I laughed at him. It was He was and then I laughed at him. It was He was angry for about 15 seconds. angry for about 15 seconds. angry for about 15 seconds. >> So, how do you guys make decisions then? >> So, how do you guys make decisions then? >> So, how do you guys make decisions then? >> Uh, vote. Group conversation. Group >> Uh, vote. Group conversation. Group >> Uh, vote. Group conversation. Group conversation. conversation. conversation. >> It can get got it. >> It can get got it. >> It can get got it. >> No, it gets revved up. It got revved up >> No, it gets revved up. It got revved up >> No, it gets revved up. It got revved up the other day. the other day. the other day. >> I like to bring the vote in, but she >> I like to bring the vote in, but she >> I like to bring the vote in, but she she'll never insert her opinion. she'll never insert her opinion. she'll never insert her opinion. >> I don't want the vote. I want us to talk >> I don't want the vote. I want us to talk >> I don't want the vote. I want us to talk it out. Talk it out. Talk it out. Talk >> I like the vote. He likes the We We So, >> I like the vote. He likes the We We So, >> I like the vote. He likes the We We So, it's a two out of three like the vote. I it's a two out of three like the vote. I it's a two out of three like the vote. I definitely think what what I I've definitely think what what I I've definitely think what what I I've noticed that I do sometimes feel this noticed that I do sometimes feel this noticed that I do sometimes feel this isn't like a bad thing. I can tell that isn't like a bad thing. I can tell that isn't like a bad thing. I can tell that I'm like a little bit more sensitive I'm like a little bit more sensitive I'm like a little bit more sensitive than the two of them. Like I think it's than the two of them. Like I think it's than the two of them. Like I think it's like a guy girl thing. Maybe not. I like a guy girl thing. Maybe not. I like a guy girl thing. Maybe not. I don't want to make such an assumption, don't want to make such an assumption, don't want to make such an assumption, but I I would say that like I would say but I I would say that like I would say but I I would say that like I would say that I am the more sensitive one of the that I am the more sensitive one of the that I am the more sensitive one of the three of us. Would you guys not? three of us. Would you guys not? three of us. Would you guys not? >> Well, I'm not sensitive. I'm not >> Well, I'm not sensitive. I'm not >> Well, I'm not sensitive. I'm not sensitive about that type of stuff. Like sensitive about that type of stuff. Like sensitive about that type of stuff. Like I'm sensitive like I'm crying in a I'm sensitive like I'm crying in a I'm sensitive like I'm crying in a movie, a song like Yeah, I'm not movie, a song like Yeah, I'm not movie, a song like Yeah, I'm not sensitive and I don't think Dave is sensitive and I don't think Dave is sensitive and I don't think Dave is either. Like if someone's just like like either. Like if someone's just like like either. Like if someone's just like like I want someone to tell me also in the I want someone to tell me also in the I want someone to tell me also in the studio all like I don't like the sugar studio all like I don't like the sugar studio all like I don't like the sugar coating like just if someone's just like coating like just if someone's just like coating like just if someone's just like oh like that that didn't work let's do oh like that that didn't work let's do oh like that that didn't work let's do this. I'm like oh great like let's try this. I'm like oh great like let's try this. I'm like oh great like let's try it again. it again. it again. >> I like that too. I'm chill. >> I like that too. I'm chill. >> I like that too. I'm chill. >> No you're sens Well you're sensitive in >> No you're sens Well you're sensitive in >> No you're sens Well you're sensitive in a she's sensitive in a different way a she's sensitive in a different way a she's sensitive in a different way that I get like me and Dave have been that I get like me and Dave have been that I get like me and Dave have been doing this. We've been in the foreground doing this. We've been in the foreground doing this. We've been in the foreground putting ourselves out there for many putting ourselves out there for many putting ourselves out there for many many years. This is Kristen's like first many years. This is Kristen's like first many years. This is Kristen's like first thing. is like everyone's first thing. is like everyone's first thing. is like everyone's first impression on her is like it's not like impression on her is like it's not like impression on her is like it's not like she's like back in the day where like it she's like back in the day where like it she's like back in the day where like it would be like Michael Jackson would would be like Michael Jackson would would be like Michael Jackson would perform once and you'd be like man I perform once and you'd be like man I perform once and you'd be like man I wonder what he's like as a guy. There wonder what he's like as a guy. There wonder what he's like as a guy. There was like no other media. We're seeing was like no other media. We're seeing was like no other media. We're seeing like every like nook and cranny like she like every like nook and cranny like she like every like nook and cranny like she like she'll like she'll burp or be like like she'll like she'll burp or be like like she'll like she'll burp or be like sweat. Yeah. And she's so sweat. Yeah. And she's so sweat. Yeah. And she's so >> honest and it's so rare that you see >> honest and it's so rare that you see >> honest and it's so rare that you see it's funny. I I like her and Selena, I it's funny. I I like her and Selena, I it's funny. I I like her and Selena, I see why they're such good friends cuz see why they're such good friends cuz see why they're such good friends cuz it's like there's so many similarities it's like there's so many similarities it's like there's so many similarities where like I feel like sometimes like where like I feel like sometimes like where like I feel like sometimes like you and Selena have this thing where you and Selena have this thing where you and Selena have this thing where you're both like so brutally honest you're both like so brutally honest you're both like so brutally honest about how you're feeling and it's like about how you're feeling and it's like about how you're feeling and it's like it's so comedic too. It's like funny. it's so comedic too. It's like funny. it's so comedic too. It's like funny. It's like hard I I like can't explain It's like hard I I like can't explain It's like hard I I like can't explain it. Yeah. Like you just saying like it. Yeah. Like you just saying like it. Yeah. Like you just saying like you're sweating. Like I feel like mo you're sweating. Like I feel like mo you're sweating. Like I feel like mo like most like especially cuz you guys like most like especially cuz you guys like most like especially cuz you guys are like so well put together and like are like so well put together and like are like so well put together and like >> I'm nothing like that. >> I'm nothing like that. >> I'm nothing like that. >> No. No, but like Selena will say the >> No. No, but like Selena will say the >> No. No, but like Selena will say the same thing. She'll be like, "I'm same thing. She'll be like, "I'm same thing. She'll be like, "I'm sweating and I'm having like an anxiety sweating and I'm having like an anxiety sweating and I'm having like an anxiety attack right now." Like, and I I love attack right now." Like, and I I love attack right now." Like, and I I love that about you guys. And I do feel like that about you guys. And I do feel like that about you guys. And I do feel like there's also a lot of use out there. And there's also a lot of use out there. And there's also a lot of use out there. And I think like you're going to inspire I think like you're going to inspire I think like you're going to inspire people so much because people so much because people so much because you know, you wear your insecurities on you know, you wear your insecurities on you know, you wear your insecurities on your sleeve in a cool way. And I like your sleeve in a cool way. And I like your sleeve in a cool way. And I like it. I I love it. I love it. How it. I I love it. I love it. How it. I I love it. I love it. How >> I like that it's cool. >> I like that it's cool. >> I like that it's cool. >> How does it feel for you, Kristen? Like >> How does it feel for you, Kristen? Like >> How does it feel for you, Kristen? Like obviously this is a big deal. It is the obviously this is a big deal. It is the obviously this is a big deal. It is the first time you're going to be first time you're going to be first time you're going to be >> This is the first interview you're >> This is the first interview you're >> This is the first interview you're doing. doing. doing. >> I almost didn't come. I was going to say >> I almost didn't come. I was going to say >> I almost didn't come. I was going to say that I had the stomach flu. I was like I that I had the stomach flu. I was like I that I had the stomach flu. I was like I was like thinking of was like thinking of was like thinking of >> so upset. I would have taken that so >> so upset. I would have taken that so >> so upset. I would have taken that so far. far. far. >> And you would have known. Well, I >> And you would have known. Well, I >> And you would have known. Well, I wouldn't have. Well, you shouldn't have. wouldn't have. Well, you shouldn't have. wouldn't have. Well, you shouldn't have. >> We would have >> We would have >> We would have more room. No, but I but I knew that um more room. No, but I but I knew that um more room. No, but I but I knew that um No, I actually like this interview. I'm No, I actually like this interview. I'm No, I actually like this interview. I'm doing fine. There is like a spit bubble doing fine. There is like a spit bubble doing fine. There is like a spit bubble that keeps coming through. Makes that keeps coming through. Makes that keeps coming through. Makes >> you smile. >> you smile. >> you smile. >> That's a little bit hard. No one else >> That's a little bit hard. No one else >> That's a little bit hard. No one else see anything. Yeah, see anything. Yeah, see anything. Yeah, >> right before we did this, she had a full >> right before we did this, she had a full >> right before we did this, she had a full thing of lipstick across her whole thing of lipstick across her whole thing of lipstick across her whole mouth, and I told her right before. mouth, and I told her right before. mouth, and I told her right before. >> Yeah. Has an argument ever lasted longer >> Yeah. Has an argument ever lasted longer >> Yeah. Has an argument ever lasted longer than the recording of one of the than the recording of one of the than the recording of one of the episodes? episodes? episodes? >> No. >> No. >> No. >> No. Is anyone's butt asleep? >> No. Is anyone's butt asleep? >> No. Is anyone's butt asleep? >> No. >> No. >> No. >> No, you got to reposition. >> No, you got to reposition. >> No, you got to reposition. >> Do you want to have a little walk >> Do you want to have a little walk >> Do you want to have a little walk around? around? around? >> No. No. >> No. No. >> No. No. >> You can if you want. No, I don't want >> You can if you want. No, I don't want >> You can if you want. No, I don't want to. to. to. >> No, I can't be the first man to ever >> No, I can't be the first man to ever >> No, I can't be the first man to ever >> just reposition your butt. Jay said that >> just reposition your butt. Jay said that >> just reposition your butt. Jay said that nobody has ever used the bathroom during nobody has ever used the bathroom during nobody has ever used the bathroom during an interview ever except him once an interview ever except him once an interview ever except him once >> with Kevin Hart. I felt so embarrassed. >> with Kevin Hart. I felt so embarrassed. >> with Kevin Hart. I felt so embarrassed. I was like, I was like, I was like, >> I can't. >> I can't. >> I can't. >> Kevin, do you mind if I use the >> Kevin, do you mind if I use the >> Kevin, do you mind if I use the bathroom? bathroom? bathroom? >> And then did you use this one? >> And then did you use this one? >> And then did you use this one? >> Yeah, the one back there. >> Yeah, the one back there. >> Yeah, the one back there. >> You know, I always ask people like I >> You know, I always ask people like I >> You know, I always ask people like I always wonder like always wonder like always wonder like >> do they use the bathroom? >> do they use the bathroom? >> do they use the bathroom? >> No. Like when like Adele is performing, >> No. Like when like Adele is performing, >> No. Like when like Adele is performing, like is she ever just like, "Oh my gosh, like is she ever just like, "Oh my gosh, like is she ever just like, "Oh my gosh, I ate something cra like like does like I ate something cra like like does like I ate something cra like like does like like does anyone have to poop ever?" like does anyone have to poop ever?" like does anyone have to poop ever?" >> The best like find a routine for moments >> The best like find a routine for moments >> The best like find a routine for moments in their life, right? Like that's how in their life, right? Like that's how in their life, right? Like that's how athletes play. athletes play. athletes play. >> My stuff is always right before >> My stuff is always right before >> My stuff is always right before >> I have to go to the bathroom. Like I pee >> I have to go to the bathroom. Like I pee >> I have to go to the bathroom. Like I pee when I'm nervous, which is so nice for when I'm nervous, which is so nice for when I'm nervous, which is so nice for our podcast because I get up and go to our podcast because I get up and go to our podcast because I get up and go to the bathroom like I would say like four the bathroom like I would say like four the bathroom like I would say like four times an episode. times an episode. times an episode. >> You also hydrate well there. >> You also hydrate well there. >> You also hydrate well there. >> Not really. It's honestly Yeah, I had to >> Not really. It's honestly Yeah, I had to >> Not really. It's honestly Yeah, I had to as soon as I sat down, but I've already as soon as I sat down, but I've already as soon as I sat down, but I've already gone. It's just nerves. Like, it's like gone. It's just nerves. Like, it's like gone. It's just nerves. Like, it's like to me it's a nerve- based thing. It's to me it's a nerve- based thing. It's to me it's a nerve- based thing. It's not actually I don't know. not actually I don't know. not actually I don't know. >> Chuck, do you think your pee is nerve- >> Chuck, do you think your pee is nerve- >> Chuck, do you think your pee is nerve- based? based? based? >> It's not pee, but I I'm surprised at how >> It's not pee, but I I'm surprised at how >> It's not pee, but I I'm surprised at how often I'll have to poop like 30 minutes often I'll have to poop like 30 minutes often I'll have to poop like 30 minutes before a concert. before a concert. before a concert. >> Oh, yeah. I can relate to that. I can >> Oh, yeah. I can relate to that. I can >> Oh, yeah. I can relate to that. I can relate to that. relate to that. relate to that. >> What is that nerve? That's all you're >> What is that nerve? That's all you're >> What is that nerve? That's all you're doing. doing. doing. I have to like evacuate before when I I have to like evacuate before when I I have to like evacuate before when I used to like used to like used to like >> I did it before 5 minutes before going >> I did it before 5 minutes before going >> I did it before 5 minutes before going st st st >> when I was when I was younger when I >> when I was when I was younger when I >> when I was when I was younger when I like first like really in New York like like first like really in New York like like first like really in New York like first got on the dating scene I used to first got on the dating scene I used to first got on the dating scene I used to anytime anytime anytime I was going to have a date with a girl I was going to have a date with a girl I was going to have a date with a girl and she was about to come over and we and she was about to come over and we and she was about to come over and we were going to leave I would like I'd were going to leave I would like I'd were going to leave I would like I'd have to poop like 2 minutes before it have to poop like 2 minutes before it have to poop like 2 minutes before it would happen every time until like I got would happen every time until like I got would happen every time until like I got really comfortable really comfortable really comfortable And I would be I would be honest like I And I would be I would be honest like I And I would be I would be honest like I used to use that as one of my like ice used to use that as one of my like ice used to use that as one of my like ice breakers or like my other breakers or like my other breakers or like my other >> to >> to >> to >> No, I would just like be like my other >> No, I would just like be like my other >> No, I would just like be like my other icebreaker I would say is I would say I icebreaker I would say is I would say I icebreaker I would say is I would say I don't usually do this these but what's don't usually do this these but what's don't usually do this these but what's the worst thing you've ever done in your the worst thing you've ever done in your the worst thing you've ever done in your entire life? And then we'd both say the entire life? And then we'd both say the entire life? And then we'd both say the worst thing we ever did in our whole worst thing we ever did in our whole worst thing we ever did in our whole life and I'd be like okay now I feel life and I'd be like okay now I feel life and I'd be like okay now I feel like I know you and I also have like I know you and I also have like I know you and I also have blackmail on you in case like this blackmail on you in case like this blackmail on you in case like this doesn't go well. How did you come up doesn't go well. How did you come up doesn't go well. How did you come up with that? Did it work? with that? Did it work? with that? Did it work? >> Did you break the >> Did you break the >> Did you break the >> I didn't do it with I didn't do it with >> I didn't do it with I didn't do it with >> I didn't do it with I didn't do it with Selena. Selena. Selena. >> There you go. >> There you go. >> There you go. >> I feel like you always think like I like >> I feel like you always think like I like >> I feel like you always think like I like through dating I was like oh like I met through dating I was like oh like I met through dating I was like oh like I met my soulmate or like oh I met the person my soulmate or like oh I met the person my soulmate or like oh I met the person I could spend the rest of my life with. I could spend the rest of my life with. I could spend the rest of my life with. But it's so different when you actually But it's so different when you actually But it's so different when you actually meet the person that you are going to meet the person that you are going to meet the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with. It was spend the rest of your life with. It was spend the rest of your life with. It was such a different feeling and all and I such a different feeling and all and I such a different feeling and all and I like went back and I was like wo those like went back and I was like wo those like went back and I was like wo those feelings when I was younger like that it feelings when I was younger like that it feelings when I was younger like that it was so different cuz it just clicks. You was so different cuz it just clicks. You was so different cuz it just clicks. You know what I'm saying? It clicks in a know what I'm saying? It clicks in a know what I'm saying? It clicks in a different way. different way. different way. >> What's Selena's reaction when she sees >> What's Selena's reaction when she sees >> What's Selena's reaction when she sees you cry at the altar like at on the you cry at the altar like at on the you cry at the altar like at on the wedding day? Like what's her reaction to wedding day? Like what's her reaction to wedding day? Like what's her reaction to that? that? that? >> Trying to compare it to Radi's reaction >> Trying to compare it to Radi's reaction >> Trying to compare it to Radi's reaction of me crying. I think she cried and then of me crying. I think she cried and then of me crying. I think she cried and then while it was all going on, we were while it was all going on, we were while it was all going on, we were laughing and just like talking to each laughing and just like talking to each laughing and just like talking to each other like while everything was other like while everything was other like while everything was happening. I've cried I've cried in happening. I've cried I've cried in happening. I've cried I've cried in front of her plenty of times. Not I'm I front of her plenty of times. Not I'm I front of her plenty of times. Not I'm I I cry. I cry. I'm I'm a Pisces. I'm a I cry. I cry. I'm I'm a Pisces. I'm a I cry. I cry. I'm I'm a Pisces. I'm a little fish. little fish. little fish. >> Are you a Pisces? >> Are you a Pisces? >> Are you a Pisces? >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> dude. That that makes sense. >> dude. That that makes sense. >> dude. That that makes sense. >> Are you a Pisces? >> Are you a Pisces? >> Are you a Pisces? >> No, all my all my closest male friends >> No, all my all my closest male friends >> No, all my all my closest male friends are Pisces. are Pisces. are Pisces. >> Really? What are you? I'm a I'm a Virgo. >> Really? What are you? I'm a I'm a Virgo. >> Really? What are you? I'm a I'm a Virgo. >> Oh, my mom is Virgo. >> Oh, my mom is Virgo. >> Oh, my mom is Virgo. >> I'm a Virgo, but I don't really >> I'm a Virgo, but I don't really >> I'm a Virgo, but I don't really identify. I'm on the cusp. identify. I'm on the cusp. identify. I'm on the cusp. >> I'm pretty >> I'm pretty >> I'm pretty You do have very Virgo. You do have very Virgo. You do have very Virgo. >> When's your birthday? >> When's your birthday? >> When's your birthday? >> 6th September. >> 6th September. >> 6th September. >> Have you ever had like a person on here >> Have you ever had like a person on here >> Have you ever had like a person on here that's an expert at all that type? that's an expert at all that type? that's an expert at all that type? >> Yes, I had an astrology expert, Channy >> Yes, I had an astrology expert, Channy >> Yes, I had an astrology expert, Channy Nichols, a couple of weeks ago. And that Nichols, a couple of weeks ago. And that Nichols, a couple of weeks ago. And that did that person make you feel like it's did that person make you feel like it's did that person make you feel like it's actual kind of scientific fact because actual kind of scientific fact because actual kind of scientific fact because I'm you know I'm you know I'm you know >> whenever anyone brings up sign or >> whenever anyone brings up sign or >> whenever anyone brings up sign or anything I want to be like what the are anything I want to be like what the are anything I want to be like what the are we talking like that stuff's so we talking like that stuff's so we talking like that stuff's so inconsequential but then there are inconsequential but then there are inconsequential but then there are >> so many times where it seems spot on. >> so many times where it seems spot on. >> so many times where it seems spot on. Did that expert uh say that it's real? Did that expert uh say that it's real? Did that expert uh say that it's real? You should have them on. You should have them on. You should have them on. >> Yeah, we should. Yeah, that would be >> Yeah, we should. Yeah, that would be >> Yeah, we should. Yeah, that would be really cool. I think you'd ask questions really cool. I think you'd ask questions really cool. I think you'd ask questions right give us the cliff notes. right give us the cliff notes. right give us the cliff notes. >> Well, you go. >> Well, you go. >> Well, you go. >> The cliff notes is I'm I'm kind of like >> The cliff notes is I'm I'm kind of like >> The cliff notes is I'm I'm kind of like you. So I I have an understanding of you. So I I have an understanding of you. So I I have an understanding of like eastern astrology which is very like eastern astrology which is very like eastern astrology which is very deeply scientific. The number of deeply scientific. The number of deeply scientific. The number of astrologers that are available are astrologers that are available are astrologers that are available are non-existent now. Like it's hard but it non-existent now. Like it's hard but it non-existent now. Like it's hard but it does exist. And I've had people tell me does exist. And I've had people tell me does exist. And I've had people tell me crazy things like predict they predicted crazy things like predict they predicted crazy things like predict they predicted like how many kids they would have and like how many kids they would have and like how many kids they would have and the first name of their partner and all the first name of their partner and all the first name of their partner and all that kind of stuff. And then you have that kind of stuff. And then you have that kind of stuff. And then you have what we have today where you have what we have today where you have what we have today where you have horoscopes which of course the daily horoscopes which of course the daily horoscopes which of course the daily horoscope you read is like kind of made horoscope you read is like kind of made horoscope you read is like kind of made up. up. up. >> And so it's kind of finding that >> And so it's kind of finding that >> And so it's kind of finding that balance. Her take was there's lots of balance. Her take was there's lots of balance. Her take was there's lots of truth to it. It's all based on the truth to it. It's all based on the truth to it. It's all based on the planets and how they align. There's lots planets and how they align. There's lots planets and how they align. There's lots of ways of checking the system and of ways of checking the system and of ways of checking the system and making sure that it's valuable insight, making sure that it's valuable insight, making sure that it's valuable insight, but the amount of people that are but the amount of people that are but the amount of people that are actually doing that today are very actually doing that today are very actually doing that today are very little. little. little. >> So, it's almost like there's a lot of uh >> So, it's almost like there's a lot of uh >> So, it's almost like there's a lot of uh mics, not enough real MC's. Maybe that's mics, not enough real MC's. Maybe that's mics, not enough real MC's. Maybe that's >> I feel like when I moved to LA, the >> I feel like when I moved to LA, the >> I feel like when I moved to LA, the amount of people that seem to operate amount of people that seem to operate amount of people that seem to operate off of that having so much consequence off of that having so much consequence off of that having so much consequence blew like I I feel like I'm on an island blew like I I feel like I'm on an island blew like I I feel like I'm on an island as the only guy who's like, "This isn't as the only guy who's like, "This isn't as the only guy who's like, "This isn't real." real." real." >> Yeah. I've just followed a weird pattern >> Yeah. I've just followed a weird pattern >> Yeah. I've just followed a weird pattern that all my best male friends are born that all my best male friends are born that all my best male friends are born in March. Yeah. Like it's just a strange in March. Yeah. Like it's just a strange in March. Yeah. Like it's just a strange also born in March. Jay, also born in March. Jay, also born in March. Jay, >> wow. We haven't had enough time yet, but >> wow. We haven't had enough time yet, but >> wow. We haven't had enough time yet, but I'm looking forward to it. But I'm looking forward to it. But I'm looking forward to it. But seriously, my my best friend growing up seriously, my my best friend growing up seriously, my my best friend growing up was 14th of March. My best friend who was 14th of March. My best friend who was 14th of March. My best friend who was my best man at the wedding 16th of was my best man at the wedding 16th of was my best man at the wedding 16th of March. March. March. >> 15th. >> 15th. >> 15th. >> My closest friend in LA is 18th of >> My closest friend in LA is 18th of >> My closest friend in LA is 18th of March. March. March. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Like it's just it's crazy. >> Like it's just it's crazy. >> Like it's just it's crazy. >> And I'm 8th of March. >> And I'm 8th of March. >> And I'm 8th of March. >> Same as my sister who I'm really good >> Same as my sister who I'm really good >> Same as my sister who I'm really good friends with. friends with. friends with. >> 8th of March. >> 8th of March. >> 8th of March. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Do Pisces and Virgos >> Do Pisces and Virgos >> Do Pisces and Virgos >> I Well, I assume so. So many. I know >> I Well, I assume so. So many. I know >> I Well, I assume so. So many. I know Pisces and Cancers really are that's Pisces and Cancers really are that's Pisces and Cancers really are that's Cancer. Thanks. Cancer. Thanks. Cancer. Thanks. >> We got to talk to that person. >> We got to talk to that person. >> We got to talk to that person. >> Well, yeah, but maybe you should have >> Well, yeah, but maybe you should have >> Well, yeah, but maybe you should have them on the show. them on the show. them on the show. >> We should. >> We should. >> We should. >> All right. What I wanted to do is I >> All right. What I wanted to do is I >> All right. What I wanted to do is I wanted to play a game that we created wanted to play a game that we created wanted to play a game that we created for you. So, your show is called Friends for you. So, your show is called Friends for you. So, your show is called Friends Keep Secrets. Keep Secrets. Keep Secrets. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> We came up with Friends Don't Keep >> We came up with Friends Don't Keep >> We came up with Friends Don't Keep Secrets. Really creative. It's like, you Secrets. Really creative. It's like, you Secrets. Really creative. It's like, you know, know, know, >> but we played a couple game with Benny. >> but we played a couple game with Benny. >> but we played a couple game with Benny. So, we thought we'd play a throppples So, we thought we'd play a throppples So, we thought we'd play a throppples game with with you guys. game with with you guys. game with with you guys. >> Fun. I love games. >> Fun. I love games. >> Fun. I love games. >> I'm going to give you one of these. >> I'm going to give you one of these. >> I'm going to give you one of these. >> We did this >> We did this >> We did this >> for Benny and Selena. There we go. This >> for Benny and Selena. There we go. This >> for Benny and Selena. There we go. This is all about Kristen first. is all about Kristen first. is all about Kristen first. >> Cool. >> Cool. >> Cool. >> So, the way this work is the players >> So, the way this work is the players >> So, the way this work is the players will write down their partners' will write down their partners' will write down their partners' potential answers to questions before potential answers to questions before potential answers to questions before comparing answers. So, this is all about comparing answers. So, this is all about comparing answers. So, this is all about Kristen. We're both going to guess. Kristen. We're both going to guess. Kristen. We're both going to guess. We're all going to guess what hopefully We're all going to guess what hopefully We're all going to guess what hopefully Kristen writes down. And then we're Kristen writes down. And then we're Kristen writes down. And then we're going to see and then we're going to do going to see and then we're going to do going to see and then we're going to do each of you and you write down your each of you and you write down your each of you and you write down your answers. answers. answers. >> We're writing down what we think Kristen >> We're writing down what we think Kristen >> We're writing down what we think Kristen is writing. is writing. is writing. >> Correct. Correct. If Kristen could >> Correct. Correct. If Kristen could >> Correct. Correct. If Kristen could change one thing about Dave, what would change one thing about Dave, what would change one thing about Dave, what would it be? it be? it be? >> I always had a fear of playing this type >> I always had a fear of playing this type >> I always had a fear of playing this type of game. of game. of game. >> Hold on. Hold on. Why? Hold on. >> Hold on. Hold on. Why? Hold on. >> Hold on. Hold on. Why? Hold on. >> Cuz then I just would feel bad about >> Cuz then I just would feel bad about >> Cuz then I just would feel bad about like do I not know anything about the like do I not know anything about the like do I not know anything about the people that I'm so close with. people that I'm so close with. people that I'm so close with. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> But I am confident >> But I am confident >> But I am confident >> in your answer. I feel like you know the >> in your answer. I feel like you know the >> in your answer. I feel like you know the answer. answer. answer. >> So fun. Like it's not like a therapy >> So fun. Like it's not like a therapy >> So fun. Like it's not like a therapy test. test. test. >> I literally say it out loud all the >> I literally say it out loud all the >> I literally say it out loud all the time. time. time. >> Mine's true. >> Mine's true. >> Mine's true. >> So the question is if Kristen could >> So the question is if Kristen could >> So the question is if Kristen could change one thing about Dave, what would change one thing about Dave, what would change one thing about Dave, what would it be? Kristen, please reveal your it be? Kristen, please reveal your it be? Kristen, please reveal your answer. Read it to answer. Read it to answer. Read it to >> that he likes wine. >> that he likes wine. >> that he likes wine. >> What? >> What? >> What? >> I don't like wine. >> I don't like wine. >> I don't like wine. >> The one thing I would change would be >> The one thing I would change would be >> The one thing I would change would be that you like to drink wine. You don't that you like to drink wine. You don't that you like to drink wine. You don't like wine. like wine. like wine. >> Change it. Yeah. >> Change it. Yeah. >> Change it. Yeah. >> I don't think you understand. >> I don't think you understand. >> I don't think you understand. >> Hold on. Shouldn't she be >> Hold on. Shouldn't she be >> Hold on. Shouldn't she be >> No. If Kristen could change one thing >> No. If Kristen could change one thing >> No. If Kristen could change one thing about Dave, what would it be? She would about Dave, what would it be? She would about Dave, what would it be? She would change that you would like wine. change that you would like wine. change that you would like wine. >> That you would enjoy >> That you would enjoy >> That you would enjoy >> change that I don't like wine. >> change that I don't like wine. >> change that I don't like wine. >> Correct. >> Correct. >> Correct. >> Correct. >> Correct. >> Correct. >> So, what did you write? >> So, what did you write? >> So, what did you write? >> I thought this was definitely the >> I thought this was definitely the >> I thought this was definitely the answer. How I chew and smack my lips answer. How I chew and smack my lips answer. How I chew and smack my lips when I eat. when I eat. when I eat. >> Oh, >> Oh, >> Oh, >> mine was >> mine was >> mine was >> going on dates or being more fun. >> going on dates or being more fun. >> going on dates or being more fun. >> What? >> What? >> What? >> Well, I think that they're all >> Well, I think that they're all >> Well, I think that they're all >> I was certain she was going to put that. >> I was certain she was going to put that. >> I was certain she was going to put that. >> I thought you I was 100% sure you were >> I thought you I was 100% sure you were >> I thought you I was 100% sure you were going to say that. I mean, I literally going to say that. I mean, I literally going to say that. I mean, I literally say this all the time. I say, "I wish say this all the time. I say, "I wish say this all the time. I say, "I wish you drank wine." you drank wine." you drank wine." >> I mean, wine is kind of in in the same >> I mean, wine is kind of in in the same >> I mean, wine is kind of in in the same world as the being fine. Yeah. Yeah. world as the being fine. Yeah. Yeah. world as the being fine. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> The reason I didn't I don't write this. >> The reason I didn't I don't write this. >> The reason I didn't I don't write this. >> You think about that? >> You think about that? >> You think about that? >> No. But you're also really good about >> No. But you're also really good about >> No. But you're also really good about not getting annoyed when I get annoyed not getting annoyed when I get annoyed not getting annoyed when I get annoyed with you about that. with you about that. with you about that. >> But were you thinking about mine a >> But were you thinking about mine a >> But were you thinking about mine a little too? Well, I guess you little too? Well, I guess you little too? Well, I guess you >> I figured you I figured yours would be >> I figured you I figured yours would be >> I figured you I figured yours would be that. that. that. >> I knew what he was going to write. >> I knew what he was going to write. >> I knew what he was going to write. >> My mom has been complaining about the >> My mom has been complaining about the >> My mom has been complaining about the way that I smack my lips my whole life. way that I smack my lips my whole life. way that I smack my lips my whole life. >> Well, you have a little bit of a >> Well, you have a little bit of a >> Well, you have a little bit of a problem. problem. problem. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Okay. What's our next >> Okay. What's our next >> Okay. What's our next >> All right. Okay. So, the next one is, >> All right. Okay. So, the next one is, >> All right. Okay. So, the next one is, "What's something Benny and Kristen "What's something Benny and Kristen "What's something Benny and Kristen always side with each other on that always side with each other on that always side with each other on that drives Dave crazy?" drives Dave crazy?" drives Dave crazy?" >> Actually, I'll just keep mine. There's >> Actually, I'll just keep mine. There's >> Actually, I'll just keep mine. There's two. There's two that I actually know. two. There's two that I actually know. two. There's two that I actually know. >> Okay. Who she's >> Okay. Who she's >> Okay. Who she's >> All right. So, the question was, "What's >> All right. So, the question was, "What's >> All right. So, the question was, "What's something Benny and Kristen always side something Benny and Kristen always side something Benny and Kristen always side with each other on that drives Dave with each other on that drives Dave with each other on that drives Dave crazy? Kristen, please reveal your crazy? Kristen, please reveal your crazy? Kristen, please reveal your answer." answer." answer." >> Okay, I have two. The sec the second one >> Okay, I have two. The sec the second one >> Okay, I have two. The sec the second one that I'm about to say, I know he'll get that I'm about to say, I know he'll get that I'm about to say, I know he'll get mad about. mad about. mad about. >> So, you don't have to say it then. >> So, you don't have to say it then. >> So, you don't have to say it then. >> Okay. Well, I I like to stir the pot >> Okay. Well, I I like to stir the pot >> Okay. Well, I I like to stir the pot both of them. Okay. One, working less. both of them. Okay. One, working less. both of them. Okay. One, working less. Oh, that would Oh, that would Oh, that would >> two his I would say putting music on. >> two his I would say putting music on. >> two his I would say putting music on. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> Oh, no. Benny's on my side. >> Oh, no. Benny's on my side. >> Oh, no. Benny's on my side. >> Yeah, I'm on Dave's side. Well, I'm some >> Yeah, I'm on Dave's side. Well, I'm some >> Yeah, I'm on Dave's side. Well, I'm some more. more. more. >> No, you're on my side. >> No, you're on my side. >> No, you're on my side. >> Coming off nicer while texting. >> Coming off nicer while texting. >> Coming off nicer while texting. >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. >> That's what I thought. >> That's what I thought. >> That's what I thought. >> I forgot about that. >> I forgot about that. >> I forgot about that. >> I I wrote that I can be too hands-on, >> I I wrote that I can be too hands-on, >> I I wrote that I can be too hands-on, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> No, I love that you're about that. >> No, I love that you're about that. >> No, I love that you're about that. >> Wait, look. This is nice. This is good >> Wait, look. This is nice. This is good >> Wait, look. This is nice. This is good feedback. We love your hands on feedback. We love your hands on feedback. We love your hands on >> I thought you were g I thought one of >> I thought you were g I thought one of >> I thought you were g I thought one of you guys was going to say you guys was going to say you guys was going to say >> are we bad at this game? >> are we bad at this game? >> are we bad at this game? >> No. No. This is good. It's a hard game. >> No. No. This is good. It's a hard game. >> No. No. This is good. It's a hard game. It's meant to be hard. It's me. Yeah. It's meant to be hard. It's me. Yeah. It's meant to be hard. It's me. Yeah. >> We're learning new things about our >> We're learning new things about our >> We're learning new things about our about each other that we did now. about each other that we did now. about each other that we did now. >> The texting was a good guess. >> The texting was a good guess. >> The texting was a good guess. >> And the things is your the things that >> And the things is your the things that >> And the things is your the things that you think you're that people don't like you think you're that people don't like you think you're that people don't like you actually they love about you. That you actually they love about you. That you actually they love about you. That is nice. is nice. is nice. >> We love you Mochi. >> We love you Mochi. >> We love you Mochi. >> I love you guys. >> I love you guys. >> I love you guys. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> All right. When was the last time >> All right. When was the last time >> All right. When was the last time Kristen admitted that she was wrong? Kristen admitted that she was wrong? Kristen admitted that she was wrong? What makes you think I'm ever wrong? What makes you think I'm ever wrong? What makes you think I'm ever wrong? >> She'd change. It's There's too much >> She'd change. It's There's too much >> She'd change. It's There's too much wavering to know cuz she'll go up and wavering to know cuz she'll go up and wavering to know cuz she'll go up and down about the right and wrong. down about the right and wrong. down about the right and wrong. >> Depends on what mood I'm in. I would say >> Depends on what mood I'm in. I would say >> Depends on what mood I'm in. I would say >> wrong. >> wrong. >> wrong. >> I would say I think >> I would say I think >> I would say I think >> I can't remember. >> I can't remember. >> I can't remember. >> I'm just going to have a little >> I'm just going to have a little >> I'm just going to have a little >> Do you know something? The last >> Do you know something? The last >> Do you know something? The last >> You can give a time frame. >> You can give a time frame. >> You can give a time frame. >> Yeah, I'm doing that. >> Yeah, I'm doing that. >> Yeah, I'm doing that. >> Yeah. Good. Yeah. Yeah. Like last month, >> Yeah. Good. Yeah. Yeah. Like last month, >> Yeah. Good. Yeah. Yeah. Like last month, 10 years ago. 10 years ago. 10 years ago. >> They're going to >> They're going to >> They're going to >> 12 years ago. 12 months ago. I mean, I >> 12 years ago. 12 months ago. I mean, I >> 12 years ago. 12 months ago. I mean, I don't even know if I'm actually wrong. don't even know if I'm actually wrong. don't even know if I'm actually wrong. >> You could write that down if you want, >> You could write that down if you want, >> You could write that down if you want, Gra. Gra. Gra. >> I'm trying to think. I mean, I'm so in >> I'm trying to think. I mean, I'm so in >> I'm trying to think. I mean, I'm so in infrequently wrong. >> I love it. I love it. >> I love it. I love it. >> I really It's hard to catch me. >> I really It's hard to catch me. >> I really It's hard to catch me. >> I like the thinking going on. This is >> I like the thinking going on. This is >> I like the thinking going on. This is good. good. good. >> She's wrong. When was the last time she >> She's wrong. When was the last time she >> She's wrong. When was the last time she goes, "Benny, you know what? I'm wrong. goes, "Benny, you know what? I'm wrong. goes, "Benny, you know what? I'm wrong. I admit it." I admit it." I admit it." >> Well, we film There was a time that we >> Well, we film There was a time that we >> Well, we film There was a time that we filmed something. Oh, only only if she's filmed something. Oh, only only if she's filmed something. Oh, only only if she's caught in the act on the like caught in the act on the like caught in the act on the like >> only if I see the footage. >> only if I see the footage. >> only if I see the footage. >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. That that is that is I know. >> Oh, yeah. That that is that is I know. >> Oh, yeah. That that is that is I know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> It's just a specific argument. What's >> It's just a specific argument. What's >> It's just a specific argument. What's the argument? the argument? the argument? >> There's a bunch. Yeah, there's a Yeah. >> There's a bunch. Yeah, there's a Yeah. >> There's a bunch. Yeah, there's a Yeah. >> What was I Oh, I don't know if I'm >> What was I Oh, I don't know if I'm >> What was I Oh, I don't know if I'm wrong. I have to see the footage. wrong. I have to see the footage. wrong. I have to see the footage. >> You saw the footage >> You saw the footage >> You saw the footage >> basically. >> basically. >> basically. >> No, you don't even need to. It doesn't >> No, you don't even need to. It doesn't >> No, you don't even need to. It doesn't matter. matter. matter. >> I don't I'm free. >> I don't I'm free. >> I don't I'm free. >> I won't get into too much nuance. >> I won't get into too much nuance. >> I won't get into too much nuance. Basically, they got in an argument that Basically, they got in an argument that Basically, they got in an argument that Kristen was claiming that Benny kind of Kristen was claiming that Benny kind of Kristen was claiming that Benny kind of >> said something, >> said something, >> said something, >> brought something up to get under her >> brought something up to get under her >> brought something up to get under her skin, right? skin, right? skin, right? >> And Benny was like, "You're the one who >> And Benny was like, "You're the one who >> And Benny was like, "You're the one who brought this thing up in the first brought this thing up in the first brought this thing up in the first place." And she was like, "No, I place." And she was like, "No, I place." And she was like, "No, I wasn't." And then we went into the wasn't." And then we went into the wasn't." And then we went into the control room and we said, "Play us back control room and we said, "Play us back control room and we said, "Play us back the or how we even got here." And then the or how we even got here." And then the or how we even got here." And then we watched the footage as we're filming we watched the footage as we're filming we watched the footage as we're filming the thing and Kristen did actually bring the thing and Kristen did actually bring the thing and Kristen did actually bring She brought it up. see what we're She brought it up. see what we're She brought it up. see what we're talking. talking. talking. >> Yeah, he was amazing. >> Yeah, he was amazing. >> Yeah, he was amazing. >> I brought it up, but I but but you know, >> I brought it up, but I but but you know, >> I brought it up, but I but but you know, but I get it. I get it. I get her side but I get it. I get it. I get her side but I get it. I get it. I get her side as well. I get her side as well. Okay, as well. I get her side as well. Okay, as well. I get her side as well. Okay, next question. next question. next question. >> We did good. All right. All right. We're >> We did good. All right. All right. We're >> We did good. All right. All right. We're going to switch to Dave now. So, it's going to switch to Dave now. So, it's going to switch to Dave now. So, it's all about Dave. all about Dave. all about Dave. >> Bread and butter. >> Bread and butter. >> Bread and butter. >> Who does Dave trust most for honest >> Who does Dave trust most for honest >> Who does Dave trust most for honest feedback? Not just in the group, in the feedback? Not just in the group, in the feedback? Not just in the group, in the world. world. world. >> Oh, I know exactly what you're doing. >> Oh, I know exactly what you're doing. >> Oh, I know exactly what you're doing. >> What? >> What? >> What? >> Well, I think I know what you're what is >> Well, I think I know what you're what is >> Well, I think I know what you're what is going through. going through. going through. >> Don't let >> Don't let >> Don't let >> Oh, yeah. But to me, the answer is is >> Oh, yeah. But to me, the answer is is >> Oh, yeah. But to me, the answer is is actually pretty simple. actually pretty simple. actually pretty simple. >> The answer is >> The answer is >> The answer is answers. answers. answers. >> All right. So, the question was, who >> All right. So, the question was, who >> All right. So, the question was, who does Dave trust most for honest does Dave trust most for honest does Dave trust most for honest feedback? Dave, please reveal. feedback? Dave, please reveal. feedback? Dave, please reveal. >> Benny and Kristen is the answer to that >> Benny and Kristen is the answer to that >> Benny and Kristen is the answer to that question. Now, I know they both probably question. Now, I know they both probably question. Now, I know they both probably think Jack and Henry. think Jack and Henry. think Jack and Henry. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> What? >> What? >> What? >> Oh, I said, what did you write? I said >> Oh, I said, what did you write? I said >> Oh, I said, what did you write? I said me and Kristen. And then I said friends me and Kristen. And then I said friends me and Kristen. And then I said friends from home, but I was thinking of the from home, but I was thinking of the from home, but I was thinking of the joiner situation, but it wasn't. It was joiner situation, but it wasn't. It was joiner situation, but it wasn't. It was just that he was right. So, just that he was right. So, just that he was right. So, >> yeah. I both of them like look Benny for >> yeah. I both of them like look Benny for >> yeah. I both of them like look Benny for music I I no song would ever come out music I I no song would ever come out music I I no song would ever come out without having him hear it and analyze without having him hear it and analyze without having him hear it and analyze it, critique hits, say it's worthy, it, critique hits, say it's worthy, it, critique hits, say it's worthy, point out whatever flaws could exist. point out whatever flaws could exist. point out whatever flaws could exist. Kristen's the exact same thing for like Kristen's the exact same thing for like Kristen's the exact same thing for like TV and film. Like any script or thing TV and film. Like any script or thing TV and film. Like any script or thing like I I really trust both of their like I I really trust both of their like I I really trust both of their instincts. instincts. instincts. >> What did you write? >> What did you write? >> What did you write? >> I wrote his mom or me or Jeff Schaefer >> I wrote his mom or me or Jeff Schaefer >> I wrote his mom or me or Jeff Schaefer or Benny. or Benny. or Benny. >> My mom told me not to be a rapper. She >> My mom told me not to be a rapper. She >> My mom told me not to be a rapper. She said so. Okay. So, but I think yeah, said so. Okay. So, but I think yeah, said so. Okay. So, but I think yeah, >> you're on the list. You just >> you're on the list. You just >> you're on the list. You just >> those two. No question. >> those two. No question. >> those two. No question. >> I love that for sure. >> I love that for sure. >> I love that for sure. >> We got some of it right. >> We got some of it right. >> We got some of it right. >> Both of you are not narcissists. You >> Both of you are not narcissists. You >> Both of you are not narcissists. You didn't write yourselves, right? didn't write yourselves, right? didn't write yourselves, right? >> No, I wrote. >> No, I wrote. >> No, I wrote. >> Oh, you see. >> Oh, you see. >> Oh, you see. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. That's great. That's great. That's great. >> I knew the It's not being a nar. I just >> I knew the It's not being a nar. I just >> I knew the It's not being a nar. I just knew the answer. knew the answer. knew the answer. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Okay. What's our next >> Okay. What's our next >> Okay. What's our next >> All right. So, if you called Dave >> All right. So, if you called Dave >> All right. So, if you called Dave because you run someone over, would he because you run someone over, would he because you run someone over, would he help you bury the body? Would he call help you bury the body? Would he call help you bury the body? Would he call the cops or would he tell you to call the cops or would he tell you to call the cops or would he tell you to call the cops? the cops? the cops? >> Those are my only three options. Call >> Those are my only three options. Call >> Those are my only three options. Call the cops. the cops. the cops. >> This is it. >> This is it. >> This is it. >> It's Dave's fault. >> It's Dave's fault. >> It's Dave's fault. >> Wait, no. You're saying, >> Wait, no. You're saying, >> Wait, no. You're saying, >> "Oh, I killed I ran someone over." >> "Oh, I killed I ran someone over." >> "Oh, I killed I ran someone over." >> Yeah. Yeah. You ran someone over. >> Yeah. Yeah. You ran someone over. >> Yeah. Yeah. You ran someone over. >> Wait. Yeah. >> Wait. Yeah. >> Wait. Yeah. >> Yeah. And then you call these guys and >> Yeah. And then you call these guys and >> Yeah. And then you call these guys and I'm saying, "Would you tell them to I'm saying, "Would you tell them to I'm saying, "Would you tell them to Wait, wait, wait. I I can Wait, wait, wait. I I can Wait, wait, wait. I I can if one of them did it." if one of them did it." if one of them did it." >> Yeah. Yeah. Sorry, sorry, sorry. If you >> Yeah. Yeah. Sorry, sorry, sorry. If you >> Yeah. Yeah. Sorry, sorry, sorry. If you called it Sorry. If Yes. My bad. Thank called it Sorry. If Yes. My bad. Thank called it Sorry. If Yes. My bad. Thank you so much for correcting me. I was you so much for correcting me. I was you so much for correcting me. I was wrong. wrong. wrong. Let this be in my statement that I admit Let this be in my statement that I admit Let this be in my statement that I admit it was wrong. If you ran someone over it was wrong. If you ran someone over it was wrong. If you ran someone over and you called Dave, and you called Dave, and you called Dave, >> what's he going to >> what's he going to >> what's he going to >> tell them what happened? Would he help >> tell them what happened? Would he help >> tell them what happened? Would he help you bury the body? Would he call the you bury the body? Would he call the you bury the body? Would he call the cops himself or would he tell you to cops himself or would he tell you to cops himself or would he tell you to disappear? disappear? disappear? >> Disappear is a new new one. >> Disappear is a new new one. >> Disappear is a new new one. >> Yeah, I'm adding a third. I'm changing. >> Yeah, I'm adding a third. I'm changing. >> Yeah, I'm adding a third. I'm changing. >> What if I had the opportunity to change >> What if I had the opportunity to change >> What if I had the opportunity to change it? it? it? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> But is it our fault though or was it an >> But is it our fault though or was it an >> But is it our fault though or was it an accident? accident? accident? >> It's an accident. Obviously, you didn't >> It's an accident. Obviously, you didn't >> It's an accident. Obviously, you didn't do it on purpose. What would Dave tell do it on purpose. What would Dave tell do it on purpose. What would Dave tell you to do? This is This is a test of you to do? This is This is a test of you to do? This is This is a test of Dave's character. Dave's character. Dave's character. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Oh, that's >> Oh, that's >> Oh, that's >> I like framing it that way. >> I like framing it that way. >> I like framing it that way. >> Yeah. >> I feel like I I know. I feel like I have >> I feel like I I know. I feel like I have the black marker all over cuz I've been the black marker all over cuz I've been the black marker all over cuz I've been doodling. doodling. doodling. >> All right, Dave. What would you do? >> All right, Dave. What would you do? >> All right, Dave. What would you do? >> I can see yours, Dave, but I don't know. >> I can see yours, Dave, but I don't know. >> I can see yours, Dave, but I don't know. >> Dave would disappear. They would tell >> Dave would disappear. They would tell >> Dave would disappear. They would tell you to You tell them to disappear. I you to You tell them to disappear. I you to You tell them to disappear. I never want to see you again. never want to see you again. never want to see you again. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> I was kidding about the second sentence, >> I was kidding about the second sentence, >> I was kidding about the second sentence, but disappear. Disappear. Get out of but disappear. Disappear. Get out of but disappear. Disappear. Get out of here. Get Go. I said he would analyze here. Get Go. I said he would analyze here. Get Go. I said he would analyze all the facts at hand. all the facts at hand. all the facts at hand. >> That's what I would do. That's a great >> That's what I would do. That's a great >> That's what I would do. That's a great answer to that conversation. Kristen, answer to that conversation. Kristen, answer to that conversation. Kristen, what did you what did you what did you >> I said he would tell he would tell us to >> I said he would tell he would tell us to >> I said he would tell he would tell us to call the cops. I think at the end of the call the cops. I think at the end of the call the cops. I think at the end of the day, day, day, >> I think he would have to analyze all the >> I think he would have to analyze all the >> I think he would have to analyze all the facts at hand. facts at hand. facts at hand. >> Yeah, let's talk about this. There's >> Yeah, let's talk about this. There's >> Yeah, let's talk about this. There's this is the first question we've really this is the first question we've really this is the first question we've really had a had a had a >> Don't you agree? >> Don't you agree? >> Don't you agree? >> I definitely wouldn't bury the bot. Like >> I definitely wouldn't bury the bot. Like >> I definitely wouldn't bury the bot. Like I I think I would talk I can't get I I I think I would talk I can't get I I I think I would talk I can't get I can't get wrapped up in criminal can't get wrapped up in criminal can't get wrapped up in criminal activity like that. But nor would I call activity like that. But nor would I call activity like that. But nor would I call the cops that like behind their back the cops that like behind their back the cops that like behind their back ever. I think I would try to convince ever. I think I would try to convince ever. I think I would try to convince that person why the thing to do is just that person why the thing to do is just that person why the thing to do is just call the cops and call the cops and call the cops and >> I think you'd have to analyze all the >> I think you'd have to analyze all the >> I think you'd have to analyze all the facts facts facts >> or disappear. Yeah. Disappear. >> or disappear. Yeah. Disappear. >> or disappear. Yeah. Disappear. >> You would do the right thing ultimately. >> You would do the right thing ultimately. >> You would do the right thing ultimately. >> Yes. But here's what I'm not willing to >> Yes. But here's what I'm not willing to >> Yes. But here's what I'm not willing to bury a body for you or anyone. bury a body for you or anyone. bury a body for you or anyone. I am willing to perhaps hear of I am willing to perhaps hear of I am willing to perhaps hear of something something something and just pretend that I never heard of and just pretend that I never heard of and just pretend that I never heard of it. Yeah. Let's change the subject. it. Yeah. Let's change the subject. it. Yeah. Let's change the subject. >> Yeah. Yeah. We change the subject. We >> Yeah. Yeah. We change the subject. We >> Yeah. Yeah. We change the subject. We change the subject. change the subject. change the subject. >> He does you do a lot of OCD around that >> He does you do a lot of OCD around that >> He does you do a lot of OCD around that subject. Yeah. subject. Yeah. subject. Yeah. >> All right. All right. Okay. We'll do >> All right. All right. Okay. We'll do >> All right. All right. Okay. We'll do we'll do Benny. We'll do Benny. Couple we'll do Benny. We'll do Benny. Couple we'll do Benny. We'll do Benny. Couple of questions on Benny. Good stuff for of questions on Benny. Good stuff for of questions on Benny. Good stuff for Dave. What's something Benny pretends Dave. What's something Benny pretends Dave. What's something Benny pretends doesn't bother him but actually does? doesn't bother him but actually does? doesn't bother him but actually does? >> He doesn't really ever pretend. >> He doesn't really ever pretend. >> He doesn't really ever pretend. >> Yes, he does. >> Yes, he does. >> Yes, he does. >> I do. Okay. Let me try to think. >> I do. Okay. Let me try to think. >> I do. Okay. Let me try to think. >> I'm going to try two. Can I >> I'm going to try two. Can I >> I'm going to try two. Can I >> You can have two. >> You can have two. >> You can have two. >> Kristen could get this right. What is >> Kristen could get this right. What is >> Kristen could get this right. What is it? Or do I do mine first? it? Or do I do mine first? it? Or do I do mine first? >> Yes. Benny reveal. >> Yes. Benny reveal. >> Yes. Benny reveal. >> Putting things in my fridge incorrectly. >> Putting things in my fridge incorrectly. >> Putting things in my fridge incorrectly. >> I was going to say that. >> I was going to say that. >> I was going to say that. >> Oh, that's a good answer. >> Oh, that's a good answer. >> Oh, that's a good answer. >> I was going to say that. I don't think >> I was going to say that. I don't think >> I was going to say that. I don't think you pretend that that doesn't happen. you pretend that that doesn't happen. you pretend that that doesn't happen. >> I do for anyone else except Kristen. >> I do for anyone else except Kristen. >> I do for anyone else except Kristen. >> I was going to say I was going to say, >> I was going to say I was going to say, >> I was going to say I was going to say, but then I'm like, you're so overtly but then I'm like, you're so overtly but then I'm like, you're so overtly out. out. out. >> That's why you didn't let me put your >> That's why you didn't let me put your >> That's why you didn't let me put your stuff in the fridge today. stuff in the fridge today. stuff in the fridge today. >> No, no, I didn't put it in. >> No, no, I didn't put it in. >> No, no, I didn't put it in. >> I just wanted to be taken out a little >> I just wanted to be taken out a little >> I just wanted to be taken out a little bit. bit. bit. >> If he puts out something >> If he puts out something >> If he puts out something musically that has the potential to go musically that has the potential to go musically that has the potential to go number one and it doesn't go number one, number one and it doesn't go number one, number one and it doesn't go number one, he'll say to to everyone else, I'm not he'll say to to everyone else, I'm not he'll say to to everyone else, I'm not bothered by not going number one. But I bothered by not going number one. But I bothered by not going number one. But I think it bothers him to not go number think it bothers him to not go number think it bothers him to not go number one, go number two. one, go number two. one, go number two. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> If number one is achieve, you know, >> If number one is achieve, you know, >> If number one is achieve, you know, certain songs they have no chance. certain songs they have no chance. certain songs they have no chance. Certain albums they have no chance. Certain albums they have no chance. Certain albums they have no chance. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Um so not going number one. >> Um so not going number one. >> Um so not going number one. >> You're saying if it's achievable. >> You're saying if it's achievable. >> You're saying if it's achievable. >> You're saying if it's achieve if like if >> You're saying if it's achieve if like if >> You're saying if it's achieve if like if I'm going to go like if I'm going to go I'm going to go like if I'm going to go I'm going to go like if I'm going to go 60 doesn't matter. But if I'm going to 60 doesn't matter. But if I'm going to 60 doesn't matter. But if I'm going to go number two one, you don't have if you go number two one, you don't have if you go number two one, you don't have if you have the expectation that a number one have the expectation that a number one have the expectation that a number one is within reach and you go three or two is within reach and you go three or two is within reach and you go three or two or 10. or 10. or 10. >> I can relate to that. >> I can relate to that. >> I can relate to that. >> You're annoyed. Which I will >> You're annoyed. Which I will >> You're annoyed. Which I will >> I'll tell you I'm going to tell you my >> I'll tell you I'm going to tell you my >> I'll tell you I'm going to tell you my answer after. answer after. answer after. >> Um and then my other thing is >> Um and then my other thing is >> Um and then my other thing is uh Benny's favorite line as of this year uh Benny's favorite line as of this year uh Benny's favorite line as of this year is I don't care about anything. I've is I don't care about anything. I've is I don't care about anything. I've never heard Benny say anything more than never heard Benny say anything more than never heard Benny say anything more than I don't care about you about anything. I don't care about you about anything. I don't care about you about anything. And I think uh often times that he'll And I think uh often times that he'll And I think uh often times that he'll say that when we're talking about say that when we're talking about say that when we're talking about something that we both care about and if something that we both care about and if something that we both care about and if it seems like I want something that he it seems like I want something that he it seems like I want something that he doesn't want. doesn't want. doesn't want. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> He will say I don't care about anything. >> He will say I don't care about anything. >> He will say I don't care about anything. But I know he cares. He just wants to But I know he cares. He just wants to But I know he cares. He just wants to stop talking about it. stop talking about it. stop talking about it. >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay. And then I'll answer >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay. And then I'll answer >> Yeah. Yeah. Okay. And then I'll answer them all after. them all after. them all after. >> Go. Yeah. Go. >> Go. Yeah. Go. >> Go. Yeah. Go. >> Mine is not sticking with the plan like >> Mine is not sticking with the plan like >> Mine is not sticking with the plan like with a plan or the plan which is kind of with a plan or the plan which is kind of with a plan or the plan which is kind of in relation to like I think I don't care in relation to like I think I don't care in relation to like I think I don't care about anything. If you I think if you if about anything. If you I think if you if about anything. If you I think if you if you start to feel the loss of control you start to feel the loss of control you start to feel the loss of control instead, Benny will just be like, I instead, Benny will just be like, I instead, Benny will just be like, I don't care about anything. Doesn't don't care about anything. Doesn't don't care about anything. Doesn't matter. It does. matter. It does. matter. It does. >> Go on, Benny. You have to defend >> Go on, Benny. You have to defend >> Go on, Benny. You have to defend yourself. yourself. yourself. >> This thing I don't feel. I don't >> This thing I don't feel. I don't >> This thing I don't feel. I don't even understand it really, but I I even understand it really, but I I even understand it really, but I I don't. But don't. But don't. But >> what do you mean? It's not sticking with >> what do you mean? It's not sticking with >> what do you mean? It's not sticking with the plan. What more do you need to the plan. What more do you need to the plan. What more do you need to understand? understand? understand? >> I don't understand the concept. that I >> I don't understand the concept. that I >> I don't understand the concept. that I don't care about anything is like this don't care about anything is like this don't care about anything is like this to me when to me when to me when I'm having a conversation with someone. I'm having a conversation with someone. I'm having a conversation with someone. I'll just use Dave as the example. when I'll just use Dave as the example. when I'll just use Dave as the example. when I'm talking to someone and like usually I'm talking to someone and like usually I'm talking to someone and like usually pretty quickly into a conversation, I pretty quickly into a conversation, I pretty quickly into a conversation, I can figure out whether this person is can figure out whether this person is can figure out whether this person is going to be like even receptive to like going to be like even receptive to like going to be like even receptive to like the information that I'm saying or the information that I'm saying or the information that I'm saying or whether I think that they're they have whether I think that they're they have whether I think that they're they have like something made up in their mind and like something made up in their mind and like something made up in their mind and like there's such a minute chance of me like there's such a minute chance of me like there's such a minute chance of me changing it and then I say in my head I changing it and then I say in my head I changing it and then I say in my head I say, "Well, is this ever going to say, "Well, is this ever going to say, "Well, is this ever going to change? Is it that important if it change? Is it that important if it change? Is it that important if it doesn't? And then just to nip it in the doesn't? And then just to nip it in the doesn't? And then just to nip it in the butt, I'll be like, I don't really care butt, I'll be like, I don't really care butt, I'll be like, I don't really care about anything. And then that's my thing about anything. And then that's my thing about anything. And then that's my thing with the number one thing. with the number one thing. with the number one thing. >> It used to be very true to me. That used >> It used to be very true to me. That used >> It used to be very true to me. That used to be so true to me. I was fixated on to be so true to me. I was fixated on to be so true to me. I was fixated on getting the number one at any cost. Like getting the number one at any cost. Like getting the number one at any cost. Like even if it was number 40, like I was even if it was number 40, like I was even if it was number 40, like I was like I I like had to I used to be when I like I I like had to I used to be when I like I I like had to I used to be when I was younger, I used to really really was younger, I used to really really was younger, I used to really really care care care >> so much that I felt like I wasn't even >> so much that I felt like I wasn't even >> so much that I felt like I wasn't even enjoying the things in front of me enjoying the things in front of me enjoying the things in front of me because I was like so like I'd get the because I was like so like I'd get the because I was like so like I'd get the number one like in something I'd be the number one like in something I'd be the number one like in something I'd be the best at it. Like I'd have like a number best at it. Like I'd have like a number best at it. Like I'd have like a number one Billboard record and then I'd be not one Billboard record and then I'd be not one Billboard record and then I'd be not even like celebrate. I'd be like, "Yeah, even like celebrate. I'd be like, "Yeah, even like celebrate. I'd be like, "Yeah, yeah, that's cool." And then like move yeah, that's cool." And then like move yeah, that's cool." And then like move on to the next thing and I wouldn't even on to the next thing and I wouldn't even on to the next thing and I wouldn't even think about it. And I feel like I feel think about it. And I feel like I feel think about it. And I feel like I feel like that was so true to me for so many like that was so true to me for so many like that was so true to me for so many years of my life and honestly until years of my life and honestly until years of my life and honestly until pretty recently until probably like 4 pretty recently until probably like 4 pretty recently until probably like 4 years ago and then it was really years ago and then it was really years ago and then it was really solidified solidified solidified honestly with with Selena because I felt honestly with with Selena because I felt honestly with with Selena because I felt like I won. I won it and I already did I like I won. I won it and I already did I like I won. I won it and I already did I already know that like I solidified what already know that like I solidified what already know that like I solidified what I wanted to do and it was like the first I wanted to do and it was like the first I wanted to do and it was like the first time in my life where I didn't care. time in my life where I didn't care. time in my life where I didn't care. That doesn't mean that if it is in That doesn't mean that if it is in That doesn't mean that if it is in sight, I'm going to do everything in my sight, I'm going to do everything in my sight, I'm going to do everything in my physical power to try to do the best physical power to try to do the best physical power to try to do the best thing I can because that's just the type thing I can because that's just the type thing I can because that's just the type of person I am. I love the competition. of person I am. I love the competition. of person I am. I love the competition. I love striving for the greatness, but I love striving for the greatness, but I love striving for the greatness, but it doesn't have the same importance that it doesn't have the same importance that it doesn't have the same importance that it did have on me for so long. It used it did have on me for so long. It used it did have on me for so long. It used to have me in like a chokeold and then to have me in like a chokeold and then to have me in like a chokeold and then like I felt like I was finally freed of like I felt like I was finally freed of like I felt like I was finally freed of that like in the last like four or five that like in the last like four or five that like in the last like four or five years and it was like years and it was like years and it was like >> so freeing. But I understand both sides. >> so freeing. But I understand both sides. >> so freeing. But I understand both sides. I completely do. Yeah, I can relate to I completely do. Yeah, I can relate to I completely do. Yeah, I can relate to it. Yeah, it. Yeah, it. Yeah, >> I understand. Like I used to be the guy >> I understand. Like I used to be the guy >> I understand. Like I used to be the guy looking every week at the chart seeing looking every week at the chart seeing looking every week at the chart seeing if we were getting clo and I was so I if we were getting clo and I was so I if we were getting clo and I was so I put so much importance on it and I don't put so much importance on it and I don't put so much importance on it and I don't even know why I did because I didn't even know why I did because I didn't even know why I did because I didn't even care when I got it like but I think even care when I got it like but I think even care when I got it like but I think I did care but I was so fixated on I did care but I was so fixated on I did care but I was so fixated on getting the I getting the I getting the I >> probably just relieved when you got it. >> probably just relieved when you got it. >> probably just relieved when you got it. >> Yeah. Yeah. I think I was probably just >> Yeah. Yeah. I think I was probably just >> Yeah. Yeah. I think I was probably just relieved and it was like such a rat race relieved and it was like such a rat race relieved and it was like such a rat race and I'm so happy to be free of it. But I and I'm so happy to be free of it. But I and I'm so happy to be free of it. But I do also understand that side of me when do also understand that side of me when do also understand that side of me when I was so into it cuz I'm like, "Yeah, I was so into it cuz I'm like, "Yeah, I was so into it cuz I'm like, "Yeah, that's cool to do that." But it is also that's cool to do that." But it is also that's cool to do that." But it is also cool to be like totally free of it. And cool to be like totally free of it. And cool to be like totally free of it. And I think the healthy medium is probably I think the healthy medium is probably I think the healthy medium is probably somewhere in the middle. somewhere in the middle. somewhere in the middle. >> Somewhere in the middle. Yeah. >> Somewhere in the middle. Yeah. >> Somewhere in the middle. Yeah. >> Well, thank you guys. Thank you for >> Well, thank you guys. Thank you for >> Well, thank you guys. Thank you for playing. That started off some really playing. That started off some really playing. That started off some really intense conversations. intense conversations. intense conversations. >> We can do a few more or I can take you >> We can do a few more or I can take you >> We can do a few more or I can take you to our ending three questions. to our ending three questions. to our ending three questions. >> I'd like to do a few more. >> I'd like to do a few more. >> I'd like to do a few more. >> Enjoy writing on the board. >> Enjoy writing on the board. >> Enjoy writing on the board. >> You guys should cancel all your plans >> You guys should cancel all your plans >> You guys should cancel all your plans after I'm staying. after I'm staying. after I'm staying. >> All right. Okay. These are more fun >> All right. Okay. These are more fun >> All right. Okay. These are more fun ones. Who is most likely to survive a ones. Who is most likely to survive a ones. Who is most likely to survive a zombie apocalypse? Now you get to zombie apocalypse? Now you get to zombie apocalypse? Now you get to freefor-all. Write down anyone. freefor-all. Write down anyone. freefor-all. Write down anyone. >> When it has to be out of the three of >> When it has to be out of the three of >> When it has to be out of the three of us. us. us. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Okay. Three, two, one, reveal. >> Okay. Three, two, one, reveal. >> Okay. Three, two, one, reveal. >> What you said? >> What you said? >> What you said? >> Oh, why Benny? Everyone chose the same >> Oh, why Benny? Everyone chose the same >> Oh, why Benny? Everyone chose the same bathroom. Why Benny? bathroom. Why Benny? bathroom. Why Benny? >> I just have more skill. Like >> I just have more skill. Like >> I just have more skill. Like >> I'm the last. No question. That's >> I'm the last. No question. That's >> I'm the last. No question. That's between those two. And I just think men between those two. And I just think men between those two. And I just think men physically are stronger than women. physically are stronger than women. physically are stronger than women. >> What? >> What? >> What? >> Physically, >> Physically, >> Physically, >> right? But why would that have to come >> right? But why would that have to come >> right? But why would that have to come into battle? I'm going I thought it was into battle? I'm going I thought it was into battle? I'm going I thought it was like going by like the resourcefulness. like going by like the resourcefulness. like going by like the resourcefulness. >> Well, then I definitely would win >> Well, then I definitely would win >> Well, then I definitely would win because I feel like I can strategically because I feel like I can strategically because I feel like I can strategically >> person's pretty athletic, too. >> person's pretty athletic, too. >> person's pretty athletic, too. >> No, I just mean >> No, I just mean >> No, I just mean >> Well, yeah. >> Well, yeah. >> Well, yeah. >> I don't know. My instinct was to say, >> I don't know. My instinct was to say, >> I don't know. My instinct was to say, >> it's not me. I'm the I'm the last. >> it's not me. I'm the I'm the last. >> it's not me. I'm the I'm the last. >> Well, everyone rated each other on >> Well, everyone rated each other on >> Well, everyone rated each other on different score cards. different score cards. different score cards. >> Okay, what's the next? >> Okay, what's the next? >> Okay, what's the next? >> All right, the next question is, who >> All right, the next question is, who >> All right, the next question is, who takes the longest to reply to text? takes the longest to reply to text? takes the longest to reply to text? You're pretty responsive with me. You're pretty responsive with me. You're pretty responsive with me. >> He responds to every Oh, Kristen. >> He responds to every Oh, Kristen. >> He responds to every Oh, Kristen. >> No, Kristen's so good. >> No, Kristen's so good. >> No, Kristen's so good. >> Oh, she Kristen's terrible. I don't even >> Oh, she Kristen's terrible. I don't even >> Oh, she Kristen's terrible. I don't even >> I thought you always made fun of me and >> I thought you always made fun of me and >> I thought you always made fun of me and I never respond. I never respond. I never respond. >> I actually think I actually think >> I actually think I actually think >> I actually think I actually think Kristen's worse than you. Kristen's worse than you. Kristen's worse than you. >> I just don't respond >> I just don't respond >> I just don't respond >> because both of them >> because both of them >> because both of them >> Does she respond to you? >> Does she respond to you? >> Does she respond to you? >> Kristen has never texted me since we >> Kristen has never texted me since we >> Kristen has never texted me since we met. So that that that says it all. met. So that that that says it all. met. So that that that says it all. >> Kristen will respond to only me and she >> Kristen will respond to only me and she >> Kristen will respond to only me and she responds to me relatively timely. Benny responds to me relatively timely. Benny responds to me relatively timely. Benny will respond to and she doesn't respond will respond to and she doesn't respond will respond to and she doesn't respond to anyone else ever. to anyone else ever. to anyone else ever. >> No, it's that's not true. Let me say >> No, it's that's not true. Let me say >> No, it's that's not true. Let me say this. I mean, I do I did I do have a this. I mean, I do I did I do have a this. I mean, I do I did I do have a little bit of anxiety with texting. little bit of anxiety with texting. little bit of anxiety with texting. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, I and I don't like to ever feel like >> So, I and I don't like to ever feel like >> So, I and I don't like to ever feel like I have to do like I don't wake up in the I have to do like I don't wake up in the I have to do like I don't wake up in the morning and read my text. Like, I think morning and read my text. Like, I think morning and read my text. Like, I think that's where I am going wrong. And now I that's where I am going wrong. And now I that's where I am going wrong. And now I have like I think 1,600 unread text have like I think 1,600 unread text have like I think 1,600 unread text messages. messages. messages. >> It's going to be it's going to be a lot >> It's going to be it's going to be a lot >> It's going to be it's going to be a lot more DMs and more DMs and more DMs and >> Well, I don't look at my DMs. I've never >> Well, I don't look at my DMs. I've never >> Well, I don't look at my DMs. I've never looked at DMs. looked at DMs. looked at DMs. >> She's not public. No, but now, >> She's not public. No, but now, >> She's not public. No, but now, >> but I don't even look at my friends. >> but I don't even look at my friends. >> but I don't even look at my friends. Dave has still not going to be public. Dave has still not going to be public. Dave has still not going to be public. >> No, we'll see. >> No, we'll see. >> No, we'll see. >> I don't think you should. I like >> I don't think you should. I like >> I don't think you should. I like >> Benny. Benny responds to every text like >> Benny. Benny responds to every text like >> Benny. Benny responds to every text like no matter what. no matter what. no matter what. >> Yes, agree. >> Yes, agree. >> Yes, agree. >> It's just there's like a 72-hour backup. >> It's just there's like a 72-hour backup. >> It's just there's like a 72-hour backup. >> You're pretty and he does it, you know, >> You're pretty and he does it, you know, >> You're pretty and he does it, you know, he's doing it in the morning and it will he's doing it in the morning and it will he's doing it in the morning and it will like sometimes he'll respond to like a like sometimes he'll respond to like a like sometimes he'll respond to like a text that doesn't even make sense text that doesn't even make sense text that doesn't even make sense anymore and you'll just get like haha. anymore and you'll just get like haha. anymore and you'll just get like haha. >> He'll respond to like a group chat like >> He'll respond to like a group chat like >> He'll respond to like a group chat like two days later and and it's so not two days later and and it's so not two days later and and it's so not relevant anymore. relevant anymore. relevant anymore. >> Everyone's moved on. >> Everyone's moved on. >> Everyone's moved on. >> But he's still catching up. >> But he's still catching up. >> But he's still catching up. >> Yeah, he's catching up. I text in >> Yeah, he's catching up. I text in >> Yeah, he's catching up. I text in spurts. Like you'll you'll if if if I'm spurts. Like you'll you'll if if if I'm spurts. Like you'll you'll if if if I'm like paying attention to my phone, I'll like paying attention to my phone, I'll like paying attention to my phone, I'll have a I'll be there. have a I'll be there. have a I'll be there. >> Kristen like you know her parents will >> Kristen like you know her parents will >> Kristen like you know her parents will be like, "Hey, do you think you could be like, "Hey, do you think you could be like, "Hey, do you think you could tell Kristen to respond to tell Kristen to respond to tell Kristen to respond to >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> I got a text on the way here from my mom >> I got a text on the way here from my mom >> I got a text on the way here from my mom that was saying, "Hey, could you read that was saying, "Hey, could you read that was saying, "Hey, could you read the family text and please respond?" No the family text and please respond?" No the family text and please respond?" No way. way. way. >> And I thought, I am in the car. >> And I thought, I am in the car. >> And I thought, I am in the car. >> She's the worst at text. She really is. >> She's the worst at text. She really is. >> She's the worst at text. She really is. >> Rod's the same. >> Rod's the same. >> Rod's the same. >> It's hard. Yeah, Rod's the same. >> It's hard. Yeah, Rod's the same. >> It's hard. Yeah, Rod's the same. >> My phone's a beeper. It's just for >> My phone's a beeper. It's just for >> My phone's a beeper. It's just for emergencies. emergencies. emergencies. >> I'll respond instantly with way too >> I'll respond instantly with way too >> I'll respond instantly with way too much. with too much. much. with too much. much. with too much. >> I appreciate that though because then I >> I appreciate that though because then I >> I appreciate that though because then I feel like there's texture to the text feel like there's texture to the text feel like there's texture to the text and like we can actually get someone. and like we can actually get someone. and like we can actually get someone. >> Okay, I'll text you just so you know >> Okay, I'll text you just so you know >> Okay, I'll text you just so you know that I'm capable. that I'm capable. that I'm capable. >> I'm I'm waiting for that text. I've been >> I'm I'm waiting for that text. I've been >> I'm I'm waiting for that text. I've been texting with these guys for like a year texting with these guys for like a year texting with these guys for like a year and a half now. and a half now. and a half now. >> Yeah. Well, >> Yeah. Well, >> Yeah. Well, >> okay. Next one. Who would accidentally >> okay. Next one. Who would accidentally >> okay. Next one. Who would accidentally start a cult? start a cult? start a cult? >> Go for it. Reveal. >> Go for it. Reveal. >> Go for it. Reveal. >> Oh, me. You put me in it. >> Oh, me. You put me in it. >> Oh, me. You put me in it. >> I'm not one of the people. I'm not a >> I'm not one of the people. I'm not a >> I'm not one of the people. I'm not a cult. cult. cult. >> No, I was trying to think. We wouldn't >> No, I was trying to think. We wouldn't >> No, I was trying to think. We wouldn't be your yours. You're you have more of be your yours. You're you have more of be your yours. You're you have more of like the soothing thing like your your like the soothing thing like your your like the soothing thing like your your your message could like re like being your message could like re like being your message could like re like being like tranquil like no one wants to join like tranquil like no one wants to join like tranquil like no one wants to join our cult. our cult. our cult. >> The reason I said Kristen I only said >> The reason I said Kristen I only said >> The reason I said Kristen I only said Kristen because Kristen because Kristen because >> we don't I I could definitely be like a >> we don't I I could definitely be like a >> we don't I I could definitely be like a cult. cult. cult. >> Kristen, everyone likes Kristen and >> Kristen, everyone likes Kristen and >> Kristen, everyone likes Kristen and Kristen loves everyone she meets and Kristen loves everyone she meets and Kristen loves everyone she meets and thinks she's going to be the best thinks she's going to be the best thinks she's going to be the best friend. That is true. So it's like so friend. That is true. So it's like so friend. That is true. So it's like so many people that she runs into she she many people that she runs into she she many people that she runs into she she could end up thinking that they're going could end up thinking that they're going could end up thinking that they're going to be close and then all of a sudden to be close and then all of a sudden to be close and then all of a sudden there's like, you know, a cult somehow. there's like, you know, a cult somehow. there's like, you know, a cult somehow. I don't know. Yeah. Okay. Did you style I don't know. Yeah. Okay. Did you style I don't know. Yeah. Okay. Did you style your hair to be like us today? your hair to be like us today? your hair to be like us today? >> Yeah. I was like, it's very style. >> Yeah. I was like, it's very style. >> Yeah. I was like, it's very style. >> My hair is always like this. >> My hair is always like this. >> My hair is always like this. >> Yeah. You guys all have like a similar >> Yeah. You guys all have like a similar >> Yeah. You guys all have like a similar look. look. look. >> This is the first time we've had three >> This is the first time we've had three >> This is the first time we've had three people with curly hair on the show at people with curly hair on the show at people with curly hair on the show at the same time. the same time. the same time. >> You got the staff. Did they give you all >> You got the staff. Did they give you all >> You got the staff. Did they give you all these? I'm making them up. I'm making these? I'm making them up. I'm making these? I'm making them up. I'm making them up. them up. them up. >> First time we've had three. >> First time we've had three. >> First time we've had three. >> Three people with curly hair. >> Three people with curly hair. >> Three people with curly hair. >> You guys do have the same hairstyle. >> You guys do have the same hairstyle. >> You guys do have the same hairstyle. >> They do. So, we have like variations of >> They do. So, we have like variations of >> They do. So, we have like variations of >> like longer. Would it like fro out? >> like longer. Would it like fro out? >> like longer. Would it like fro out? >> Yeah. It's like my hair is like My >> Yeah. It's like my hair is like My >> Yeah. It's like my hair is like My hair's like this naturally. hair's like this naturally. hair's like this naturally. Yeah, but it's like I feel like it's Yeah, but it's like I feel like it's Yeah, but it's like I feel like it's it's like evolution of hair is like me it's like evolution of hair is like me it's like evolution of hair is like me to Dave to Betty. It's like it's like to Dave to Betty. It's like it's like to Dave to Betty. It's like it's like that. It's like that. It's like that. It's like >> evolution. >> evolution. >> evolution. >> It is evolution. What do you guys say? >> It is evolution. What do you guys say? >> It is evolution. What do you guys say? >> Evolution. >> Evolution. >> Evolution. >> Evolution. >> Evolution. >> Evolution. >> But we I like evolution. >> But we I like evolution. >> But we I like evolution. >> Aluminium. >> Aluminium. >> Aluminium. >> Aluminium. Yeah. Aluminum is what you >> Aluminium. Yeah. Aluminum is what you >> Aluminium. Yeah. Aluminum is what you >> Oh, you call it aluminium. >> Oh, you call it aluminium. >> Oh, you call it aluminium. >> Aluminium. Aluminium. >> Aluminium. Aluminium. >> Aluminium. Aluminium. >> There's another few word. There's one >> There's another few word. There's one >> There's another few word. There's one word that you I can't think of it now word that you I can't think of it now word that you I can't think of it now and it's unfortunate. and it's unfortunate. and it's unfortunate. >> The food. The food. What do you call >> The food. The food. What do you call >> The food. The food. What do you call >> There's one word you always say. I can't >> There's one word you always say. I can't >> There's one word you always say. I can't remember it, but you say different. No, remember it, but you say different. No, remember it, but you say different. No, it's like it's like it's like >> also people say they say so you in >> also people say they say so you in >> also people say they say so you in America you would say like his name is America you would say like his name is America you would say like his name is Dave, but like if we were British we Dave, but like if we were British we Dave, but like if we were British we would say he's called Dave. would say he's called Dave. would say he's called Dave. >> How do you say innovative? >> How do you say innovative? >> How do you say innovative? >> Innovative. That's what innovative. >> Innovative. That's what innovative. >> Innovative. That's what innovative. >> That's what you said. >> That's what you said. >> That's what you said. >> Yeah, innovative. I had to think about >> Yeah, innovative. I had to think about >> Yeah, innovative. I had to think about it now cuz I hear it. it now cuz I hear it. it now cuz I hear it. >> Nonchalant. You said funny too. >> Nonchalant. You said funny too. >> Nonchalant. You said funny too. >> I don't think he said normal. >> I don't think he said normal. >> I don't think he said normal. >> Oh, no. He said it said something >> Oh, no. He said it said something >> Oh, no. He said it said something different. different. different. >> I said, "Do you want me to be less >> I said, "Do you want me to be less >> I said, "Do you want me to be less shaling around?" shaling around?" shaling around?" >> Wow. I like I like Shalon. >> Wow. I like I like Shalon. >> Wow. I like I like Shalon. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Shalan. Maybe I should change. All >> Yeah. Shalan. Maybe I should change. All >> Yeah. Shalan. Maybe I should change. All right. These are the last three because right. These are the last three because right. These are the last three because these are You don't have to write for these are You don't have to write for these are You don't have to write for these anymore. These were questions these anymore. These were questions these anymore. These were questions given by So before the show, you can given by So before the show, you can given by So before the show, you can keep those whiteboards. They're yours. keep those whiteboards. They're yours. keep those whiteboards. They're yours. I'll sign them. I'll sign them. I'll sign them. >> No, no, we won't keep. We got to recite. >> No, no, we won't keep. We got to recite. >> No, no, we won't keep. We got to recite. >> I asked you each for a question you'd >> I asked you each for a question you'd >> I asked you each for a question you'd like me to ask the other two people in like me to ask the other two people in like me to ask the other two people in the room. the room. the room. >> Oh, yeah. This is hard. >> Oh, yeah. This is hard. >> Oh, yeah. This is hard. >> So, these are the questions you gave. >> So, these are the questions you gave. >> So, these are the questions you gave. We'll start with Benny. So, Benny's We'll start with Benny. So, Benny's We'll start with Benny. So, Benny's question to both of you, and the answer question to both of you, and the answer question to both of you, and the answer has to be in one sentence. I'll maybe has to be in one sentence. I'll maybe has to be in one sentence. I'll maybe let you expand. The question from Benny let you expand. The question from Benny let you expand. The question from Benny is, "How do you separate work from your is, "How do you separate work from your is, "How do you separate work from your relationship? If you're disagreeing in relationship? If you're disagreeing in relationship? If you're disagreeing in work, does it spill over into personal work, does it spill over into personal work, does it spill over into personal and vice versa?" and vice versa?" and vice versa?" >> I would say that we Well, I think you've >> I would say that we Well, I think you've >> I would say that we Well, I think you've been a part of it. I Dave and I are been a part of it. I Dave and I are been a part of it. I Dave and I are really This is like the one thing that's really This is like the one thing that's really This is like the one thing that's great about our relationship. And now I great about our relationship. And now I great about our relationship. And now I feel similarly with Benny is that we can feel similarly with Benny is that we can feel similarly with Benny is that we can we can like have arguments and we can we can like have arguments and we can we can like have arguments and we can get upset with each other and then like get upset with each other and then like get upset with each other and then like instantly kind of once we feel like instantly kind of once we feel like instantly kind of once we feel like we've turned over the stones in the we've turned over the stones in the we've turned over the stones in the argument or like gotten to a place, it's argument or like gotten to a place, it's argument or like gotten to a place, it's never carried over. Like we've never never carried over. Like we've never never carried over. Like we've never been Have we ever been mad more than a been Have we ever been mad more than a been Have we ever been mad more than a day? If even if a day. I don't even day? If even if a day. I don't even day? If even if a day. I don't even think we've ever been mad for a full think we've ever been mad for a full think we've ever been mad for a full day. day. day. >> I've never been mad for >> I've never been mad for >> I've never been mad for >> Oh. Oh, you guys. Yeah. >> Oh. Oh, you guys. Yeah. >> Oh. Oh, you guys. Yeah. >> Are you asking about us, too? >> Are you asking about us, too? >> Are you asking about us, too? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, I was. But then you said something >> Yeah, I was. But then you said something >> Yeah, I was. But then you said something about me. about me. about me. >> Yeah. Sorry. >> Yeah. Sorry. >> Yeah. Sorry. >> Yeah. How's >> Yeah. How's >> Yeah. How's >> it going, Dave? >> it going, Dave? >> it going, Dave? >> Kicking my foot. >> Kicking my foot. >> Kicking my foot. >> Take it away. >> Take it away. >> Take it away. >> Uh, I think he asked the question >> Uh, I think he asked the question >> Uh, I think he asked the question because we work so we like beyond even because we work so we like beyond even because we work so we like beyond even just uh our multimedia just uh our multimedia just uh our multimedia uh creation. Um, you know, any script uh creation. Um, you know, any script uh creation. Um, you know, any script she writes, I'm I'm a part of that with she writes, I'm I'm a part of that with she writes, I'm I'm a part of that with her. Any script I write, she's a part of her. Any script I write, she's a part of her. Any script I write, she's a part of that with me. So, it's really I mean, that with me. So, it's really I mean, that with me. So, it's really I mean, she's not a part of my musical process, she's not a part of my musical process, she's not a part of my musical process, so that's my I get separation there. Um so that's my I get separation there. Um so that's my I get separation there. Um because she likes more poppy stuff that because she likes more poppy stuff that because she likes more poppy stuff that I and just like I and just like I and just like >> No. Is that true? >> No. Is that true? >> No. Is that true? >> No, she doesn't like >> No, she doesn't like >> No, she doesn't like >> No, she's the opposite. She likes less >> No, she's the opposite. She likes less >> No, she's the opposite. She likes less poppy. poppy. poppy. >> One time I gave you a bunch of thoughts. >> One time I gave you a bunch of thoughts. >> One time I gave you a bunch of thoughts. >> She doesn't, you know, >> She doesn't, you know, >> She doesn't, you know, >> she doesn't like to show me his music. >> she doesn't like to show me his music. >> she doesn't like to show me his music. >> I hate showing her my music. >> I hate showing her my music. >> I hate showing her my music. >> She doesn't listen to lyrics. >> She doesn't listen to lyrics. >> She doesn't listen to lyrics. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, I could show her a recording of me >> So, I could show her a recording of me >> So, I could show her a recording of me where the verses are ho and she would where the verses are ho and she would where the verses are ho and she would like that just as much as me like doing like that just as much as me like doing like that just as much as me like doing really clever lyrics. Oh, really clever lyrics. Oh, really clever lyrics. Oh, >> he also we we we tried he tried to show >> he also we we we tried he tried to show >> he also we we we tried he tried to show me his music once, but it was so I had me his music once, but it was so I had me his music once, but it was so I had to he literally like pulled up the chair to he literally like pulled up the chair to he literally like pulled up the chair directly in front of the computer was directly in front of the computer was directly in front of the computer was blasting the the speakers were blasting blasting the the speakers were blasting blasting the the speakers were blasting and I wasn't allowed to move and I just and I wasn't allowed to move and I just and I wasn't allowed to move and I just it had to be under his it had to be under his it had to be under his >> I hate the way he sets up the >> I hate the way he sets up the >> I hate the way he sets up the experience. He's like you have to sit experience. He's like you have to sit experience. He's like you have to sit there. I tell him I'm not sitting there there. I tell him I'm not sitting there there. I tell him I'm not sitting there or don't show me the music. or don't show me the music. or don't show me the music. >> Yeah. So then I feel like >> Yeah. So then I feel like >> Yeah. So then I feel like >> this is about what we don't like about >> this is about what we don't like about >> this is about what we don't like about Dave again. That was not the question Dave again. That was not the question Dave again. That was not the question that By answer Benny's original that By answer Benny's original that By answer Benny's original question, how do we separate? I mean, we question, how do we separate? I mean, we question, how do we separate? I mean, we we I I selfishly don't always feel the we I I selfishly don't always feel the we I I selfishly don't always feel the need to because I when we're talking need to because I when we're talking need to because I when we're talking about work or whatever we're working on, about work or whatever we're working on, about work or whatever we're working on, I I find it so inspiring and fun and I I find it so inspiring and fun and I I find it so inspiring and fun and like I'm just like to me there's like like I'm just like to me there's like like I'm just like to me there's like nothing more fun to talk about now. So, nothing more fun to talk about now. So, nothing more fun to talk about now. So, I look at it as like this is great. I I look at it as like this is great. I I look at it as like this is great. I get to have fun with my best friend and get to have fun with my best friend and get to have fun with my best friend and we're being productive at the same time. we're being productive at the same time. we're being productive at the same time. Now, you know, sometimes I feel like, Now, you know, sometimes I feel like, Now, you know, sometimes I feel like, you know, I remember when I originally you know, I remember when I originally you know, I remember when I originally started dating Kristen and I learned started dating Kristen and I learned started dating Kristen and I learned that she kind of has the same exact that she kind of has the same exact that she kind of has the same exact interests and passions professionally as interests and passions professionally as interests and passions professionally as I do. I did have the thought, oh man, I do. I did have the thought, oh man, I do. I did have the thought, oh man, like would I is it would I be better off like would I is it would I be better off like would I is it would I be better off marrying someone who was like an English marrying someone who was like an English marrying someone who was like an English teacher and there was like complete teacher and there was like complete teacher and there was like complete separation of church and state. But now separation of church and state. But now separation of church and state. But now seeing the opposite, I'm so happy that seeing the opposite, I'm so happy that seeing the opposite, I'm so happy that we get to connect over the thing because we get to connect over the thing because we get to connect over the thing because like, you know, I think there's just like, you know, I think there's just like, you know, I think there's just such a joy to me when I get to talk such a joy to me when I get to talk such a joy to me when I get to talk about the things I care the most about about the things I care the most about about the things I care the most about in life, which unfortunately is work. in life, which unfortunately is work. in life, which unfortunately is work. Now, I'm not working like some corporate Now, I'm not working like some corporate Now, I'm not working like some corporate drudgery job. I'm working on like the drudgery job. I'm working on like the drudgery job. I'm working on like the self-expression of my soul. So, yeah, self-expression of my soul. So, yeah, self-expression of my soul. So, yeah, >> it's it's different to be like, oh, >> it's it's different to be like, oh, >> it's it's different to be like, oh, there's no separate I'm not like working there's no separate I'm not like working there's no separate I'm not like working at an accounting firm. Like, I'm talking at an accounting firm. Like, I'm talking at an accounting firm. Like, I'm talking about, about, about, >> you know, how to tell these stories that >> you know, how to tell these stories that >> you know, how to tell these stories that I feel born to tell. and she's it's fun. I feel born to tell. and she's it's fun. I feel born to tell. and she's it's fun. Like we're talking about funny creative Like we're talking about funny creative Like we're talking about funny creative But But But >> you've helped me become I would say that >> you've helped me become I would say that >> you've helped me become I would say that like you've you've given me more like you've you've given me more like you've you've given me more confidence professionally. The good confidence professionally. The good confidence professionally. The good thing about us working together is thing about us working together is thing about us working together is you've given like I feel like over the you've given like I feel like over the you've given like I feel like over the few years that we've kind of like really few years that we've kind of like really few years that we've kind of like really co- meshed our professional lives. I co- meshed our professional lives. I co- meshed our professional lives. I kind of come from come from a place of kind of come from come from a place of kind of come from come from a place of like more self-doubt and like like more self-doubt and like like more self-doubt and like insecurity. And he's really helped me insecurity. And he's really helped me insecurity. And he's really helped me get like the kind of confidence to even get like the kind of confidence to even get like the kind of confidence to even be doing this and writing and stuff. I be doing this and writing and stuff. I be doing this and writing and stuff. I feel like it's been really I'm so feel like it's been really I'm so feel like it's been really I'm so thankful that I you're like a good thankful that I you're like a good thankful that I you're like a good mentor and a husband. mentor and a husband. mentor and a husband. >> Great answers, guys. Beautiful. Really >> Great answers, guys. Beautiful. Really >> Great answers, guys. Beautiful. Really nice. That felt good. But we should we nice. That felt good. But we should we nice. That felt good. But we should we should we should go on more dates should we should go on more dates should we should go on more dates without talking about the task that without talking about the task that without talking about the task that >> that's the newest thing that I've had to >> that's the newest thing that I've had to >> that's the newest thing that I've had to say. I I think sometimes I'll be like, say. I I think sometimes I'll be like, say. I I think sometimes I'll be like, especially with the anxiety that I've especially with the anxiety that I've especially with the anxiety that I've had, which I'm on a new path forward and had, which I'm on a new path forward and had, which I'm on a new path forward and I'm a new person and I no longer create I'm a new person and I no longer create I'm a new person and I no longer create this self-inflicted torture of like this self-inflicted torture of like this self-inflicted torture of like anxiety about the podcast in particular. anxiety about the podcast in particular. anxiety about the podcast in particular. But there was a period where I was like, But there was a period where I was like, But there was a period where I was like, we have to stop talking about work all we have to stop talking about work all we have to stop talking about work all the time because I can't like mentally the time because I can't like mentally the time because I can't like mentally break away break away break away >> from it. And it was I just I I wasn't >> from it. And it was I just I I wasn't >> from it. And it was I just I I wasn't but now I'm now you can sign me up. What but now I'm now you can sign me up. What but now I'm now you can sign me up. What was the time where I was like, I don't was the time where I was like, I don't was the time where I was like, I don't want to talk about this right now. And want to talk about this right now. And want to talk about this right now. And you kept talking. Oh, you were home. you kept talking. Oh, you were home. you kept talking. Oh, you were home. Doesn't matter. Okay. Doesn't matter. Okay. Doesn't matter. Okay. >> Cuz I was about to like do something >> Cuz I was about to like do something >> Cuz I was about to like do something with music where I just had to be in with music where I just had to be in with music where I just had to be in like the state of mind that and I was in like the state of mind that and I was in like the state of mind that and I was in such a good mood. I had no anxiety about such a good mood. I had no anxiety about such a good mood. I had no anxiety about anything with like the the podcast or anything with like the the podcast or anything with like the the podcast or whatever you want to call it. whatever you want to call it. whatever you want to call it. >> And she I said, I don't want to talk >> And she I said, I don't want to talk >> And she I said, I don't want to talk about it right now. And she just wanted about it right now. And she just wanted about it right now. And she just wanted to talk about it. Well, that this is an to talk about it. Well, that this is an to talk about it. Well, that this is an interesting I did start going to therapy interesting I did start going to therapy interesting I did start going to therapy because I was like, it's important that because I was like, it's important that because I was like, it's important that he can't always be the like I have such he can't always be the like I have such he can't always be the like I have such a tendency when I have anxiety to like a tendency when I have anxiety to like a tendency when I have anxiety to like for me to get over my anxiety. I have to for me to get over my anxiety. I have to for me to get over my anxiety. I have to say every thought that I have, which it say every thought that I have, which it say every thought that I have, which it used to be okay. I mean, I'm sure it's used to be okay. I mean, I'm sure it's used to be okay. I mean, I'm sure it's exhausting for him, but it used to not exhausting for him, but it used to not exhausting for him, but it used to not be so related to what he was doing. So be so related to what he was doing. So be so related to what he was doing. So therapy has been helpful because instead therapy has been helpful because instead therapy has been helpful because instead of like taking him on, which he's still of like taking him on, which he's still of like taking him on, which he's still very supportive, but like I don't have very supportive, but like I don't have very supportive, but like I don't have to like I felt like I was like bringing to like I felt like I was like bringing to like I felt like I was like bringing him down. So the therapy now is a lot him down. So the therapy now is a lot him down. So the therapy now is a lot easier for me to like just mentally easier for me to like just mentally easier for me to like just mentally spiral and then I'm not putting it on spiral and then I'm not putting it on spiral and then I'm not putting it on you. So we've learned a little we've you. So we've learned a little we've you. So we've learned a little we've we've kind of like started to create we've kind of like started to create we've kind of like started to create some boundaries. And I learn now not to some boundaries. And I learn now not to some boundaries. And I learn now not to get her worked up when she's in bed. get her worked up when she's in bed. get her worked up when she's in bed. >> And I know not to like if I sometimes >> And I know not to like if I sometimes >> And I know not to like if I sometimes I'm I come in and I come up with an idea I'm I come in and I come up with an idea I'm I come in and I come up with an idea of like we should do this that and that of like we should do this that and that of like we should do this that and that and she and and she and and she and she needs to sleep. she needs to sleep. she needs to sleep. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Well, no. I just would get like revved >> Well, no. I just would get like revved >> Well, no. I just would get like revved up and excited. up and excited. up and excited. >> Yeah. Me and my wife are like so like >> Yeah. Me and my wife are like so like >> Yeah. Me and my wife are like so like I'm the one who comes to bed and wants I'm the one who comes to bed and wants I'm the one who comes to bed and wants to chat and talk and like and she does to chat and talk and like and she does to chat and talk and like and she does not want to and she's like first thing not want to and she's like first thing not want to and she's like first thing in the morning wants to chat and talk in the morning wants to chat and talk in the morning wants to chat and talk and I'm like I need to like gear up and I'm like I need to like gear up and I'm like I need to like gear up slowly. So I get that. That's beautiful. slowly. So I get that. That's beautiful. slowly. So I get that. That's beautiful. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. >> We need to thaw out. I have to thaw out >> We need to thaw out. I have to thaw out >> We need to thaw out. I have to thaw out in the morning though. in the morning though. in the morning though. >> So, this was Kristen's question for >> So, this was Kristen's question for >> So, this was Kristen's question for Benny and Dave. Benny and Dave. Benny and Dave. >> Do you guys talk about me when I leave >> Do you guys talk about me when I leave >> Do you guys talk about me when I leave the room? >> You have to answer honestly. >> You have to answer honestly. >> Not really. >> Not really. >> Not really. >> Not really. No. >> Not really. No. >> Not really. No. >> Cool. >> Cool. >> Cool. >> Not Not really. >> Not Not really. >> Not Not really. >> This was a hard thing to a hard >> This was a hard thing to a hard >> This was a hard thing to a hard question. I couldn't think of it. question. I couldn't think of it. question. I couldn't think of it. >> It's a good question. I like it. >> It's a good question. I like it. >> It's a good question. I like it. >> The only time I remember uh that is at >> The only time I remember uh that is at >> The only time I remember uh that is at New Year's when I was like, "What are New Year's when I was like, "What are New Year's when I was like, "What are you guys talking about?" And then you he you guys talking about?" And then you he you guys talking about?" And then you he Dave said, "I'm not at liberty to tell Dave said, "I'm not at liberty to tell Dave said, "I'm not at liberty to tell you." And then he said he said and he you." And then he said he said and he you." And then he said he said and he was just and then I was like, "All was just and then I was like, "All was just and then I was like, "All right." And then we just started talking right." And then we just started talking right." And then we just started talking about something else. And then when you about something else. And then when you about something else. And then when you came over, you were like, "Are you came over, you were like, "Are you came over, you were like, "Are you talking about me?" And we weren't talking about me?" And we weren't talking about me?" And we weren't talking about you. talking about you. talking about you. >> It's a question I ask a lot. This >> It's a question I ask a lot. This >> It's a question I ask a lot. This paranoia that as soon as I leave the paranoia that as soon as I leave the paranoia that as soon as I leave the room, but I know that I'm It's mostly room, but I know that I'm It's mostly room, but I know that I'm It's mostly more of a joke. I know you guys are. more of a joke. I know you guys are. more of a joke. I know you guys are. >> No, we never really talk trash. >> No, we never really talk trash. >> No, we never really talk trash. >> No, we're positive. >> No, we're positive. >> No, we're positive. >> Oh, do you guys say positive things? >> Oh, do you guys say positive things? >> Oh, do you guys say positive things? >> Pretty positive to both of us. >> Pretty positive to both of us. >> Pretty positive to both of us. >> Do you say positive things behind my >> Do you say positive things behind my >> Do you say positive things behind my back? Like, wow. You said no. You just back? Like, wow. You said no. You just back? Like, wow. You said no. You just said no. said no. said no. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> Yeah. I've said like I've said like I'm >> Yeah. I've said like I've said like I'm >> Yeah. I've said like I've said like I'm was so blown away by how well uh was so blown away by how well uh was so blown away by how well uh Kristen's done. Like I remember we Kristen's done. Like I remember we Kristen's done. Like I remember we talked about that before. talked about that before. talked about that before. >> So you guys we talk about you the way >> So you guys we talk about you the way >> So you guys we talk about you the way >> I don't know >> I don't know >> I don't know >> guys talk about their wives or is that >> guys talk about their wives or is that >> guys talk about their wives or is that like we're not like talking about you like we're not like talking about you like we're not like talking about you professionally that often? professionally that often? professionally that often? >> Yeah. There's never and there's never >> Yeah. There's never and there's never >> Yeah. There's never and there's never >> Do you guys not do you not have this >> Do you guys not do you not have this >> Do you guys not do you not have this fear? fear? fear? >> Dave's never call. No, I don't think >> Dave's never call. No, I don't think >> Dave's never call. No, I don't think >> No, I live on I always am like >> No, I live on I always am like >> No, I live on I always am like >> think about that like >> think about that like >> think about that like >> are they all talking about >> are they all talking about >> are they all talking about >> you guys are talking about me? No. And >> you guys are talking about me? No. And >> you guys are talking about me? No. And if they and if you guys are talking if they and if you guys are talking if they and if you guys are talking about me, oh that either there's a about me, oh that either there's a about me, oh that either there's a reason or like they're upset with reason or like they're upset with reason or like they're upset with something or I don't care. something or I don't care. something or I don't care. >> I think I care I I care too much what >> I think I care I I care too much what >> I think I care I I care too much what people think. So I'm always like even people think. So I'm always like even people think. So I'm always like even though it's like kind of half joking, I though it's like kind of half joking, I though it's like kind of half joking, I will I thought everybody felt this way. will I thought everybody felt this way. will I thought everybody felt this way. Be like Be like Be like >> a lot of people do feel. >> a lot of people do feel. >> a lot of people do feel. >> Yeah. Like be like as soon as I leave >> Yeah. Like be like as soon as I leave >> Yeah. Like be like as soon as I leave I'll be like I wonder even if it's not I'll be like I wonder even if it's not I'll be like I wonder even if it's not bad. I just wonder if they're being bad. I just wonder if they're being bad. I just wonder if they're being like, "Yeah, she was talked a lot that like, "Yeah, she was talked a lot that like, "Yeah, she was talked a lot that time or she said that really bad time or she said that really bad time or she said that really bad question." question." question." >> She has so much self-doubt and like >> She has so much self-doubt and like >> She has so much self-doubt and like circular thoughts of negativity that are circular thoughts of negativity that are circular thoughts of negativity that are the our brains are like the our brains are like the our brains are like >> un >> un >> un so much of that is women's conditioning so much of that is women's conditioning so much of that is women's conditioning in society, treatment of women in in in society, treatment of women in in in society, treatment of women in in society. Like that's my take on society. Like that's my take on society. Like that's my take on >> I was going to say that. I was going to >> I was going to say that. I was going to >> I was going to say that. I was going to say say say >> and and ADD. >> and and ADD. >> and and ADD. >> No, I'm being serious. I mean deadly >> No, I'm being serious. I mean deadly >> No, I'm being serious. I mean deadly serious. When I talk to all my male serious. When I talk to all my male serious. When I talk to all my male friends, they all feel the same way. friends, they all feel the same way. friends, they all feel the same way. female friends, they all female friends, they all female friends, they all that's just that's just that's just been a little bit more um it's been more been a little bit more um it's been more been a little bit more um it's been more exaggerated just because of the like the exaggerated just because of the like the exaggerated just because of the like the uncertainty about all of this being uncertainty about all of this being uncertainty about all of this being public. I feel like I live public. I feel like I live public. I feel like I live >> your hair's in your mouth. I'm sorry. >> your hair's in your mouth. I'm sorry. >> your hair's in your mouth. I'm sorry. You couldn't see it from me at all. You couldn't see it from me at all. You couldn't see it from me at all. >> I didn't see it either. It just was. It >> I didn't see it either. It just was. It >> I didn't see it either. It just was. It was was was in her mouth. in her mouth. in her mouth. >> I I tell him to do this thing. Thank >> I I tell him to do this thing. Thank >> I I tell him to do this thing. Thank you. you. you. >> Yeah. It's beautiful. Um, >> Yeah. It's beautiful. Um, >> Yeah. It's beautiful. Um, >> yeah, it's been exacerbated because >> yeah, it's been exacerbated because >> yeah, it's been exacerbated because you're dealing Me and Benny are also, you're dealing Me and Benny are also, you're dealing Me and Benny are also, even though, yes, we're men, we're like even though, yes, we're men, we're like even though, yes, we're men, we're like the the the >> you've been public for so long, >> you've been public for so long, >> you've been public for so long, >> but we're like the two. No one believes >> but we're like the two. No one believes >> but we're like the two. No one believes in themselves more than me and Benny. in themselves more than me and Benny. in themselves more than me and Benny. Like, we don't think we're just like, so Like, we don't think we're just like, so Like, we don't think we're just like, so it's like that compared to self-doubt, it's like that compared to self-doubt, it's like that compared to self-doubt, it makes it feel even more of a it makes it feel even more of a it makes it feel even more of a >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> But I'm doing a lot better because I >> But I'm doing a lot better because I >> But I'm doing a lot better because I realized realized realized >> that I realized that so much of my >> that I realized that so much of my >> that I realized that so much of my self-doubt is like my default narrator, self-doubt is like my default narrator, self-doubt is like my default narrator, like in my head. Mhm. like in my head. Mhm. like in my head. Mhm. >> And I feel like this podcast will help >> And I feel like this podcast will help >> And I feel like this podcast will help me. me. me. >> I don't know. I could just crumble. >> I don't know. I could just crumble. >> I don't know. I could just crumble. >> No, >> No, >> No, >> you guys, you might never see me again. >> you guys, you might never see me again. >> you guys, you might never see me again. Not in a bad way. Not in a bad way. Not in a bad way. >> Aware. You're so aware. I think, you >> Aware. You're so aware. I think, you >> Aware. You're so aware. I think, you know, I think part of it is just as hard know, I think part of it is just as hard know, I think part of it is just as hard as you are in yourself, as you are in yourself, as you are in yourself, >> you don't give yourself enough credit as >> you don't give yourself enough credit as >> you don't give yourself enough credit as well, but like you're so aware of what's well, but like you're so aware of what's well, but like you're so aware of what's going on in your mind. I think I think going on in your mind. I think I think going on in your mind. I think I think if you're not aware, that's when it's if you're not aware, that's when it's if you're not aware, that's when it's really really I >> Yeah. All right. Final question. This >> Yeah. All right. Final question. This was Dave's question. I saved what I was Dave's question. I saved what I was Dave's question. I saved what I believed to be the best for last. believed to be the best for last. believed to be the best for last. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> This is Dave's question. So Dave's >> This is Dave's question. So Dave's >> This is Dave's question. So Dave's question to Kristen and Benny is question to Kristen and Benny is question to Kristen and Benny is if I died, how often would you guys hang if I died, how often would you guys hang if I died, how often would you guys hang out or see each other? out or see each other? out or see each other? >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. I feel like if you die, that'd be so I feel like if you die, that'd be so I feel like if you die, that'd be so heartbreaking and we'd be sharing. We'd heartbreaking and we'd be sharing. We'd heartbreaking and we'd be sharing. We'd be like experiencing similar pain. Well, be like experiencing similar pain. Well, be like experiencing similar pain. Well, me more, but I can't speak on half of I me more, but I can't speak on half of I me more, but I can't speak on half of I maybe would be I don't know frequently. maybe would be I don't know frequently. maybe would be I don't know frequently. I don't know. like as much as we could. I don't know. like as much as we could. I don't know. like as much as we could. But But But >> Chuck, first I'd obviously I would edit >> Chuck, first I'd obviously I would edit >> Chuck, first I'd obviously I would edit all the things to I know how you would all the things to I know how you would all the things to I know how you would like them and I'd find a way you get the like them and I'd find a way you get the like them and I'd find a way you get the right features. right features. right features. >> Yeah, I'd find First I was talking about >> Yeah, I'd find First I was talking about >> Yeah, I'd find First I was talking about the show then for then I'd edit I'd the show then for then I'd edit I'd the show then for then I'd edit I'd Yeah, I'd make sure to get the right Yeah, I'd make sure to get the right Yeah, I'd make sure to get the right features. We've spoken enough about I' features. We've spoken enough about I' features. We've spoken enough about I' I'd be able to at least there's like 15 I'd be able to at least there's like 15 I'd be able to at least there's like 15 songs I could cobble together to songs I could cobble together to songs I could cobble together to something great and I would and I would something great and I would and I would something great and I would and I would do that and I would make sure not. do that and I would make sure not. do that and I would make sure not. >> But would you hang out with me? 15 songs >> But would you hang out with me? 15 songs >> But would you hang out with me? 15 songs I could cobble together. I could cobble together. I could cobble together. >> No, no, no, no. To make something like >> No, no, no, no. To make something like >> No, no, no, no. To make something like truly like truly like truly like >> would you do it hanging out with me? >> would you do it hanging out with me? >> would you do it hanging out with me? Isn't that the Isn't that the Isn't that the >> No, no, no. This was she would she be >> No, no, no. This was she would she be >> No, no, no. This was she would she be involved. Would you involve her in the involved. Would you involve her in the involved. Would you involve her in the album? album? album? >> No. Clearly he's not >> No. Clearly he's not >> No. Clearly he's not >> in that. No, no, no. But I would involve >> in that. No, no, no. But I would involve >> in that. No, no, no. But I would involve her in her in her in >> like the roll out. >> like the roll out. >> like the roll out. >> No. Oh, no. I didn't involve her. >> No. Oh, no. I didn't involve her. >> No. Oh, no. I didn't involve her. >> Would I still be invited to like the >> Would I still be invited to like the >> Would I still be invited to like the dinner parties? dinner parties? dinner parties? >> Yeah, I think I would hang out with you. >> Yeah, I think I would hang out with you. >> Yeah, I think I would hang out with you. I think you would Well, I'd like you to I think you would Well, I'd like you to I think you would Well, I'd like you to fill like my my Dave ro like I feel like fill like my my Dave ro like I feel like fill like my my Dave ro like I feel like you'd I feel like I'd be calling you you'd I feel like I'd be calling you you'd I feel like I'd be calling you like every day and like every day and like every day and >> it would be so you can't you have to we >> it would be so you can't you have to we >> it would be so you can't you have to we have to protect you at all cost. have to protect you at all cost. have to protect you at all cost. >> Or or would you guys be so reminded of >> Or or would you guys be so reminded of >> Or or would you guys be so reminded of me when you saw each other that you'd me when you saw each other that you'd me when you saw each other that you'd actually have to never see each other actually have to never see each other actually have to never see each other ever again? ever again? ever again? >> No. No. No. We'd see each other all the >> No. No. No. We'd see each other all the >> No. No. No. We'd see each other all the time. time. time. >> If I died, would you guys just replace >> If I died, would you guys just replace >> If I died, would you guys just replace me? No. What? me? No. What? me? No. What? >> In the show? >> In the show? >> In the show? >> No, it would just be a two person show. >> No, it would just be a two person show. >> No, it would just be a two person show. >> What? No, it would be done. >> What? No, it would be done. >> What? No, it would be done. >> Yeah. Or would we keep I don't know. >> Yeah. Or would we keep I don't know. >> Yeah. Or would we keep I don't know. >> No, I wouldn't be I wouldn't be that >> No, I wouldn't be I wouldn't be that >> No, I wouldn't be I wouldn't be that interested anyway. interested anyway. interested anyway. >> I'm glad you got all the footage though. >> I'm glad you got all the footage though. >> I'm glad you got all the footage though. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> No one's dying. I hate talking about >> No one's dying. I hate talking about >> No one's dying. I hate talking about this. Even though I know that this. Even though I know that this. Even though I know that >> we've got footage again. Everyone needs >> we've got footage again. Everyone needs >> we've got footage again. Everyone needs facts and facts and facts and >> you brought it up. >> you brought it up. >> you brought it up. >> I am so I mean just spending time with >> I am so I mean just spending time with >> I am so I mean just spending time with you makes me just love the show even you makes me just love the show even you makes me just love the show even more. But I want to say to all of you more. But I want to say to all of you more. But I want to say to all of you like truly you guys trusting me, giving like truly you guys trusting me, giving like truly you guys trusting me, giving me this opportunity to do this with you me this opportunity to do this with you me this opportunity to do this with you has been uh a highlight of my has been uh a highlight of my has been uh a highlight of my professional career like to work with professional career like to work with professional career like to work with all three of you because it's very rare all three of you because it's very rare all three of you because it's very rare that when you're like, you know, when I that when you're like, you know, when I that when you're like, you know, when I started my podcast 7 years ago, I never started my podcast 7 years ago, I never started my podcast 7 years ago, I never thought I'd be helping create something thought I'd be helping create something thought I'd be helping create something amazing with the vision of all three of amazing with the vision of all three of amazing with the vision of all three of you. And I'm feel so lucky and you. And I'm feel so lucky and you. And I'm feel so lucky and fortunate. So, thank you for the gift. fortunate. So, thank you for the gift. fortunate. So, thank you for the gift. Thank you for the blessing and uh Thank you for the blessing and uh Thank you for the blessing and uh >> thank you for all your opportunity. We >> thank you for all your opportunity. We >> thank you for all your opportunity. We feel just the same way. We love you. feel just the same way. We love you. feel just the same way. We love you. You're you're our mentor. You're our You're you're our mentor. You're our You're you're our mentor. You're our guru. guru. guru. >> I'm definitely No, don't don't stop >> I'm definitely No, don't don't stop >> I'm definitely No, don't don't stop making me this hot leader though. making me this hot leader though. making me this hot leader though. >> No, no, I wasn't. What? No, you're >> No, no, I wasn't. What? No, you're >> No, no, I wasn't. What? No, you're you're you're like the you're you're like the you're you're like the >> you're you're you're so good to bounce >> you're you're you're so good to bounce >> you're you're you're so good to bounce all this stuff. I feel like you've all this stuff. I feel like you've all this stuff. I feel like you've already laid, you know, laid the ground. already laid, you know, laid the ground. already laid, you know, laid the ground. We're just trying to We're just trying to We're just trying to >> I don't think it's that. You guys had a >> I don't think it's that. You guys had a >> I don't think it's that. You guys had a vision. You know what you're building. I vision. You know what you're building. I vision. You know what you're building. I think it's been it's it's been fun think it's been it's it's been fun think it's been it's it's been fun getting the opportunity to be a part of getting the opportunity to be a part of getting the opportunity to be a part of it. That's how I feel about it. So, it. That's how I feel about it. So, it. That's how I feel about it. So, thank you for letting me be part of your thank you for letting me be part of your thank you for letting me be part of your crazy creative vision. crazy creative vision. crazy creative vision. >> Thank you for hearing our our desires >> Thank you for hearing our our desires >> Thank you for hearing our our desires and not scoffing at them and doing your and not scoffing at them and doing your and not scoffing at them and doing your best to make it all happen. best to make it all happen. best to make it all happen. >> Yeah, absolutely. Friends keep secrets. >> Yeah, absolutely. Friends keep secrets. >> Yeah, absolutely. Friends keep secrets. Excuse on on friends on purpose. friends on purpose. friends on purpose. >> Friends on purpose on three. One, two, >> Friends on purpose on three. One, two, >> Friends on purpose on three. One, two, three. Friends on purpose. If you love three. Friends on purpose. If you love three. Friends on purpose. If you love this episode, you'll really enjoy my this episode, you'll really enjoy my this episode, you'll really enjoy my episode with Selena Gomez on befriending episode with Selena Gomez on befriending episode with Selena Gomez on befriending your inner critic and how to speak to your inner critic and how to speak to your inner critic and how to speak to yourself with more compassion. There's yourself with more compassion. There's yourself with more compassion. There's blessing in the breaking.